Thursday, October 15, 2009

Stepping Stones: FEAR: Hiding or Freedom?

Transformational Tip
Fear of speaking in class or giving a lecture… blowing a test or an important game…parasailing…taking a new job…confrontation or setting a healthy boundary…having someone angry or upset with me. For so long, FEAR(False Evidence Appearing Real) really interrupted my life. Then came the fear about having fear, I was almost paralyzed. Through Christian counseling, I realized I was hiding my fear…pretending it wasn’t there. I discovered that the fear you hide in the recesses of your heart will give birth to the fear of fear…a real monster. The danger of the second fear is diverting our focus off the original fear…which usually was planted at a very young age when we knew little and weren’t well equipped to handle much. Now as adults, we have capabilities to see more clearly the original false evidence and do something different and better in that situation…or at the very least, if real anxiety exists, handle it better. But we are usually to lazy to go back and deeply re-address those old painful FEARS to access the freedom Christ won for us over those FEARS. Freedom from FEAR is for you.
Today, acknowledge that your FEARS are flaming arrows of attack from the evil one and bring your fears out into the Light of Your Lord’s presence where you can deal with them together. Identify one thing that upsets, alarms, scares, or threatens you. Examine how it influences your decisions. Tell someone about it and ask them to help you identify the False Evidence that Appears Real. It can be very freeing just knowing the cycle can be broken. Click here to live the life that is WITHIN REACH when you overcome your FEARS. Click here to share with the stepping stone community your thoughts on FEAR.

Prayer
Dear Father,
I confess that fear has a stronghold on me. I know that most all fear comes from arrows of attack from the enemy. I thank You Father for Your Word that teaches me to use my shield of faith to extinguish those flaming arrows. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit Father so that I might build my faith. Help me understand how to dig deep and uncover those FEARS and bathe them in truth. Help me Father to bring all fear to You so that we may deal with them together. I pray Father, that by concentrating on You and being a good steward of my mind, that my fearfulness will lose its foothold on me. I pray in the holy name of Jesus, and all God’s children said, – Amen!

The Truth
In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one.
Ephesians 6:16
The fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is safe.
Proverbs 29:25