Transformational Tip
When my girls were really small, I used to throw them way up in the air…oh, how they loved it. I loved the trust they unquestioningly had in me. Our kids show us their unconditional trust, and at times gullibility, in many ways…running to our room when they have a nightmare, believing when we tell them about Santa, the Tooth Fairy and the Easter Bunny, thinking we can make all their boo-boos go away. God created us to trust easily, so we would trust Him. Then Satan gets in there, and twists both the natural inadequacies that we have as parents as well as the times we really do let our kids down (whether intentionally or unintentionally), so that trusting others is now very hard to do…especially for those who have been deeply wounded. Mistrust creates loneliness, isolation, and a feeling that no one truly understands you and your path. You feel no one else is on your team and self-reliance is the pursuit. The opposite of what God wants in His relationship with you. The Holy Spirit within you can be your resident tutor, helping you untwist those past hurts so you can start to trust again..100% unconditional trust and wide-eyed belief, just like a small child, especially to trust all God’s promises and instructions.
Today, when no one else seems to understand you, simply draw closer to Your Lord and God. Rejoice in Him, the One who understands you and loves you perfectly. Trust His promises and instruction for living life and Him being there for you. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on why you can trust God and others or struggle with trusting God and others.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I come to You for understanding because you know me far better than I know myself. I know Father that You comprehend me in all my complexity…no detail of my life is hidden from You. Help me understand my hurts more, forgive those who hurt me, and learn to trust You and Your promises. Give me the trust of a child when it comes to all that has to do with You. I pray in the name of the grandest gift, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
O LORD, my heart is not lifted up; my eyes are not raised too high; I do not occupy myself with things too great and too marvelous for me. But I have calmed and quieted my soul, like a weaned child with its mother; like a weaned child is my soul within me.
Psalm 131:1,2
Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.
Matthew 18:3
Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.
Proverbs 3:5,6
Monday, November 2, 2009
Sunday, November 1, 2009
Stepping Stones: A Future Secured
Transformational Tip
Today I am out of town attending a nephew’s wedding. I decided to visit a mall across town with 4 of my siblings. I’m driving and brother Mark is in the front seat navigating, with three sisters in the back seat. I’ve driven with Mark in many cities across the US…I have complete confidence in him as a navigator. Mark has a sense of direction and navigation like a homing pigeon. If Mark is navigating…we will get there. Well, we hit detour after detour, but Mark keeps adjusting his inner since of direction. At one point it felt like we were totally lost, and just then, the mall appeared right in front of us. The entire time driving, I was completely relaxed…never challenging his directions. I knew he had us on the right course.
How you would live if you believed, really believed, that your future is perfectly planned out and your final destination secured? Think of the freedom this belief would provide. Think about how you would live and feel if you truly believed that no power, no detour, could take away the promise of your inheritance in heaven. How would you travel through life if you knew you had the ultimate navigator and navigation system? You do in God and the Bible.
Today, instead of approaching the day like an empty container that you must fill up; try living in a responsive mode…being on the lookout for what your Lord would like to put into your container…or what direction he is instructing you to go. This is easier said than done – a deep level of trust is required. A trust that is based on knowledge that His way is the perfect way. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on how you would (or are) living with a future secured.
Prayer
Dear Father God, you are so amazing. I commit myself to You father, I am Yours for all time, beyond time…into eternity. I know now that no power can deny me my inheritance into heaven. I know You want me to feel secure. I know Father that even when I falter as I journey through life that You will never let go of my hand. I pray in the name of the grandest gift, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
The steps of a good man are ordered by the LORD, And He delights in his way.
Though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down; For the LORD upholds him with His hand.
Psalm 37:23-24
As for God, His way is perfect; The word of the LORD is proven; He is a shield to all who trust in Him.
Psalm 18:30
Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
Romans 12:2
Today I am out of town attending a nephew’s wedding. I decided to visit a mall across town with 4 of my siblings. I’m driving and brother Mark is in the front seat navigating, with three sisters in the back seat. I’ve driven with Mark in many cities across the US…I have complete confidence in him as a navigator. Mark has a sense of direction and navigation like a homing pigeon. If Mark is navigating…we will get there. Well, we hit detour after detour, but Mark keeps adjusting his inner since of direction. At one point it felt like we were totally lost, and just then, the mall appeared right in front of us. The entire time driving, I was completely relaxed…never challenging his directions. I knew he had us on the right course.
How you would live if you believed, really believed, that your future is perfectly planned out and your final destination secured? Think of the freedom this belief would provide. Think about how you would live and feel if you truly believed that no power, no detour, could take away the promise of your inheritance in heaven. How would you travel through life if you knew you had the ultimate navigator and navigation system? You do in God and the Bible.
Today, instead of approaching the day like an empty container that you must fill up; try living in a responsive mode…being on the lookout for what your Lord would like to put into your container…or what direction he is instructing you to go. This is easier said than done – a deep level of trust is required. A trust that is based on knowledge that His way is the perfect way. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on how you would (or are) living with a future secured.
Prayer
Dear Father God, you are so amazing. I commit myself to You father, I am Yours for all time, beyond time…into eternity. I know now that no power can deny me my inheritance into heaven. I know You want me to feel secure. I know Father that even when I falter as I journey through life that You will never let go of my hand. I pray in the name of the grandest gift, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
The steps of a good man are ordered by the LORD, And He delights in his way.
Though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down; For the LORD upholds him with His hand.
Psalm 37:23-24
As for God, His way is perfect; The word of the LORD is proven; He is a shield to all who trust in Him.
Psalm 18:30
Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
Romans 12:2
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Stepping Stones: Eternal Trick or Treat
Transformational Tip
I never really understood the whole trick or treat thing...who was giving who the option of trick or treat. As I went from house to house, in my pursuit of the perfect blend of Reeses, Sweet-Tarts, money, or something big, were they giving me a choice to accept a trick or treat from them. Was I to do a trick for my treat, like a dog? I was the one saying “trick or treat”, so was I asking them whether they wanted a trick or treat from me? It seemed like the person answering the door was giving me a treat and hopefully I wouldn’t be doing tricks on them. Confusing! Halloween is about pretending to be someone you’re not, then a stranger gives you a small “fun” size treat, a cheap imitation of the real king size candy bar, the jackpot of all jackpots I was hoping for. In the real story, God wants us to come with no costume, not hiding, just baring our soul to Him. We don’t need to be nervous or frightened as we approach His door, in fact, He comes to our door. He isn’t a stranger we only see once a year, but our loving and dear friend who loves us more than anything. Best of all, our heart isn’t filled with cheap imitations of the real treat, we are getting the King of Kings sharing His royal inheritance, all He has is ours. The cost…no trick from us, in fact Jesus did the trick. He died on the cross so I can enjoy all the treats His Father, my Father, can infinitely give above and beyond my hearts desires.
Today, as you think back on past Halloweens, or you take your kids around, or give out candy, be thankful for the treat your Father gave you. Think of who needs this treat and show them how to go “trick or treating” the eternal way. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on real trick or treating.
Prayer
Dear Father God, you are so amazing. I am so glad I don’t have to pretend with you and you still shower me with so many treats. Help me see and appreciate the many treats you bring into my life, everyday that I often overlook, take for granted, or get entitled about. Give me courage to share with others the treats you have for them, too. I pray in the name of the grandest gift, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
He will again have compassion on us; he will tread our iniquities underfoot. You will cast all our sins into the depths of the sea.
Micah 7:19
There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.
Romans 8:1
I never really understood the whole trick or treat thing...who was giving who the option of trick or treat. As I went from house to house, in my pursuit of the perfect blend of Reeses, Sweet-Tarts, money, or something big, were they giving me a choice to accept a trick or treat from them. Was I to do a trick for my treat, like a dog? I was the one saying “trick or treat”, so was I asking them whether they wanted a trick or treat from me? It seemed like the person answering the door was giving me a treat and hopefully I wouldn’t be doing tricks on them. Confusing! Halloween is about pretending to be someone you’re not, then a stranger gives you a small “fun” size treat, a cheap imitation of the real king size candy bar, the jackpot of all jackpots I was hoping for. In the real story, God wants us to come with no costume, not hiding, just baring our soul to Him. We don’t need to be nervous or frightened as we approach His door, in fact, He comes to our door. He isn’t a stranger we only see once a year, but our loving and dear friend who loves us more than anything. Best of all, our heart isn’t filled with cheap imitations of the real treat, we are getting the King of Kings sharing His royal inheritance, all He has is ours. The cost…no trick from us, in fact Jesus did the trick. He died on the cross so I can enjoy all the treats His Father, my Father, can infinitely give above and beyond my hearts desires.
Today, as you think back on past Halloweens, or you take your kids around, or give out candy, be thankful for the treat your Father gave you. Think of who needs this treat and show them how to go “trick or treating” the eternal way. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on real trick or treating.
Prayer
Dear Father God, you are so amazing. I am so glad I don’t have to pretend with you and you still shower me with so many treats. Help me see and appreciate the many treats you bring into my life, everyday that I often overlook, take for granted, or get entitled about. Give me courage to share with others the treats you have for them, too. I pray in the name of the grandest gift, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
He will again have compassion on us; he will tread our iniquities underfoot. You will cast all our sins into the depths of the sea.
Micah 7:19
There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.
Romans 8:1
Friday, October 30, 2009
Stepping Stones: Reckless Words
Transformational Tip
Thank you…yes ma’am…you’re beautiful…I love you. Words can be so powerful; they can bless and empower. Get away…you’re fired…shut up…I hate you. Words can wound, devastate, and demoralize. Words are fine tools, helping awesome relationships and connections flourish. Words can also be heat-seeking weapons, deftly defending our psyche and attacking those who threaten our kingdom. The world has come to applaud quick-witted retorts. My need for control, to be the expert, to show my competence, or cover my vulnerability pushed my mastery of the quick, sarcastic, sharp, verbal attack. I came to realize, when I used words to damage others…I damaged myself as well. Self-respect, self-esteem, honor, dignity, relationships, brain chemistry, connection to God…all injured. Again, we see this all too common phenomena, what we reflexively use as self-protective maneuvers are really self-destructive grenades. However, the Word of God gives us much different instructions about the use of words.
Today, let your speech come under the control of the Holy Spirit. Say split second prayers before you respond. Think before you speak, not as you speak. Use your words today to lift someone up, to heal instead of hurt. As your positive speech patterns replace your negative ones, the increase in joy and peace in your relationships will simply amaze you. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on the power of words…how words have hurt or healed you. Maybe forward this devotional to someone who has given you grace with his or her words.
Prayer
Dear Father God, Thank you for the awesome gift of speech. I also confess father that I have misused this gift…I confess Father that I have used my mouth and mind to hurt others. Forgive me Father. I pray, Father, that You fill me with Your Holy Spirit so that I may have the discipline to think before I speak. Help me pray before answering the phone and responding to others in conversation. Let others see You in me by the words I speak. I pray these words in the name of Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, - AMEN!
The Truth
Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.
Proverbs 12:18
My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry,
James 1:19
Thank you…yes ma’am…you’re beautiful…I love you. Words can be so powerful; they can bless and empower. Get away…you’re fired…shut up…I hate you. Words can wound, devastate, and demoralize. Words are fine tools, helping awesome relationships and connections flourish. Words can also be heat-seeking weapons, deftly defending our psyche and attacking those who threaten our kingdom. The world has come to applaud quick-witted retorts. My need for control, to be the expert, to show my competence, or cover my vulnerability pushed my mastery of the quick, sarcastic, sharp, verbal attack. I came to realize, when I used words to damage others…I damaged myself as well. Self-respect, self-esteem, honor, dignity, relationships, brain chemistry, connection to God…all injured. Again, we see this all too common phenomena, what we reflexively use as self-protective maneuvers are really self-destructive grenades. However, the Word of God gives us much different instructions about the use of words.
Today, let your speech come under the control of the Holy Spirit. Say split second prayers before you respond. Think before you speak, not as you speak. Use your words today to lift someone up, to heal instead of hurt. As your positive speech patterns replace your negative ones, the increase in joy and peace in your relationships will simply amaze you. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on the power of words…how words have hurt or healed you. Maybe forward this devotional to someone who has given you grace with his or her words.
Prayer
Dear Father God, Thank you for the awesome gift of speech. I also confess father that I have misused this gift…I confess Father that I have used my mouth and mind to hurt others. Forgive me Father. I pray, Father, that You fill me with Your Holy Spirit so that I may have the discipline to think before I speak. Help me pray before answering the phone and responding to others in conversation. Let others see You in me by the words I speak. I pray these words in the name of Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, - AMEN!
The Truth
Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.
Proverbs 12:18
My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry,
James 1:19
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Stepping Stones: God's Beauty Deposit
Transformational Tip
Last evening I glanced out my window and noticed the most unusual color in the sky; color created by the setting sun. Then something brought me back to that window for a long gaze. Only God Himself could create such beauty. The realization struck me then and there that the displays of beauty must have been designed to declare their existence of His Holy Being. My granddaughter’s face, a flower, that glorious sunset, oceanic splendor, the Grand Canyon, Hawaii’s volcanoes, the Highlands of Scotland, the Kenyan Serengeti – all these things are meant to proclaim his Presence in the world. The amazing part…these are just beauty deposits of the real beauty promised in heaven. Amazing divine splendor, untainted by the decay and sin of this world. Heaven will be like an endless museum of masterpieces, all leading to the ultimate, God. Everything else will pale and will be insignificant after we see Him. Just like time seems to stand still when we gaze at the sunset, time will infinitely stand still in His divine, awe-inspiring, magnificent presence.
Today, do not rush past these proclamations, these beauty deposits, without enjoying them and giving thanks for them. Think about what they point to, our eternal place gazing at Him. Let this overshadow the darkness, ugliness, or problems you encounter today. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on the beauty deposits you see around you.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I worship You in the beauty of Your Holiness. Thanks you for giving me glimpses of Your ultimate beauty. Help me Father to not rush by the beauty deposits that You have provided. Your beauty is a gift, thank You Father. Help me remember that it carries a responsibility…to declare Your glorious being to the world. I pray these words in the name of Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, - AMEN!
The Truth
The heavens declare the glory of God, and the sky above proclaims his handiwork.
Psalm 19:1
And they were calling to one another: "Holy, holy, holy is the LORD Almighty; the whole earth is full of his glory."
Isaiah 6:3
For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse.
Romans 1:19-20
Last evening I glanced out my window and noticed the most unusual color in the sky; color created by the setting sun. Then something brought me back to that window for a long gaze. Only God Himself could create such beauty. The realization struck me then and there that the displays of beauty must have been designed to declare their existence of His Holy Being. My granddaughter’s face, a flower, that glorious sunset, oceanic splendor, the Grand Canyon, Hawaii’s volcanoes, the Highlands of Scotland, the Kenyan Serengeti – all these things are meant to proclaim his Presence in the world. The amazing part…these are just beauty deposits of the real beauty promised in heaven. Amazing divine splendor, untainted by the decay and sin of this world. Heaven will be like an endless museum of masterpieces, all leading to the ultimate, God. Everything else will pale and will be insignificant after we see Him. Just like time seems to stand still when we gaze at the sunset, time will infinitely stand still in His divine, awe-inspiring, magnificent presence.
Today, do not rush past these proclamations, these beauty deposits, without enjoying them and giving thanks for them. Think about what they point to, our eternal place gazing at Him. Let this overshadow the darkness, ugliness, or problems you encounter today. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on the beauty deposits you see around you.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I worship You in the beauty of Your Holiness. Thanks you for giving me glimpses of Your ultimate beauty. Help me Father to not rush by the beauty deposits that You have provided. Your beauty is a gift, thank You Father. Help me remember that it carries a responsibility…to declare Your glorious being to the world. I pray these words in the name of Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, - AMEN!
The Truth
The heavens declare the glory of God, and the sky above proclaims his handiwork.
Psalm 19:1
And they were calling to one another: "Holy, holy, holy is the LORD Almighty; the whole earth is full of his glory."
Isaiah 6:3
For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse.
Romans 1:19-20
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Stepping Stones: Highlights Only?
Transformational Tip
We are a society that loves highlights. We get bored with the everyday, average situation. We want to see big drama, excitement, pressure, high stakes situations. ESPN and sports show the highlights of games. The news only shows the extreme and bizarre. TV is all about the abnormal, especially “reality” shows. Well, church can be that way as well. When I was a little kid in Sunday School, each week we would hear a new “highlight” from the past. Creation, Noah’s Ark, the Red Sea parting, David and Goliath, Daniel and the lions, Jonah and the whale, Christmas and Easter. I have to be careful as I read the Bible now, because there really is no filler. God inspired the whole Bible, not just the “highlights”…you don’t get the whole story from just the highlights. You miss a lot because the filler really ties all the highlights together for the story to make sense. All of it is there for a reason…so it is all highlights. Read each part knowing it’s telling you something about God and His character, about yourself and instructions for living, and pointing you toward Jesus and developing the mind of Christ.
Today, think about how you read the Bible. Do you just read the highlights…or do you spend time on the “filler”? Next time you read a passage, view all of it as important. You will be amazed at how powerful this incredible book, and especially the filler, really is. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on “lesser” Bible parts impacting your life.
Prayer
Dear Father God, thank You so much for Your sovereignty, knowing all I would go through and all I would need, and giving me Your Word to help me. Thanks for all Your word, every word. I confess, I skip the boring, or hard to read, or culturally different parts, thinking they are meant for someone else and not me. Give me a humble spirit, open to all Your teaching and revelation, and not be a “picker and chooser” based on my wants and understandings. I pray in the name of the most miraculous highlight, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.
Hebrews 4:12
All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be competent equipped for every good work.
2 Timothy 3:16-17
We are a society that loves highlights. We get bored with the everyday, average situation. We want to see big drama, excitement, pressure, high stakes situations. ESPN and sports show the highlights of games. The news only shows the extreme and bizarre. TV is all about the abnormal, especially “reality” shows. Well, church can be that way as well. When I was a little kid in Sunday School, each week we would hear a new “highlight” from the past. Creation, Noah’s Ark, the Red Sea parting, David and Goliath, Daniel and the lions, Jonah and the whale, Christmas and Easter. I have to be careful as I read the Bible now, because there really is no filler. God inspired the whole Bible, not just the “highlights”…you don’t get the whole story from just the highlights. You miss a lot because the filler really ties all the highlights together for the story to make sense. All of it is there for a reason…so it is all highlights. Read each part knowing it’s telling you something about God and His character, about yourself and instructions for living, and pointing you toward Jesus and developing the mind of Christ.
Today, think about how you read the Bible. Do you just read the highlights…or do you spend time on the “filler”? Next time you read a passage, view all of it as important. You will be amazed at how powerful this incredible book, and especially the filler, really is. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on “lesser” Bible parts impacting your life.
Prayer
Dear Father God, thank You so much for Your sovereignty, knowing all I would go through and all I would need, and giving me Your Word to help me. Thanks for all Your word, every word. I confess, I skip the boring, or hard to read, or culturally different parts, thinking they are meant for someone else and not me. Give me a humble spirit, open to all Your teaching and revelation, and not be a “picker and chooser” based on my wants and understandings. I pray in the name of the most miraculous highlight, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.
Hebrews 4:12
All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be competent equipped for every good work.
2 Timothy 3:16-17
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Stepping Stones: Become Free by Being Controlled
Transformational Tip
I know, this sounds impossible, like a contradiction; “Be free by becoming controlled.” But this is a lesson we see clearly and learn so often in life. Submitting to your teachers, their instruction and strategy, allows greater freedom to choose a vocation you want. Submitting to your coaches allows you more freedom from anxiety, pressure, and fear when you face a difficult opponent. Submitting to a theatre director or music teacher produces great freedom to explore the art, maximize your expressiveness, and freely become the art form. The same is true spiritually, as you submit to the Holy Spirit, stop fighting the way of God, really put on the armor everyday (more on Armor of God), let the Holy Spirit control your mind and actions, you become free from the world and supernaturally empowered by God. You will become increasingly released and free to become the one He created you to be.
Today, when you sin, confess it immediately. This gets the Holy Spirit back on the throne of your life. In an important decision today, invite the Holy Spirit to guide you and really submit to His guidance and see how it plays out. Let Him live in the depths of your spirit. His work in you can liberate you to be completely who God intended you to be, the life that is WITHIN REACH. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on submitting, being controlled, or living free.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
My desire to be in control is constantly getting in the way…by doing things my way I am continually sabotaging myself. I know that when Your Holy Spirit is controlling my thinking and behavior I feel more alive…more real. I am freer to live how You want and designed me to. I pray for humility to allow the Holy Spirit to think through me, live through me, love through me. I pray this in the freeing name my savior Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, – AMEN!
The Truth
For to be carnally minded is death, but to be controlled by the Spirit is life and
peace.
Romans 8:6
And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.
Romans 12:2
Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.
Psalm 51:10
I know, this sounds impossible, like a contradiction; “Be free by becoming controlled.” But this is a lesson we see clearly and learn so often in life. Submitting to your teachers, their instruction and strategy, allows greater freedom to choose a vocation you want. Submitting to your coaches allows you more freedom from anxiety, pressure, and fear when you face a difficult opponent. Submitting to a theatre director or music teacher produces great freedom to explore the art, maximize your expressiveness, and freely become the art form. The same is true spiritually, as you submit to the Holy Spirit, stop fighting the way of God, really put on the armor everyday (more on Armor of God), let the Holy Spirit control your mind and actions, you become free from the world and supernaturally empowered by God. You will become increasingly released and free to become the one He created you to be.
Today, when you sin, confess it immediately. This gets the Holy Spirit back on the throne of your life. In an important decision today, invite the Holy Spirit to guide you and really submit to His guidance and see how it plays out. Let Him live in the depths of your spirit. His work in you can liberate you to be completely who God intended you to be, the life that is WITHIN REACH. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on submitting, being controlled, or living free.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
My desire to be in control is constantly getting in the way…by doing things my way I am continually sabotaging myself. I know that when Your Holy Spirit is controlling my thinking and behavior I feel more alive…more real. I am freer to live how You want and designed me to. I pray for humility to allow the Holy Spirit to think through me, live through me, love through me. I pray this in the freeing name my savior Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, – AMEN!
The Truth
For to be carnally minded is death, but to be controlled by the Spirit is life and
peace.
Romans 8:6
And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.
Romans 12:2
Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.
Psalm 51:10
Monday, October 26, 2009
Stepping Stones: I Need...
Transformational Tip
I need some love. I need some sleep. I need an answer. I need some money. I need a man. I need a drink. We are all needy…in fact, we were born needy. However, there are two types of people; those who are needy and recognize their insufficiencies and those who are needy but totally unaware of their inadequacies. Recognizing the extent of your neediness for God is a blessing. Even though Satan tries to distract us…we all know we cant meet all our needs ourselves. We do know deep inside the breadth and depth of our need for Him. Recognition is only half the battle, though. The other half is turning to Him rather than idolatrous substitutes to fill our emptiness. Turning to our Lord will always be the challenge…will always be the toughest part of the battle. Why? Because we are constantly influenced by the heaviness of this fallen world. We choose immediate comfort over real sustenance. While on this earth you will have to contend with this spiritual-emotional “gravity” pulling you away from Him.
Today, when you face a “I need….” moment, stop and ask God to show you what to do next, then look to His instruction manual to find answers. Remember, immediate answers aren’t necessary and you really can handle that. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on the how God meets your needs, why waiting is tough, and other thoughts and experiences.
Send this to someone struggling with “I need….” moments.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
With each passing day I recognize how desperately I need You. I do want You to be the center of my life…and I am trying to keep You there. But You know Father how easily distracted I get…how my thoughts wander away from You. I grope for You Father; I need Your help all the time. Help me understand those distractions as idols and help me learn how to close my ears to their falsely soothing coos. I pray these words in the name of Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, - AMEN!
The Truth
But he answered, "It is written, "'Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.'
Matthew 4:4
So that they should seek the Lord, in the hope that they might grope for Him and find Him, though He is not far from each one of us;
Acts 17:27
For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching a light, and the reproofs of discipline are the way of life, to preserve you from the evil woman, from the smooth tongue of the adulteress. Do not desire her beauty in your heart, and do not let her capture you with her eyelashes; for the price of a prostitute is only a loaf of bread, but a married woman hunts down a precious life.
Proverbs 6:23-26
I need some love. I need some sleep. I need an answer. I need some money. I need a man. I need a drink. We are all needy…in fact, we were born needy. However, there are two types of people; those who are needy and recognize their insufficiencies and those who are needy but totally unaware of their inadequacies. Recognizing the extent of your neediness for God is a blessing. Even though Satan tries to distract us…we all know we cant meet all our needs ourselves. We do know deep inside the breadth and depth of our need for Him. Recognition is only half the battle, though. The other half is turning to Him rather than idolatrous substitutes to fill our emptiness. Turning to our Lord will always be the challenge…will always be the toughest part of the battle. Why? Because we are constantly influenced by the heaviness of this fallen world. We choose immediate comfort over real sustenance. While on this earth you will have to contend with this spiritual-emotional “gravity” pulling you away from Him.
Today, when you face a “I need….” moment, stop and ask God to show you what to do next, then look to His instruction manual to find answers. Remember, immediate answers aren’t necessary and you really can handle that. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on the how God meets your needs, why waiting is tough, and other thoughts and experiences.
Send this to someone struggling with “I need….” moments.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
With each passing day I recognize how desperately I need You. I do want You to be the center of my life…and I am trying to keep You there. But You know Father how easily distracted I get…how my thoughts wander away from You. I grope for You Father; I need Your help all the time. Help me understand those distractions as idols and help me learn how to close my ears to their falsely soothing coos. I pray these words in the name of Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, - AMEN!
The Truth
But he answered, "It is written, "'Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.'
Matthew 4:4
So that they should seek the Lord, in the hope that they might grope for Him and find Him, though He is not far from each one of us;
Acts 17:27
For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching a light, and the reproofs of discipline are the way of life, to preserve you from the evil woman, from the smooth tongue of the adulteress. Do not desire her beauty in your heart, and do not let her capture you with her eyelashes; for the price of a prostitute is only a loaf of bread, but a married woman hunts down a precious life.
Proverbs 6:23-26
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Stepping Stones: What Glorious Drama!
Transformational Tip
As Christians, whether we like it or not, we are all individual stages on which others might observe the performances of Christ. Despite your imperfections, you have been chosen to reflect His Glory. Do not worry about your stage being unworthy if Him. No matter how much you fix it up, no matter how polished you may become…you will never be good enough for the display of His radiant holiness. However, our weakness is the ideal stage for the exhibition of His power.
Today, play your rightful part in this Glorious Drama. Your part is to look inward and find what is hindering you from keeping your eyes constantly on Him. Then work on it, see how He can ease the pain that distraction brings to you or temporarily soothes in you. Then you will be able to keep your gaze fixed on Him and His awesome splendor. Forget about your unworthiness. Watch the Glorious Drama unfold as He performs great things for you and through you. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on being a stage for Jesus.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
I want to be Your stage, I want to be available to be the stage from which You can display Your power and Glory. But Father, I am not a ready-to-use stage. I feel more like a splintery, unfinished platform. I feel I may not even be safe enough…I feel like my boards are not yet nailed down properly. Help me Father to look away from myself and to look at You. Use my tired, broken stage in any way You choose. I am encouraged and thankful as I read Your Holy Word telling me that Your power is made perfect in my weakness. Thank You Father. I pray through the love and work of Christ Jesus for us, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
And He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”
2 Corinthians 12:9
But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as by the Spirit of the Lord.
2 Corinthians 3:18
But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light. Once you were not a people, but now you are God's people; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy.
1 Peter 2:9-10
As Christians, whether we like it or not, we are all individual stages on which others might observe the performances of Christ. Despite your imperfections, you have been chosen to reflect His Glory. Do not worry about your stage being unworthy if Him. No matter how much you fix it up, no matter how polished you may become…you will never be good enough for the display of His radiant holiness. However, our weakness is the ideal stage for the exhibition of His power.
Today, play your rightful part in this Glorious Drama. Your part is to look inward and find what is hindering you from keeping your eyes constantly on Him. Then work on it, see how He can ease the pain that distraction brings to you or temporarily soothes in you. Then you will be able to keep your gaze fixed on Him and His awesome splendor. Forget about your unworthiness. Watch the Glorious Drama unfold as He performs great things for you and through you. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on being a stage for Jesus.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
I want to be Your stage, I want to be available to be the stage from which You can display Your power and Glory. But Father, I am not a ready-to-use stage. I feel more like a splintery, unfinished platform. I feel I may not even be safe enough…I feel like my boards are not yet nailed down properly. Help me Father to look away from myself and to look at You. Use my tired, broken stage in any way You choose. I am encouraged and thankful as I read Your Holy Word telling me that Your power is made perfect in my weakness. Thank You Father. I pray through the love and work of Christ Jesus for us, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
And He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”
2 Corinthians 12:9
But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as by the Spirit of the Lord.
2 Corinthians 3:18
But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light. Once you were not a people, but now you are God's people; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy.
1 Peter 2:9-10
Saturday, October 24, 2009
Stepping Stones: Hope: Confident Desire
Transformational Tip
Several years ago at Disney World, I saw a 6 yo kid having a meltdown (not my kid of course)…in the mid-afternoon, hot day, long lines, so many options, some letdowns, lots of stimulation, probably off schedule and late nights. His parents said the magical words, “if you are good, you can have 2 desserts after dinner.” It was like an exorcism was performed and the kid was back to normal. Why? He now had hope. Hope is such a powerful emotional state. Expectation, trust, wish, optimism, anticipation…Confident Desire… All dimensions of hope. The cool thing about hope is that you actually believe there is a real chance of getting what you hope for. Hope can lift your perspective from weary feet to glorious views of the high road…the road to heaven. Way better than 2 desserts. Do you live your life…your daily attitude, lenses you use, future outlook…with the ultimate hope alive in you and visible to others?
Today, focus on this radiant destination with Confident Desire (hope). When you do, the roughness or smoothness of the road ahead becomes less significant. Attack today’s obstacle, whatever it is for you, with the encompassing knowledge that you are getting double desserts…the Holy Spirit in this life, and eternity with God. Today, also look to see who help bring hope into the life of someone who feels hopeless. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on Hope and how it impacts your life.
Prayer
Dear Father,
I know that hope is a golden cord that connects me to heaven. I feel as if my head is slumped and my feet are shuffling. Help me Father; help me to have this cord hold my head high…even in the midst of the storms I am experiencing. Help me, Father, to hold in my heart a dual focus; Your continual Presence and the hope of heaven. These things I ask boldly, through the love and work of Christ Jesus for us, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
Rejoicing in hope, patient in tribulation, continuing steadfastly in prayer;
Romans 12:12
Blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD, whose trust is the LORD. He is like a tree planted by water, that sends out its roots by the stream, and does not fear when heat comes, for its leaves remain green, and is not anxious in the year of drought, for it does not cease to bear fruit.
Jeremiah 17:7-8
Blessed is he whose help is the God of Jacob, whose hope is in the LORD his God,
who made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that is in them, who keeps faith forever;
Psalm 146:5-6
Several years ago at Disney World, I saw a 6 yo kid having a meltdown (not my kid of course)…in the mid-afternoon, hot day, long lines, so many options, some letdowns, lots of stimulation, probably off schedule and late nights. His parents said the magical words, “if you are good, you can have 2 desserts after dinner.” It was like an exorcism was performed and the kid was back to normal. Why? He now had hope. Hope is such a powerful emotional state. Expectation, trust, wish, optimism, anticipation…Confident Desire… All dimensions of hope. The cool thing about hope is that you actually believe there is a real chance of getting what you hope for. Hope can lift your perspective from weary feet to glorious views of the high road…the road to heaven. Way better than 2 desserts. Do you live your life…your daily attitude, lenses you use, future outlook…with the ultimate hope alive in you and visible to others?
Today, focus on this radiant destination with Confident Desire (hope). When you do, the roughness or smoothness of the road ahead becomes less significant. Attack today’s obstacle, whatever it is for you, with the encompassing knowledge that you are getting double desserts…the Holy Spirit in this life, and eternity with God. Today, also look to see who help bring hope into the life of someone who feels hopeless. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on Hope and how it impacts your life.
Prayer
Dear Father,
I know that hope is a golden cord that connects me to heaven. I feel as if my head is slumped and my feet are shuffling. Help me Father; help me to have this cord hold my head high…even in the midst of the storms I am experiencing. Help me, Father, to hold in my heart a dual focus; Your continual Presence and the hope of heaven. These things I ask boldly, through the love and work of Christ Jesus for us, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
Rejoicing in hope, patient in tribulation, continuing steadfastly in prayer;
Romans 12:12
Blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD, whose trust is the LORD. He is like a tree planted by water, that sends out its roots by the stream, and does not fear when heat comes, for its leaves remain green, and is not anxious in the year of drought, for it does not cease to bear fruit.
Jeremiah 17:7-8
Blessed is he whose help is the God of Jacob, whose hope is in the LORD his God,
who made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that is in them, who keeps faith forever;
Psalm 146:5-6
Friday, October 23, 2009
Stepping Stones: Freedom: 100% Mental
Transformational Tip
They say sports are 90% mental, meaning, what’s between their ears…their intellectual, psychological, relational, emotional skills…really determine if they will maximize their physical abilities. Yes, we are all so very blessed to live in a country that provides the opportunity to be free. Freedom of speech…freedom to choose the vocation we want…freedom to practice any religion. But how free are we? How many of us are prisoners of our own heart/mind? How many of us are “driven” to be something we are not…or sabotage the path designed specifically for us. In an odd paradox, freedom really comes from having only one Master…the only one qualified to be the Master. Most of our troubles come from trying to blend masters(self, world, others, God) for our life…implementing our own game plan and ignoring His. You will maximize your abilities and life, achieve your God-given potential, when you realize your life is 100% mental and you humbly let God be your master.
Today, find freedom through seeking to please God above all else. Concentrate on staying close to Him at all times and humbling yourself to His instructions for your conduct. To develop practical skills to strengthen your mind and put God on the throne of your heart in your decisions, click here. To share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on being authentic and the freedom that grants you, Click here.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
I come to Your with a thankful yet penitent heart. I confess, Lord, that I have let worship of others’ and my own expectations drive me, scattering my energy and focus. My desire to “look good’ in the eyes of others is also draining my energy. Help me Lord to focus on You. I know that this is the only way to achieve true freedom. Help me focus on serving the one and only Master, You. Help me Father to not focus of the good deeds I do to impress others. I pray Father that today and always I will let You direct my next step so that I will be free to enjoy You and to look forward to what You have prepared for me this day. These things I ask boldly, through the love and work of Christ Jesus for us, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light (for the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), finding out what is acceptable to the Lord.
Ephesians 5:8-10
And I will lead the blind in a way that they do not know, in paths that they have not known I will guide them. I will turn the darkness before them into light, the rough places into level ground. These are the things I do, and I do not forsake them.
Isaiah 42:16
They say sports are 90% mental, meaning, what’s between their ears…their intellectual, psychological, relational, emotional skills…really determine if they will maximize their physical abilities. Yes, we are all so very blessed to live in a country that provides the opportunity to be free. Freedom of speech…freedom to choose the vocation we want…freedom to practice any religion. But how free are we? How many of us are prisoners of our own heart/mind? How many of us are “driven” to be something we are not…or sabotage the path designed specifically for us. In an odd paradox, freedom really comes from having only one Master…the only one qualified to be the Master. Most of our troubles come from trying to blend masters(self, world, others, God) for our life…implementing our own game plan and ignoring His. You will maximize your abilities and life, achieve your God-given potential, when you realize your life is 100% mental and you humbly let God be your master.
Today, find freedom through seeking to please God above all else. Concentrate on staying close to Him at all times and humbling yourself to His instructions for your conduct. To develop practical skills to strengthen your mind and put God on the throne of your heart in your decisions, click here. To share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on being authentic and the freedom that grants you, Click here.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
I come to Your with a thankful yet penitent heart. I confess, Lord, that I have let worship of others’ and my own expectations drive me, scattering my energy and focus. My desire to “look good’ in the eyes of others is also draining my energy. Help me Lord to focus on You. I know that this is the only way to achieve true freedom. Help me focus on serving the one and only Master, You. Help me Father to not focus of the good deeds I do to impress others. I pray Father that today and always I will let You direct my next step so that I will be free to enjoy You and to look forward to what You have prepared for me this day. These things I ask boldly, through the love and work of Christ Jesus for us, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light (for the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), finding out what is acceptable to the Lord.
Ephesians 5:8-10
And I will lead the blind in a way that they do not know, in paths that they have not known I will guide them. I will turn the darkness before them into light, the rough places into level ground. These are the things I do, and I do not forsake them.
Isaiah 42:16
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Stepping Stones: He's Still Searching
Transformational Tip
God is not like us and that can make Him feel far away. He is spirit only, we have a body…He is infinite, we are limited…He is perfect, we are flawed. Even without the problem of sin, the idea of really knowing God can seem impossible.
So how can we know Him? God has designed us with one key purpose in mind: relationship. And He builds us for relationship with Him through the use of “analogy,” that is, through making us in His “image and likeness.”
Think of it this way. We use analogies all the time. When we’re trying to explain a difficult concept, we’ll create a word picture of some sort. We might use images from nature: “Actually, it’s just like how the elephant …” Or we’ll refer to a common experience: “Do you remember the scene in ‘The Matrix’ where Neo …” or “do you remember that road trip we took to California?” We do this all the time. The reason we do it is to better communicate our ideas.
“That which is known about God is evident … for since the creation of the world His invisible attributes, His eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly seen …” (Romans 1.19-20) The clear expression of God’s invisible attributes is this two-pronged analogy of His authority and holiness in our delegated authority and morality. And God uses analogy for the same reason we do: so that we can be sure we understand His communication with us.
Today, You were designed for something far better than just “getting by.” But if you feel like that’s all you’re doing, perhaps you’re not listening to God as He seeks relationship with you. Stop and ask, why am I not spending more time with the One who knows me best and what I need the most. He is calling to you and His message is clear. Click here for a resource to help you hear Him better and apply His teaching directly to your life. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on finding and hearing God.
Prayer
Dear Father, You built us for relationship with You. And You have been seeking to win us back since You called out to Adam and Eve in the garden: “Where are you?” Let us desire the greatest thing of all, to be in relationship with You, O Father, through the merits of Jesus Christ our Lord, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse.
Romans 1:19-20
But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him.
John 4:23
God is not like us and that can make Him feel far away. He is spirit only, we have a body…He is infinite, we are limited…He is perfect, we are flawed. Even without the problem of sin, the idea of really knowing God can seem impossible.
So how can we know Him? God has designed us with one key purpose in mind: relationship. And He builds us for relationship with Him through the use of “analogy,” that is, through making us in His “image and likeness.”
Think of it this way. We use analogies all the time. When we’re trying to explain a difficult concept, we’ll create a word picture of some sort. We might use images from nature: “Actually, it’s just like how the elephant …” Or we’ll refer to a common experience: “Do you remember the scene in ‘The Matrix’ where Neo …” or “do you remember that road trip we took to California?” We do this all the time. The reason we do it is to better communicate our ideas.
“That which is known about God is evident … for since the creation of the world His invisible attributes, His eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly seen …” (Romans 1.19-20) The clear expression of God’s invisible attributes is this two-pronged analogy of His authority and holiness in our delegated authority and morality. And God uses analogy for the same reason we do: so that we can be sure we understand His communication with us.
Today, You were designed for something far better than just “getting by.” But if you feel like that’s all you’re doing, perhaps you’re not listening to God as He seeks relationship with you. Stop and ask, why am I not spending more time with the One who knows me best and what I need the most. He is calling to you and His message is clear. Click here for a resource to help you hear Him better and apply His teaching directly to your life. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on finding and hearing God.
Prayer
Dear Father, You built us for relationship with You. And You have been seeking to win us back since You called out to Adam and Eve in the garden: “Where are you?” Let us desire the greatest thing of all, to be in relationship with You, O Father, through the merits of Jesus Christ our Lord, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse.
Romans 1:19-20
But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him.
John 4:23
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Stepping Stones: Caretaker, Not King
Transformational Tip
I have 3 daughters, and they are great kids…wouldn’t trade them for anything. They are very responsible and good with each other. When my wife and I go out, we leave them in charge to babysit…17 yo babysits the 14 yo, 14 yo babysits the 9 yo, and 9 yo babysits our dog. The determining factor for when we granted them their wish to “be on their own” was…”whose rules will you use to manage yourselves and those you are in charge of...ours or yours?” If they are able to be an extension of us, their parents, be a caretaker of our rules, wishes, and authority, we left them alone. If they were going to be their own king (queens in this case), authority, overthrow the existing regime, and rule based on their whims, desires, and standards, they couldn’t be on their own. Yesterday, we talked about how God created us to be His extension, the caretaker of His authority in all areas of creation including His standards and guidelines for our life. Our struggles… insecurity, worry, depression, bitterness, loneliness, etc…happen when we ignore, rebel against, overthrow, His authority, and place ourselves as the all-knowing, all-powerful ruler of our universe. Using our ineffective, incomplete, warped standards, rules, and guidelines of self-protection actually results in our own self-destruction. Satan does a great job of hiding this cause and effect from us so we keep on being our own ruler and are ignorant of it being the cause of our daily self-destructive consequences.
Today, as you experience some unrest, stop and ask yourself, “whose rules am I using in this situation? Who authority am I really trusting in?” God designed us to be caretakers of His authority, not kings developing our own kingdom. Click here for a resource to help be less king and more caretaker of God’s plan for your life. Click here to share with the stepping stone community your thoughts on being more caretaker and less king.
Prayer
Dear Father, You are the most powerful, sovereign king ever, but You also are the most loving and sacrificial king to Your subjects. Thanks for sacrificing for me, a rebellious subject who often overthrows Your rule in my life. I know when my flesh is on the throne, I reap the fruit of the flesh. Open my mind to Your wisdom, and guidance You have for me developing the Mind of Christ. In the name of the King of Kings, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
Galatians 5:19-21
And the LORD said to Samuel, "Obey the voice of the people in all that they say to you, for they have not rejected you, but they have rejected me from being king over them. According to all the deeds that they have done, from the day I brought them up out of Egypt even to this day, forsaking me and serving other gods, so they are also doing to you. Now then, obey their voice; only you shall solemnly warn them and show them the ways of the king who shall reign over them."
1 Samuel 8:7-9
I have 3 daughters, and they are great kids…wouldn’t trade them for anything. They are very responsible and good with each other. When my wife and I go out, we leave them in charge to babysit…17 yo babysits the 14 yo, 14 yo babysits the 9 yo, and 9 yo babysits our dog. The determining factor for when we granted them their wish to “be on their own” was…”whose rules will you use to manage yourselves and those you are in charge of...ours or yours?” If they are able to be an extension of us, their parents, be a caretaker of our rules, wishes, and authority, we left them alone. If they were going to be their own king (queens in this case), authority, overthrow the existing regime, and rule based on their whims, desires, and standards, they couldn’t be on their own. Yesterday, we talked about how God created us to be His extension, the caretaker of His authority in all areas of creation including His standards and guidelines for our life. Our struggles… insecurity, worry, depression, bitterness, loneliness, etc…happen when we ignore, rebel against, overthrow, His authority, and place ourselves as the all-knowing, all-powerful ruler of our universe. Using our ineffective, incomplete, warped standards, rules, and guidelines of self-protection actually results in our own self-destruction. Satan does a great job of hiding this cause and effect from us so we keep on being our own ruler and are ignorant of it being the cause of our daily self-destructive consequences.
Today, as you experience some unrest, stop and ask yourself, “whose rules am I using in this situation? Who authority am I really trusting in?” God designed us to be caretakers of His authority, not kings developing our own kingdom. Click here for a resource to help be less king and more caretaker of God’s plan for your life. Click here to share with the stepping stone community your thoughts on being more caretaker and less king.
Prayer
Dear Father, You are the most powerful, sovereign king ever, but You also are the most loving and sacrificial king to Your subjects. Thanks for sacrificing for me, a rebellious subject who often overthrows Your rule in my life. I know when my flesh is on the throne, I reap the fruit of the flesh. Open my mind to Your wisdom, and guidance You have for me developing the Mind of Christ. In the name of the King of Kings, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
Galatians 5:19-21
And the LORD said to Samuel, "Obey the voice of the people in all that they say to you, for they have not rejected you, but they have rejected me from being king over them. According to all the deeds that they have done, from the day I brought them up out of Egypt even to this day, forsaking me and serving other gods, so they are also doing to you. Now then, obey their voice; only you shall solemnly warn them and show them the ways of the king who shall reign over them."
1 Samuel 8:7-9
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Stepping Stones: Caretakers Of God’s Authority
Transformational Tip
God designed us with two key characteristics, characteristics that are broad analogies of His own attributes. 1, He delegated authority to us. 2, He gave us morality. In the first characteristic, He gave to Adam and Eve (and therefore all humans) authority over creation. We don’t create out of nothing as God can, but we are creative. We don’t command the nature as He does; but we understand what it is to tame animals, or bring the elements under our authority in making metals, or cultivating crops. In the second characteristic, God built into us a sense of right and wrong, as well as a responsibility to choose right over wrong. Consider this…we’re the only creatures who understand the concept of shame, because we’re the only creatures who understand what it is to break rules or to do the wrong thing. Birds don’t apologize, cats don’t get embarrassed, dogs don’t have law courts.
God wants you to bring creation under His authority through the exercise of your authority. Your family, your job, your recreation…they’re all facets of the creation that He has entrusted to your care. They’re yours to do with as you please: either for His glory (which is also your benefit, satisfaction, and growth), or not.
Every longing of your heart, every desire, impulse to act, create, manage, control, or fix is actually a reflection of the impulse to exercise the authority He has delegated to you and to exercise the sense you have of right and wrong.
Submit those impulses regarding authority and morality to Him – and you’ll find two things becoming increasingly true: you’ll love Him more AND suffer shame less. Click here to share with the stepping stone community your thoughts on living in the darkness vs. God’s light.
Prayer
Holy Father, Mighty God: In You we live, and move, and have our being. From You we receive the authority to order our lives as we please; either for our good and Your glory, or for our own glory and Your judgment. Please have mercy on us, that we may increasingly understand that the best authority is that which is exercised according to Your word, and the best morality is that which accords with Your will. This we ask, through the merits of Christ, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
“Let them rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over the cattle and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. God blessed them; and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it; and rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over every living thing that moves on the earth.””
Genesis 1:26-28
“Then the LORD God took the man and put him into the garden of Eden to cultivate it and keep it. The LORD God commanded the man, saying, “From any tree of the garden you may eat freely; but from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat from it you will surely die.””.
Genesis 2:15-17
God designed us with two key characteristics, characteristics that are broad analogies of His own attributes. 1, He delegated authority to us. 2, He gave us morality. In the first characteristic, He gave to Adam and Eve (and therefore all humans) authority over creation. We don’t create out of nothing as God can, but we are creative. We don’t command the nature as He does; but we understand what it is to tame animals, or bring the elements under our authority in making metals, or cultivating crops. In the second characteristic, God built into us a sense of right and wrong, as well as a responsibility to choose right over wrong. Consider this…we’re the only creatures who understand the concept of shame, because we’re the only creatures who understand what it is to break rules or to do the wrong thing. Birds don’t apologize, cats don’t get embarrassed, dogs don’t have law courts.
God wants you to bring creation under His authority through the exercise of your authority. Your family, your job, your recreation…they’re all facets of the creation that He has entrusted to your care. They’re yours to do with as you please: either for His glory (which is also your benefit, satisfaction, and growth), or not.
Every longing of your heart, every desire, impulse to act, create, manage, control, or fix is actually a reflection of the impulse to exercise the authority He has delegated to you and to exercise the sense you have of right and wrong.
Submit those impulses regarding authority and morality to Him – and you’ll find two things becoming increasingly true: you’ll love Him more AND suffer shame less. Click here to share with the stepping stone community your thoughts on living in the darkness vs. God’s light.
Prayer
Holy Father, Mighty God: In You we live, and move, and have our being. From You we receive the authority to order our lives as we please; either for our good and Your glory, or for our own glory and Your judgment. Please have mercy on us, that we may increasingly understand that the best authority is that which is exercised according to Your word, and the best morality is that which accords with Your will. This we ask, through the merits of Christ, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
“Let them rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over the cattle and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. God blessed them; and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it; and rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over every living thing that moves on the earth.””
Genesis 1:26-28
“Then the LORD God took the man and put him into the garden of Eden to cultivate it and keep it. The LORD God commanded the man, saying, “From any tree of the garden you may eat freely; but from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat from it you will surely die.””.
Genesis 2:15-17
Monday, October 19, 2009
Stepping Stones: “He Looks Just Like His Father”
Transformational Tip
In every child, there is evidence of the parents’ contributions to the child’s makeup. They have their father’s eyes, or their mother’s nose. Whose intelligence or stubbornness they have is often up for debate! What we often forget is that we, too, bear an image, an imprint of our designer – our Father’s image and likeness. God is not like us, yet He designed us to understand who He is, so that we might be in relationship with Him. For this reason, He gives us a likeness or analogy of His infinite and perfect attributes and character. For example, in a limited way, we understand greatness, power, knowledge, authority, sacrifice, love, and other attributes. He gives us a sense of time and eternity. He imprints us with an ability to grasp right and wrong…good, better, and best. Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control – all these are attributes and characteristics that we find in God. This means, that every encouragement to obey God is not just a rule, law, or helpful hint about life. It’s a call to be what we were made to be. Holiness isn’t so much about “being good” as it is about “being human”…the human God created us to be, and we are through Jesus.
We don’t use a paintbrush to change a diaper, nor a hammer to eat dinner. When something is serving it’s designer’s intent, it works easier and better.
Today, whatever your situation is, look at the Scriptures, consider the Designer’s intent for your life and know that He is calling you to “be all that you can be.” What do you need to believe differently about God or yourself to be all that He designed you to be? Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on being who God designed you to be.
Prayer
Dear Father, Teach us to know that You have designed us for better things. Teach us to understand that obedience to You is not burdensome, but that obedience is a return to our design. By the power of your Spirit, make us to be more and more in the image of Christ, who bears Your image perfectly and fully. Help me to get out of Your way and understand better my role in Your work of growing me. These things we ask boldly, through the love and work of Christ Jesus for us, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; and let them rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over the cattle and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.
Genesis 1:26-27
But to this day whenever Moses is read, a veil lies over their heart; but whenever a person turns to the Lord, the veil is taken away. Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as from the Lord, the Spirit.”
2 Corinthians 3:15-18
In every child, there is evidence of the parents’ contributions to the child’s makeup. They have their father’s eyes, or their mother’s nose. Whose intelligence or stubbornness they have is often up for debate! What we often forget is that we, too, bear an image, an imprint of our designer – our Father’s image and likeness. God is not like us, yet He designed us to understand who He is, so that we might be in relationship with Him. For this reason, He gives us a likeness or analogy of His infinite and perfect attributes and character. For example, in a limited way, we understand greatness, power, knowledge, authority, sacrifice, love, and other attributes. He gives us a sense of time and eternity. He imprints us with an ability to grasp right and wrong…good, better, and best. Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control – all these are attributes and characteristics that we find in God. This means, that every encouragement to obey God is not just a rule, law, or helpful hint about life. It’s a call to be what we were made to be. Holiness isn’t so much about “being good” as it is about “being human”…the human God created us to be, and we are through Jesus.
We don’t use a paintbrush to change a diaper, nor a hammer to eat dinner. When something is serving it’s designer’s intent, it works easier and better.
Today, whatever your situation is, look at the Scriptures, consider the Designer’s intent for your life and know that He is calling you to “be all that you can be.” What do you need to believe differently about God or yourself to be all that He designed you to be? Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on being who God designed you to be.
Prayer
Dear Father, Teach us to know that You have designed us for better things. Teach us to understand that obedience to You is not burdensome, but that obedience is a return to our design. By the power of your Spirit, make us to be more and more in the image of Christ, who bears Your image perfectly and fully. Help me to get out of Your way and understand better my role in Your work of growing me. These things we ask boldly, through the love and work of Christ Jesus for us, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; and let them rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over the cattle and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.
Genesis 1:26-27
But to this day whenever Moses is read, a veil lies over their heart; but whenever a person turns to the Lord, the veil is taken away. Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as from the Lord, the Spirit.”
2 Corinthians 3:15-18
Sunday, October 18, 2009
Stepping Stones: How Open Are You?
Transformational Tip
As a young adult, I was the greatest thing since sliced bread…in my eyes. When I met someone I was infatuated with, I tried so hard to hide the skeletons, hurts, defects, fears I had inside. I feared if they saw those things, they would reject me. That is the lesson I learned in childhood, conditional acceptance. It is a habit, pattern that continued into my spiritual world as well. For so long, I had closed off parts of my life from God. I believed I could only bring a “cleaned-up” version of myself to Him. How ignorant…how futile. Wounds and sins that we try to shut away from the light of His love will only fester, get worse, then infect other areas of our life. They rot and get wormy. Secret sins that we try to “hide” from our Lord can split off and develop lives of their own…controlling us without us even realizing it. Creating and building debilitating fear.
Today, open yourself completely to God. Open yourself to His transforming and healing presence. Let his brilliant love-light search out and destroy your hidden fears. Tell Him directly about one fear you struggled with today. Click here to share with the stepping stone community your thoughts on opening yourself fully to God.
Prayer
Dear Father,
You know me inside and out. I no longer want to hide things from You. I am tired of hiding my wounds from You, then having to bear them all myself. Thank you for taking my yoke, and bearing my pains. I pray that Your love-light will seep deeply into the inner recesses of my being. Help me to understand Your perfect love…and to believe that perfect love drives out fear. I pray this in the unconditional name of Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts.
See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.
Psalm 139:23-24
There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.
1 John 4:18
As a young adult, I was the greatest thing since sliced bread…in my eyes. When I met someone I was infatuated with, I tried so hard to hide the skeletons, hurts, defects, fears I had inside. I feared if they saw those things, they would reject me. That is the lesson I learned in childhood, conditional acceptance. It is a habit, pattern that continued into my spiritual world as well. For so long, I had closed off parts of my life from God. I believed I could only bring a “cleaned-up” version of myself to Him. How ignorant…how futile. Wounds and sins that we try to shut away from the light of His love will only fester, get worse, then infect other areas of our life. They rot and get wormy. Secret sins that we try to “hide” from our Lord can split off and develop lives of their own…controlling us without us even realizing it. Creating and building debilitating fear.
Today, open yourself completely to God. Open yourself to His transforming and healing presence. Let his brilliant love-light search out and destroy your hidden fears. Tell Him directly about one fear you struggled with today. Click here to share with the stepping stone community your thoughts on opening yourself fully to God.
Prayer
Dear Father,
You know me inside and out. I no longer want to hide things from You. I am tired of hiding my wounds from You, then having to bear them all myself. Thank you for taking my yoke, and bearing my pains. I pray that Your love-light will seep deeply into the inner recesses of my being. Help me to understand Your perfect love…and to believe that perfect love drives out fear. I pray this in the unconditional name of Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts.
See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.
Psalm 139:23-24
There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.
1 John 4:18
Saturday, October 17, 2009
Stepping Stones: Be the Lighthouse for HIS Light
Transformational Tip
When I was a child my brothers and I would play this game. We would go into the basement at night and turn all the lights off…and then try and find each other. I hated this game. I was almost paralyzed with the fear of one of my brothers grabbing and scaring me in the total darkness. I would crawl along the floor in the darkness. Don’t know why I played the game; “brother pressure” I guess. Still to this day I’m uncomfortable in the dark.
I see so many people crawling through their lives, on the basement floor, cursing the darkness…while all the while God is shining so brightly. God wants each of us to be light-bearers…to be lighthouses. The Holy Spirit, who lives in you, will shine God’s light from your face, making Him visible to all those around you
Today, when you see “darkness” around you, stop, pray, and think about the Holy Spirit shining through you…then get out of His way, be bold, and let Him shine through. You know what He wants you to do, so just do it and see the magic that happens. Ask the Holy Spirit to live through you as you live this day in the light of God’s presence. Click here to share with the stepping stone community your thoughts on living in the darkness vs. God’s light.
Prayer
Dear Father,
I do not like the darkness. I want to live in Your radiant light. When I do find myself in spiritual darkness I reach for Your guiding hand. I reach for Your hand in joyful trust, knowing You will never leave my side. I pray Father that I mat brighten the world by reflecting who You are. Help me Lord to spread You light into the darkness of someone’s life. I pray this in the name of Jesus who is the light of the world – AMEN!
The Truth
When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, "I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life."
John 8:12
You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house.
Matthew 5:14
Arise, shine, for your light has come, and the glory of the LORD has risen upon you. For behold, darkness shall cover the earth, and thick darkness the peoples; but the LORD will arise upon you, and his glory will be seen upon you. And nations shall come to your light, and kings to the brightness of your rising.
Isaiah 60:1-3
When I was a child my brothers and I would play this game. We would go into the basement at night and turn all the lights off…and then try and find each other. I hated this game. I was almost paralyzed with the fear of one of my brothers grabbing and scaring me in the total darkness. I would crawl along the floor in the darkness. Don’t know why I played the game; “brother pressure” I guess. Still to this day I’m uncomfortable in the dark.
I see so many people crawling through their lives, on the basement floor, cursing the darkness…while all the while God is shining so brightly. God wants each of us to be light-bearers…to be lighthouses. The Holy Spirit, who lives in you, will shine God’s light from your face, making Him visible to all those around you
Today, when you see “darkness” around you, stop, pray, and think about the Holy Spirit shining through you…then get out of His way, be bold, and let Him shine through. You know what He wants you to do, so just do it and see the magic that happens. Ask the Holy Spirit to live through you as you live this day in the light of God’s presence. Click here to share with the stepping stone community your thoughts on living in the darkness vs. God’s light.
Prayer
Dear Father,
I do not like the darkness. I want to live in Your radiant light. When I do find myself in spiritual darkness I reach for Your guiding hand. I reach for Your hand in joyful trust, knowing You will never leave my side. I pray Father that I mat brighten the world by reflecting who You are. Help me Lord to spread You light into the darkness of someone’s life. I pray this in the name of Jesus who is the light of the world – AMEN!
The Truth
When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, "I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life."
John 8:12
You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house.
Matthew 5:14
Arise, shine, for your light has come, and the glory of the LORD has risen upon you. For behold, darkness shall cover the earth, and thick darkness the peoples; but the LORD will arise upon you, and his glory will be seen upon you. And nations shall come to your light, and kings to the brightness of your rising.
Isaiah 60:1-3
Friday, October 16, 2009
Stepping Stones: Sharpen Your Axe
Transformational Tip
There was a lumberjack hired to cut down 30 trees a day. First few days the 30 trees fell easily under his axe. On day 5 he only cut down 25 tress, on day 10 only 8 …on day 20, while he was swinging that axe faster and harder than day 1, only 3 trees fell. The supervisor came to observe why the lumberjack’s performance was so poor. The supervisor saw that the lumberjack’s axe was completely dull, so he told the Lumberjack who was huffing and puffing that he needed to sharpen his axe. The lumberjack said; “I can’t, I don’t have time…I need to cut down 30 trees today.”
So many of us are exhausted, worn out, and in need of true relaxation and refreshment. I don’t mean sleep…I mean rest. We keep swinging hard and often, but our blades are dull. Resting doesn’t necessarily mean idleness or laziness. Resting in God has two huge benefits; first it allows you to sharpen your axe. Secondarily, when you relax in His company you are demonstrating trust in Him to take over what you can’t. Trust is such a rich word, filled with meaning and direction for your life. So many of us do the exact opposite of what God wants for us; we turn away from Him when we are exhausted because we associate God with duty and diligence. We wrongly believe that going to Him means we have to do more.
Today, take 15 minutes to specifically lean on, trust and be confident in God. Relax in His company. When you lean on Him for support and rest, He delights in your trusting confidence. Click here to share with the stepping stone community your thoughts on resting in God.
Prayer
Dear Father,
I come to You depleted and worn out. I come to You, Lord, for refreshment. I know that resting in You will save me. I thank You Father for Your reassuring Word that You spoke through Your prophet Isaiah, telling me that coming to You in quietness and trust shall be my strength. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit so that I may lean on Your understanding, not mine. I pray this with trust and expectations and in the name of Jesus Christ, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;
Proverbs 3:5
This is what the Sovereign LORD, the Holy One of Israel, says: In repentance and rest is your salvation, in quietness and trust is your strength
Isaiah 30:15
There was a lumberjack hired to cut down 30 trees a day. First few days the 30 trees fell easily under his axe. On day 5 he only cut down 25 tress, on day 10 only 8 …on day 20, while he was swinging that axe faster and harder than day 1, only 3 trees fell. The supervisor came to observe why the lumberjack’s performance was so poor. The supervisor saw that the lumberjack’s axe was completely dull, so he told the Lumberjack who was huffing and puffing that he needed to sharpen his axe. The lumberjack said; “I can’t, I don’t have time…I need to cut down 30 trees today.”
So many of us are exhausted, worn out, and in need of true relaxation and refreshment. I don’t mean sleep…I mean rest. We keep swinging hard and often, but our blades are dull. Resting doesn’t necessarily mean idleness or laziness. Resting in God has two huge benefits; first it allows you to sharpen your axe. Secondarily, when you relax in His company you are demonstrating trust in Him to take over what you can’t. Trust is such a rich word, filled with meaning and direction for your life. So many of us do the exact opposite of what God wants for us; we turn away from Him when we are exhausted because we associate God with duty and diligence. We wrongly believe that going to Him means we have to do more.
Today, take 15 minutes to specifically lean on, trust and be confident in God. Relax in His company. When you lean on Him for support and rest, He delights in your trusting confidence. Click here to share with the stepping stone community your thoughts on resting in God.
Prayer
Dear Father,
I come to You depleted and worn out. I come to You, Lord, for refreshment. I know that resting in You will save me. I thank You Father for Your reassuring Word that You spoke through Your prophet Isaiah, telling me that coming to You in quietness and trust shall be my strength. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit so that I may lean on Your understanding, not mine. I pray this with trust and expectations and in the name of Jesus Christ, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;
Proverbs 3:5
This is what the Sovereign LORD, the Holy One of Israel, says: In repentance and rest is your salvation, in quietness and trust is your strength
Isaiah 30:15
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Stepping Stones: FEAR: Hiding or Freedom?
Transformational Tip
Fear of speaking in class or giving a lecture… blowing a test or an important game…parasailing…taking a new job…confrontation or setting a healthy boundary…having someone angry or upset with me. For so long, FEAR(False Evidence Appearing Real) really interrupted my life. Then came the fear about having fear, I was almost paralyzed. Through Christian counseling, I realized I was hiding my fear…pretending it wasn’t there. I discovered that the fear you hide in the recesses of your heart will give birth to the fear of fear…a real monster. The danger of the second fear is diverting our focus off the original fear…which usually was planted at a very young age when we knew little and weren’t well equipped to handle much. Now as adults, we have capabilities to see more clearly the original false evidence and do something different and better in that situation…or at the very least, if real anxiety exists, handle it better. But we are usually to lazy to go back and deeply re-address those old painful FEARS to access the freedom Christ won for us over those FEARS. Freedom from FEAR is for you.
Today, acknowledge that your FEARS are flaming arrows of attack from the evil one and bring your fears out into the Light of Your Lord’s presence where you can deal with them together. Identify one thing that upsets, alarms, scares, or threatens you. Examine how it influences your decisions. Tell someone about it and ask them to help you identify the False Evidence that Appears Real. It can be very freeing just knowing the cycle can be broken. Click here to live the life that is WITHIN REACH when you overcome your FEARS. Click here to share with the stepping stone community your thoughts on FEAR.
Prayer
Dear Father,
I confess that fear has a stronghold on me. I know that most all fear comes from arrows of attack from the enemy. I thank You Father for Your Word that teaches me to use my shield of faith to extinguish those flaming arrows. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit Father so that I might build my faith. Help me understand how to dig deep and uncover those FEARS and bathe them in truth. Help me Father to bring all fear to You so that we may deal with them together. I pray Father, that by concentrating on You and being a good steward of my mind, that my fearfulness will lose its foothold on me. I pray in the holy name of Jesus, and all God’s children said, – Amen!
The Truth
In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one.
Ephesians 6:16
The fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is safe.
Proverbs 29:25
Fear of speaking in class or giving a lecture… blowing a test or an important game…parasailing…taking a new job…confrontation or setting a healthy boundary…having someone angry or upset with me. For so long, FEAR(False Evidence Appearing Real) really interrupted my life. Then came the fear about having fear, I was almost paralyzed. Through Christian counseling, I realized I was hiding my fear…pretending it wasn’t there. I discovered that the fear you hide in the recesses of your heart will give birth to the fear of fear…a real monster. The danger of the second fear is diverting our focus off the original fear…which usually was planted at a very young age when we knew little and weren’t well equipped to handle much. Now as adults, we have capabilities to see more clearly the original false evidence and do something different and better in that situation…or at the very least, if real anxiety exists, handle it better. But we are usually to lazy to go back and deeply re-address those old painful FEARS to access the freedom Christ won for us over those FEARS. Freedom from FEAR is for you.
Today, acknowledge that your FEARS are flaming arrows of attack from the evil one and bring your fears out into the Light of Your Lord’s presence where you can deal with them together. Identify one thing that upsets, alarms, scares, or threatens you. Examine how it influences your decisions. Tell someone about it and ask them to help you identify the False Evidence that Appears Real. It can be very freeing just knowing the cycle can be broken. Click here to live the life that is WITHIN REACH when you overcome your FEARS. Click here to share with the stepping stone community your thoughts on FEAR.
Prayer
Dear Father,
I confess that fear has a stronghold on me. I know that most all fear comes from arrows of attack from the enemy. I thank You Father for Your Word that teaches me to use my shield of faith to extinguish those flaming arrows. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit Father so that I might build my faith. Help me understand how to dig deep and uncover those FEARS and bathe them in truth. Help me Father to bring all fear to You so that we may deal with them together. I pray Father, that by concentrating on You and being a good steward of my mind, that my fearfulness will lose its foothold on me. I pray in the holy name of Jesus, and all God’s children said, – Amen!
The Truth
In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one.
Ephesians 6:16
The fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is safe.
Proverbs 29:25
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Stepping Stones: Invisible...But There!
Transformational Tip
Do you feel your heart beating right now? Do you feel thousands, if not millions of brain cells firing right now to allow you to read this and be amazed? Do you really actually feel the love for your kids(parents, spouse, etc) right now, the moment before I just mentioned it? Do you feel the Earth spinning 800 miles per hour? Just because you don’t feel these events right now, doesn’t mean they aren’t happening. As Christians, we say that even though we’ve accepted Christ as our savior, are filled with the Holy Spirit, and are in intimate union with God, we still feel alone at times. Maybe we feel alone because our union with God is invisible. Remember that you are connected to Him through Love-bonds that cannot be seen and that nothing, absolutely nothing, can severe. Today, try and meditate on the fact that God is nearer than you think…He is richly present in all your moments. Be aware of His presence…Put your hand on your heart and feel your heartbeat, and say “God is really in my heart…just because I don’t feel it sometimes, He really is always pumping in my life!” This is not an escape from reality; it is in fact turning to the ultimate reality. He is far more real than the world you can see, hear, or touch. Click here to share with the stepping stone community your thoughts on feeling close or distant from God.
Prayer
Dear Father,
At times You feel so far away. Help me Father to open my eyes so that I may find You everywhere. Increase my spiritual radar and IQ. The more aware I am of Your presence in my life, the more secure I feel. I need You Father. Blazing missiles of fear are flying at me day and night…the attacks from the evil one come at me without rest. Build my faith Father so that I may be certain of what I cannot see. I pray in the name of my savior Jesus Christ, and all God’s children said, – Amen!
The Truth
God did this so that men would seek him and perhaps reach out for him and find him, though he is not far from each one of us. 'For in him we live and move and have our being.' As some of your own poets have said, 'We are his offspring.'
Acts 17:27-28
Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.
Hebrews 11:1
Am I a God at hand, declares the LORD, and not a God far away? Can a man hide himself in secret places so that I cannot see him? declares the LORD. Do I not fill heaven and earth? declares the LORD.
Jeremiah 23:23-24
Do you feel your heart beating right now? Do you feel thousands, if not millions of brain cells firing right now to allow you to read this and be amazed? Do you really actually feel the love for your kids(parents, spouse, etc) right now, the moment before I just mentioned it? Do you feel the Earth spinning 800 miles per hour? Just because you don’t feel these events right now, doesn’t mean they aren’t happening. As Christians, we say that even though we’ve accepted Christ as our savior, are filled with the Holy Spirit, and are in intimate union with God, we still feel alone at times. Maybe we feel alone because our union with God is invisible. Remember that you are connected to Him through Love-bonds that cannot be seen and that nothing, absolutely nothing, can severe. Today, try and meditate on the fact that God is nearer than you think…He is richly present in all your moments. Be aware of His presence…Put your hand on your heart and feel your heartbeat, and say “God is really in my heart…just because I don’t feel it sometimes, He really is always pumping in my life!” This is not an escape from reality; it is in fact turning to the ultimate reality. He is far more real than the world you can see, hear, or touch. Click here to share with the stepping stone community your thoughts on feeling close or distant from God.
Prayer
Dear Father,
At times You feel so far away. Help me Father to open my eyes so that I may find You everywhere. Increase my spiritual radar and IQ. The more aware I am of Your presence in my life, the more secure I feel. I need You Father. Blazing missiles of fear are flying at me day and night…the attacks from the evil one come at me without rest. Build my faith Father so that I may be certain of what I cannot see. I pray in the name of my savior Jesus Christ, and all God’s children said, – Amen!
The Truth
God did this so that men would seek him and perhaps reach out for him and find him, though he is not far from each one of us. 'For in him we live and move and have our being.' As some of your own poets have said, 'We are his offspring.'
Acts 17:27-28
Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.
Hebrews 11:1
Am I a God at hand, declares the LORD, and not a God far away? Can a man hide himself in secret places so that I cannot see him? declares the LORD. Do I not fill heaven and earth? declares the LORD.
Jeremiah 23:23-24
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