Transformational Tip
Get real! That college is out of your league. Be real! That girl is way to pretty for you. Get real! You’re never play on that team, get that part, make that band, get that job. How many times have we heard these expressions? How many times have we used them ourselves? It was hard for me, for so many years, to see who I really was. Why is this so hard to do? Why is it so hard to face ourselves? One reason…The enemy, Satan, likes it this way. The enemy tries to plant seeds of deceptions, pain, sinfulness…of self hate instead of acceptance of God’s love for us. Another reason…it’s painful for us to see who we really are. It was for me. It was a lot easier to think I was important, talented, bright, nice, blah, blah, blah… than to see my insecurities, inadequacies, and needs, let alone address them. The best way for us to face ourselves…to be real with ourselves…is to remember, as Christians, we are constantly clothed in Jesus’ robe of righteousness. God knows exactly what sins, weaknesses, and blemishes we try to hide underneath that faultless garment of salvation that covers and erases all. And He rejoices over you with singing…just imagine that…God singing over you!
Today, know that your Lord and God longs for you to trust Him enough to be fully yourself with Him. Being real with Your God, you are allowing him to bring out the very best in you. Pray to Him about one thing you have never really opened up to Him about. Let light into that area of your life…this pushes the darkness out. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts of being real with God.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I want to grow the gifts that you planted in my soul. I want to be real with You Lord, but this is a painful experience for me because this means I first have to be real with myself. It seems easier for me to ignore how I’m feeling rather than face my misery head on. I pray, Father, that You help me stop numbing my discomfort, or negative feelings, with my sinful diversions. Give me the courage Father to face myself so that I can be real with You. Thank You, Father. I pray in the name of the one who died so I could be real in Your presence, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
I delight greatly in the LORD; my soul rejoices in my God. For he has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of righteousness…
Isaiah 61:10
The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing.
Zephaniah 3:17
"Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind and, Love your neighbor as yourself.”
Luke 10:27
Monday, November 30, 2009
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Stepping Stones: Clean Shaven
Transformational Tip
I’ve had the blessing of spending this Thanksgiving holiday with my daughter and her family, which includes my first and only grandchild. A beautiful 7 month old baby girl…what indescribable joy. Seven months, a perfect age. Learning new things each day, so expressive. Her mom has just taught her how to give kisses. Yesterday she turned to me, grabbed my big face in her small hands and came at me to give me a kiss. My heart raced…was this really happening? Was I gonna get one of those priceless kisses? Yes I did. But my mustache must have pricked her tiny lips and she instantly began screaming. My heart sank. I went immediately and shaved off that mustache…wasn’t going to let anything in my control hurt her… or keep my granddaughter from giving me kisses. We all have “mustaches”, things in our life that interfere with our relationship with God and the blessings He has for us. Unconfessed sin is a big mustache. Continued sin patterns, like addictions, affairs, eating issues, anger management problems, pride, lack of communication with God…all these put distance between us and God. Think about what might be keeping you from receiving connection, blessings, and grace from your Lord. What are the things that keep you from having a close relationship Him? What’s keeping you from getting those kisses we all long for? Today, Just identify one thing that is within your control…and then eliminate it. If you can’t eliminate it, get treatment. WITHIN REACH will help you eliminate behaviors. If you need addictions treatment, we know the best Christian addictions treatment options for you. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on what’s keeping you from God’s grace.
Prayer
Dear Father God, Thank You, Father, for the opportunity to spend time with those I love. I ask for you to keep them in Your protective loving care. Please let nothing but goodness and love come between us. Help me, Father, to remove any obstacles that keep me from Your loving presence. I confess my sins and am so thankful for Your promise of forgiveness. Thank You, Father. I pray in the name of the one who died so I could be in Your presence, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
The LORD appeared to us in the past, saying: "I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving-kindness.”
Jeremiah 31:3
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
1 John 1:9
I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
Romans 12:1,2
I’ve had the blessing of spending this Thanksgiving holiday with my daughter and her family, which includes my first and only grandchild. A beautiful 7 month old baby girl…what indescribable joy. Seven months, a perfect age. Learning new things each day, so expressive. Her mom has just taught her how to give kisses. Yesterday she turned to me, grabbed my big face in her small hands and came at me to give me a kiss. My heart raced…was this really happening? Was I gonna get one of those priceless kisses? Yes I did. But my mustache must have pricked her tiny lips and she instantly began screaming. My heart sank. I went immediately and shaved off that mustache…wasn’t going to let anything in my control hurt her… or keep my granddaughter from giving me kisses. We all have “mustaches”, things in our life that interfere with our relationship with God and the blessings He has for us. Unconfessed sin is a big mustache. Continued sin patterns, like addictions, affairs, eating issues, anger management problems, pride, lack of communication with God…all these put distance between us and God. Think about what might be keeping you from receiving connection, blessings, and grace from your Lord. What are the things that keep you from having a close relationship Him? What’s keeping you from getting those kisses we all long for? Today, Just identify one thing that is within your control…and then eliminate it. If you can’t eliminate it, get treatment. WITHIN REACH will help you eliminate behaviors. If you need addictions treatment, we know the best Christian addictions treatment options for you. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on what’s keeping you from God’s grace.
Prayer
Dear Father God, Thank You, Father, for the opportunity to spend time with those I love. I ask for you to keep them in Your protective loving care. Please let nothing but goodness and love come between us. Help me, Father, to remove any obstacles that keep me from Your loving presence. I confess my sins and am so thankful for Your promise of forgiveness. Thank You, Father. I pray in the name of the one who died so I could be in Your presence, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
The LORD appeared to us in the past, saying: "I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving-kindness.”
Jeremiah 31:3
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
1 John 1:9
I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
Romans 12:1,2
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Stepping Stones: Dreams: Mystery to Reality
Transformational Tip
As a kid, I had a dream of understanding and helping people with decision-making skills…later learned that was the role of a psychiatrist. I know, not the usual dream most of you had as a kid. My family will tell you I’m “different.” I didn’t know exactly how to make becoming a psychiatrist happen, didn’t even know a doctor…so I watched Newhart and Sidney on MASH. I then put my dream into the hands of others who new reality and the big picture better than I did…teachers, coaches, parents, professors, advisors, mentors. The very nature of dreams is that they are beyond our control…out of our reach. If things are out of our control, then whose control do they fall under? Little did I know, I turned my dream over to God, then listened to His guidance. Bring you dreams into God’s light where they can be gradually transformed into reality. He sparked the “right” dreams, so He will affirm, grow, and fulfill them. Some of our “dreams”…more like nightmares…are not in the plans God has for you. He wants to remove these from your heart…if you let Him. Other dreams He will approve of, and will open doors and encourage you to work prayerfully toward turning those into reality. And some dreams will remain veiled in mystery. He will neither remove them from your heart nor will He show you a pathway to their reality. This will keep you waiting on Him…enjoying the benefits of His presence. When the time is right He will transform your long-held hopes into delightful reality.
Today, evaluate some of your real dreams. How are you turning those over to God for His approval or rejection? Are you listening to His feedback or just moving forward on with the advice of lesser advisors or on your own. The quickest ways to our dreams is God’s way. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts and experiences on turning your dreams over to God.
Prayer
O Dear God, I bring all my dreams before You, Father…for only You can breathe life into them. I wait on You, Lord, to turn my dreams into reality. Many times I get tired of waiting for my dreams to come true. Help me to wait patiently in Your loving presence to do what is impossible for me to do. I pray for discernment…understanding when You are affirming and growing my dream and when false feedback is trying to trick me. Please help me kill those self-serving dreams, the ones that will hurt me, You, and others so much both now and in the future. I pray in the name of Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
Yet the LORD longs to be gracious to you; he rises to show you compassion. For the LORD is a God of justice. Blessed are all who wait for him!
Isaiah 30:18
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.
Jeremiah 29:11
If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.
6 But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind.
James 1:5,6
As a kid, I had a dream of understanding and helping people with decision-making skills…later learned that was the role of a psychiatrist. I know, not the usual dream most of you had as a kid. My family will tell you I’m “different.” I didn’t know exactly how to make becoming a psychiatrist happen, didn’t even know a doctor…so I watched Newhart and Sidney on MASH. I then put my dream into the hands of others who new reality and the big picture better than I did…teachers, coaches, parents, professors, advisors, mentors. The very nature of dreams is that they are beyond our control…out of our reach. If things are out of our control, then whose control do they fall under? Little did I know, I turned my dream over to God, then listened to His guidance. Bring you dreams into God’s light where they can be gradually transformed into reality. He sparked the “right” dreams, so He will affirm, grow, and fulfill them. Some of our “dreams”…more like nightmares…are not in the plans God has for you. He wants to remove these from your heart…if you let Him. Other dreams He will approve of, and will open doors and encourage you to work prayerfully toward turning those into reality. And some dreams will remain veiled in mystery. He will neither remove them from your heart nor will He show you a pathway to their reality. This will keep you waiting on Him…enjoying the benefits of His presence. When the time is right He will transform your long-held hopes into delightful reality.
Today, evaluate some of your real dreams. How are you turning those over to God for His approval or rejection? Are you listening to His feedback or just moving forward on with the advice of lesser advisors or on your own. The quickest ways to our dreams is God’s way. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts and experiences on turning your dreams over to God.
Prayer
O Dear God, I bring all my dreams before You, Father…for only You can breathe life into them. I wait on You, Lord, to turn my dreams into reality. Many times I get tired of waiting for my dreams to come true. Help me to wait patiently in Your loving presence to do what is impossible for me to do. I pray for discernment…understanding when You are affirming and growing my dream and when false feedback is trying to trick me. Please help me kill those self-serving dreams, the ones that will hurt me, You, and others so much both now and in the future. I pray in the name of Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
Yet the LORD longs to be gracious to you; he rises to show you compassion. For the LORD is a God of justice. Blessed are all who wait for him!
Isaiah 30:18
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.
Jeremiah 29:11
If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.
6 But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind.
James 1:5,6
Friday, November 27, 2009
Stepping Stones: Feeding Frenzy to Fasting
Transformational Tip
Hope you enjoyed your Thanksgiving turkey and traditions yesterday…because today, we are looking at the opposite of the Thanksgiving feeding frenzy. For health reasons, I recently underwent a period of fasting. While fasting, I found my ability to pray with focus and clarity dramatically improved. Searching the Bible for some reference and guidance, I found a number of helpful passages. While the original purpose for the fast was for physical benefit, I found overwhelming spiritual value. I have listed some information and tips you may find helpful in the event you have an interest in combining prayer and fasting.
1) Why should we fast?...because Jesus did. He also was tempted by Satan during His fast. When we begin to let God know we are serious about prayer and fasting, the devil tries to get our mind off the fast. Expect spiritual confrontation from the evil one; he will try to get your mind off prayer and on food.
2) You may choose a Total Fast or a Partial Fast. Total Fast: the denial of all solid food for a period of time. I suggest one day per month to start with. Partial Fast: Leaving out part of a meal. Just have salad and not the rest of the meal.
3) Keep it as private as possible. Only let those who need to know. Family in your house will need to know why you are not eating. The check out person at the gas station does not need to know. The Bible says to not let your face show you are fasting. The act of fasting is between you and God.
4) Ask God to tell you what to do. How long to fast. Stay hydrated: juice and water is a must. Spend the time you would normally be eating in prayer, read the bible, and ask God to speak to you.
5) Find a private place to pray while fasting. Pray for yourself and your relationship with Jesus. Confess your sins and ask forgiveness. The Lord loves a contrite heart. Ask God to search your heart and show you the things that you need to pray about and ask for his help to change.
6) God does not need us to fast. Fasting is for us to draw closer to Him. He is always close to us. Fasting is a time of great spiritual intimacy with your Creator.
7) After your fast, don't eat a lot. Spend as much time coming off the fast equal to the length of the fast. One day fast - one day slowly getting back to regular eating. Don't try to make up for the food you did not eat.
Today, pray and ask God if fasting is a discipline He can use to help your growth. If so, make a plan to try it. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts and experience on fasting and prayer.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I thank You father for this opportunity to take my mind off food and to focus more on You. I confess, Father, that food has taken on too much importance in my life. Help me to view and use food to sustain and grow a healthy body and mind. Help me Father to focus more on You. I pray in the name of the one who empowers me to hear Your voice, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
Moreover, when you fast, do not be like the hypocrites, with a sad countenance. For they disfigure their faces that they may appear to men to be fasting. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward.
Matthew 6:16
"Even now," declares the LORD, "return to me with all your heart, with fasting and weeping and mourning."
Joel 2:12
Hope you enjoyed your Thanksgiving turkey and traditions yesterday…because today, we are looking at the opposite of the Thanksgiving feeding frenzy. For health reasons, I recently underwent a period of fasting. While fasting, I found my ability to pray with focus and clarity dramatically improved. Searching the Bible for some reference and guidance, I found a number of helpful passages. While the original purpose for the fast was for physical benefit, I found overwhelming spiritual value. I have listed some information and tips you may find helpful in the event you have an interest in combining prayer and fasting.
1) Why should we fast?...because Jesus did. He also was tempted by Satan during His fast. When we begin to let God know we are serious about prayer and fasting, the devil tries to get our mind off the fast. Expect spiritual confrontation from the evil one; he will try to get your mind off prayer and on food.
2) You may choose a Total Fast or a Partial Fast. Total Fast: the denial of all solid food for a period of time. I suggest one day per month to start with. Partial Fast: Leaving out part of a meal. Just have salad and not the rest of the meal.
3) Keep it as private as possible. Only let those who need to know. Family in your house will need to know why you are not eating. The check out person at the gas station does not need to know. The Bible says to not let your face show you are fasting. The act of fasting is between you and God.
4) Ask God to tell you what to do. How long to fast. Stay hydrated: juice and water is a must. Spend the time you would normally be eating in prayer, read the bible, and ask God to speak to you.
5) Find a private place to pray while fasting. Pray for yourself and your relationship with Jesus. Confess your sins and ask forgiveness. The Lord loves a contrite heart. Ask God to search your heart and show you the things that you need to pray about and ask for his help to change.
6) God does not need us to fast. Fasting is for us to draw closer to Him. He is always close to us. Fasting is a time of great spiritual intimacy with your Creator.
7) After your fast, don't eat a lot. Spend as much time coming off the fast equal to the length of the fast. One day fast - one day slowly getting back to regular eating. Don't try to make up for the food you did not eat.
Today, pray and ask God if fasting is a discipline He can use to help your growth. If so, make a plan to try it. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts and experience on fasting and prayer.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I thank You father for this opportunity to take my mind off food and to focus more on You. I confess, Father, that food has taken on too much importance in my life. Help me to view and use food to sustain and grow a healthy body and mind. Help me Father to focus more on You. I pray in the name of the one who empowers me to hear Your voice, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
Moreover, when you fast, do not be like the hypocrites, with a sad countenance. For they disfigure their faces that they may appear to men to be fasting. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward.
Matthew 6:16
"Even now," declares the LORD, "return to me with all your heart, with fasting and weeping and mourning."
Joel 2:12
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Stepping Stones: The Dark Dungeon of Ungratefulness
Transformational Tip
Thanksgiving Day is a great holiday. A four-day weekend helps, but it’s the day on which mostly everyone tries to journey home…or to be with those they love. Thanksgiving Day is filled with parades, football, family traditions, memories, and great food. Above all else…and even if none of these other things exist in our lives…Thanksgiving is a time that provides the opportunity for us to be, yes, thankful…to lift ourselves and others out of the dungeon of ungratefulness.
We live in an age of entitlement…and it’s difficult to be thankful when you feel “entitled” to all things. We focus on what we want and don’t have vs. all the blessings we should be so thankful for. We need to work hard to counteract the glut of propaganda proclaiming we deserve more. Every Christmas commercial, ad, self-help book, well-meaning friend, and small voice from your flesh will scream to you that you deserve everything. Really, we are all sinners, and the wages for sin is death. Everything more than death…all that we have…is such a tremendous gift of powerful grace that is granted to us by the one we offend, disappoint, reject, deny, and grieve on a very regular basis. You see, I hate to be a downer, but unless you really know what you really deserve, it is impossible to see how any gifts and unbelievable grace you really have.
Today, when you are feeling thankless, ask God to open your eyes and release you from the dark dungeon of ungratefulness. Before you eat, go around the table, holding hands, and tell each other what you are thankful for and ask for something bigger than you or for someone else. Remember that the secret of being thankful is learning to see everything from God’s perspective. Then you will truly thank Him for loving, pursuing, and giving you so much. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your Thanksgiving thoughts.
The staff at Lighthouse Network wishes the Stepping Stones community a blessed Thanksgiving Day and future.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I come to You Father in prayer. I ask You Father that You set me free from the prison of ingratitude. Release me, Lord, to enjoy the pleasures of having a thankful heart. It’s easy for me, Father, to be grateful when I wake up on the right side of the bed and encounter no major problems. At other times, thankfulness feels totally unreachable. I need a perspective-lift Father; help me see things from Your viewpoint. I pray in the name of the one who is the source and reason for my thankfulness, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
To open blind eyes, to bring out prisoners from the prison, those who sit in darkness from the prison house.
Isaiah 42:7
In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
Thessalonians 5:18
Thanksgiving Day is a great holiday. A four-day weekend helps, but it’s the day on which mostly everyone tries to journey home…or to be with those they love. Thanksgiving Day is filled with parades, football, family traditions, memories, and great food. Above all else…and even if none of these other things exist in our lives…Thanksgiving is a time that provides the opportunity for us to be, yes, thankful…to lift ourselves and others out of the dungeon of ungratefulness.
We live in an age of entitlement…and it’s difficult to be thankful when you feel “entitled” to all things. We focus on what we want and don’t have vs. all the blessings we should be so thankful for. We need to work hard to counteract the glut of propaganda proclaiming we deserve more. Every Christmas commercial, ad, self-help book, well-meaning friend, and small voice from your flesh will scream to you that you deserve everything. Really, we are all sinners, and the wages for sin is death. Everything more than death…all that we have…is such a tremendous gift of powerful grace that is granted to us by the one we offend, disappoint, reject, deny, and grieve on a very regular basis. You see, I hate to be a downer, but unless you really know what you really deserve, it is impossible to see how any gifts and unbelievable grace you really have.
Today, when you are feeling thankless, ask God to open your eyes and release you from the dark dungeon of ungratefulness. Before you eat, go around the table, holding hands, and tell each other what you are thankful for and ask for something bigger than you or for someone else. Remember that the secret of being thankful is learning to see everything from God’s perspective. Then you will truly thank Him for loving, pursuing, and giving you so much. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your Thanksgiving thoughts.
The staff at Lighthouse Network wishes the Stepping Stones community a blessed Thanksgiving Day and future.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I come to You Father in prayer. I ask You Father that You set me free from the prison of ingratitude. Release me, Lord, to enjoy the pleasures of having a thankful heart. It’s easy for me, Father, to be grateful when I wake up on the right side of the bed and encounter no major problems. At other times, thankfulness feels totally unreachable. I need a perspective-lift Father; help me see things from Your viewpoint. I pray in the name of the one who is the source and reason for my thankfulness, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
To open blind eyes, to bring out prisoners from the prison, those who sit in darkness from the prison house.
Isaiah 42:7
In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
Thessalonians 5:18
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Stepping Stones: Is Your Growth Optional?
Transformational Tip
Few men and women of God have become extraordinary people of faith without the influence of mentors. A mentor is one who takes responsibility for the care and, especially, growth…physical, psychological, emotional, relational, academic, and spiritual…of another. For growth to happen, commitment is required from both the teacher and the student.
I have been privileged to have had many mentors throughout my spiritual life and walk. In each stage of my progressing in maturity from newly born again to present, God brought new and specific mentors who had unique gifts that the previous mentor did not have. God has grown in me the hunger to desire a double portion of those positive attributes of my mentors. This desire, I believe, is sorely missing amongst many today. I fail to see the hunger for many who could be used greatly in the Kingdom. Instead, the cares of this world distract them. It is an attitude of a la carte vs. an attitude of pressing in to the full measure of what God might have for them. To maximize mentoring, you need to be humble, to be all in.
Today, ask God if there is someone He would have you mentor or be mentored by. Ask yourself these questions: Who are the people of God He has placed in your life? Are you learning from them? Are you seeking a double portion of their anointing? What prevents you from gaining from their wisdom and experience? God may have brought them into your life to prepare you to be a man or woman of God…to train you to be a mentor. However, there is a time of training and waiting to prove out your own faith. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts and experiences regarding spiritual mentoring.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I thank You Father for the men you have brought into my life as mentors. I pray for wisdom, patience, biblical values and ethics, integrity, and everything spiritual mentors need, to be effective and carry out their responsibilities in a manner that is pleasing to You and beneficial for those being mentored. I pray for Your special touch on Christian mentors, and for their protection from all harm and evil. Thank You, God. In the name of the perfect mentor, Jesus; and all God’s children said – AMEN!
The Truth
...Let us go with you, because we have heard that God is with you.
Zechariah 8:23
Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.
Titus 2:3-5
The things which you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses,
entrust these to faithful men who will be able to teach others also.”
2 Tim. 2:2
Few men and women of God have become extraordinary people of faith without the influence of mentors. A mentor is one who takes responsibility for the care and, especially, growth…physical, psychological, emotional, relational, academic, and spiritual…of another. For growth to happen, commitment is required from both the teacher and the student.
I have been privileged to have had many mentors throughout my spiritual life and walk. In each stage of my progressing in maturity from newly born again to present, God brought new and specific mentors who had unique gifts that the previous mentor did not have. God has grown in me the hunger to desire a double portion of those positive attributes of my mentors. This desire, I believe, is sorely missing amongst many today. I fail to see the hunger for many who could be used greatly in the Kingdom. Instead, the cares of this world distract them. It is an attitude of a la carte vs. an attitude of pressing in to the full measure of what God might have for them. To maximize mentoring, you need to be humble, to be all in.
Today, ask God if there is someone He would have you mentor or be mentored by. Ask yourself these questions: Who are the people of God He has placed in your life? Are you learning from them? Are you seeking a double portion of their anointing? What prevents you from gaining from their wisdom and experience? God may have brought them into your life to prepare you to be a man or woman of God…to train you to be a mentor. However, there is a time of training and waiting to prove out your own faith. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts and experiences regarding spiritual mentoring.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I thank You Father for the men you have brought into my life as mentors. I pray for wisdom, patience, biblical values and ethics, integrity, and everything spiritual mentors need, to be effective and carry out their responsibilities in a manner that is pleasing to You and beneficial for those being mentored. I pray for Your special touch on Christian mentors, and for their protection from all harm and evil. Thank You, God. In the name of the perfect mentor, Jesus; and all God’s children said – AMEN!
The Truth
...Let us go with you, because we have heard that God is with you.
Zechariah 8:23
Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.
Titus 2:3-5
The things which you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses,
entrust these to faithful men who will be able to teach others also.”
2 Tim. 2:2
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Stepping Stones: Holy Ground Here On Earth
Transformational Tip
I have trouble multitasking. I can do one think well at a time, but add on one or two extra things and…too distracting! I have found this particularly limiting and really impacting me when I’m talking with another person who is in need…who is opening up and seeking support or advice. I get so focused on them and what they are saying…then what I am about to say…that I forget to listen to what God wants me to communicate to them. The latent hero(or egotist) in me tries to take charge and “rescue” the person. Relying on myself…trusting my limited abilities is so ineffective. When someone opens their souls to you, know that you are standing on holy ground and ask the help of the Holy Spirit to respond in a God-like fashion. If you jump in with both feet trying to rescue them without first asking for God’s help and guidance, you have missed the mark and spoiled a splendid opportunity. In a way your muddy footprints are polluting the holy terrain you are standing on.
Today, as you relate to people, first ask God to listen through you…think through you…love through you…to use you to impact others. Everyone in this world has needs and is experiencing struggles in some way. Remember that your main purpose is to direct the person toward God and His limitless resources. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on multitasking while on holy ground.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I know and believe Father that when people bare their souls to me…it is You that has sent them to me. Help me not play the role of the hero; rather help me be a better instrument of You. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit so that I say exactly what You want them to hear. Help me remember that at that very time, I am standing on holy ground. This is an area where I want and need to grow. Help me grow Father. I pray in the name of the one who empowers me to hear Your voice, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
Cause me to hear Your loving-kindness in the morning, For in You do I trust; Cause me to know the way in which I should walk, For I lift up my soul to You.
Psalm 143:8
Then He said, “Do not draw near this place. Take your sandals off your feet, for the place where you stand is holy ground.”
Exodus 3:5
But rise and stand upon your feet, for I have appeared to you for this purpose, to appoint you as a servant and witness to the things in which you have seen me and to those in which I will appear to you, delivering you from your people and from the Gentiles--to whom I am sending you to open their eyes, so that they may turn from darkness to light and from the power of Satan to God, that they may receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me.'
Acts 26:16-18
I have trouble multitasking. I can do one think well at a time, but add on one or two extra things and…too distracting! I have found this particularly limiting and really impacting me when I’m talking with another person who is in need…who is opening up and seeking support or advice. I get so focused on them and what they are saying…then what I am about to say…that I forget to listen to what God wants me to communicate to them. The latent hero(or egotist) in me tries to take charge and “rescue” the person. Relying on myself…trusting my limited abilities is so ineffective. When someone opens their souls to you, know that you are standing on holy ground and ask the help of the Holy Spirit to respond in a God-like fashion. If you jump in with both feet trying to rescue them without first asking for God’s help and guidance, you have missed the mark and spoiled a splendid opportunity. In a way your muddy footprints are polluting the holy terrain you are standing on.
Today, as you relate to people, first ask God to listen through you…think through you…love through you…to use you to impact others. Everyone in this world has needs and is experiencing struggles in some way. Remember that your main purpose is to direct the person toward God and His limitless resources. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on multitasking while on holy ground.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I know and believe Father that when people bare their souls to me…it is You that has sent them to me. Help me not play the role of the hero; rather help me be a better instrument of You. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit so that I say exactly what You want them to hear. Help me remember that at that very time, I am standing on holy ground. This is an area where I want and need to grow. Help me grow Father. I pray in the name of the one who empowers me to hear Your voice, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
Cause me to hear Your loving-kindness in the morning, For in You do I trust; Cause me to know the way in which I should walk, For I lift up my soul to You.
Psalm 143:8
Then He said, “Do not draw near this place. Take your sandals off your feet, for the place where you stand is holy ground.”
Exodus 3:5
But rise and stand upon your feet, for I have appeared to you for this purpose, to appoint you as a servant and witness to the things in which you have seen me and to those in which I will appear to you, delivering you from your people and from the Gentiles--to whom I am sending you to open their eyes, so that they may turn from darkness to light and from the power of Satan to God, that they may receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me.'
Acts 26:16-18
Monday, November 23, 2009
Stepping Stones: Eyes in the Back of Her Head
Transformational Tip
Up till about age 10 my mother truly had me believing that she knew everything I did, whether good or bad…had me believing that she really did have eyes in the back of her head. In fact, I believed she even knew what I was thinking. When I got to an age to challenge her on her “super powers”, she admitted that no, she really didn’t know my every move and thought. But that’s when her teaching began…that God knows everything I would do and think, way before I thought it and the events happened. This truth was impossible for me to rebut. For some reason, it is easier for me to believe that my mother could know all my thought and actions, but God doesn’t. This truth was hard for me to believe, but impossible to rebut. Satan and our flesh get us thinking God’s knowledge is a disadvantage to us…but just like mom “knowing” all about us is an advantage, so is God’s knowledge of us an advantage for us. God knows what goes on in our heart far better than we do. He knows when we feel thankful and when we don’t.
Today, when you struggle to be thankful, stop and remember who He is: the Author of your life and your faith. When you thank God today, especially if it is a difficult day, you are assuming the proper stance for a believer…a child of God. Every time you thank God, you are acknowledging that He is your Lord and Provider. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts and struggles of maintaining a thankful heart.
Prayer
O Father God, I know that I am truly dependent on You for everything…including my next breath. Every good gift is from, You, my Lord. Thank You, Father. All glory to you my Lord. Help me feel thankful for Your knowledge and guidance, not embarrassed, shamed, and wanting to flee Your presence, forgiveness, and protection. Thank You, Father, for the Holy Spirit You give me to help manage my thoughts. I pray in the name of the Your Son who You sent to die for my eternal salvation and temporal relief, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.
Psalm 139:13-16
Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom which cannot be shaken, let us have grace, by which we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear.
Hebrews 12:28
Up till about age 10 my mother truly had me believing that she knew everything I did, whether good or bad…had me believing that she really did have eyes in the back of her head. In fact, I believed she even knew what I was thinking. When I got to an age to challenge her on her “super powers”, she admitted that no, she really didn’t know my every move and thought. But that’s when her teaching began…that God knows everything I would do and think, way before I thought it and the events happened. This truth was impossible for me to rebut. For some reason, it is easier for me to believe that my mother could know all my thought and actions, but God doesn’t. This truth was hard for me to believe, but impossible to rebut. Satan and our flesh get us thinking God’s knowledge is a disadvantage to us…but just like mom “knowing” all about us is an advantage, so is God’s knowledge of us an advantage for us. God knows what goes on in our heart far better than we do. He knows when we feel thankful and when we don’t.
Today, when you struggle to be thankful, stop and remember who He is: the Author of your life and your faith. When you thank God today, especially if it is a difficult day, you are assuming the proper stance for a believer…a child of God. Every time you thank God, you are acknowledging that He is your Lord and Provider. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts and struggles of maintaining a thankful heart.
Prayer
O Father God, I know that I am truly dependent on You for everything…including my next breath. Every good gift is from, You, my Lord. Thank You, Father. All glory to you my Lord. Help me feel thankful for Your knowledge and guidance, not embarrassed, shamed, and wanting to flee Your presence, forgiveness, and protection. Thank You, Father, for the Holy Spirit You give me to help manage my thoughts. I pray in the name of the Your Son who You sent to die for my eternal salvation and temporal relief, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.
Psalm 139:13-16
Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom which cannot be shaken, let us have grace, by which we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear.
Hebrews 12:28
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Stepping Stones: Out On A Limb
Transformational Tip
As a young boy I always had a fascination with climbing trees; especially apple trees. I’d climb up, pick the apples, and then throw them down to my brothers. However I could never get the really good apples, for they always seemed to be hanging out on a limb. I would never go out on a limb, always played it safe. Fear of falling kept me off the limbs. I think sometimes God asks us to go out on that limb. Just like the apple tree, juiciest rewards in life are out on the end of the limb. Playing it “safe,” not going out on a limb, is sometimes how Satan wants you to engage life. So keep your eyes on your Lord as you step out in faith. Grab His hand tightly as you edge your way, following Him out onto that limb. Since He goes before you, you can keep your eyes on Him as you step out in faith. Soon you will arrive at a resting place. While gripping His hand, look toward the horizon. Enjoy the view from this tree-top perspective. You are actually safer here…out on this limb with your Lord…than you would be on the ground. Overly familiar surroundings feel safer, but they also may lull you into a kind of sleepy self-reliance; and that’s when we tend to forget about the need for our Father.
Today, when doing the right thing feels uncomfortable, envision the scenario you just read and enjoy the activity and view in a new way. In this new challenging environment (out on a limb), you will be more alert and not so quick to let go of His hand. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on going out on the limb.
Prayer
Dear Father God, You are the author and finisher of my faith. I want to follow You wherever You lead me…even if it’s out on a limb. I pray, Father, that You will help me follow You with confidence rather than with fear; for I know Father that wherever You lead me is the safest place I could be. I bring all my fears to You, Father, for I now know that fears not dealt with tend to grow and magnify themselves. I pray in the name of the Ultimate Life Guide and Protector, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
You shall hide them in the secret place of Your presence from the plots of man; You shall keep them secretly in a pavilion from the strife of tongues.
Psalm 31:20
The steps of a good man are ordered by the LORD, And He delights in his way.
Though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down; For the LORD upholds him with His hand.
Psalm 37:23-24
Looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.
Hebrews 12:2
As a young boy I always had a fascination with climbing trees; especially apple trees. I’d climb up, pick the apples, and then throw them down to my brothers. However I could never get the really good apples, for they always seemed to be hanging out on a limb. I would never go out on a limb, always played it safe. Fear of falling kept me off the limbs. I think sometimes God asks us to go out on that limb. Just like the apple tree, juiciest rewards in life are out on the end of the limb. Playing it “safe,” not going out on a limb, is sometimes how Satan wants you to engage life. So keep your eyes on your Lord as you step out in faith. Grab His hand tightly as you edge your way, following Him out onto that limb. Since He goes before you, you can keep your eyes on Him as you step out in faith. Soon you will arrive at a resting place. While gripping His hand, look toward the horizon. Enjoy the view from this tree-top perspective. You are actually safer here…out on this limb with your Lord…than you would be on the ground. Overly familiar surroundings feel safer, but they also may lull you into a kind of sleepy self-reliance; and that’s when we tend to forget about the need for our Father.
Today, when doing the right thing feels uncomfortable, envision the scenario you just read and enjoy the activity and view in a new way. In this new challenging environment (out on a limb), you will be more alert and not so quick to let go of His hand. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on going out on the limb.
Prayer
Dear Father God, You are the author and finisher of my faith. I want to follow You wherever You lead me…even if it’s out on a limb. I pray, Father, that You will help me follow You with confidence rather than with fear; for I know Father that wherever You lead me is the safest place I could be. I bring all my fears to You, Father, for I now know that fears not dealt with tend to grow and magnify themselves. I pray in the name of the Ultimate Life Guide and Protector, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
You shall hide them in the secret place of Your presence from the plots of man; You shall keep them secretly in a pavilion from the strife of tongues.
Psalm 31:20
The steps of a good man are ordered by the LORD, And He delights in his way.
Though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down; For the LORD upholds him with His hand.
Psalm 37:23-24
Looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.
Hebrews 12:2
Saturday, November 21, 2009
Stepping Stones: Idiots or “Sons of Thunder”
Transformational Tip
I’m always so quick to judge others. Anyone who is outspoken, has a controversial point of view…or an opinion that is markedly different from mine…I think or say under my breath; “Idiot”. I’m not proud of this terrible behavior and have been working hard on taking that word out of my vocabulary. I read something about Jesus’ disciples, James and John, that was very helpful in changing this behavior. These were the guys who tried to talk Jesus into giving them the esteemed seats to the immediate right and left of His throne in Heaven. They were the two guys who wanted Jesus to call down fire from heaven and destroy a village that wouldn’t give them a place to sleep. Their buddies called them Idiots…Jesus called them “Sons of Thunder.” Jesus saw who they really were. They looked like crazy fisherman out of work…they were actually “Sons of Thunder.” God has uniquely and incredibly created all of us with gifts, passions, and personalities to be different on purpose. Others don’t always wisely utilize God’s design…but neither do you. Maybe part of your design and purpose is to help them grow, and by judging them…calling them an idiot…you are being the idiot.
Today, as you encounter people that may annoy you…see them as they really are. Look beyond the behavior and see the person God has created. Think of how you can be God’s instrument and serve them for their growth. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts, Idiots vs. Sons of Thunder.
Prayer
O Father God, I come to You my Lord with a humble and thankful heart. I confess Father that I am too judgmental of others…too intolerant to opinions that are different than mine. I thank You, Lord, for Your Word that once again provides wisdom and guidance to improve my thinking and behavior, and ultimately, transform my heart. Help me see all people as You have made them. Help me see the potential “thunder” in those with an outspoken point of view. I pray in the name of the one whose ultimate humility empowers me, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
James the son of Zebedee and John the brother of James, to whom He (Jesus) gave the name Boanerges, that is, “Sons of Thunder”
Mark 3:17
And James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came up to him and said to him, "Grant us to sit, one at your right hand and one at your left, in your glory." And when the ten heard it, they began to be indignant at James and John. And Jesus called them to him and said to them, "You know that those who are considered rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great ones exercise authority over them. But it shall not be so among you. But whoever would be great among you must be your servant, and whoever would be first among you must be slave of all. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.
Mark 10:35a,37,41-45
I’m always so quick to judge others. Anyone who is outspoken, has a controversial point of view…or an opinion that is markedly different from mine…I think or say under my breath; “Idiot”. I’m not proud of this terrible behavior and have been working hard on taking that word out of my vocabulary. I read something about Jesus’ disciples, James and John, that was very helpful in changing this behavior. These were the guys who tried to talk Jesus into giving them the esteemed seats to the immediate right and left of His throne in Heaven. They were the two guys who wanted Jesus to call down fire from heaven and destroy a village that wouldn’t give them a place to sleep. Their buddies called them Idiots…Jesus called them “Sons of Thunder.” Jesus saw who they really were. They looked like crazy fisherman out of work…they were actually “Sons of Thunder.” God has uniquely and incredibly created all of us with gifts, passions, and personalities to be different on purpose. Others don’t always wisely utilize God’s design…but neither do you. Maybe part of your design and purpose is to help them grow, and by judging them…calling them an idiot…you are being the idiot.
Today, as you encounter people that may annoy you…see them as they really are. Look beyond the behavior and see the person God has created. Think of how you can be God’s instrument and serve them for their growth. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts, Idiots vs. Sons of Thunder.
Prayer
O Father God, I come to You my Lord with a humble and thankful heart. I confess Father that I am too judgmental of others…too intolerant to opinions that are different than mine. I thank You, Lord, for Your Word that once again provides wisdom and guidance to improve my thinking and behavior, and ultimately, transform my heart. Help me see all people as You have made them. Help me see the potential “thunder” in those with an outspoken point of view. I pray in the name of the one whose ultimate humility empowers me, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
James the son of Zebedee and John the brother of James, to whom He (Jesus) gave the name Boanerges, that is, “Sons of Thunder”
Mark 3:17
And James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came up to him and said to him, "Grant us to sit, one at your right hand and one at your left, in your glory." And when the ten heard it, they began to be indignant at James and John. And Jesus called them to him and said to them, "You know that those who are considered rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great ones exercise authority over them. But it shall not be so among you. But whoever would be great among you must be your servant, and whoever would be first among you must be slave of all. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.
Mark 10:35a,37,41-45
Friday, November 20, 2009
Stepping Stones: Please and Thank You
Transformational Tip
There was a hamburger joint that we all loved to visit as kids; the Rainbow Inn. The owner, Oliver, ran the place and was the one who took the orders at the front window. Oliver had an annoying habit; he always made the children say Please and Thank You. No “please”, no “thank you”…no hamburger. I always thought it was strange having to say please and thank you for getting stuff I had to actually pay for. In retrospect, it was positive reinforcement for the lessons I was learning at home. Showing me that I am not entitled to anything, am dependent on others for the items I need and want, and should always be thankful for anything I get. We could use some more Olivers in the world to reinforce these principles today.
Our prayers should also include “please” and “thank you”.
Today, when you bring your prayer requests to God, speak clearly and candidly… lay out your concerns. Pour your heart out. Then immediately thank Him for the answers that He has already set in motion. When your requests come to mind again, continue thanking God for the answers that are on their way. If you keep just repeating your concerns you will live in a state of tension. When you followup your request by thanking Him for how he is already answering your prayer, your mindset becomes much more positive…because you are aware of the reality of His action for you. Thankful prayers keep your focus on Him. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on prayers including please and thank you.
Prayer
Dear Father God, This is Your world Father. You made it and control it. I relinquish all control into Your hands…I trust You completely. I thank You Father for the gift of receptivity that You have planted in my heart. I thank You for the answers to my prayers that are already on their way. I pray in the name of the one whose name we are called to pray, Christ Jesus; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
Continue earnestly in prayer, being vigilant in it with thanksgiving.
Colossians 4:2
As His divine power has given to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of Him who called us by glory and virtue, by which have been given to us exceedingly great and precious promises, that through these you may be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust.
2 Peter 1:3-4
Offer to God a sacrifice of thanksgiving, and perform your vows to the Most High, and call upon me in the day of trouble; I will deliver you, and you shall glorify me."
Psalm 50:14,15
There was a hamburger joint that we all loved to visit as kids; the Rainbow Inn. The owner, Oliver, ran the place and was the one who took the orders at the front window. Oliver had an annoying habit; he always made the children say Please and Thank You. No “please”, no “thank you”…no hamburger. I always thought it was strange having to say please and thank you for getting stuff I had to actually pay for. In retrospect, it was positive reinforcement for the lessons I was learning at home. Showing me that I am not entitled to anything, am dependent on others for the items I need and want, and should always be thankful for anything I get. We could use some more Olivers in the world to reinforce these principles today.
Our prayers should also include “please” and “thank you”.
Today, when you bring your prayer requests to God, speak clearly and candidly… lay out your concerns. Pour your heart out. Then immediately thank Him for the answers that He has already set in motion. When your requests come to mind again, continue thanking God for the answers that are on their way. If you keep just repeating your concerns you will live in a state of tension. When you followup your request by thanking Him for how he is already answering your prayer, your mindset becomes much more positive…because you are aware of the reality of His action for you. Thankful prayers keep your focus on Him. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on prayers including please and thank you.
Prayer
Dear Father God, This is Your world Father. You made it and control it. I relinquish all control into Your hands…I trust You completely. I thank You Father for the gift of receptivity that You have planted in my heart. I thank You for the answers to my prayers that are already on their way. I pray in the name of the one whose name we are called to pray, Christ Jesus; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
Continue earnestly in prayer, being vigilant in it with thanksgiving.
Colossians 4:2
As His divine power has given to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of Him who called us by glory and virtue, by which have been given to us exceedingly great and precious promises, that through these you may be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust.
2 Peter 1:3-4
Offer to God a sacrifice of thanksgiving, and perform your vows to the Most High, and call upon me in the day of trouble; I will deliver you, and you shall glorify me."
Psalm 50:14,15
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Stepping Stones: Your Steering, God’s Traction Control
Transformational Tip
There was an amazing breakthrough about 10 years ago in automotive technology. Generically, it’s called traction control. A computer onboard your car measures the amount of grip or traction of each wheel over a thousand times a second, and then applies more or less power to that particular wheel to make sure the car moves forward under control…in the desired direction. Amazing! It’s automatic…nothing we have to do to get this power. Our only responsibility… steer in the correct direction. I believe this is the same way God blesses us with His power; the more challenging your day, the more of His power he places at your disposal, without us even asking…it’s automatic. But, you need to steer towards God, the power is wasted if you don’t steer in His direction. Don’t fall prey to the false roads, the detours, the counterfeit destinations Satan and your old self want you to find. You control the steering wheel, God will do the rest. As you are challenged, so shall you be strengthened. Amazing!
Today, know that a simple glance and fllowing of your Lord, made in faith, is enough to connect you to the ultimate source of power and traction control. When you struggle, and you don’t sense His power, check your steering. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts getting God’s power or your steering. WITHIN REACH will help your steering, check it out.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I look to You, Father, with faith and thankfulness. Today my strength seems so insufficient for the demands I am facing. I look to You, Lord, for the strength sufficient to handle the challenges of this day. Thank You Lord. All glory be to You! I also ask for wisdom as I steer. Give me courage and patience to see and follow Your direction and avoid the traps set for me. In the name of the one who’s death gives me power over death, Christ Jesus; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
Your sandals shall be iron and bronze; As your days, so shall your strength be.
Deuteronomy 33:25
Seek the LORD and His strength; seek His face evermore!
Psalm 105:4
But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.
2 Corinthians 12:9,10
There was an amazing breakthrough about 10 years ago in automotive technology. Generically, it’s called traction control. A computer onboard your car measures the amount of grip or traction of each wheel over a thousand times a second, and then applies more or less power to that particular wheel to make sure the car moves forward under control…in the desired direction. Amazing! It’s automatic…nothing we have to do to get this power. Our only responsibility… steer in the correct direction. I believe this is the same way God blesses us with His power; the more challenging your day, the more of His power he places at your disposal, without us even asking…it’s automatic. But, you need to steer towards God, the power is wasted if you don’t steer in His direction. Don’t fall prey to the false roads, the detours, the counterfeit destinations Satan and your old self want you to find. You control the steering wheel, God will do the rest. As you are challenged, so shall you be strengthened. Amazing!
Today, know that a simple glance and fllowing of your Lord, made in faith, is enough to connect you to the ultimate source of power and traction control. When you struggle, and you don’t sense His power, check your steering. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts getting God’s power or your steering. WITHIN REACH will help your steering, check it out.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I look to You, Father, with faith and thankfulness. Today my strength seems so insufficient for the demands I am facing. I look to You, Lord, for the strength sufficient to handle the challenges of this day. Thank You Lord. All glory be to You! I also ask for wisdom as I steer. Give me courage and patience to see and follow Your direction and avoid the traps set for me. In the name of the one who’s death gives me power over death, Christ Jesus; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
Your sandals shall be iron and bronze; As your days, so shall your strength be.
Deuteronomy 33:25
Seek the LORD and His strength; seek His face evermore!
Psalm 105:4
But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.
2 Corinthians 12:9,10
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Stepping Stones: Use This Prayer With Caution
Transformational Tip
There are a few prayers that I know God answers fastest, that God seems to always say “Yes” to. In fact, this particular prayer should come with a warning label; “Don’t pray this unless you are ready for instantaneous results.” The prayer is simple; “Please Lord, make me an instrument to carry out some important mission of mercy for you.” In other words, please use me to help someone in need. After you say this prayer someone in need is going to practically show up on your doorstep! Why does God answer this prayer so quickly? Because it facilitates God’s whole plan of salvation…to save us by using us. If He didn’t want to use us, as soon as we are saved, we would take us to heaven. We are called to go and spread the good news, be salt, be light, to all the earth.
I believe when you ask God to use you as an instrument to solve other people’s problems, He begins in earnest to help us with our problems. The natural outcome of helping others is that we get to share in the benefits ourselves… sometimes to an even greater extent than those we are helping. In many ways it’s the “what goes around comes around” dynamic in reverse. One of my mother’s favorite saying is; “The scent of the rose stays on the hand of the one who gives it to another.”
Today, ask God to use you as His instrument and expectantly watch with amazement at how quickly he answers your prayer. Then be alert to who He brings to you…and what He will show you out you to grow you. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on being an instrument of God.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
I pray that You will use me as Your instrument to carry out some important mission of mercy for You. I know Father that if You are going to use me as Your instrument, You will begin to fashion and shape me to be the best possible instrument I can be. Thank you Lord. Help me Lord to be a good listener and not a judge as you send those in need my way. In the name of the one who is pure love, Christ Jesus; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.
John 15:13
He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.
Matthew 10:39
that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, holding fast to the word of life, so that in the day of Christ I may be proud that I did not run in vain or labor in vain.
Philippians 2:15,16
There are a few prayers that I know God answers fastest, that God seems to always say “Yes” to. In fact, this particular prayer should come with a warning label; “Don’t pray this unless you are ready for instantaneous results.” The prayer is simple; “Please Lord, make me an instrument to carry out some important mission of mercy for you.” In other words, please use me to help someone in need. After you say this prayer someone in need is going to practically show up on your doorstep! Why does God answer this prayer so quickly? Because it facilitates God’s whole plan of salvation…to save us by using us. If He didn’t want to use us, as soon as we are saved, we would take us to heaven. We are called to go and spread the good news, be salt, be light, to all the earth.
I believe when you ask God to use you as an instrument to solve other people’s problems, He begins in earnest to help us with our problems. The natural outcome of helping others is that we get to share in the benefits ourselves… sometimes to an even greater extent than those we are helping. In many ways it’s the “what goes around comes around” dynamic in reverse. One of my mother’s favorite saying is; “The scent of the rose stays on the hand of the one who gives it to another.”
Today, ask God to use you as His instrument and expectantly watch with amazement at how quickly he answers your prayer. Then be alert to who He brings to you…and what He will show you out you to grow you. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on being an instrument of God.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
I pray that You will use me as Your instrument to carry out some important mission of mercy for You. I know Father that if You are going to use me as Your instrument, You will begin to fashion and shape me to be the best possible instrument I can be. Thank you Lord. Help me Lord to be a good listener and not a judge as you send those in need my way. In the name of the one who is pure love, Christ Jesus; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.
John 15:13
He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.
Matthew 10:39
that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, holding fast to the word of life, so that in the day of Christ I may be proud that I did not run in vain or labor in vain.
Philippians 2:15,16
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Stepping Stones: Live Within Today’s Boundaries
Transformational Tip
As a kid, I did great in sports…team championships, great personal performances, lots of cheers and adulation…but I remember very little. Only a couple blurred, vague memories. Why can’t I remember? I was anxious and afraid to fail, so I was always living in the future…what would happen if I didn’t perform well? I never really enjoyed the great things that were happening in the present. It continued as an adult. I would be at an amusement park with my kids…whipping around on a fun ride. But again, while I was riding, I was thinking about the future…which would be the best ride to get to next, where would the shortest line be, when should we eat lunch to avoid the long lines, what ride can we do next so the kids will have fun. Then the ride would end and I wouldn’t even remember it or have enjoyed it very much. If you try to carry tomorrow’s trouble today, you will stagger under the load and eventually fall flat. Focusing on tomorrow’s troubles is not only escapist…it’s irresponsible. Each day of your life is a gift from God; what does it say to God when you squander His gifts? Of course you cannot stop thinking about tomorrow altogether…that too would be irresponsible. The real question is; where do you live most of the time – in the present or in the future?
Today, when you feel stressed, anxious, angry – STOP. Ask yourself, “Am I living in the future, playing out worst case scenarios…or am I living and enjoying God’s amazing grace in the present?” Freedom comes from accepting His gifts and living them, everyday.
Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on living in the present vs. the future.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I rejoice in You Father, my savior and sovereign Lord. It is through You that I will go to great heights…transcending all my troubles of yesterday and tomorrow. Help me Father to keep my focus on today; this is very difficult for me. I try and focus on tomorrow’s problems to avoid facing today’s. I know You see my every thought Father, so you know how many of them are future-oriented. I pray that You will help me break this deeply engrained habit. I pray in the name of my savior, Jesus; and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
The LORD God is my strength; He will make my feet like deer’s feet, And He will make me walk on my high hills.
Habakkuk 3:19
Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.
Matthew 6:34
As a kid, I did great in sports…team championships, great personal performances, lots of cheers and adulation…but I remember very little. Only a couple blurred, vague memories. Why can’t I remember? I was anxious and afraid to fail, so I was always living in the future…what would happen if I didn’t perform well? I never really enjoyed the great things that were happening in the present. It continued as an adult. I would be at an amusement park with my kids…whipping around on a fun ride. But again, while I was riding, I was thinking about the future…which would be the best ride to get to next, where would the shortest line be, when should we eat lunch to avoid the long lines, what ride can we do next so the kids will have fun. Then the ride would end and I wouldn’t even remember it or have enjoyed it very much. If you try to carry tomorrow’s trouble today, you will stagger under the load and eventually fall flat. Focusing on tomorrow’s troubles is not only escapist…it’s irresponsible. Each day of your life is a gift from God; what does it say to God when you squander His gifts? Of course you cannot stop thinking about tomorrow altogether…that too would be irresponsible. The real question is; where do you live most of the time – in the present or in the future?
Today, when you feel stressed, anxious, angry – STOP. Ask yourself, “Am I living in the future, playing out worst case scenarios…or am I living and enjoying God’s amazing grace in the present?” Freedom comes from accepting His gifts and living them, everyday.
Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on living in the present vs. the future.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I rejoice in You Father, my savior and sovereign Lord. It is through You that I will go to great heights…transcending all my troubles of yesterday and tomorrow. Help me Father to keep my focus on today; this is very difficult for me. I try and focus on tomorrow’s problems to avoid facing today’s. I know You see my every thought Father, so you know how many of them are future-oriented. I pray that You will help me break this deeply engrained habit. I pray in the name of my savior, Jesus; and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
The LORD God is my strength; He will make my feet like deer’s feet, And He will make me walk on my high hills.
Habakkuk 3:19
Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.
Matthew 6:34
Monday, November 16, 2009
Stepping Stones: You Are the Only Key
Transformational Tip
We hear this all the time: “every one of us is special.” We’ve been told this by our parents, by our pastors, and priest at church...and of course by all those self-help gurus. Yeah, we all have different fingerprints, different DNA and so on…but does this really make each of us “special?” For most of my life I was very cynical about spiritual clichés like this. As I have recently begun to understand Christianity a bit better, I realized that yes, we are special as individuals. We are unique because every one of us has an extraordinary dignity simply because we are a child of God, made in God’s image and likeness, and redeemed by God’s son. We are not just human beings, rather we are keys…keys that God has individually crafted to fit certain locks. You are special because the lock you are called to open will accept only one key – a key that looks different, acts different; one that has different emotions, passions, skills and shortcomings from any other key. Because of these unique differences, the individual lock is also a unique, wonderful, and special life designed by God and available to only one key, YOU!
Today, remember that in the entire world there has only been one key that has the ability to open this one particular lock…and you are that key. That lock could be anything…something big or something small…something quiet or something loud. It could be that your son or daughter is destined to do something spectacular; something they could have never done without your influence. What ever the lock ends up being, one thing is for sure; it will be profoundly important to this world and immensely fulfilling to you personally. Go find your lock God designed for you, and stop wasting time on counterfeit locks Satan tricks you with. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on you being the key.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
I thank You Father for saying yes to my existence. I have not yet figured out why I am here, but I do believe, Lord, that You made me as a key. Help me find the lock that You created me to open. Help me find a way to communicate to others just how special they are simply because they are Your children. I pray in the name of my savior, Jesus; and all God’s children said, – Amen!
The Truth
For You formed my inward parts; You covered me in my mother’s womb.
Psalm 139:13
His lord said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant; you were faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over many things. Enter into the joy of your lord.’
Matthew 25:21
We hear this all the time: “every one of us is special.” We’ve been told this by our parents, by our pastors, and priest at church...and of course by all those self-help gurus. Yeah, we all have different fingerprints, different DNA and so on…but does this really make each of us “special?” For most of my life I was very cynical about spiritual clichés like this. As I have recently begun to understand Christianity a bit better, I realized that yes, we are special as individuals. We are unique because every one of us has an extraordinary dignity simply because we are a child of God, made in God’s image and likeness, and redeemed by God’s son. We are not just human beings, rather we are keys…keys that God has individually crafted to fit certain locks. You are special because the lock you are called to open will accept only one key – a key that looks different, acts different; one that has different emotions, passions, skills and shortcomings from any other key. Because of these unique differences, the individual lock is also a unique, wonderful, and special life designed by God and available to only one key, YOU!
Today, remember that in the entire world there has only been one key that has the ability to open this one particular lock…and you are that key. That lock could be anything…something big or something small…something quiet or something loud. It could be that your son or daughter is destined to do something spectacular; something they could have never done without your influence. What ever the lock ends up being, one thing is for sure; it will be profoundly important to this world and immensely fulfilling to you personally. Go find your lock God designed for you, and stop wasting time on counterfeit locks Satan tricks you with. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on you being the key.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
I thank You Father for saying yes to my existence. I have not yet figured out why I am here, but I do believe, Lord, that You made me as a key. Help me find the lock that You created me to open. Help me find a way to communicate to others just how special they are simply because they are Your children. I pray in the name of my savior, Jesus; and all God’s children said, – Amen!
The Truth
For You formed my inward parts; You covered me in my mother’s womb.
Psalm 139:13
His lord said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant; you were faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over many things. Enter into the joy of your lord.’
Matthew 25:21
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Stepping Stones: What's Holding You Back?
Transformational Tip
Goals are powerful. We use goals to motivate us to accomplish tasks we aren’t thrilled about. Money to pay our bills and support our family motivates us to go to that job we aren’t thrilled about…seeing someone we are dating on Friday motivates us to get through the work week…admission to our favorite college motivates us to study in high school… winning in athletics motivates us to practice. In today's scripture offering, Paul is saying that his goal was to know Christ, to be like Christ...and to be all Christ had in mind for him. This goal took all of Paul's energies. The beautiful thing about Paul’s goal, and it is the same for us…the goal is awesome, but the tasks to get to the goal are also awesome and enjoyable. The problem, Satan has infiltrated our wiring early in our life to deceive us into believing that the tasks to developing the mind of Christ are dangerous, boring, costly, harmful, and unnecessary. These are some of the many roadblocks Satan uses to block our relating with and becoming like Christ. I think Paul’s message is a helpful example for us as we all strive to move closer to Christ...to know Christ. Remember the faith formula (Believe > Receive >Become) Knowing Christ is the "become" part of the formula. WITHIN REACH, our new workshop, helps you understand and identify these obstacles, teaches you the hidden motivating benefits of making good decisions on all 3 spheres, shows what is holding you back, helps you achieve the life that God has, that is just within reach.
Today, identify the benefits of living life God’s way, of pursuing Him, and not doing things Satan’s way. This will keep you more focused and motivated to really pursue the mind of Christ. Strive to put aside anything harmful that may distract you from being the Christian God wants you to be. Easier said than done, I know. Maybe a good start would be to ask yourself the question..."What is holding me back?” Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on what is holding you back?
Prayer
Dear Father God, Trying to live a perfect Christian life can be so difficult that it leaves me drained and discouraged. I feel that I am so far from being a perfect Christian that I will never be able to please You with my life. During these times when I feel discouraged I am so thankful for Your message to me through Paul as he spoke to the Philippians. Help me today, Lord, to remember that you paid the price for my sinfulness, and remind me to forget what is behind me and to focus on winning the prize for which You have called me. I know that I am not a perfect Christian, but I also know that any progress I make to get closer to You is perfect progress. Help me, today, my God to act on the guidance that You have already given me through the Holy Spirit. Thank You Lord. I pray this prayer and all prayers with the authority of and in the name of Jesus; and all God’s people said – AMEN!
The Truth
Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 3:13-14
Goals are powerful. We use goals to motivate us to accomplish tasks we aren’t thrilled about. Money to pay our bills and support our family motivates us to go to that job we aren’t thrilled about…seeing someone we are dating on Friday motivates us to get through the work week…admission to our favorite college motivates us to study in high school… winning in athletics motivates us to practice. In today's scripture offering, Paul is saying that his goal was to know Christ, to be like Christ...and to be all Christ had in mind for him. This goal took all of Paul's energies. The beautiful thing about Paul’s goal, and it is the same for us…the goal is awesome, but the tasks to get to the goal are also awesome and enjoyable. The problem, Satan has infiltrated our wiring early in our life to deceive us into believing that the tasks to developing the mind of Christ are dangerous, boring, costly, harmful, and unnecessary. These are some of the many roadblocks Satan uses to block our relating with and becoming like Christ. I think Paul’s message is a helpful example for us as we all strive to move closer to Christ...to know Christ. Remember the faith formula (Believe > Receive >Become) Knowing Christ is the "become" part of the formula. WITHIN REACH, our new workshop, helps you understand and identify these obstacles, teaches you the hidden motivating benefits of making good decisions on all 3 spheres, shows what is holding you back, helps you achieve the life that God has, that is just within reach.
Today, identify the benefits of living life God’s way, of pursuing Him, and not doing things Satan’s way. This will keep you more focused and motivated to really pursue the mind of Christ. Strive to put aside anything harmful that may distract you from being the Christian God wants you to be. Easier said than done, I know. Maybe a good start would be to ask yourself the question..."What is holding me back?” Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on what is holding you back?
Prayer
Dear Father God, Trying to live a perfect Christian life can be so difficult that it leaves me drained and discouraged. I feel that I am so far from being a perfect Christian that I will never be able to please You with my life. During these times when I feel discouraged I am so thankful for Your message to me through Paul as he spoke to the Philippians. Help me today, Lord, to remember that you paid the price for my sinfulness, and remind me to forget what is behind me and to focus on winning the prize for which You have called me. I know that I am not a perfect Christian, but I also know that any progress I make to get closer to You is perfect progress. Help me, today, my God to act on the guidance that You have already given me through the Holy Spirit. Thank You Lord. I pray this prayer and all prayers with the authority of and in the name of Jesus; and all God’s people said – AMEN!
The Truth
Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 3:13-14
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Stepping Stones: Relationship or Obedience, How About You?
Transformational Tip
Yesterday we discussed God’s utmost desire and concern for us…to be in eternal and daily relationship with Him. He does want our obedience as well, but relationship is much more important to Him. My life transformed when God sent my beautiful wife, Martine, into my life…she embodied this principle perfectly to me. She loved me and loved relating to me, even with all my flaws and “disobedience” to her. She was able to forgive, and keep on telling me it’s ok, just relate to me. This revelation, not just knowing it, but actually believing it and living my life consistent with that belief dramatically changed my life. Unfortunately, it dawned on me…I guess that could have been my wife’s or kid’s frustration with me, or the Holy Spirit convicting me…that I was trapped in the same distortion with those around me. I was communicating to them that obedience was more important to me than their relationship. I was acting like kid # 1 from yesterday’s devotional instead of kid #2. It wasn’t my intention, wasn’t what I truly wanted from those close to me, but the message that was conveyed at times was about needing them to be perfect before I would relate to them. Talk about false pride… well, for me it is a battle that I fight each day and some days are better than others.
Today, think about and examine the subtle communications you give to those close to you. Your spouse, kids, parents, sibs. Are you showing them they are valuable to you just for being them? Or do you only have time for them when it fits your agenda, only are interested when it meets your needs? Do you make efforts to serve them or do you communicate that they need to “serve” you? Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on the message you give to others regarding Obedience vs. Relationship.
Prayer
O Father, You are so amazing. Thanks for Your love and thanks for sending Martine, to be Your example to open my eyes and show me Your desire for relationship with me. I pray for wisdom, courage, and humility as I try to embody Your desire to those around me, so I will be less judgmental and more loving and accepting. In the name of the one who is pure love, Christ Jesus; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
I will arise and go to my father, and I will say to him, "Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me as one of your hired servants."' And he arose and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him. And the son said to him, 'Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.'
But the father said to his servants, 'Bring quickly the best robe, and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet. And bring the fattened calf and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate. For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found.' And they began to celebrate.
Luke 15:18-24
Yesterday we discussed God’s utmost desire and concern for us…to be in eternal and daily relationship with Him. He does want our obedience as well, but relationship is much more important to Him. My life transformed when God sent my beautiful wife, Martine, into my life…she embodied this principle perfectly to me. She loved me and loved relating to me, even with all my flaws and “disobedience” to her. She was able to forgive, and keep on telling me it’s ok, just relate to me. This revelation, not just knowing it, but actually believing it and living my life consistent with that belief dramatically changed my life. Unfortunately, it dawned on me…I guess that could have been my wife’s or kid’s frustration with me, or the Holy Spirit convicting me…that I was trapped in the same distortion with those around me. I was communicating to them that obedience was more important to me than their relationship. I was acting like kid # 1 from yesterday’s devotional instead of kid #2. It wasn’t my intention, wasn’t what I truly wanted from those close to me, but the message that was conveyed at times was about needing them to be perfect before I would relate to them. Talk about false pride… well, for me it is a battle that I fight each day and some days are better than others.
Today, think about and examine the subtle communications you give to those close to you. Your spouse, kids, parents, sibs. Are you showing them they are valuable to you just for being them? Or do you only have time for them when it fits your agenda, only are interested when it meets your needs? Do you make efforts to serve them or do you communicate that they need to “serve” you? Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on the message you give to others regarding Obedience vs. Relationship.
Prayer
O Father, You are so amazing. Thanks for Your love and thanks for sending Martine, to be Your example to open my eyes and show me Your desire for relationship with me. I pray for wisdom, courage, and humility as I try to embody Your desire to those around me, so I will be less judgmental and more loving and accepting. In the name of the one who is pure love, Christ Jesus; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
I will arise and go to my father, and I will say to him, "Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me as one of your hired servants."' And he arose and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him. And the son said to him, 'Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.'
But the father said to his servants, 'Bring quickly the best robe, and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet. And bring the fattened calf and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate. For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found.' And they began to celebrate.
Luke 15:18-24
Friday, November 13, 2009
Stepping Stones: Relationship or Obedience?
Transformational Tip
Yesterday we discussed what God desires from us. Today I want to be more specific. Say you have a choice of the following 2 kids…which would you choose? “Straight A” does everything right, chores all perfect, homework on time, straight A’s, no breaking curfew, courteous, polite, follows all the rules…but, she didn’t really like you, it doesn’t matter to her if you feel down, she isn’t interested in spending time with you or finding out more about you and couldn’t wait to leave when she turns 18. “Absent Minded” is rough around the edges, needs reminding for chores and homework, grades range from D’s to B’s, forgetful, and ill-mannered at times…BUT, she loves you, cares about you, she celebrates when you were happy, and is sad when you hurt, wants to spend time with you, is interested in how you tick, what you are interested in, and what you dream about, and enjoys going on errands with you. No brainer, right. Sometimes we get caught up thinking God is more interested in obedience than relationship. Sure He wants both, but if He could only have one, He yearns for our relationship with Him. Just think of the criminal on the cross, who had minimal obedience, but believed in Christ and how God rewarded that eternally.
Today, take a look at how much your day is spent in dutiful obedience, and how much is spent building and growing relationship with our Heavenly Father. When you shift the scales so pursuit of relationship far outwieghs obedience, you will be amazed at how obedient to God and His instruction you actually become. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts of Obedience vs. Relationship.
Prayer
O God, thanks for desiring relationship with me before I learn how to be obedient. If it was the other way around, and I needed to be cleaned up before I was worthy enough for You, I would be eternally damned. Help me not to fall into our world’s mentality of pursuing your approval instead of pursuing You. Once I learn to be close to You, the rest will take care of itself. In the name of the one who binds me to You; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
And she had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord's feet and listened to his teaching. But Martha was distracted with much serving. And she went up to him and said, "Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me." But the Lord answered her, "Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her."
Luke 10:39-42
One of the criminals who were hanged railed at him, saying, "Are you not the Christ? Save yourself and us!" But the other rebuked him, saying, "Do you not fear God, since you are under the same sentence of condemnation? And we indeed justly, for we are receiving the due reward of our deeds; but this man has done nothing wrong." And he said, "Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom." And he said to him, "Truly, I say to you, today you will be with me in Paradise."
Luke 23:39-43
Yesterday we discussed what God desires from us. Today I want to be more specific. Say you have a choice of the following 2 kids…which would you choose? “Straight A” does everything right, chores all perfect, homework on time, straight A’s, no breaking curfew, courteous, polite, follows all the rules…but, she didn’t really like you, it doesn’t matter to her if you feel down, she isn’t interested in spending time with you or finding out more about you and couldn’t wait to leave when she turns 18. “Absent Minded” is rough around the edges, needs reminding for chores and homework, grades range from D’s to B’s, forgetful, and ill-mannered at times…BUT, she loves you, cares about you, she celebrates when you were happy, and is sad when you hurt, wants to spend time with you, is interested in how you tick, what you are interested in, and what you dream about, and enjoys going on errands with you. No brainer, right. Sometimes we get caught up thinking God is more interested in obedience than relationship. Sure He wants both, but if He could only have one, He yearns for our relationship with Him. Just think of the criminal on the cross, who had minimal obedience, but believed in Christ and how God rewarded that eternally.
Today, take a look at how much your day is spent in dutiful obedience, and how much is spent building and growing relationship with our Heavenly Father. When you shift the scales so pursuit of relationship far outwieghs obedience, you will be amazed at how obedient to God and His instruction you actually become. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts of Obedience vs. Relationship.
Prayer
O God, thanks for desiring relationship with me before I learn how to be obedient. If it was the other way around, and I needed to be cleaned up before I was worthy enough for You, I would be eternally damned. Help me not to fall into our world’s mentality of pursuing your approval instead of pursuing You. Once I learn to be close to You, the rest will take care of itself. In the name of the one who binds me to You; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
And she had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord's feet and listened to his teaching. But Martha was distracted with much serving. And she went up to him and said, "Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me." But the Lord answered her, "Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her."
Luke 10:39-42
One of the criminals who were hanged railed at him, saying, "Are you not the Christ? Save yourself and us!" But the other rebuked him, saying, "Do you not fear God, since you are under the same sentence of condemnation? And we indeed justly, for we are receiving the due reward of our deeds; but this man has done nothing wrong." And he said, "Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom." And he said to him, "Truly, I say to you, today you will be with me in Paradise."
Luke 23:39-43
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Stepping Stones: What Does God Want From Me?
Transformational Tip
When I look back at my childhood, I realize a big disconnect that dramatically affected me through my teen and early adult years…and I still battle it’s ripples even now. The disconnect…what my parents really wanted from me as a kid was quite different from what I thought they wanted from me. Lots of reasons for this, but I wish I would have known then what I know now about my parent’s heart. Similarly, a lot of my spiritual (then leading to psychological and relational) problems have to do with another disconnect…between what God really wants from me and what I thought God wanted. God doesn’t need our plans and ideas. He needs our attention. He doesn’t need our time; He wants our adoration. He does not want us to spend hours thinking up things for Him to do and bless; He wants us to spread His Word and further His Kingdom here on earth. I am so grateful that we serve a God that is not dependent on our strength, our time, and our money. What a mess that would be. I believe that He wants us in a place where we know that it is Him leading. He is our shield and a shield works best in front, not behind us. Our question must be, “What is it you want me to do Lord?” Most of us don’t even know our own hearts. Our ways are not His ways.
Today, take a piece of paper and draw 2 lines down the page dividing it into 3 equal parts. First, without thinking, write down the first things that come to mind about what God desires you. Then, in the middle section, write what the Bible says God wants of, from, and for you. Lastly, in the section on the right, write down what others would write about you based on what they observe from your daily behavior and if they could see into your thoughts(who you really are). Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on what God wants from us.
Prayer
O God, thank You so much for loving me how I am. I want to know Your desires and plan for me, and at times I have glimpses of it and actually live it…but then the world clutter and my old tapes start playing and I lose sight of Your real desires for me. Thanks for persevering with Your plan for me even though I take the long way to Your goal. Thank You for the trials that can cause me to trust You. Help me give praise to You during the really tough storms in life. I know You are working all things out for your Glory. In Jesus’ name; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose
Romans 8:28
And I will put this third into the fire, and refine them as one refines silver, and test them as gold is tested. They will call upon my name, and I will answer them. I will say, 'They are my people'; and they will say, 'The LORD is my God.
Zechariah 13:9
You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might.
Deuteronomy 6:5
When I look back at my childhood, I realize a big disconnect that dramatically affected me through my teen and early adult years…and I still battle it’s ripples even now. The disconnect…what my parents really wanted from me as a kid was quite different from what I thought they wanted from me. Lots of reasons for this, but I wish I would have known then what I know now about my parent’s heart. Similarly, a lot of my spiritual (then leading to psychological and relational) problems have to do with another disconnect…between what God really wants from me and what I thought God wanted. God doesn’t need our plans and ideas. He needs our attention. He doesn’t need our time; He wants our adoration. He does not want us to spend hours thinking up things for Him to do and bless; He wants us to spread His Word and further His Kingdom here on earth. I am so grateful that we serve a God that is not dependent on our strength, our time, and our money. What a mess that would be. I believe that He wants us in a place where we know that it is Him leading. He is our shield and a shield works best in front, not behind us. Our question must be, “What is it you want me to do Lord?” Most of us don’t even know our own hearts. Our ways are not His ways.
Today, take a piece of paper and draw 2 lines down the page dividing it into 3 equal parts. First, without thinking, write down the first things that come to mind about what God desires you. Then, in the middle section, write what the Bible says God wants of, from, and for you. Lastly, in the section on the right, write down what others would write about you based on what they observe from your daily behavior and if they could see into your thoughts(who you really are). Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on what God wants from us.
Prayer
O God, thank You so much for loving me how I am. I want to know Your desires and plan for me, and at times I have glimpses of it and actually live it…but then the world clutter and my old tapes start playing and I lose sight of Your real desires for me. Thanks for persevering with Your plan for me even though I take the long way to Your goal. Thank You for the trials that can cause me to trust You. Help me give praise to You during the really tough storms in life. I know You are working all things out for your Glory. In Jesus’ name; and all God’s children said - AMEN!
The Truth
And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose
Romans 8:28
And I will put this third into the fire, and refine them as one refines silver, and test them as gold is tested. They will call upon my name, and I will answer them. I will say, 'They are my people'; and they will say, 'The LORD is my God.
Zechariah 13:9
You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might.
Deuteronomy 6:5
Stepping Stones: Nothing is Impossible
Transformational Tip
I always was amazed how women bonded to kids so quickly, even before they were born. My wife was also very attached and the bond grew during infancy. For me, bonding really started when my kids were able to move around, flip over, and crawl. One day, my daughter was scooting along, and she easily got up on the hearth of the fireplace…it was only 1-2 inches high. Just the thickness of thick slate. After exploring a bit, she decided to come down, but couldn’t. she was afraid. She kept on putting her hand out over the ledge, trying to feel the drop off, but wouldn’t put her hand all the way to the floor. I was coaxing her…c’mon, it’s so easy, just one inch. But fear had taken over and no way she could see the facts accurately. FEAR…False Evidence Appearing Real. Fear greatly limits what we believe God can and will do for us. Fear lowers our expectation of God…and of ourselves. We start to believe what the world teaches, or our immature flesh wants to believe for short-term relief. This is why we need to be rooted in the truth, so fear can’t distort our lenses.
Today, when fear and anxiety wedge their way into your thoughts, remember that God is your Shepherd. Through your faith you know He will care for you….so you need not be afraid of anything. Release control of your life to His will. Know and believe that the safest place I can be is within His will. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on how you come to believe nothing is impossible.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I come to you with all my weaknesses; physical, emotional and spiritual. Help me to accept Your invitation to be comforted in Your presence… and to remember that nothing is impossible for You. I pray that I might take my mind off my problems so that I can focus my attention on You. I know that You can do far beyond what I ask, far beyond what I can imagine. Praise to You Lord, Thank You Lord. Help me move away from simply asking You to do this and that…rather help me attune myself to what you are already doing in my life. I pray in the name of my savior, Jesus; and all God’s children said, – Amen!
The Truth
For with God, nothing will be impossible.
Luke 1:37
Ah, Lord GOD! It is you who have made the heavens and the earth by your great power and by your outstretched arm! Nothing is too hard for you.
Jeremiah 32:17
I always was amazed how women bonded to kids so quickly, even before they were born. My wife was also very attached and the bond grew during infancy. For me, bonding really started when my kids were able to move around, flip over, and crawl. One day, my daughter was scooting along, and she easily got up on the hearth of the fireplace…it was only 1-2 inches high. Just the thickness of thick slate. After exploring a bit, she decided to come down, but couldn’t. she was afraid. She kept on putting her hand out over the ledge, trying to feel the drop off, but wouldn’t put her hand all the way to the floor. I was coaxing her…c’mon, it’s so easy, just one inch. But fear had taken over and no way she could see the facts accurately. FEAR…False Evidence Appearing Real. Fear greatly limits what we believe God can and will do for us. Fear lowers our expectation of God…and of ourselves. We start to believe what the world teaches, or our immature flesh wants to believe for short-term relief. This is why we need to be rooted in the truth, so fear can’t distort our lenses.
Today, when fear and anxiety wedge their way into your thoughts, remember that God is your Shepherd. Through your faith you know He will care for you….so you need not be afraid of anything. Release control of your life to His will. Know and believe that the safest place I can be is within His will. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on how you come to believe nothing is impossible.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I come to you with all my weaknesses; physical, emotional and spiritual. Help me to accept Your invitation to be comforted in Your presence… and to remember that nothing is impossible for You. I pray that I might take my mind off my problems so that I can focus my attention on You. I know that You can do far beyond what I ask, far beyond what I can imagine. Praise to You Lord, Thank You Lord. Help me move away from simply asking You to do this and that…rather help me attune myself to what you are already doing in my life. I pray in the name of my savior, Jesus; and all God’s children said, – Amen!
The Truth
For with God, nothing will be impossible.
Luke 1:37
Ah, Lord GOD! It is you who have made the heavens and the earth by your great power and by your outstretched arm! Nothing is too hard for you.
Jeremiah 32:17
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Stepping Stones: New Life...A Brain Transplant
Transformational Tip
I talked with three strangers today…all separate, distinct encounters. But there was a common thread of similarity that ran through all three conversations… sadly, they all appear to be living the “old” life. I did not have a talk with them about their relationship with God or their spirituality…but the unhappiness and hopelessness came through so strongly. Isn’t this something we all either struggle with or have a tendency to gravitate to unless we are diligent with our thoughts and focus. I know that when I became a Christian, I didn’t get a brain transplant. Old wiring, connections, thought patterns, Satan’s strongholds, memories, and experiences were still in there, affecting my view of everything. If you too are living the old life, remember, God offers you new life—the life of Christ. The Resurrection affirms the promise Christ made. For it was HIS life he offered to give us new life. We are free to be whom He meant us to be when He created us.
Today, when you are stressed or feel down about yourself or circumstances, stop and ask yourself, “am I looking at this through lenses of the old life or lenses of the new life?” Adjusting your perspective will work on that brain transplant…a renewing of the mind…we all need to develop the mind of Christ. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on whether you need a brain transplant or have already started the transplant process.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I thank you for the offer and the guarantee of new life. I know what it’s like living with a heart of stone…going through the motions…living in a state of fear and worry. Thank you for turning my heart of stone into a heart that’s alive and can have hope. Thanks for Your work in my life to purge the old self, old man, old ways and renew my mind. Even though I give up, thanks for not giving up on Your goal to finish the work You started. I pray in the name of the reason for my new life, Christ Jesus; and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will take the heart of stone out of your flesh and give you a heart of flesh.
Ezekiel 36:26
Likewise you also, reckon yourselves to be dead indeed to sin, but alive to God in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 6:11
to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.
Ephesians 4:22-24
I talked with three strangers today…all separate, distinct encounters. But there was a common thread of similarity that ran through all three conversations… sadly, they all appear to be living the “old” life. I did not have a talk with them about their relationship with God or their spirituality…but the unhappiness and hopelessness came through so strongly. Isn’t this something we all either struggle with or have a tendency to gravitate to unless we are diligent with our thoughts and focus. I know that when I became a Christian, I didn’t get a brain transplant. Old wiring, connections, thought patterns, Satan’s strongholds, memories, and experiences were still in there, affecting my view of everything. If you too are living the old life, remember, God offers you new life—the life of Christ. The Resurrection affirms the promise Christ made. For it was HIS life he offered to give us new life. We are free to be whom He meant us to be when He created us.
Today, when you are stressed or feel down about yourself or circumstances, stop and ask yourself, “am I looking at this through lenses of the old life or lenses of the new life?” Adjusting your perspective will work on that brain transplant…a renewing of the mind…we all need to develop the mind of Christ. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on whether you need a brain transplant or have already started the transplant process.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I thank you for the offer and the guarantee of new life. I know what it’s like living with a heart of stone…going through the motions…living in a state of fear and worry. Thank you for turning my heart of stone into a heart that’s alive and can have hope. Thanks for Your work in my life to purge the old self, old man, old ways and renew my mind. Even though I give up, thanks for not giving up on Your goal to finish the work You started. I pray in the name of the reason for my new life, Christ Jesus; and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will take the heart of stone out of your flesh and give you a heart of flesh.
Ezekiel 36:26
Likewise you also, reckon yourselves to be dead indeed to sin, but alive to God in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 6:11
to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.
Ephesians 4:22-24
Monday, November 9, 2009
Stepping Stones: Tiger or Man
Transformational Tip
Got a test for you. What is stronger, a tiger or a man? You know, physically stronger. Correct, a tiger. Who is locked in a cage, a tiger of a man? Tiger, correct again. Well if a tiger is stronger, why is the tiger the one locked up in a cage? Here is a hint…what does the man have that the tiger doesn’t. Gun, trap, tranquilizers, strategy. It all comes from brains. If man uses his intelligence, he can control the tiger. If he doesn’t use his intelligence, the tiger will devour him. The tiger represents our emotions. If you don’t use your intelligence…think…your emotions kill you. Whether it is getting you in trouble with poor judgment, raising your blood pressure and many other physical effects, or interfering with your awareness of God in your situation and applying His instruction, your emotions will harm you. We don’t want to annihilate our emotions, just like the tiger for entertainment, education, edification, we want to keep our emotions around because they do have a significant purpose. Our emotions are a tremendous gift from God, even our “negative” feelings, but that is another devotional.
Today, when you are experiencing some negative feelings, stop and think. Thinking before reacting is always helpful. Ask yourself, “are my feelings controlling my thinking, or is my intelligence controlling my feelings?” Take a deep breath and think about the real problem and a solution. When you are able to think through your emotional states, your level of success during adversity will be dramatically improved. Click here to get a resource to help you understand how to manage your feelings better. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on how you who’s stronger, your tiger or man.
Prayer
Dear Father God, thanks so much for giving me intelligence and my emotions. I confess that I don’t think sometimes and I let my feelings devour my brains, and wow, the damage to others, you, and me is so embarrassing to face sometimes. Help me control my feelings better, and improve my “taking every thought captive.” I pray in the name the perfect role model, Christ Jesus; and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ,
2 Corinthians 10:5
Whoever is slow to anger has great understanding, but he who has a hasty temper exalts folly. A tranquil heart gives life to the flesh, but envy makes the bones rot.
Proverbs 14:29,30
Got a test for you. What is stronger, a tiger or a man? You know, physically stronger. Correct, a tiger. Who is locked in a cage, a tiger of a man? Tiger, correct again. Well if a tiger is stronger, why is the tiger the one locked up in a cage? Here is a hint…what does the man have that the tiger doesn’t. Gun, trap, tranquilizers, strategy. It all comes from brains. If man uses his intelligence, he can control the tiger. If he doesn’t use his intelligence, the tiger will devour him. The tiger represents our emotions. If you don’t use your intelligence…think…your emotions kill you. Whether it is getting you in trouble with poor judgment, raising your blood pressure and many other physical effects, or interfering with your awareness of God in your situation and applying His instruction, your emotions will harm you. We don’t want to annihilate our emotions, just like the tiger for entertainment, education, edification, we want to keep our emotions around because they do have a significant purpose. Our emotions are a tremendous gift from God, even our “negative” feelings, but that is another devotional.
Today, when you are experiencing some negative feelings, stop and think. Thinking before reacting is always helpful. Ask yourself, “are my feelings controlling my thinking, or is my intelligence controlling my feelings?” Take a deep breath and think about the real problem and a solution. When you are able to think through your emotional states, your level of success during adversity will be dramatically improved. Click here to get a resource to help you understand how to manage your feelings better. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on how you who’s stronger, your tiger or man.
Prayer
Dear Father God, thanks so much for giving me intelligence and my emotions. I confess that I don’t think sometimes and I let my feelings devour my brains, and wow, the damage to others, you, and me is so embarrassing to face sometimes. Help me control my feelings better, and improve my “taking every thought captive.” I pray in the name the perfect role model, Christ Jesus; and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ,
2 Corinthians 10:5
Whoever is slow to anger has great understanding, but he who has a hasty temper exalts folly. A tranquil heart gives life to the flesh, but envy makes the bones rot.
Proverbs 14:29,30
Saturday, November 7, 2009
A Glimpse of Heaven
Transformational Tip
Each year in the small town I grew up, the local park district ran a kite-flying contest. It was one of the main summer events for children...an all day affair. It was always my dream as a boy to win that contest, but I never seemed to have the money for a kite. One year my mother decided "we" were going to win that contest. She built a kite with old wood, string, and paper from a couple of brown paper sacks. It was an ugly kite...until she finished her artwork. On the front she drew a vision of heaven; she used a picture out of our big Bible as a guide. She used gold and silver crayon...it was a masterpiece. She told me that God inspired the artist so that we could have a glimpse into heaven. Well, that day, God inspired my mother...we all got a glimpse into heaven through her drawing. At the contest the kite couldn't fly...just too heavy. But we one first prize! Living in collaboration with God, through Jesus, can give us a glimpse of heaven. Jesus' miracles, attitude, and actions are a sneak preview of Heaven.
Today, when you see something wonderful, realize heaven is that close and celebrate. When you see something wrong, imagine what Heaven's version would be, and through you, draw God into that situation, altering the situation to be more like Heaven. Don't doubt...laugh...or walk away in resignation. The Holy Spirit is powerfully in you. Begin to do this you-and-Him adventure that will continue throughout eternity in Heaven. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on previewing Heaven on Earth.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I thank You Father for always being before me, leading me one stepping stone at a time. I thank You Father for Your reassurance that nothing in this creation can separate me from Your loving existence. I want to live my life focused on You in the here and now. I do believe that You are always before me...leading and encouraging me. However I struggle, Father, with living out that reality moment by moment. During those times when I am able to stay focused on You, my work becomes infused with Your presence and work becomes like play. I pray in the name of He who was Heaven on Earth, Christ Jesus; and all God's children said, - AMEN!
The Truth
And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ.
Colossians 3:23-24
For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 8:38-39
Each year in the small town I grew up, the local park district ran a kite-flying contest. It was one of the main summer events for children...an all day affair. It was always my dream as a boy to win that contest, but I never seemed to have the money for a kite. One year my mother decided "we" were going to win that contest. She built a kite with old wood, string, and paper from a couple of brown paper sacks. It was an ugly kite...until she finished her artwork. On the front she drew a vision of heaven; she used a picture out of our big Bible as a guide. She used gold and silver crayon...it was a masterpiece. She told me that God inspired the artist so that we could have a glimpse into heaven. Well, that day, God inspired my mother...we all got a glimpse into heaven through her drawing. At the contest the kite couldn't fly...just too heavy. But we one first prize! Living in collaboration with God, through Jesus, can give us a glimpse of heaven. Jesus' miracles, attitude, and actions are a sneak preview of Heaven.
Today, when you see something wonderful, realize heaven is that close and celebrate. When you see something wrong, imagine what Heaven's version would be, and through you, draw God into that situation, altering the situation to be more like Heaven. Don't doubt...laugh...or walk away in resignation. The Holy Spirit is powerfully in you. Begin to do this you-and-Him adventure that will continue throughout eternity in Heaven. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on previewing Heaven on Earth.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I thank You Father for always being before me, leading me one stepping stone at a time. I thank You Father for Your reassurance that nothing in this creation can separate me from Your loving existence. I want to live my life focused on You in the here and now. I do believe that You are always before me...leading and encouraging me. However I struggle, Father, with living out that reality moment by moment. During those times when I am able to stay focused on You, my work becomes infused with Your presence and work becomes like play. I pray in the name of He who was Heaven on Earth, Christ Jesus; and all God's children said, - AMEN!
The Truth
And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ.
Colossians 3:23-24
For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 8:38-39
Stepping Stones: How Long, Lord?
Transformational Tip
God tells us throughout scripture that he is there...that he will rescue us. Yet there is something about God’s rescues that make them a little less timely than dialing 911. He leaves Abraham with his knife raised and ready to plunge into Isaac’s heart, and Isaac waiting for the knife to descend; he leaves Joseph languishing for years in an Egyptian prison; he allows the Israelites to suffer four hundred years of bondage under the Egyptians. He abandons Jesus to the cross and does not rescue him at all. And then there are those of us who are groaning under the weight of things gone wrong, waiting for that same Jesus to return and sweep us up with him in power and glory. “How long, Lord?” we whisper in our weariness and pain. Satan wants us to think God will never come, or if He comes to our rescue, it will be too late. God is the perfect coach, teacher, and parent…He knows exactly how long we need to struggle in a drill, project, or adversity for us to develop more maturity, resiliency…the mind of Christ.
Today, when God calls you to battles where the deck appears stacked in favor of those who are His enemies and ours, go fight that battle. Don’t cave in and engage in dysfunctional behavior, do what is right, what is God honoring. This will empower you spiritually, psychologically, and actually strengthen your brain chemistry. Forget about how long the rescue will take…rest in God’s perfect timing. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on impatience…God’s timing vs. your wants.
Prayer
Dear Father God, You are awesome and so powerful over everything, including time. I confess, time still matters to me…too much.. I come to you tired and full of pain. I pray and I wait for you to rescue me. I confess Father that I grow impatient. Help me Father to know and remember that you are in control…that it is your timing I must adhere to and accept. How long must I wait Lord? Help me humble myself to Your timeline, Your will, Your plan for me. Help me know Your love for me…that You do care about what happens to me. I pray in the name of He who was my timeless Savior, Christ Jesus; and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
Then I said, "Ah, Lord GOD! Behold, I do not know how to speak, for I am only a youth." But the LORD said to me, "Do not say, 'I am only a youth'; for to all to whom I send you, you shall go, and whatever I command you, you shall speak. Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you to deliver you, declares the LORD."
Jeremiah 1:6-8
But when Christ had offered for all time a single sacrifice for sins, he sat down at the right hand of God, waiting from that time until his enemies should be made a footstool for his feet. For by a single offering he has perfected for all time those who are being sanctified.
Hebrews 10:12-14
God tells us throughout scripture that he is there...that he will rescue us. Yet there is something about God’s rescues that make them a little less timely than dialing 911. He leaves Abraham with his knife raised and ready to plunge into Isaac’s heart, and Isaac waiting for the knife to descend; he leaves Joseph languishing for years in an Egyptian prison; he allows the Israelites to suffer four hundred years of bondage under the Egyptians. He abandons Jesus to the cross and does not rescue him at all. And then there are those of us who are groaning under the weight of things gone wrong, waiting for that same Jesus to return and sweep us up with him in power and glory. “How long, Lord?” we whisper in our weariness and pain. Satan wants us to think God will never come, or if He comes to our rescue, it will be too late. God is the perfect coach, teacher, and parent…He knows exactly how long we need to struggle in a drill, project, or adversity for us to develop more maturity, resiliency…the mind of Christ.
Today, when God calls you to battles where the deck appears stacked in favor of those who are His enemies and ours, go fight that battle. Don’t cave in and engage in dysfunctional behavior, do what is right, what is God honoring. This will empower you spiritually, psychologically, and actually strengthen your brain chemistry. Forget about how long the rescue will take…rest in God’s perfect timing. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on impatience…God’s timing vs. your wants.
Prayer
Dear Father God, You are awesome and so powerful over everything, including time. I confess, time still matters to me…too much.. I come to you tired and full of pain. I pray and I wait for you to rescue me. I confess Father that I grow impatient. Help me Father to know and remember that you are in control…that it is your timing I must adhere to and accept. How long must I wait Lord? Help me humble myself to Your timeline, Your will, Your plan for me. Help me know Your love for me…that You do care about what happens to me. I pray in the name of He who was my timeless Savior, Christ Jesus; and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
Then I said, "Ah, Lord GOD! Behold, I do not know how to speak, for I am only a youth." But the LORD said to me, "Do not say, 'I am only a youth'; for to all to whom I send you, you shall go, and whatever I command you, you shall speak. Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you to deliver you, declares the LORD."
Jeremiah 1:6-8
But when Christ had offered for all time a single sacrifice for sins, he sat down at the right hand of God, waiting from that time until his enemies should be made a footstool for his feet. For by a single offering he has perfected for all time those who are being sanctified.
Hebrews 10:12-14
Friday, November 6, 2009
Stepping Stones: Don't Agree With Him
Transformational Tip
The evil one is lying to us, seeking our agreement…every single day. He doesn’t just plant the thought in our head and hearts; he keeps hammering away until we agree with him. Jesus called Satan the “Father of Lies”. One of his all time favorite lie is - You do not really love Jesus…that you are only pretending…that you are only deceiving yourself. You really wouldn’t be thinking these thoughts…doing these things, if you really loved Jesus with all your heart. This ranks right up there as some of the worse news he could deliver to you? He’s hoping we’ll buy into whatever he’s saying, offering, insinuating. Our first parents bought into it, and look what disaster came of it. Stand firm on the truth. Do not agree with him!
Today, try and hang onto this fact; Your heart matters to God. Try to hold this up for even a day. My heart matters to God. You will be amazed at how much accusation you live under. I’m such a lousy parent, I’m such a bad spouse, I’m such a weak Christian, I have no will power. And slowly another agreement is made. Satan will take any small victory he can get. It moves from you did a bad thing to you are bad. After a while it just becomes a cloud we live under, accept as normal. Do not agree with him. There is a reason why Jesus said, “the truth will set you free.” Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on the accusation and lies you live under.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I thank You Father for Your Holy Word that warns us about Satan’s lies. I am so tired of living under this cloud of accusation and lies. I pray Lord that You will help me remember today and everyday that You made me in Your image…and that my heart matters to you. Help me, Father, to avoid agreeing with the enemy. I pray in the name of the truth, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
“and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."
John 8:32
(Jesus speaking about satan)“He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of it.”
John 8:44
I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and her offspring; he shall bruise your head, and you shall bruise his heel."
Genesis 3:15
The evil one is lying to us, seeking our agreement…every single day. He doesn’t just plant the thought in our head and hearts; he keeps hammering away until we agree with him. Jesus called Satan the “Father of Lies”. One of his all time favorite lie is - You do not really love Jesus…that you are only pretending…that you are only deceiving yourself. You really wouldn’t be thinking these thoughts…doing these things, if you really loved Jesus with all your heart. This ranks right up there as some of the worse news he could deliver to you? He’s hoping we’ll buy into whatever he’s saying, offering, insinuating. Our first parents bought into it, and look what disaster came of it. Stand firm on the truth. Do not agree with him!
Today, try and hang onto this fact; Your heart matters to God. Try to hold this up for even a day. My heart matters to God. You will be amazed at how much accusation you live under. I’m such a lousy parent, I’m such a bad spouse, I’m such a weak Christian, I have no will power. And slowly another agreement is made. Satan will take any small victory he can get. It moves from you did a bad thing to you are bad. After a while it just becomes a cloud we live under, accept as normal. Do not agree with him. There is a reason why Jesus said, “the truth will set you free.” Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on the accusation and lies you live under.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I thank You Father for Your Holy Word that warns us about Satan’s lies. I am so tired of living under this cloud of accusation and lies. I pray Lord that You will help me remember today and everyday that You made me in Your image…and that my heart matters to you. Help me, Father, to avoid agreeing with the enemy. I pray in the name of the truth, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
“and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."
John 8:32
(Jesus speaking about satan)“He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of it.”
John 8:44
I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and her offspring; he shall bruise your head, and you shall bruise his heel."
Genesis 3:15
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Stepping Stones: Don't Become Firewood
Transformational Tip
In my younger days, I enjoyed cutting and splitting my own firewood. I would cut, split, and stack all summer, then enjoy the warmth of the fireplace during the winter. If you’ve ever split wood, you know how important and effective the “wedge” is. The wedge is a heavy chunk of metal with a sharp edge on one end and a flat surface on the other end. Green wood is very difficult to split…to separate the wood into logs. The wedge is slowly pounded into the logs with a sledgehammer, and as it goes in, it pushes the wood apart, tearing the fibers…weakening it to the point of failure. The harder the wood the more times you have to hit the wedge.
This is the enemy’s single-minded focus…to separate us from our Father. His swings of the hammer are like the neglect we feel as he uses a wedge of deceit like: “See, no one cares. You’re on your own.” He uses a sudden loss of innocence to tell us, “See, this is a dangerous world, and you are alone. You’ve been abandoned.” He uses assaults and abuses to scream at you, “See, this is all you are good for.” And by his constant striking of the wedge…he weakens us and separates us from our Father. The details are different and unique to each of us, but the effect is always the same…an injury to the soul, and with it separation from our Father. It’s dramatic but true…the enemy wants to split us from God and put us in the fire!
But God is not willing to simply let that be the end of the story…here’s the good news. Remember what Jesus taught us about the Father’s heart in the parable of the lost son. Filled with compassion, our Father God, will come like a loving Father, take the wedge out and take us close to his heart. He will also take us back to heal the injuries, finish things that didn’t get finished. He will come for you, no matter how old you might now be, how far away from Him you feel…and He makes you his dearly loved daughter or son.
Today, identify one lie, the wedge, that Satan uses to separate you from God’s love and life for you. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on how the enemy uses wedges to separate you from your Father.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
My deepest desire is to trust You with my whole being. But this trust does not come easily for me Father. I know, Father, that if I learn to trust You…really trust You…nothing can separate me from Your peace. I will endure the pounding of the wedge and will use each strike to train me in trusting You. I will ruin the enemy’s plan by growing in grace through the very adversity he uses to try and harm me. I pray in the name of the reason for my trust, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him
Luke 15:20
Above all, taking the shield of faith with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one.
Ephesians 6:16
In my younger days, I enjoyed cutting and splitting my own firewood. I would cut, split, and stack all summer, then enjoy the warmth of the fireplace during the winter. If you’ve ever split wood, you know how important and effective the “wedge” is. The wedge is a heavy chunk of metal with a sharp edge on one end and a flat surface on the other end. Green wood is very difficult to split…to separate the wood into logs. The wedge is slowly pounded into the logs with a sledgehammer, and as it goes in, it pushes the wood apart, tearing the fibers…weakening it to the point of failure. The harder the wood the more times you have to hit the wedge.
This is the enemy’s single-minded focus…to separate us from our Father. His swings of the hammer are like the neglect we feel as he uses a wedge of deceit like: “See, no one cares. You’re on your own.” He uses a sudden loss of innocence to tell us, “See, this is a dangerous world, and you are alone. You’ve been abandoned.” He uses assaults and abuses to scream at you, “See, this is all you are good for.” And by his constant striking of the wedge…he weakens us and separates us from our Father. The details are different and unique to each of us, but the effect is always the same…an injury to the soul, and with it separation from our Father. It’s dramatic but true…the enemy wants to split us from God and put us in the fire!
But God is not willing to simply let that be the end of the story…here’s the good news. Remember what Jesus taught us about the Father’s heart in the parable of the lost son. Filled with compassion, our Father God, will come like a loving Father, take the wedge out and take us close to his heart. He will also take us back to heal the injuries, finish things that didn’t get finished. He will come for you, no matter how old you might now be, how far away from Him you feel…and He makes you his dearly loved daughter or son.
Today, identify one lie, the wedge, that Satan uses to separate you from God’s love and life for you. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on how the enemy uses wedges to separate you from your Father.
Prayer
Dear Father God,
My deepest desire is to trust You with my whole being. But this trust does not come easily for me Father. I know, Father, that if I learn to trust You…really trust You…nothing can separate me from Your peace. I will endure the pounding of the wedge and will use each strike to train me in trusting You. I will ruin the enemy’s plan by growing in grace through the very adversity he uses to try and harm me. I pray in the name of the reason for my trust, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him
Luke 15:20
Above all, taking the shield of faith with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one.
Ephesians 6:16
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Stepping Stones: The Ultimate Coach
Transformational Tip
Watching the Pittsburgh Steeler defense dominate…a 15 yo gymnast just nail her floor routine…a closer shutting the 9th inning door…the US Olympic men’s basketball team winning gold in the last Olympics. Sports present us such great pictures and explanations of how the relationship between God and us works. To maximize performance, the athlete really has to trust the coach in all areas of instruction and strategy. Truly believe their coach wants the best for them, knows the best way to accomplish that, and knows how to get it out of the athlete. Our relationship with God is the same way. We talked about how powerful that child-like for-all-the-marbles trust in God can be, what it can propel us to do, and how much peace and comfort it will bring. I’ve seen it so many times; God doing His greatest work through people with grateful, trusting hearts. The absence of trust is doubt and fear…both coming from an absence of faith. Just think for a moment what it means to have God as your strength. He is the greatest coach and has the best training program to maximize your life, for your enjoyment.
Today, instead of trying to fight your fears, concentrate on trusting Him…this is a shift that will revolutionize your life. Identify one thing you would need to believe differently about God in order to trust Him 100% today…then just trust His promises and see how it goes. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on why you can trust God and others or struggle trusting God and others.
Watching the Pittsburgh Steeler defense dominate…a 15 yo gymnast just nail her floor routine…a closer shutting the 9th inning door…the US Olympic men’s basketball team winning gold in the last Olympics. Sports present us such great pictures and explanations of how the relationship between God and us works. To maximize performance, the athlete really has to trust the coach in all areas of instruction and strategy. Truly believe their coach wants the best for them, knows the best way to accomplish that, and knows how to get it out of the athlete. Our relationship with God is the same way. We talked about how powerful that child-like for-all-the-marbles trust in God can be, what it can propel us to do, and how much peace and comfort it will bring. I’ve seen it so many times; God doing His greatest work through people with grateful, trusting hearts. The absence of trust is doubt and fear…both coming from an absence of faith. Just think for a moment what it means to have God as your strength. He is the greatest coach and has the best training program to maximize your life, for your enjoyment.
Today, instead of trying to fight your fears, concentrate on trusting Him…this is a shift that will revolutionize your life. Identify one thing you would need to believe differently about God in order to trust Him 100% today…then just trust His promises and see how it goes. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on why you can trust God and others or struggle trusting God and others.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I know that when I relate to You with confident trust there is no limit to how much You can strengthen me. Help build my trust in You Lord, for I know that trust is the channel in which Your peace flows into me. I believe, Father God, that Your power is absolutely unlimited. You are so strong and I am so weak. I consecrate my human weakness to You Lord, drawing Your power to my weakness. I pray in the name of the reason for my trust, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
Dear Father God, I know that when I relate to You with confident trust there is no limit to how much You can strengthen me. Help build my trust in You Lord, for I know that trust is the channel in which Your peace flows into me. I believe, Father God, that Your power is absolutely unlimited. You are so strong and I am so weak. I consecrate my human weakness to You Lord, drawing Your power to my weakness. I pray in the name of the reason for my trust, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
And those who know Your name will put their trust in You; For You, LORD, have not forsaken those who seek You.
Psalm 9:10
Behold, God is my salvation, I will trust and not be afraid; For YAH, the LORD, is my strength and song; He also has become my salvation. Therefore with joy you will draw water from the wells of salvation.
Isaiah 12:2-3
And those who know Your name will put their trust in You; For You, LORD, have not forsaken those who seek You.
Psalm 9:10
Behold, God is my salvation, I will trust and not be afraid; For YAH, the LORD, is my strength and song; He also has become my salvation. Therefore with joy you will draw water from the wells of salvation.
Isaiah 12:2-3
Stepping Stones: Wait Till Your Father Comes Home
Transformational Tip
As a kid, when I heard my father’s voice, 2 reactions were usual. Having done something good, I was excited to hear his comments or what my “reward” would be. If I had done something wrong, I was nervous or afraid to hear his voice… especially if I got the “wait till your father gets home” warning by mom. You see, we are quick “learners” of human behavior and we are always trying to apply those lessons to future similar situations to ease or avoid pain and suffering. So, many are afraid to hear the voice of God…we expect the worst. Because of our sinful past we believe all we’ll get is judgment, then scolding and punishment…or instructions to “do more.” If you really listen, what you will hear are soothing words of peace, words assuring you of His love, and giving His yoke to you to ease your burden. The Holy Spirit convicts cleanly, without words of shame. Do not be afraid to listen for and hear His holy voice. Don’t superimpose misinformation from your earthy father onto God…this pushes you from true comfort and peace.
Today, identify the distortion you are carrying from the past that sound like the voices of ridicule, shame, or condemnation, for they are not from God. Listen for the voice of God that comes in love-tones. Let the Holy Spirit take control of your mind and your ears – combing out the tangles of deception. Be transformed by knowing the truth…that He loves you and lives within you. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community what allows or blocks you from hearing God’s soothing words when we do wrong.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I pray that You inhabit all my moments…gracing my thoughts, words and behaviors. I pray Father that I do hear You speak to me from the depths of my very being. I sit hear quietly Lord in the light of your presence. Let me hear Your voice through others as I go throughout my day. Help others hear You through me today. I pray Lord that You let Your light shine so brightly through me. I fear that I dim Your light through my worries and fears. I pray in the name of my ultimate yoke-bearer, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit.
Romans 8:1
Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light."
Matthew 11:28-30
But you, O Lord, are a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness.
Psalm 86:15
As a kid, when I heard my father’s voice, 2 reactions were usual. Having done something good, I was excited to hear his comments or what my “reward” would be. If I had done something wrong, I was nervous or afraid to hear his voice… especially if I got the “wait till your father gets home” warning by mom. You see, we are quick “learners” of human behavior and we are always trying to apply those lessons to future similar situations to ease or avoid pain and suffering. So, many are afraid to hear the voice of God…we expect the worst. Because of our sinful past we believe all we’ll get is judgment, then scolding and punishment…or instructions to “do more.” If you really listen, what you will hear are soothing words of peace, words assuring you of His love, and giving His yoke to you to ease your burden. The Holy Spirit convicts cleanly, without words of shame. Do not be afraid to listen for and hear His holy voice. Don’t superimpose misinformation from your earthy father onto God…this pushes you from true comfort and peace.
Today, identify the distortion you are carrying from the past that sound like the voices of ridicule, shame, or condemnation, for they are not from God. Listen for the voice of God that comes in love-tones. Let the Holy Spirit take control of your mind and your ears – combing out the tangles of deception. Be transformed by knowing the truth…that He loves you and lives within you. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community what allows or blocks you from hearing God’s soothing words when we do wrong.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I pray that You inhabit all my moments…gracing my thoughts, words and behaviors. I pray Father that I do hear You speak to me from the depths of my very being. I sit hear quietly Lord in the light of your presence. Let me hear Your voice through others as I go throughout my day. Help others hear You through me today. I pray Lord that You let Your light shine so brightly through me. I fear that I dim Your light through my worries and fears. I pray in the name of my ultimate yoke-bearer, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit.
Romans 8:1
Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light."
Matthew 11:28-30
But you, O Lord, are a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness.
Psalm 86:15
Monday, November 2, 2009
Stepping Stones: Is Trust Natural?
Transformational Tip
When my girls were really small, I used to throw them way up in the air…oh, how they loved it. I loved the trust they unquestioningly had in me. Our kids show us their unconditional trust, and at times gullibility, in many ways…running to our room when they have a nightmare, believing when we tell them about Santa, the Tooth Fairy and the Easter Bunny, thinking we can make all their boo-boos go away. God created us to trust easily, so we would trust Him. Then Satan gets in there, and twists both the natural inadequacies that we have as parents as well as the times we really do let our kids down (whether intentionally or unintentionally), so that trusting others is now very hard to do…especially for those who have been deeply wounded. Mistrust creates loneliness, isolation, and a feeling that no one truly understands you and your path. You feel no one else is on your team and self-reliance is the pursuit. The opposite of what God wants in His relationship with you. The Holy Spirit within you can be your resident tutor, helping you untwist those past hurts so you can start to trust again..100% unconditional trust and wide-eyed belief, just like a small child, especially to trust all God’s promises and instructions.
Today, when no one else seems to understand you, simply draw closer to Your Lord and God. Rejoice in Him, the One who understands you and loves you perfectly. Trust His promises and instruction for living life and Him being there for you. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on why you can trust God and others or struggle with trusting God and others.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I come to You for understanding because you know me far better than I know myself. I know Father that You comprehend me in all my complexity…no detail of my life is hidden from You. Help me understand my hurts more, forgive those who hurt me, and learn to trust You and Your promises. Give me the trust of a child when it comes to all that has to do with You. I pray in the name of the grandest gift, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
O LORD, my heart is not lifted up; my eyes are not raised too high; I do not occupy myself with things too great and too marvelous for me. But I have calmed and quieted my soul, like a weaned child with its mother; like a weaned child is my soul within me.
Psalm 131:1,2
Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.
Matthew 18:3
Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.
Proverbs 3:5,6
When my girls were really small, I used to throw them way up in the air…oh, how they loved it. I loved the trust they unquestioningly had in me. Our kids show us their unconditional trust, and at times gullibility, in many ways…running to our room when they have a nightmare, believing when we tell them about Santa, the Tooth Fairy and the Easter Bunny, thinking we can make all their boo-boos go away. God created us to trust easily, so we would trust Him. Then Satan gets in there, and twists both the natural inadequacies that we have as parents as well as the times we really do let our kids down (whether intentionally or unintentionally), so that trusting others is now very hard to do…especially for those who have been deeply wounded. Mistrust creates loneliness, isolation, and a feeling that no one truly understands you and your path. You feel no one else is on your team and self-reliance is the pursuit. The opposite of what God wants in His relationship with you. The Holy Spirit within you can be your resident tutor, helping you untwist those past hurts so you can start to trust again..100% unconditional trust and wide-eyed belief, just like a small child, especially to trust all God’s promises and instructions.
Today, when no one else seems to understand you, simply draw closer to Your Lord and God. Rejoice in Him, the One who understands you and loves you perfectly. Trust His promises and instruction for living life and Him being there for you. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on why you can trust God and others or struggle with trusting God and others.
Prayer
Dear Father God, I come to You for understanding because you know me far better than I know myself. I know Father that You comprehend me in all my complexity…no detail of my life is hidden from You. Help me understand my hurts more, forgive those who hurt me, and learn to trust You and Your promises. Give me the trust of a child when it comes to all that has to do with You. I pray in the name of the grandest gift, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
O LORD, my heart is not lifted up; my eyes are not raised too high; I do not occupy myself with things too great and too marvelous for me. But I have calmed and quieted my soul, like a weaned child with its mother; like a weaned child is my soul within me.
Psalm 131:1,2
Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.
Matthew 18:3
Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.
Proverbs 3:5,6
Sunday, November 1, 2009
Stepping Stones: A Future Secured
Transformational Tip
Today I am out of town attending a nephew’s wedding. I decided to visit a mall across town with 4 of my siblings. I’m driving and brother Mark is in the front seat navigating, with three sisters in the back seat. I’ve driven with Mark in many cities across the US…I have complete confidence in him as a navigator. Mark has a sense of direction and navigation like a homing pigeon. If Mark is navigating…we will get there. Well, we hit detour after detour, but Mark keeps adjusting his inner since of direction. At one point it felt like we were totally lost, and just then, the mall appeared right in front of us. The entire time driving, I was completely relaxed…never challenging his directions. I knew he had us on the right course.
How you would live if you believed, really believed, that your future is perfectly planned out and your final destination secured? Think of the freedom this belief would provide. Think about how you would live and feel if you truly believed that no power, no detour, could take away the promise of your inheritance in heaven. How would you travel through life if you knew you had the ultimate navigator and navigation system? You do in God and the Bible.
Today, instead of approaching the day like an empty container that you must fill up; try living in a responsive mode…being on the lookout for what your Lord would like to put into your container…or what direction he is instructing you to go. This is easier said than done – a deep level of trust is required. A trust that is based on knowledge that His way is the perfect way. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on how you would (or are) living with a future secured.
Prayer
Dear Father God, you are so amazing. I commit myself to You father, I am Yours for all time, beyond time…into eternity. I know now that no power can deny me my inheritance into heaven. I know You want me to feel secure. I know Father that even when I falter as I journey through life that You will never let go of my hand. I pray in the name of the grandest gift, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
The steps of a good man are ordered by the LORD, And He delights in his way.
Though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down; For the LORD upholds him with His hand.
Psalm 37:23-24
As for God, His way is perfect; The word of the LORD is proven; He is a shield to all who trust in Him.
Psalm 18:30
Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
Romans 12:2
Today I am out of town attending a nephew’s wedding. I decided to visit a mall across town with 4 of my siblings. I’m driving and brother Mark is in the front seat navigating, with three sisters in the back seat. I’ve driven with Mark in many cities across the US…I have complete confidence in him as a navigator. Mark has a sense of direction and navigation like a homing pigeon. If Mark is navigating…we will get there. Well, we hit detour after detour, but Mark keeps adjusting his inner since of direction. At one point it felt like we were totally lost, and just then, the mall appeared right in front of us. The entire time driving, I was completely relaxed…never challenging his directions. I knew he had us on the right course.
How you would live if you believed, really believed, that your future is perfectly planned out and your final destination secured? Think of the freedom this belief would provide. Think about how you would live and feel if you truly believed that no power, no detour, could take away the promise of your inheritance in heaven. How would you travel through life if you knew you had the ultimate navigator and navigation system? You do in God and the Bible.
Today, instead of approaching the day like an empty container that you must fill up; try living in a responsive mode…being on the lookout for what your Lord would like to put into your container…or what direction he is instructing you to go. This is easier said than done – a deep level of trust is required. A trust that is based on knowledge that His way is the perfect way. Click here to share with the Stepping Stone community your thoughts on how you would (or are) living with a future secured.
Prayer
Dear Father God, you are so amazing. I commit myself to You father, I am Yours for all time, beyond time…into eternity. I know now that no power can deny me my inheritance into heaven. I know You want me to feel secure. I know Father that even when I falter as I journey through life that You will never let go of my hand. I pray in the name of the grandest gift, Christ Jesus, and all God’s children said, – AMEN!
The Truth
The steps of a good man are ordered by the LORD, And He delights in his way.
Though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down; For the LORD upholds him with His hand.
Psalm 37:23-24
As for God, His way is perfect; The word of the LORD is proven; He is a shield to all who trust in Him.
Psalm 18:30
Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
Romans 12:2
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