Transformational Thought
We just finished sweet 16 birthday parties for my middle daughter, Nicole. She even gets us to celebrate her half-birthday in April. She was blessed with nice gifts from friends and a good chunk of gift money, so we asked her if she had anything in mind to buy. She started, “Dad, I need a …” then stopped as she saw that reflexive look on my face when I hear, “I need…” And so she restated, “Dad, I would like to get an iPod touch so baldy.”
I need a ride. I need some love. I need some sleep. I need an answer. I need some money. I need a man. I need a drink. I need that part. I need my Starbucks. I need to scream. I need to take charge. I need to put my spouse/kid down. I need a job. I need a break. I need help. I need a touchdown. We were all needy…in fact, we were born very needy. We all need a ….SAVIOR. However, there are two types of people; those who are needy and recognize their real insufficiencies, and those who are needy but are totally unaware of their real inadequacies, and think they need many superficial things.
Recognizing the extent of your need for God is a blessing. Even though Satan tries to distract us from recognizing our need for God, we know we can’t meet all our needs by ourselves or through the trappings of this world. We do know, deep inside, the breadth and depth of our need. But, recognition is only half the battle. The other half is turning to Him rather than to idolatrous substitutes to fill our emptiness, to give us purpose or identity, or to soothe our hurts.
Turning to our Lord with daily intentionality will always be a challenge for us…will always be the toughest part of the battle. Why? For the first 10-20 years of our life, we were conditioned to take care of ourselves, to become independent. As adults, we are constantly bombarded and influenced by the heaviness of this fallen world. We choose immediate comfort over real and lasting sustenance. While on this earth you will have to contend with this spiritual-emotional “gravity” pulling you away from Him.
Today, when you face an “I need” moment, stop and ask God to show you whether it is a need or a want. If you are honest, the answer should be fairly clear. Next, exert some self-control over your initial comfort-driven impulse, and try to really address the underlying issue. Then look to His instruction manual to find what He has promised and provided for you. Remember, immediate answers aren’t necessary and you really can handle waiting if you will recognize His power and sovereignty. Your decision, choose well.
Prayer
Dear Father God, With each passing day, I recognize how desperately I need You. I do want You to be the center of my life…and I am trying to keep You there. But You know, Father, how easily I get distracted…how my thoughts wander away from You. I grope for You, Father; I need Your help, all the time. Help me understand those distractions as idols and help me learn how to close my ears to their falsely soothing coos. I pray these words in the name of the One who died for all my needs, Jesus Christ; and all God’s people say - AMEN!
The Truth
But he answered, "It is written, "'Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.'
Matthew 4:4
So that they should seek the Lord, in the hope that they might grope for Him and find Him, though He is not far from each one of us;
Acts 17:27
For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching a light, and the reproofs of discipline are the way of life, to preserve you from the evil woman, from the smooth tongue of the adulteress. Do not desire her beauty in your heart, and do not let her capture you with her eyelashes; for the price of a prostitute is only a loaf of bread, but a married woman hunts down a precious life.
Proverbs 6:23-26
Showing posts with label Suffering. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Suffering. Show all posts
Monday, October 3, 2011
Friday, July 22, 2011
Stepping Stones: Divide Your Pain, Multiple Your Joy
Transformational Thought
Most of us are very selective about the parts of our lives we bring to God. We hesitate to bring traits that we consider shameful … partly because we actually believe He doesn’t see them, and partly because we are ashamed to even think about them again. Some of us are so used to living with pain, loneliness, guilt, fear, anxiety, and stress that it never occurs to us to ask for help in dealing with these problems. We assume help is not available and this pain is an unavoidable and guaranteed sentence from which there is no relief.
Some seem to believe they accumulate degree-of-difficulty points (like in diving) for overcoming the most hardships and pain, commonly called the martyr syndrome or victim mentality. For others, pain of some kind has been such an integral part of growing up that, in a weird way, it is hard for them to navigate life without the pain. These people seem to sabotage success, or even go out of their way to create problems. Sometimes, we get so preoccupied with our struggles, we even forget God is with us and will provide help.
God really desires to heal the hurting parts of your life. However, some of the pain has been with you so long, it becomes part of your identity. Sometimes you are so addicted to certain painful patterns that it’s difficult to break free from them. Only repeatedly exposing them to God’s healing presence will bring you long-term healing and freedom.
Today, turn to your Lord when you are hurting. He will share and reduce your pain. Remember, the Bible is the book about suffering, especially spiritual suffering. The Bible tells how God loved us so much that He miraculously provided a way for ultimate healing. He also has many promises for the smaller daily sufferings we experience. Turn to your Lord when you are in pain and rejoice in these circumstances remembering He is with you. He has joy, peace, and comfort, as well as a message for you. He is communicating through your pain. Click here for a resource to help navigate your pain.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I am so grateful to you, Lord, grateful that I can come to you no matter what condition I am in … just as I am. Thank You, Father. I am relieved that I don’t have to “clean up my act” before I come to You; You already know the worst about me. When I am hurting, I want to be with someone who understands me without condemning me. When I am happy, I delight in being with someone who loves me enough to celebrate with me. I pray that You help me bring more and more of myself to You. I pray this and all prayers in the name of the one who divides my pain and multiplies my joy, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children say - AMEN!
The Truth
The LORD has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy.
Psalm 126:3
Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus
Romans 8:1
Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you. Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world. And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.
1 Peter 5:6-10
The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he hath anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor; he hath sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to set the captives free, and recover sight to the blind, and to set at liberty them that are bruised,
Luke 4:18
Most of us are very selective about the parts of our lives we bring to God. We hesitate to bring traits that we consider shameful … partly because we actually believe He doesn’t see them, and partly because we are ashamed to even think about them again. Some of us are so used to living with pain, loneliness, guilt, fear, anxiety, and stress that it never occurs to us to ask for help in dealing with these problems. We assume help is not available and this pain is an unavoidable and guaranteed sentence from which there is no relief.
Some seem to believe they accumulate degree-of-difficulty points (like in diving) for overcoming the most hardships and pain, commonly called the martyr syndrome or victim mentality. For others, pain of some kind has been such an integral part of growing up that, in a weird way, it is hard for them to navigate life without the pain. These people seem to sabotage success, or even go out of their way to create problems. Sometimes, we get so preoccupied with our struggles, we even forget God is with us and will provide help.
God really desires to heal the hurting parts of your life. However, some of the pain has been with you so long, it becomes part of your identity. Sometimes you are so addicted to certain painful patterns that it’s difficult to break free from them. Only repeatedly exposing them to God’s healing presence will bring you long-term healing and freedom.
Today, turn to your Lord when you are hurting. He will share and reduce your pain. Remember, the Bible is the book about suffering, especially spiritual suffering. The Bible tells how God loved us so much that He miraculously provided a way for ultimate healing. He also has many promises for the smaller daily sufferings we experience. Turn to your Lord when you are in pain and rejoice in these circumstances remembering He is with you. He has joy, peace, and comfort, as well as a message for you. He is communicating through your pain. Click here for a resource to help navigate your pain.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I am so grateful to you, Lord, grateful that I can come to you no matter what condition I am in … just as I am. Thank You, Father. I am relieved that I don’t have to “clean up my act” before I come to You; You already know the worst about me. When I am hurting, I want to be with someone who understands me without condemning me. When I am happy, I delight in being with someone who loves me enough to celebrate with me. I pray that You help me bring more and more of myself to You. I pray this and all prayers in the name of the one who divides my pain and multiplies my joy, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children say - AMEN!
The Truth
The LORD has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy.
Psalm 126:3
Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus
Romans 8:1
Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you. Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world. And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.
1 Peter 5:6-10
The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he hath anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor; he hath sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to set the captives free, and recover sight to the blind, and to set at liberty them that are bruised,
Luke 4:18
Saturday, July 16, 2011
Stepping Stones: “God, I’m Suffering! Where Are You?”
Transformational Thought
Why do people suffer? Why does God let suffering happen? These are huge questions and deserve long answers, but many have told me the devotionals are long enough! The simple answer is that we live in a fallen world. Our first parents, Adam and Eve, started this whole mess. Their choice to ignore God’s instructions and try life their own way left them and all their descendants exposed to the harsh elements of this fallen world.
Death, deterioration, disease, depression, weakness, loneliness, old age … and the rest of the long list of human ills that have plagued mankind since the beginning of time. That’s why we are in such a mess today. God didn’t do anything to us – we thought we could live life without Him. If you think Adam and Eve were stupid and you never would have bitten the apple, guess what! We bite the same apple everyday. We choose our way instead of God’s on many occasions.
God protects us from so much suffering we deserve as the result of our stupid decisions. But we don’t even notice because the suffering never occurs. A small number of times, He does allow us to suffer. But we are not alone in our suffering. While God chooses not to remove our suffering, His word tells us that He promises to be with us through every step of it. Remember that Jesus prayed to His Father the night before His death … asking Him to “let this cup pass.” God did not stop the brutal death of His Son, but He did send an angel to be with and pray with Jesus.
When we are in the heaviest storms of life, we forget to ask for God’s help, or we forget to reach out to the people that God has sent our way during the darkest days.
Today, when you are in the midst of suffering, say this simple prayer: “God, please be with me and get me through this suffering.” Then look for Him, because He is there. God always provides exactly what you need to endure the suffering. He may not tell you why you are suffering (sometimes that comes much later), but He will certainly be by your side every step of the way, and then He will use that suffering to grow you toward Christ-likeness.
Prayer
Dear Father, I am suffering today, Lord. The burdens I bear are almost too much for me to handle … I feel I am at my breaking point. Lord, please be with me … please help me through this suffering. There is so much suffering in this world. Why? Those who do not believe, and who do not want me to believe often use the world’s suffering as an example of Your non-existence. I need Your help, Your help Lord, to rebut their negativity. Give me the wisdom and the words when Your detractors attack. Help me be steadfast in trusting Your promise to be my Lighthouse … guiding and providing sanctuary in every storm of my life. In the name of my Suffering Savior, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children say - AMEN!
The Truth
But now, this is what the LORD says— he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine.
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.
Isaiah 43:1-2
Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, "My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will."
Matthew 26:39
No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.
1 Corinthians 10:13
And the LORD God commanded the man, "You are free to eat from any tree in the garden; but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat of it you will surely die."
Genesis 2:16-17
Why do people suffer? Why does God let suffering happen? These are huge questions and deserve long answers, but many have told me the devotionals are long enough! The simple answer is that we live in a fallen world. Our first parents, Adam and Eve, started this whole mess. Their choice to ignore God’s instructions and try life their own way left them and all their descendants exposed to the harsh elements of this fallen world.
Death, deterioration, disease, depression, weakness, loneliness, old age … and the rest of the long list of human ills that have plagued mankind since the beginning of time. That’s why we are in such a mess today. God didn’t do anything to us – we thought we could live life without Him. If you think Adam and Eve were stupid and you never would have bitten the apple, guess what! We bite the same apple everyday. We choose our way instead of God’s on many occasions.
God protects us from so much suffering we deserve as the result of our stupid decisions. But we don’t even notice because the suffering never occurs. A small number of times, He does allow us to suffer. But we are not alone in our suffering. While God chooses not to remove our suffering, His word tells us that He promises to be with us through every step of it. Remember that Jesus prayed to His Father the night before His death … asking Him to “let this cup pass.” God did not stop the brutal death of His Son, but He did send an angel to be with and pray with Jesus.
When we are in the heaviest storms of life, we forget to ask for God’s help, or we forget to reach out to the people that God has sent our way during the darkest days.
Today, when you are in the midst of suffering, say this simple prayer: “God, please be with me and get me through this suffering.” Then look for Him, because He is there. God always provides exactly what you need to endure the suffering. He may not tell you why you are suffering (sometimes that comes much later), but He will certainly be by your side every step of the way, and then He will use that suffering to grow you toward Christ-likeness.
Prayer
Dear Father, I am suffering today, Lord. The burdens I bear are almost too much for me to handle … I feel I am at my breaking point. Lord, please be with me … please help me through this suffering. There is so much suffering in this world. Why? Those who do not believe, and who do not want me to believe often use the world’s suffering as an example of Your non-existence. I need Your help, Your help Lord, to rebut their negativity. Give me the wisdom and the words when Your detractors attack. Help me be steadfast in trusting Your promise to be my Lighthouse … guiding and providing sanctuary in every storm of my life. In the name of my Suffering Savior, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children say - AMEN!
The Truth
But now, this is what the LORD says— he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine.
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.
Isaiah 43:1-2
Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, "My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will."
Matthew 26:39
No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.
1 Corinthians 10:13
And the LORD God commanded the man, "You are free to eat from any tree in the garden; but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat of it you will surely die."
Genesis 2:16-17
Thursday, November 4, 2010
Stepping Stones: I Need…..God
Transformational Thought
We just finished sweet 16 birthday parties for my middle daughter, Nicole. She even has us celebrating her half-birthday in April. She was blessed with nice gifts from friends and a good chunk of gift money, so we asked her if she had anything in mind to buy. She started, “Dad, I need a …” then stopped as she saw that reflexive look on my face when I hear, “I need…” And so she restated, “Dad, I would like to get an iPod touch so baldy.”
I need a ride. I need some love. I need some sleep. I need an answer. I need some money. I need a man. I need a drink. I need my Starbucks. I need a job. I need a break. I need help. We were all needy…in fact, we were born very needy. We all needed a SAVIOR. However, there are two types of people; those who are needy and recognize their insufficiencies, and those who are needy but are totally unaware of their inadequacies.
Recognizing the extent of your neediness for God is a blessing. Even though Satan tries to distract us from recognizing our need for God, we know we can’t meet all our needs by ourselves. We do know, deep inside, the breadth and depth of our need. Recognition is only half the battle, though. The other half is turning to Him rather than to idolatrous substitutes to fill our emptiness, to give us purpose or identity, or to soothe our hurts. Turning to our Lord with daily intentionality will always be the challenge…will always be the toughest part of the battle. Why? Because we are constantly bombarded and influenced by the heaviness of this fallen world. We choose immediate comfort over real sustenance. While on this earth you will have to contend with this spiritual-emotional “gravity” pulling you away from Him.
Today, when you face an “I need” moment, stop and ask God to show you whether it is a need or a want. If you are honest, the answer should be fairly clear. Next, exert some self-control over your initial comfort-driven impulse, and try to really address the underlying issue. Then look to His instruction manual to find what He has promised and provided for you. Remember, immediate answers aren’t necessary and you really can handle waiting if you will recognize His power and sovereignty.
Prayer
Dear Father God, With each passing day I recognize how desperately I need You. I do want You to be the center of my life…and I am trying to keep You there. But You know, Father, how easily I get distracted…how my thoughts wander away from You. I grope for You Father; I need Your help all the time. Help me understand those distractions as idols and help me learn how to close my ears to their falsely soothing coos. I pray these words in the name of the One who died for all my needs, Jesus Christ; and all God’s people said, - AMEN!
The Truth
But he answered, "It is written, "'Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.'
Matthew 4:4
So that they should seek the Lord, in the hope that they might grope for Him and find Him, though He is not far from each one of us;
Acts 17:27
For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching a light, and the reproofs of discipline are the way of life, to preserve you from the evil woman, from the smooth tongue of the adulteress. Do not desire her beauty in your heart, and do not let her capture you with her eyelashes; for the price of a prostitute is only a loaf of bread, but a married woman hunts down a precious life.
Proverbs 6:23-26
We just finished sweet 16 birthday parties for my middle daughter, Nicole. She even has us celebrating her half-birthday in April. She was blessed with nice gifts from friends and a good chunk of gift money, so we asked her if she had anything in mind to buy. She started, “Dad, I need a …” then stopped as she saw that reflexive look on my face when I hear, “I need…” And so she restated, “Dad, I would like to get an iPod touch so baldy.”
I need a ride. I need some love. I need some sleep. I need an answer. I need some money. I need a man. I need a drink. I need my Starbucks. I need a job. I need a break. I need help. We were all needy…in fact, we were born very needy. We all needed a SAVIOR. However, there are two types of people; those who are needy and recognize their insufficiencies, and those who are needy but are totally unaware of their inadequacies.
Recognizing the extent of your neediness for God is a blessing. Even though Satan tries to distract us from recognizing our need for God, we know we can’t meet all our needs by ourselves. We do know, deep inside, the breadth and depth of our need. Recognition is only half the battle, though. The other half is turning to Him rather than to idolatrous substitutes to fill our emptiness, to give us purpose or identity, or to soothe our hurts. Turning to our Lord with daily intentionality will always be the challenge…will always be the toughest part of the battle. Why? Because we are constantly bombarded and influenced by the heaviness of this fallen world. We choose immediate comfort over real sustenance. While on this earth you will have to contend with this spiritual-emotional “gravity” pulling you away from Him.
Today, when you face an “I need” moment, stop and ask God to show you whether it is a need or a want. If you are honest, the answer should be fairly clear. Next, exert some self-control over your initial comfort-driven impulse, and try to really address the underlying issue. Then look to His instruction manual to find what He has promised and provided for you. Remember, immediate answers aren’t necessary and you really can handle waiting if you will recognize His power and sovereignty.
Prayer
Dear Father God, With each passing day I recognize how desperately I need You. I do want You to be the center of my life…and I am trying to keep You there. But You know, Father, how easily I get distracted…how my thoughts wander away from You. I grope for You Father; I need Your help all the time. Help me understand those distractions as idols and help me learn how to close my ears to their falsely soothing coos. I pray these words in the name of the One who died for all my needs, Jesus Christ; and all God’s people said, - AMEN!
The Truth
But he answered, "It is written, "'Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.'
Matthew 4:4
So that they should seek the Lord, in the hope that they might grope for Him and find Him, though He is not far from each one of us;
Acts 17:27
For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching a light, and the reproofs of discipline are the way of life, to preserve you from the evil woman, from the smooth tongue of the adulteress. Do not desire her beauty in your heart, and do not let her capture you with her eyelashes; for the price of a prostitute is only a loaf of bread, but a married woman hunts down a precious life.
Proverbs 6:23-26
Monday, August 30, 2010
Stepping Stones: Divide Your Pain, Multiple Your Joy
Note: Rejoice! Today marks the mailing of our 1,000,000th Stepping Stones. We know many more have been read on websites and facebook as well as faithful readers using them in other ministries and forwarding it to bless others. Thank you so much, as God has used you to bless and encourage others and us. Let’s get after 2 million!
Transformational Thought
Most of us are so selective about which parts we bring to God. We hesitate to bring traits that we consider shameful…partly because we actually believe He doesn’t see them, and partly because we are ashamed to even think about it again. Some of us are so used to living with pain, feeling loneliness, guilt, fear – that it never occurs to us to ask for help in dealing with these problems. We assume help is not available and this pain is an unavoidable part of life.
For some, they seem to believe there are degree of difficulty points (like diving) for overcoming the most hardship…for others, pain of some kind has been such an integral part of their growing up, that in a weird way, it is hard for them to navigate life without the pain. Sometimes, we get so preoccupied with our struggles, why they are there and how to dig out, that we even forget that God is actually with us and will provide help.
God really desires to heal your hurting parts. However some of the pain has been with you so long, it becomes part of your identity. Sometimes you are so addicted to certain painful patterns that it’s difficult to break free from them. Only repeatedly exposing them to God’s healing presence will bring you long-term healing and freedom.
Today, turn to your Lord when you are hurting; He will share and reduce your pain. Remember, the Bible is a book about suffering, our spiritual suffering, and how God loved us so much and miraculously provided a way for ultimate healing. He also has many promises for the smaller, daily sufferings we experience. Turn to the Lord when you are in pain and rejoice in these circumstances as He is with you. He has a joy, peace, and comfort, as well as a message for you He is communicating through your pain.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I am so grateful to you, Lord, that I can come to you not matter what condition I am in…just as I am. Thank You, Father. I am relieved that I don’t have to “clean up my act” before I come to You; you already know the worst about me. When I am hurting, I want to be with someone who understands me without condemning me. When I am happy, I delight in being with someone who loves me enough to celebrate with me. I pray that You help me bring more and more of myself to You. I pray this and all prayers in the name of the one who divides my pain and multiplies my joy, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children say - AMEN!
The Truth
The LORD has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy.
Psalm 126:3
Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus
Romans 8:1
Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.
Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world. And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.
1 Peter 5:6-10
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Stepping Stones: “God, I’m Suffering. Where Are You?”
Transformational Thought
Why do people suffer? Why does God let suffering happen? These are huge questions and deserve long answers, but the simple answer is that we live in a fallen world. Our first parents, Adam and Eve, started this whole mess. Their choice to ignore God’s instruction and try life their own way, left them and all their descendants exposed to the harsh elements of this fallen world.
Death, deterioration, disease, depression, weakness, loneliness, old age…and all the rest of the long list of human ills that have plagued mankind since the beginning of time. That’s why we are in such a mess today. God didn’t do anything to us – we thought we could live life without Him. If you think Adam and Eve were stupid and you never would have bitten the apple, guess what, we bite our own apple everyday. We choose our way instead of God’s on many occasions.
But we are not alone in our suffering. While God many times chooses not to remove our suffering, His word tells us that He promises to be with us through every step of our suffering. Remember that Jesus prayed to his Father the night before his death…asking him to “let this cup pass.” God did not stop the brutal death of his Son, but He did send an angel to be with and pray with Jesus.
When we are in the heaviest rain of the storms of our life, we forget to ask for God’s help, or we forget to reach out to the people that God has sent our way during the darkest days.
Today, When you are in the midst of suffering, say this simple prayer: “God, please be with me and get me through this suffering.” Then look for Him, because He is there. God always provides exactly what you need to endure the suffering. He may not tell you why you are suffering (sometimes that comes much later), but He will certainly be by your side every step of the way, and then He will use that suffering to grow you toward Christ-likeness.
Prayer
Dear Father, I am suffering today, Lord. The burdens I bear are almost too much for me to handle…I feel I am at my breaking point. Lord, please be with me…please help me through this suffering. There is so much suffering in this world; why? Those who do not believe, and who do not want me to believe, often use the world’s suffering as an example of Your non-existence. I need Your help, Your help Lord, to rebut their negativity; give me the wisdom and the words when Your detractors attack. Help me be steadfast in trusting Your promises of being my Lighthouse of guidance and sanctuary during these storms of my life. In the name of my Suffering Savior, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children say - AMEN!
The Truth
But now, this is what the LORD says— he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine.
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.
Isaiah 43:1-2
Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, "My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will."
Matthew 26:39
No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.
1 Corinthians 10:13
And the LORD God commanded the man, "You are free to eat from any tree in the garden; but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat of it you will surely die."
Genesis 2:16-17
Sunday, June 27, 2010
Stepping Stones: Even in Darkness, Light Dawns
Transformational Tip
How many of us, deep down, believe we deserve a trouble-free life? And even if we don’t feel we deserve it, we certainly desire that problem-free life. What do we really deserve? The wages of sin is death.
From the first sin of Eve and Adam, with the consequences of separation from God, shame, pain in childbirth (and childrearing) and toiling in the field, to the consequences of our own sin, when we sin, we deserve death. Everything we get….breathing, walking, thinking, house, family, heat, food….is all way more than we deserve, and is total grace from God. Amazing how we get so entitled and believe we deserve all we get…. believing we actually deserve even more than we get now.
Instead of being happy about the 38 cancer free years we enjoyed, we are bitter as we know we “deserved” better. Instead of being happy about the 8 years we had with our son, we ruminate and believe we were entitled to more time with him when he dies. Just because we had something (good things or the lack of bad things) yesterday, we feel entitled to have it again today(job, finances, college, friendship, health, etc). Jesus tells us clearly in John 16:33 that we will have trouble in this world, and that we will only find peace in Him. No pain, no gain.
Today, let go of the illusion of the trouble-free life and begin turning your focus toward your Lord during the dark times; for “Even in darkness light dawns…” and show God you trust His prescription and provision for your life more than your own plan.
Prayer
Dear Father, Please help me give up the belief that I deserve a problem-free life. I remain constantly hungry for solutions for all difficulties in my life. I know now that this is false hope, for You tell me through Your word, that in this world, I will have trouble. Instead of me seeking perfection in this fallen world, help me focus my energy on seeking You…the only perfect One. I know and believe that it is possible to enjoy You and glorify You in the midst of adverse situations and circumstances. In fact, You have taught me that Your light shines most brightly through believers who trust You while they are in the dark. I thank You, Lord, for the Christians you have placed in my life. The kind of trust I see them having in You is clearly supernatural…only possible by Your Spirit living within them. It’s so beautiful and encouraging to see their hearts so steadfast, trusting in You Lord. I pray this in the name of the One who was perfect and really deserved the trouble free life, but suffered instead for me, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children say - AMEN!
The Truth
I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.
John 16:33
For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 6:23
Even in darkness light dawns for the upright, for the gracious and compassionate and righteous man.He will have no fear of bad news; his heart is steadfast, trusting in the LORD.
Psalm 112:4 and 7
How many of us, deep down, believe we deserve a trouble-free life? And even if we don’t feel we deserve it, we certainly desire that problem-free life. What do we really deserve? The wages of sin is death.
From the first sin of Eve and Adam, with the consequences of separation from God, shame, pain in childbirth (and childrearing) and toiling in the field, to the consequences of our own sin, when we sin, we deserve death. Everything we get….breathing, walking, thinking, house, family, heat, food….is all way more than we deserve, and is total grace from God. Amazing how we get so entitled and believe we deserve all we get…. believing we actually deserve even more than we get now.
Instead of being happy about the 38 cancer free years we enjoyed, we are bitter as we know we “deserved” better. Instead of being happy about the 8 years we had with our son, we ruminate and believe we were entitled to more time with him when he dies. Just because we had something (good things or the lack of bad things) yesterday, we feel entitled to have it again today(job, finances, college, friendship, health, etc). Jesus tells us clearly in John 16:33 that we will have trouble in this world, and that we will only find peace in Him. No pain, no gain.
Today, let go of the illusion of the trouble-free life and begin turning your focus toward your Lord during the dark times; for “Even in darkness light dawns…” and show God you trust His prescription and provision for your life more than your own plan.
Prayer
Dear Father, Please help me give up the belief that I deserve a problem-free life. I remain constantly hungry for solutions for all difficulties in my life. I know now that this is false hope, for You tell me through Your word, that in this world, I will have trouble. Instead of me seeking perfection in this fallen world, help me focus my energy on seeking You…the only perfect One. I know and believe that it is possible to enjoy You and glorify You in the midst of adverse situations and circumstances. In fact, You have taught me that Your light shines most brightly through believers who trust You while they are in the dark. I thank You, Lord, for the Christians you have placed in my life. The kind of trust I see them having in You is clearly supernatural…only possible by Your Spirit living within them. It’s so beautiful and encouraging to see their hearts so steadfast, trusting in You Lord. I pray this in the name of the One who was perfect and really deserved the trouble free life, but suffered instead for me, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children say - AMEN!
The Truth
I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.
John 16:33
For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 6:23
Even in darkness light dawns for the upright, for the gracious and compassionate and righteous man.He will have no fear of bad news; his heart is steadfast, trusting in the LORD.
Psalm 112:4 and 7
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Stepping Stones: How Long, Lord?
Transformational Tip
God tells us throughout scripture that he is there...that he will rescue us. Yet there is something about God’s rescues that make them a little less timely than dialing 911. He leaves Abraham with his knife raised and ready to plunge into Isaac’s heart, and Isaac waiting for the knife to descend; he leaves Joseph languishing for years in an Egyptian prison; he allows the Israelites to suffer four hundred years of bondage under the Egyptians. He abandons Jesus to the cross and does not rescue him at all. And then there are those of us who are groaning under the weight of things gone wrong, waiting for that same Jesus to return and sweep us up with him in power and glory. “How long, Lord?” we whisper in our weariness and pain. Satan wants us to think God will never come, or if He comes to our rescue, it will be too late. God is the perfect coach, teacher, and parent…He knows exactly how long we need to struggle in a drill, project, or adversity for us to develop more maturity, resiliency…the mind of Christ.
Today, when God calls you to battles where the deck appears stacked in favor of those who are His enemies and ours, go fight that battle. Don’t cave in and engage in dysfunctional behavior, do what is right, what is God honoring. This will empower you spiritually, psychologically, and actually strengthen your brain chemistry. Forget about how long the rescue will take…rest in God’s perfect timing. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on impatience…God’s timing vs. your wants.
Prayer
Dear Father God, You are awesome and so powerful over everything, including time. I confess, time still matters to me…too much.. I come to you tired and full of pain. I pray and I wait for you to rescue me. I confess Father that I grow impatient. Help me Father to know and remember that you are in control…that it is your timing I must adhere to and accept. How long must I wait Lord? Help me humble myself to Your timeline, Your will, Your plan for me. Help me know Your love for me…that You do care about what happens to me. I pray in the name of He who was my timeless Savior, Christ Jesus; and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
Then I said, "Ah, Lord GOD! Behold, I do not know how to speak, for I am only a youth." But the LORD said to me, "Do not say, 'I am only a youth'; for to all to whom I send you, you shall go, and whatever I command you, you shall speak. Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you to deliver you, declares the LORD."
Jeremiah 1:6-8
But when Christ had offered for all time a single sacrifice for sins, he sat down at the right hand of God, waiting from that time until his enemies should be made a footstool for his feet. For by a single offering he has perfected for all time those who are being sanctified.
Hebrews 10:12-14
God tells us throughout scripture that he is there...that he will rescue us. Yet there is something about God’s rescues that make them a little less timely than dialing 911. He leaves Abraham with his knife raised and ready to plunge into Isaac’s heart, and Isaac waiting for the knife to descend; he leaves Joseph languishing for years in an Egyptian prison; he allows the Israelites to suffer four hundred years of bondage under the Egyptians. He abandons Jesus to the cross and does not rescue him at all. And then there are those of us who are groaning under the weight of things gone wrong, waiting for that same Jesus to return and sweep us up with him in power and glory. “How long, Lord?” we whisper in our weariness and pain. Satan wants us to think God will never come, or if He comes to our rescue, it will be too late. God is the perfect coach, teacher, and parent…He knows exactly how long we need to struggle in a drill, project, or adversity for us to develop more maturity, resiliency…the mind of Christ.
Today, when God calls you to battles where the deck appears stacked in favor of those who are His enemies and ours, go fight that battle. Don’t cave in and engage in dysfunctional behavior, do what is right, what is God honoring. This will empower you spiritually, psychologically, and actually strengthen your brain chemistry. Forget about how long the rescue will take…rest in God’s perfect timing. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on impatience…God’s timing vs. your wants.
Prayer
Dear Father God, You are awesome and so powerful over everything, including time. I confess, time still matters to me…too much.. I come to you tired and full of pain. I pray and I wait for you to rescue me. I confess Father that I grow impatient. Help me Father to know and remember that you are in control…that it is your timing I must adhere to and accept. How long must I wait Lord? Help me humble myself to Your timeline, Your will, Your plan for me. Help me know Your love for me…that You do care about what happens to me. I pray in the name of He who was my timeless Savior, Christ Jesus; and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
Then I said, "Ah, Lord GOD! Behold, I do not know how to speak, for I am only a youth." But the LORD said to me, "Do not say, 'I am only a youth'; for to all to whom I send you, you shall go, and whatever I command you, you shall speak. Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you to deliver you, declares the LORD."
Jeremiah 1:6-8
But when Christ had offered for all time a single sacrifice for sins, he sat down at the right hand of God, waiting from that time until his enemies should be made a footstool for his feet. For by a single offering he has perfected for all time those who are being sanctified.
Hebrews 10:12-14
Monday, September 21, 2009
Stepping Stones: Why Aren't I in Heaven Now?
Transformational Tip
We live in a world filled with heartache, sin and despair. Even God’s people are finding the difficulties of life a daily struggle. But the truth is that God never intended the lives of His children to be anything but happy. Our misery is self-induced. In fact, God’s plan is that whatever our circumstances in this life may be, we can have perfect happiness, peace and stability in an unstable world. This is one way that we glorify God. He has provided everything we need to accomplish His plan. Just think, when He saved us from the death sentence of sin, (“for the wages of sin is death”) the ideal next step (in our plan) would have been to immediately transport us to heaven and bypass life on this earth. But that is not His plan. His plan is to “grow us” from babes in Christ to mature Christians, refined by the fiery trials of life and brought forth as pure gold, demonstrating to an unbelieving world that He is an all sufficient God.
Today, if you are weary and worn from the pressures of life today, and think God made a mistake keeping you here on Earth, read Psalm 23. Identify what you are afraid of and why…because that blocks you from enjoying His promised peace and comfort. Click here to comment on this 3 day series on suffering, the peace He gives you, or what you think blocks His peace.
Prayer
Father, thank You for Your precious Word that stabilizes my soul and removes the doubts and fears that come from my difficulty applying my head knowledge to my everyday belief system. It is more precious than silver or gold, or anything that this weary world has to offer. You do not owe me a single thing Father, yet You faithfully keep blessing and keeping me through the storms of life. I can never begin to thank You enough for all You have done for me. Great is Thy faithfulness! The old hymn says it so beautifully:
Great is Thy faithfulness,
Great is Thy faithfulness,
Morning by morning new mercies I see.
All I have needed Thy hand hath provided,
Great is Thy faithfulness,
Lord unto me.
The Truth
When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow thee: when thou walkest through the fire, thou shalt not be burned; neither shall the flame kindle upon thee. For I am the Lord the God…”
We live in a world filled with heartache, sin and despair. Even God’s people are finding the difficulties of life a daily struggle. But the truth is that God never intended the lives of His children to be anything but happy. Our misery is self-induced. In fact, God’s plan is that whatever our circumstances in this life may be, we can have perfect happiness, peace and stability in an unstable world. This is one way that we glorify God. He has provided everything we need to accomplish His plan. Just think, when He saved us from the death sentence of sin, (“for the wages of sin is death”) the ideal next step (in our plan) would have been to immediately transport us to heaven and bypass life on this earth. But that is not His plan. His plan is to “grow us” from babes in Christ to mature Christians, refined by the fiery trials of life and brought forth as pure gold, demonstrating to an unbelieving world that He is an all sufficient God.
Today, if you are weary and worn from the pressures of life today, and think God made a mistake keeping you here on Earth, read Psalm 23. Identify what you are afraid of and why…because that blocks you from enjoying His promised peace and comfort. Click here to comment on this 3 day series on suffering, the peace He gives you, or what you think blocks His peace.
Prayer
Father, thank You for Your precious Word that stabilizes my soul and removes the doubts and fears that come from my difficulty applying my head knowledge to my everyday belief system. It is more precious than silver or gold, or anything that this weary world has to offer. You do not owe me a single thing Father, yet You faithfully keep blessing and keeping me through the storms of life. I can never begin to thank You enough for all You have done for me. Great is Thy faithfulness! The old hymn says it so beautifully:
Great is Thy faithfulness,
Great is Thy faithfulness,
Morning by morning new mercies I see.
All I have needed Thy hand hath provided,
Great is Thy faithfulness,
Lord unto me.
The Truth
When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow thee: when thou walkest through the fire, thou shalt not be burned; neither shall the flame kindle upon thee. For I am the Lord the God…”
Psalm 43:2-3
before me there was no God formed, neither shall there be after me. I, even I, am the Lord; and beside me there is no savior.
Psalm 43:10-11
before me there was no God formed, neither shall there be after me. I, even I, am the Lord; and beside me there is no savior.
Psalm 43:10-11
Sunday, September 20, 2009
Stepping Stones: Cool in the FIre
Transformational Tip
Today we will look at the suffering of three men, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah, three young Hebrew men taken captive to Babylon by King Nebuchadnezzar. They are better known by their Babylonian names, Shadrack, Meshach and Abednigo. Early in their captivity King Nebuchadnezzar erected a 90’ high image made of gold (Dan. 3:1) and commanded ALL the people in the land to bow down and worship it. If they did not, the sentence was immediate death (v.6) in a burning, fiery furnace. These three men refused to obey. The king was furious (v.14&15) but gives them an opportunity to save themselves by bowing to and worshipping the image. He further asserts his human authority by insulting the ability of their God to rescue them from imminent death. The three answered the king in a most remarkable way; “O Nebuchadnezzar,…IF it be so, OUR God whom WE serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and He will deliver us out of THINE hand, o king, BUT IF NOT, (maybe He will or maybe He won’t!) Be it known unto thee, o king, that WE WILL NOT serve thy gods, nor worship the golden image…” (v.16-18). The furnace was heated more than usual, so hot in fact, that it consumed the men who threw them in. Though they had no guarantee of deliverance, God not only delivered them without even the smell of fire on their clothes, but the Lord Jesus Christ was with them in the midst of the furnace. They put their confidence in the true and living God. How about you?
Today, perhaps you find yourself in a fiery furnace of suffering that God is using more for those around you than for yourself. It may be that God has chosen you so that He can reveal Himself and His divine purposes to others. If that is your case, remember James’ admonition to “count it all joy…” Trust God’s love for you and the role He has designed for you in His kingdom. Click here to comment (anonymously if you want) about how God used you during tough times.
Prayer
Dear Father, may I have that wonderfully unique and intimate relationship with You as Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego did. For it caused them to faithfully serve and follow You, through the uncertainty of death, with no guarantee that You would deliver them. What is even more wonderful, Father, is their love for You…to boldly face the king with truth that this world neither understands or desires. Father, increase my faith that I may be that vessel that is useful to you, and glorifies the Lord Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, - AMEN!
The Truth
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me.
Psalm 23:4
…Lord I believe, help thou my unbelief.
Mark 9:24
Today we will look at the suffering of three men, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah, three young Hebrew men taken captive to Babylon by King Nebuchadnezzar. They are better known by their Babylonian names, Shadrack, Meshach and Abednigo. Early in their captivity King Nebuchadnezzar erected a 90’ high image made of gold (Dan. 3:1) and commanded ALL the people in the land to bow down and worship it. If they did not, the sentence was immediate death (v.6) in a burning, fiery furnace. These three men refused to obey. The king was furious (v.14&15) but gives them an opportunity to save themselves by bowing to and worshipping the image. He further asserts his human authority by insulting the ability of their God to rescue them from imminent death. The three answered the king in a most remarkable way; “O Nebuchadnezzar,…IF it be so, OUR God whom WE serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and He will deliver us out of THINE hand, o king, BUT IF NOT, (maybe He will or maybe He won’t!) Be it known unto thee, o king, that WE WILL NOT serve thy gods, nor worship the golden image…” (v.16-18). The furnace was heated more than usual, so hot in fact, that it consumed the men who threw them in. Though they had no guarantee of deliverance, God not only delivered them without even the smell of fire on their clothes, but the Lord Jesus Christ was with them in the midst of the furnace. They put their confidence in the true and living God. How about you?
Today, perhaps you find yourself in a fiery furnace of suffering that God is using more for those around you than for yourself. It may be that God has chosen you so that He can reveal Himself and His divine purposes to others. If that is your case, remember James’ admonition to “count it all joy…” Trust God’s love for you and the role He has designed for you in His kingdom. Click here to comment (anonymously if you want) about how God used you during tough times.
Prayer
Dear Father, may I have that wonderfully unique and intimate relationship with You as Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego did. For it caused them to faithfully serve and follow You, through the uncertainty of death, with no guarantee that You would deliver them. What is even more wonderful, Father, is their love for You…to boldly face the king with truth that this world neither understands or desires. Father, increase my faith that I may be that vessel that is useful to you, and glorifies the Lord Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, - AMEN!
The Truth
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me.
Psalm 23:4
…Lord I believe, help thou my unbelief.
Mark 9:24
Saturday, September 19, 2009
Stepping Stones: The Antidote for Suffering
Transformational Tip
I’ve been thinking about suffering. At some point in our lives we will all be affected by it whether it is a friend, loved one, or ourselves. I’m sure that you are all familiar with the usual response; “Why does God allow us to suffer?” There are many reasons. Sometimes it is God’s discipline. It is the only way He may be able to get our attention. When we are not living for Him, as we should, He will take the necessary steps as a loving father would, to provide the circumstances to bring us back to Him. Sometimes personal suffering is not for us, but designed for the benefit of those around us. Sometimes suffering is simply due to the fact that we live in a world filled with heartache and sin. But you need to know that whatever the reason for your suffering, God has not, nor will ever abandon you. He is completely able to deliver you. But what He chooses to do is for our best and for His purposes.
Today, perhaps you find yourself in the midst of suffering today. It can be a deep, dark, valley of heartache and despair. All He requires from you is faith and obedience. The old hymn says it best: Trust and obey, for there’s no other way, To be happy in Jesus, but to trust and obey. Try trusting and obeying and see what God does. Click here to comment (anonymously if you want) about why you have trouble trusting and obeying during difficult times.
Prayer
Father, You have told us in your Word to “be thankful in all things.” That means suffering also. Thank You for teaching me, using me, or whatever Your divine purpose may be. In my weakness, Father, I need Your strength which You’ve promised to give in measure, not for next week but for now, moment by moment. Thank You, Father, for keeping every promise You have ever made…”therefore my soul trusteth in Thee.” In Jesus comforting name, and all God’s children said, -AMEN!
The Truth
My brethren, (believers only), count it all joy when ye fall into divers (all sorts of) temptations: (suffering, trials, pressures of life)
James 1:2
But if ye suffer for righteousness’ sake, happy are ye:
1 Peter 3:14
I’ve been thinking about suffering. At some point in our lives we will all be affected by it whether it is a friend, loved one, or ourselves. I’m sure that you are all familiar with the usual response; “Why does God allow us to suffer?” There are many reasons. Sometimes it is God’s discipline. It is the only way He may be able to get our attention. When we are not living for Him, as we should, He will take the necessary steps as a loving father would, to provide the circumstances to bring us back to Him. Sometimes personal suffering is not for us, but designed for the benefit of those around us. Sometimes suffering is simply due to the fact that we live in a world filled with heartache and sin. But you need to know that whatever the reason for your suffering, God has not, nor will ever abandon you. He is completely able to deliver you. But what He chooses to do is for our best and for His purposes.
Today, perhaps you find yourself in the midst of suffering today. It can be a deep, dark, valley of heartache and despair. All He requires from you is faith and obedience. The old hymn says it best: Trust and obey, for there’s no other way, To be happy in Jesus, but to trust and obey. Try trusting and obeying and see what God does. Click here to comment (anonymously if you want) about why you have trouble trusting and obeying during difficult times.
Prayer
Father, You have told us in your Word to “be thankful in all things.” That means suffering also. Thank You for teaching me, using me, or whatever Your divine purpose may be. In my weakness, Father, I need Your strength which You’ve promised to give in measure, not for next week but for now, moment by moment. Thank You, Father, for keeping every promise You have ever made…”therefore my soul trusteth in Thee.” In Jesus comforting name, and all God’s children said, -AMEN!
The Truth
My brethren, (believers only), count it all joy when ye fall into divers (all sorts of) temptations: (suffering, trials, pressures of life)
James 1:2
But if ye suffer for righteousness’ sake, happy are ye:
1 Peter 3:14
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
Stepping Stones: Trials Create Temptation
Transformational Tip
Notice in James 1:2 that he says “whenever you face trials” not If you face trials. It’s something we don’t like to face into or admit…that suffering will come. It has been my experience that with pain and suffering come great opportunities for growth. But pain and suffering also brings with it powerful temptation. Temptation to seek an escape, temptation to self medicate with sinful practices and addictions such as sex, overeating, drugs, gambling, people-pleasing, etc. It is within our human nature to try and avoid or mask the pain of trials. In fact, all our dysfunctional behaviors develop to end, minimize, or avoid present or anticipated suffering.
The Bible is THE book (and I have read many psychiatry books) about suffering. From the fall of man, Job and all the biographies, our spiritual separation from God, to Jesus’ extreme suffering, the Bible tells us how God is with us, provides a peace and comfort, and sees us through the suffering.
Today, think of trials as opportunities to demonstrate your trust in God…even thanking Him for them…this is one of the highest forms of praise. When suffering strikes (and you know it will) remember that Your Lord and God is supreme and that he can bring good out of every circumstance in your life. Do not try to run and hide from the pain…do not try and mask it. Let your suffering gain meaning and draw you closer to God. Know that Joy can emerge from what feels like the ashes of adversity…it will emerge through your trust and thankfulness to God. Click the Past Devotional link, tell us about your trials or suffering, how we can pray for you, how it affects you, and what you can believe differently about God or the Bible to get you through this storm.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
Today I feel as if I cannot endure one more trial. I feel weak and beaten down. I’m tired of this pain and I need relief. I confess Father that I have turned to unhealthy and sinful ways to try and escape this pain…but it has only made things worse. I keep digging this hole deeper and deeper. I pray Father that You help me stop digging deeper and help me climb up out of this hole.
I pray Lord that You help me get closer to achieving the mind of Christ. Help me bear my adversity bravely and directly…and help me have a thankful heart even in the darkest hours. I pray Father that you use me to help minister Your Word and love to those within my path that are in the midst of a life’s storm. Help me guide them away from temptation and toward You…for You are the ultimate Lighthouse. I pray this in the name of my savior Jesus Christ – and all God’s people said – AMEN!
The Truth
Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.
James 1:2-4
To those who by persistence in doing good seek glory, honor and immortality, he will give eternal life.
Romans 2:7
Notice in James 1:2 that he says “whenever you face trials” not If you face trials. It’s something we don’t like to face into or admit…that suffering will come. It has been my experience that with pain and suffering come great opportunities for growth. But pain and suffering also brings with it powerful temptation. Temptation to seek an escape, temptation to self medicate with sinful practices and addictions such as sex, overeating, drugs, gambling, people-pleasing, etc. It is within our human nature to try and avoid or mask the pain of trials. In fact, all our dysfunctional behaviors develop to end, minimize, or avoid present or anticipated suffering.
The Bible is THE book (and I have read many psychiatry books) about suffering. From the fall of man, Job and all the biographies, our spiritual separation from God, to Jesus’ extreme suffering, the Bible tells us how God is with us, provides a peace and comfort, and sees us through the suffering.
Today, think of trials as opportunities to demonstrate your trust in God…even thanking Him for them…this is one of the highest forms of praise. When suffering strikes (and you know it will) remember that Your Lord and God is supreme and that he can bring good out of every circumstance in your life. Do not try to run and hide from the pain…do not try and mask it. Let your suffering gain meaning and draw you closer to God. Know that Joy can emerge from what feels like the ashes of adversity…it will emerge through your trust and thankfulness to God. Click the Past Devotional link, tell us about your trials or suffering, how we can pray for you, how it affects you, and what you can believe differently about God or the Bible to get you through this storm.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
Today I feel as if I cannot endure one more trial. I feel weak and beaten down. I’m tired of this pain and I need relief. I confess Father that I have turned to unhealthy and sinful ways to try and escape this pain…but it has only made things worse. I keep digging this hole deeper and deeper. I pray Father that You help me stop digging deeper and help me climb up out of this hole.
I pray Lord that You help me get closer to achieving the mind of Christ. Help me bear my adversity bravely and directly…and help me have a thankful heart even in the darkest hours. I pray Father that you use me to help minister Your Word and love to those within my path that are in the midst of a life’s storm. Help me guide them away from temptation and toward You…for You are the ultimate Lighthouse. I pray this in the name of my savior Jesus Christ – and all God’s people said – AMEN!
The Truth
Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.
James 1:2-4
To those who by persistence in doing good seek glory, honor and immortality, he will give eternal life.
Romans 2:7
Saturday, August 8, 2009
Stepping Stones: Character Reveals and Guides
Transformational Tip
During President Clinton's dark time, a news reporter tried to pull George Bush Sr. into a Clinton bashing session. Bush offered only two words that said it all: "Character Counts". Character is the set of outward facing qualities that tell our friends, our families, and the world who we really are on the inside. Character is the reflection of what is really at the center of our heart. It's not about the words we speak; it's about how we live our lives and the behaviors we model. Anybody can pretend and wear a mask to hide the true nature of what is on the inside. That is where pressure, stress, life's storms, a bit of adversity come into play. You see, it is much more difficult to put on a mask in the midst of challenging circumstances....it is often during those storms where people's true colors are more easily revealed. It's what makes us interesting and attractive (or not!).
So how do we develop Character? In Romans 5:3-4, Paul teaches us that suffering produces character. While it is admittedly difficult, try to see and be thankful for the fact that God is using life's difficulties...and Satan's attacks...to build your character.
God brings storms to 1. build character, 2. show us what is at the center of our heart, or 3. allow us to succeed, to shine His glory to others and guide them through their storms.
Today, take notice when things don't go your way, what is your behavior revealing about the character of your heart.
Prayer
Dear Father,
Thank You God for the opportunities you give through my difficulties to grow in Your strength. I pray that You help me develop character that pleases You and allows me to be an example of a child of Yours. I confess, Lord, that I spend too much time and energy on my image management. Help me shift that effort to improving my character. Suffering and difficulty seems to be the norm for me rather than the exception. Help me, Father, to use these difficulties and suffering to build perseverance...and use perseverance to build my character. With Godly character, hope will be strong and abundant. I ask in the name of our Suffering Servant, Jesus Christ - AMEN!
The Truth
Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.
Romans 5:3-4
But the LORD said to Samuel, "Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart."
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During President Clinton's dark time, a news reporter tried to pull George Bush Sr. into a Clinton bashing session. Bush offered only two words that said it all: "Character Counts". Character is the set of outward facing qualities that tell our friends, our families, and the world who we really are on the inside. Character is the reflection of what is really at the center of our heart. It's not about the words we speak; it's about how we live our lives and the behaviors we model. Anybody can pretend and wear a mask to hide the true nature of what is on the inside. That is where pressure, stress, life's storms, a bit of adversity come into play. You see, it is much more difficult to put on a mask in the midst of challenging circumstances....it is often during those storms where people's true colors are more easily revealed. It's what makes us interesting and attractive (or not!).
So how do we develop Character? In Romans 5:3-4, Paul teaches us that suffering produces character. While it is admittedly difficult, try to see and be thankful for the fact that God is using life's difficulties...and Satan's attacks...to build your character.
God brings storms to 1. build character, 2. show us what is at the center of our heart, or 3. allow us to succeed, to shine His glory to others and guide them through their storms.
Today, take notice when things don't go your way, what is your behavior revealing about the character of your heart.
Prayer
Dear Father,
Thank You God for the opportunities you give through my difficulties to grow in Your strength. I pray that You help me develop character that pleases You and allows me to be an example of a child of Yours. I confess, Lord, that I spend too much time and energy on my image management. Help me shift that effort to improving my character. Suffering and difficulty seems to be the norm for me rather than the exception. Help me, Father, to use these difficulties and suffering to build perseverance...and use perseverance to build my character. With Godly character, hope will be strong and abundant. I ask in the name of our Suffering Servant, Jesus Christ - AMEN!
The Truth
Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.
Romans 5:3-4
But the LORD said to Samuel, "Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart."
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Monday, July 13, 2009
Stepping Stones: Divide Your Pain, Multiply Your Joy
Transformational Tip
Most of us are so selective about which parts we bring to God. We hesitate to bring traits that we consider shameful....partly because we actually believe He doesn't see them, and partly because we are ashamed to even think about it again. Some of us are so used to living with pain, feeling loneliness, guilt, fear - that it never occurs to us to ask for help in dealing with these things. We assume help is not available and that pain is an unavoidable part of life. For some, they seem to believe there are degree of difficulty points(like diving) for overcoming the most hardship...for others, pain of some kind has been such an integral part of their growing up, that in a weird way, it is hard for them to navigate life without the pain. We get so preoccupied with our struggles, why they are there, and how to dig out, that we forget that God is even there and can provide help.
There are hurting parts of you that God desires to heal. However some of them have been with you so long they have become part of your identity. Sometimes you are so addicted to certain painful patterns that you cannot break free from them. Only repeatedly exposing them to God's healing presence will bring you long term freedom.
Today, turn to your Lord when you are hurting; he will share and reduce your pain. Remember, the Bible is a book about suffering, our spiritual suffering, and how God loved us so much and miraculously provided a way for ultimate healing. He also has many promises for the smaller sufferings we experience. Turn to the Lord when you are in pain and rejoice in these circumstances as He is with you and has a joy, peace, and comfort, as well as a message for you He is communicating through the pain.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
I am so grateful to you Lord that I can come to you not matter what condition I am in...just as I am. Thank You Father. I am relieved that I don't have to "clean up my act" before I come to You; you already know the worst about me. When I am hurting I want to be with someone who understands me without condemning me. When I am happy I delight in being with someone who loves me enough to celebrate with me. I pray that You help me bring more and more of myself to You.
I pray this and all prayers in the name of Your Son, Jesus Christ - AMEN!
The Truth
The LORD has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy.
Psalm 126:3
Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus
Romans 8:1
Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.
Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world. And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.
1 Peter 5:6-10
Most of us are so selective about which parts we bring to God. We hesitate to bring traits that we consider shameful....partly because we actually believe He doesn't see them, and partly because we are ashamed to even think about it again. Some of us are so used to living with pain, feeling loneliness, guilt, fear - that it never occurs to us to ask for help in dealing with these things. We assume help is not available and that pain is an unavoidable part of life. For some, they seem to believe there are degree of difficulty points(like diving) for overcoming the most hardship...for others, pain of some kind has been such an integral part of their growing up, that in a weird way, it is hard for them to navigate life without the pain. We get so preoccupied with our struggles, why they are there, and how to dig out, that we forget that God is even there and can provide help.
There are hurting parts of you that God desires to heal. However some of them have been with you so long they have become part of your identity. Sometimes you are so addicted to certain painful patterns that you cannot break free from them. Only repeatedly exposing them to God's healing presence will bring you long term freedom.
Today, turn to your Lord when you are hurting; he will share and reduce your pain. Remember, the Bible is a book about suffering, our spiritual suffering, and how God loved us so much and miraculously provided a way for ultimate healing. He also has many promises for the smaller sufferings we experience. Turn to the Lord when you are in pain and rejoice in these circumstances as He is with you and has a joy, peace, and comfort, as well as a message for you He is communicating through the pain.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
I am so grateful to you Lord that I can come to you not matter what condition I am in...just as I am. Thank You Father. I am relieved that I don't have to "clean up my act" before I come to You; you already know the worst about me. When I am hurting I want to be with someone who understands me without condemning me. When I am happy I delight in being with someone who loves me enough to celebrate with me. I pray that You help me bring more and more of myself to You.
I pray this and all prayers in the name of Your Son, Jesus Christ - AMEN!
The Truth
The LORD has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy.
Psalm 126:3
Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus
Romans 8:1
Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.
Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world. And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.
1 Peter 5:6-10
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Stepping Stones: God I'm Suffering, Are You There?
Transformational Tip
Why do people suffer? Why does God let suffering happen? These questions deserve long answers, but the simple answer is that we live in a fallen world. Our first parents, Adam and Eve, their choice to ignore God's instruction left them and all their descendants exposed to the harsh elements of this fallen world; death, deterioration, disease, depression, weakness, loneliness, old age...and all the rest of the long list of human ills that have plagued mankind since the beginning of time. That's why we are in such a mess today. God didn't do anything to us - we left him.
But we are not alone in our suffering. While God many times chooses not to remove our suffering, his word tells us that he promises to be with us through every step of our suffering. Remember that Jesus prayed to his Father the night before his death...asking him to "let this cup pass." God did not stop the brutal death of his son, but he did send an angel to be with and pray with Jesus.
When we are in the heaviest rain of the storms of our life we forget to ask for God's help, or we forget to reach out to the people that God has sent our way during the darkest days.
When you are in the midst of suffering, say this simple prayer: "God, please be with me and get me through this suffering." God always provides exactly what you need to endure the suffering. He may not tell you why you are suffering (sometimes that comes much later), but He will certainly be by your side every step of the way, and then use that suffering to grow you toward Christ-likeness.
Prayer
Dear Father,
I am suffering today Lord, the burdens I bear are almost too much for me to handle...I feel I am at my breaking point. Lord, please be with me...please help me through this suffering.
There is so much suffering in this world; why? Those who do not believe...and who do not want me to believe often use the world's suffering as an example of Your non-existence. I need Your help, Your help Lord to rebut their negativity; give me the wisdom and the words when Your detractors attack. Help me be steadfast in trusting Your promises of being my Lighthouse of guidance and sanctuary during these storms of my life. In the name of my Suffering Savior, Jesus - AMEN!
The Truth
But now, this is what the LORD says- he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine.
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.
Isaiah 43:1-2
Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, "My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will."
Matthew 26:39
No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.
1 Corinthians 10:13
And the LORD God commanded the man, "You are free to eat from any tree in the garden; but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat of it you will surely die."
Genesis 2:16-17
Why do people suffer? Why does God let suffering happen? These questions deserve long answers, but the simple answer is that we live in a fallen world. Our first parents, Adam and Eve, their choice to ignore God's instruction left them and all their descendants exposed to the harsh elements of this fallen world; death, deterioration, disease, depression, weakness, loneliness, old age...and all the rest of the long list of human ills that have plagued mankind since the beginning of time. That's why we are in such a mess today. God didn't do anything to us - we left him.
But we are not alone in our suffering. While God many times chooses not to remove our suffering, his word tells us that he promises to be with us through every step of our suffering. Remember that Jesus prayed to his Father the night before his death...asking him to "let this cup pass." God did not stop the brutal death of his son, but he did send an angel to be with and pray with Jesus.
When we are in the heaviest rain of the storms of our life we forget to ask for God's help, or we forget to reach out to the people that God has sent our way during the darkest days.
When you are in the midst of suffering, say this simple prayer: "God, please be with me and get me through this suffering." God always provides exactly what you need to endure the suffering. He may not tell you why you are suffering (sometimes that comes much later), but He will certainly be by your side every step of the way, and then use that suffering to grow you toward Christ-likeness.
Prayer
Dear Father,
I am suffering today Lord, the burdens I bear are almost too much for me to handle...I feel I am at my breaking point. Lord, please be with me...please help me through this suffering.
There is so much suffering in this world; why? Those who do not believe...and who do not want me to believe often use the world's suffering as an example of Your non-existence. I need Your help, Your help Lord to rebut their negativity; give me the wisdom and the words when Your detractors attack. Help me be steadfast in trusting Your promises of being my Lighthouse of guidance and sanctuary during these storms of my life. In the name of my Suffering Savior, Jesus - AMEN!
The Truth
But now, this is what the LORD says- he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine.
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.
Isaiah 43:1-2
Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, "My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will."
Matthew 26:39
No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.
1 Corinthians 10:13
And the LORD God commanded the man, "You are free to eat from any tree in the garden; but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat of it you will surely die."
Genesis 2:16-17
Friday, June 19, 2009
Stepping Stones: Will I Ever Be Happy Again?
Transformational Tip
I know so many people who have lost all happiness in their lives...they wonder if they will ever be happy again. Their unhappiness is usually an outcome of being in a very bad situation. My prayer for them; God, please bring some good out of this bad situation.
Why is this prayer always so difficult to pray when you are in the midst of a horrible situation? An illness for your self or a loved one, death, divorce, in the grasp of an addiction, financial trouble...the list goes on and on. So many reasons to be unhappy.
We typically don't ask God to make good from the bad because we are in the midst of suffering; it's almost impossible to consider all the wonderful outcomes that God could have in store for us. So for those of you who have lost all hope for happiness and are in the midst of a storm, pray this simple prayer; Dear Father, please bring good out of this bad situation.
These present painful circumstances are there to sharpen, grow, and show us valuable skills and information about us, God, and life. This isn't the end of the movie....more scenes are yet to come. Do what you need to do, even though it is painful at times, so when God does His thing, you are ready to act and take advantage of it. Often times we procrastinate away the "studying or training time" in a task, so we don't learn the important skills, process, or information to be successful when the opportunity to shine on the test, performance, event. Now follow Him, do the training now so you can manage the experience and have peace, comfort, and success in the adversity/ opportunity at hand....so you can have a front row seat to appreciate what He is doing today and will do tomorrow in your life. (See Devotional April 5, 09.)
Prayer
Dear Father God,
I know that bad does not come from You, but that You have the power to make good come from a bad situation. I pray Father that you give me the strength to endure this storm and to build my faith that You will bring good from this bad. Most days I feel like I will never be happy again. I pray that You replace this sadness and hopelessness with Your Joy and hope. I confess that I have made choices that have created this bad; forgive me Lord. But there are also bad circumstances that are out of my control and that I do not understand. I accept Lord that my ability to understand is so limited, but I trust in You that You will bring good from this bad. Help me Lord reflect Your light and hope to those I come in contact who are in the midst of what appears to be an impossible situation.
The Truth
then the king commanded, and Daniel was brought and cast into the den of lions. The king declared to Daniel, "May your God, whom you serve continually, deliver you!"
I make a decree, that in all my royal dominion people are to tremble and fear before the God of Daniel, for he is the living God, enduring forever; his kingdom shall never be destroyed, and his dominion shall be to the end.
He delivers and rescues; he works signs and wonders in heaven and on earth, he who has saved Daniel from the power of the lions."
Daniel 6:16, 26-27
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Romans 8:28
Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds,
for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness.
And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.
James 1:2-4
I know so many people who have lost all happiness in their lives...they wonder if they will ever be happy again. Their unhappiness is usually an outcome of being in a very bad situation. My prayer for them; God, please bring some good out of this bad situation.
Why is this prayer always so difficult to pray when you are in the midst of a horrible situation? An illness for your self or a loved one, death, divorce, in the grasp of an addiction, financial trouble...the list goes on and on. So many reasons to be unhappy.
We typically don't ask God to make good from the bad because we are in the midst of suffering; it's almost impossible to consider all the wonderful outcomes that God could have in store for us. So for those of you who have lost all hope for happiness and are in the midst of a storm, pray this simple prayer; Dear Father, please bring good out of this bad situation.
These present painful circumstances are there to sharpen, grow, and show us valuable skills and information about us, God, and life. This isn't the end of the movie....more scenes are yet to come. Do what you need to do, even though it is painful at times, so when God does His thing, you are ready to act and take advantage of it. Often times we procrastinate away the "studying or training time" in a task, so we don't learn the important skills, process, or information to be successful when the opportunity to shine on the test, performance, event. Now follow Him, do the training now so you can manage the experience and have peace, comfort, and success in the adversity/ opportunity at hand....so you can have a front row seat to appreciate what He is doing today and will do tomorrow in your life. (See Devotional April 5, 09.)
Prayer
Dear Father God,
I know that bad does not come from You, but that You have the power to make good come from a bad situation. I pray Father that you give me the strength to endure this storm and to build my faith that You will bring good from this bad. Most days I feel like I will never be happy again. I pray that You replace this sadness and hopelessness with Your Joy and hope. I confess that I have made choices that have created this bad; forgive me Lord. But there are also bad circumstances that are out of my control and that I do not understand. I accept Lord that my ability to understand is so limited, but I trust in You that You will bring good from this bad. Help me Lord reflect Your light and hope to those I come in contact who are in the midst of what appears to be an impossible situation.
The Truth
then the king commanded, and Daniel was brought and cast into the den of lions. The king declared to Daniel, "May your God, whom you serve continually, deliver you!"
I make a decree, that in all my royal dominion people are to tremble and fear before the God of Daniel, for he is the living God, enduring forever; his kingdom shall never be destroyed, and his dominion shall be to the end.
He delivers and rescues; he works signs and wonders in heaven and on earth, he who has saved Daniel from the power of the lions."
Daniel 6:16, 26-27
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Romans 8:28
Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds,
for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness.
And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.
James 1:2-4
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