Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Stepping Stones: The Ultimate GPS

Transformational Tip (special guest contributor today and tomorrow)
Today, my granddaughter and I went shopping for her “back-to-school” supplies. I was amazed at the number of items she was required to have from a list given to her at “back-to-school” night. It suggested that she couldn’t effectively function without them. When we arrived at Walmart I was even more amazed at the variety of items there were to choose from. I had no idea there were so many different kinds of pencils alone, not to mention pens, markers, colored markers, and on and on-----and on! I thought back to my own school days. On the first day back to school, we were given one #2 pencil (ball point pens weren’t invented yet) and a thick, 6x8” yellow tablet with blue lines on each page. The first day of each month we were given new ones. If we ran out before the month’s end, we borrowed a sheet from a classmate. The interesting thing about the tablet was that on the cardboard cover there was a detailed map of the state of Pennsylvania. I saw that map every school day from 1stto 8th grade, and though I have ventured far and long from my home state, I can still remember most of its 67 counties, county seats, cities, rivers etc.
I am reminded of another map, given to me by my Heavenly Father. This map has guided me through the paths of life; from the lush green valleys, to the high rugged mountaintops of fear, beside the deep quiet still waters, to the rippling streams abounding with joy, to ocean depths of sorrow, and through rolling hills of despair. This map has never failed me. It has sufficiently guided me through every circumstance of life, and will continue to guide me to my journey’s end. It has kept every promise it has made. How could it not? Its Author is Divine, the sovereign Creator of all that exists!
Today, when you feel a lost or uncertain, reflect on God’s promises and direction.
Click here to share how God’s word guides your path.

Prayer
Thank You, Father, for not leaving me without your perfect roadmap to guide me through the disappointments of life in a world filled with instability. Thank you that whatever my circumstances in this life are, that you’ve given me that deep settled peace that surpasses all human understanding. Most of all Father, thank You for Jesus, Name above all names, King of kings, and Lord of lords, who made it all possible, and all God’s people said, -AMEN!

The Truth
For ever, O Lord, thy word is settled in heaven. Thy faithfulness is unto all generations…” “O how I love thy law! It is my meditation all the day” v.97
“Thy word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path.” V.105
Psalm 119: 88-89
“These things saith He which hath the sharp sword with two edges.”
Rev.2:12
“For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.”
Heb.4:12

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Stepping Stones: Imperfectly Yearning For Perfection

Transformational Tip
Writing these devotionals is so enjoyable, enriching, such a blessing, and has really pushed me to dig into God’s word regularly. The down side, I want to say so much about each tip, in a couple paragraphs, so it’s not just a great feel-good message, but really practically equips you to Iive the life God wants for you that very day. Well, I am a perfectionist, and Satan uses that character flaw to try and suck the joy and excitement out of the blessing of being used by God to impact others. I’ve already written this one a couple times, wanting to be precise, impactful, catchy, brief, and practical. Why? Unfortunately at times, it’s more about my issues, and not as much about seeking and serving God well. I really have to be intentional to not fall in that trap. It’s important to remember that we live in a fallen world; a world that is so far from normal because it is tainted by sin. So much failure and frustration result from our seeking perfection in this life.
Today, remember that your yearning for perfection is not a bad thing in and of itself. Know that God placed that yearning in our hearts, so we would search for Him and not for it being about ourselves.
Click here to share with others and to read what others say about their struggles with trying to be perfect, or manage our image, in this imperfect world.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I know Father that my heart and soul contains many ill effects of the fall. As a result of this I often try and achieve perfection apart from You. This sets me down a path of frustration, insecurity, inadequacy, and failure. I sadly admit Father that this wrong path also included some form of idolatry. I want to return to You Lord…to the path that leads me to You. I will do this Lord, by seeking You first and foremost. As I seek You, Father, I know You will set my feet on the right Stepping Stone…that you will give me a firm place to stand and the guidance to take the right next step. Help my search for perfection, point me to You. I pray in Jesus’ perfect name, and all God’s people said, – AMEN!

The Truth
He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.
He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see and fear
and put their trust in the LORD.
Psalm 40:2-3
that by any means possible I may attain the resurrection from the dead. Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own. Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead,
Philippians 3:11-13

Monday, September 14, 2009

Stepping Stones: Missed the Mark

Transformational Tip
About three years ago I lost my brother Allen to cancer. Long before his illness Allen worked daily to achieve the mind of Christ. Directly following his diagnosis a massive prayer effort developed. A daily prayer with relevant scripture was sent via email to thousands…this internet prayer movement was the forerunner to the current Stepping Stones Daily devotional.
When a loved one falls gravely ill, it’s a natural response to pray for their healing…at times I almost demanded his healing from God, citing scripture about Jesus the healer…about ask and you shall receive. For the entire 22 months he battled this awful disease, Allen and his family believed he would be healed. We were pounding prayers to heaven requesting Allen’s healing.
I know we missed the mark with our prayers for Allen.
How presumptuous we were. We actually believed we could change God’s mind/plan for Allen. I believe now, based on my learning, growth, and the perspective of other Christians, we should have been praying to align ourselves with the will of God. To pray for God’s wisdom and peace for Allen and his family…and for ourselves. To pray that we lessen our grip on Allen and strengthen our grip on our Lord…to release Allen into God’s care and keeping.
While Allen agonized over leaving his wife and 5 children here on earth, in the end Allen was excited about meeting his Lord and God…if not ready, he certainly was as prepared as anyone could be to meet his Father, the Creator.
The prayer movement took on a life of it’s own. Bringing prayer and the Word of God to so many who had never prayed, truly changed lives. People actually came to accept Christ as a result of the daily prayers. Allen would love to read the responses that came in from the prayer group. Allen said before he died; “If somehow my illness delivers even one soul to God…it’s all worth it. And it was. Click here to share with us your experience or struggles in praying for someone who is/was seriously ill or injured.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I pray today for all the sick and injured loved ones and friends of this Stepping Stones prayer community. I pray that you infuse the sick with Your Holy Spirit to give them hope and strength. I pray Father that they seek to understand and align their thoughts and prayers with Your Will and Your timing…for Your timing is perfect Father. I pray that You will reveal to those suffering, as well as their caregivers, the meaning and purpose of these trials. I pray Father that You guide the minds and hands of all the medical professionals so that they do Your work as they apply their skills to the sick and injured. Help those who are terminally ill to understand that Your healing for them may in fact be delivered on the other side of this temporal life. Help them and all of us believe in You so that we will see Your glory. I pray this in the name of our healing savior Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, – AMEN!

The Truth
Then Jesus said, "Did I not tell you that if you believed, you would see the glory of God?"
John 11:40
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
John 14:27

Sunday, September 13, 2009

Stepping Stones: God’s Love Comes From Everywhere

Transformational Tip
I know, today’s title sounds like a Sunday school cliché. But I want to share a childhood memory that will hopefully bring it new meaning…and hope.
I’m one of 14 children, all from the same mother and father. Our mother had the deepest of Christ-based faith. Being one of the oldest, I had the opportunity, no, the blessing to witness my mother living out her faith through so many of her life’s storms. She was always sure to point out the receiving of grace and God’s love. She would tell her children often; “God’s love comes from everywhere.”
I was 8 years old and already had 7 siblings. My father was in the hospital due to a chronic heart condition. There had been no money coming into the household for a month or longer. I don’t know how mom provided for us. No food stamps or welfare. Our credit had run out at the small town grocery store. People brought food, but not often. On this particular evening it was dinner time and I knew there was no food in the house – nothing. I was hungry, but more concerned for my younger brothers and sisters. I went to my mom and let her know (as if she didn’t already know) that we had no food for dinner. “What are you going to do?” I asked. I saw the sadness and nervousness in her eyes. But with head up and shoulders back she said with confidence; “I don’t know right now, but I know God will provide for us.” I believed her.
A few minutes later there was a knock on our door. When I answered no one was there…but they had left a bushel basket of food – ham, bread, fruit, potatoes…it was overflowing. On top was an envelope with the words; “God’s love comes from everywhere.” Inside the envelope was $500 cash. Without Dad’s illness, I would never have got this lesson. Click here to share a situation that demonstrated to you that God’s love comes from everywhere.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I thank You for Your constant love and grace. I thank You for allowing me to see You at work throughout my mother’s life. Help me remember that when I am at my weakest, I am at my strongest, through Your power. As my mother was, I too want to be available to help You display Your power and glory to others. I know that my weakness is the ideal stage for the exhibition of Your Power. In Jesus’ perfect humble and powerful name, and all God’s people said, -AMEN!

The Truth
But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.
2 Corinthians 12:9

Saturday, September 12, 2009

Stepping Stones: Everything Into a Pattern of Good

Transformational Tip
I love mysteries, especially movies…they are like an intriguing treasure hunt. Lots of seemingly unrelated facts that point to a couple of potential false treasures. Then the last couple of clues reveal the culmination of what the real path and pattern truly is. Everything makes perfect sense now and I kick myself for feeling frustrated, lost, and hopeless when I was in the middle of the hunt. Sometimes, the map of our lives seem very confusing…we seem way off track from the road to success and fulfillment. But God’s word tells us that He will fit everything into a pattern of good for those who love him…including even those things in your life you wish were different.
Today, start believing that where you are at this point in time is exactly where God knew you would be and He has a great treasure hunt for you. Refuse to worry about the future and you will find all the resources you need for what comes next. Take the hunt one step at a time and enjoy the journey. Remember, Your life will make sense soon so get excited and obey and He will soon reveal the goal and His purpose to you. Click here to comment how God has woven some odd steps in your life into a pattern of good that later made great sense and what you think His purpose was… or whatever God’s revealing in your heart.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I can’t imagine how You can take this mess I have created and weave it all into a pattern of good. My current situation seems like a huge mistake to me. I pray Lord that you help me accept my circumstances as Your will. I stand ready Lord to develop eyes that see Your handiwork as You weave these patches of my life into an awesome tapestry. Thanks for caring for and about me as I try to understand your amazing plan to grow me more than I could even know or want for myself. I believe Father that nothing is impossible with You. I pray in the name of Your Son, the greatest treasure, Jesus, and all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Romans 8:28
For nothing is impossible with God.
Luke 1:37

Friday, September 11, 2009

Stepping Stones: Would You Be Left Behind?

Transformational Tip
9-11-2001. A date our generation will always remember. As a psychiatrist, unique ripples came into my office over those next couple of weeks. Some people were severely shaken. You see, the end of days of Earthly time begins with the Rapture, and is marked by all Christians on Earth being taken up to heaven. Common occurrences of the Rapture, when depicted in movies and books, include planes, trains, and automobiles crashing because the Christian pilots, conductors, and drivers are instantly taken to heaven. A number of Christians, when hearing the news flashes of 4 planes crashing, called me in a terrible state of anxiety and fear. They believed the Rapture occurred and they were left behind...left behind would mean they weren’t a Christian. What a terrible feeling and distressed state of mind it is to not know who you belong to and what happens to you in the end.
Today, think of someone you know who might not be sure if they would be left behind. Share with them the Good news and bring them the assured hope of eternity with their Creator and Heavenly Father.
Click here to comment who and how the truth was shared with you. If you aren’t sure, please comment or call us. Click the spiritual basics after the click here to learn how to be sure you won’t be left behind.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
You are so great and beyond my wildest comprehension. I am still amazed and reduced to tears when I think the King of all kings would actually die for me. Thank You for wanting to have me with You for all of eternity…and then doing all the work for me. Thank You for Your assurances of my eternal salvation and help me live with that state of mind every minute, so it is clear to others what Your good news is. In Jesus’ assuring death and triumphant resurrection, and all God’s people said- AMEN!

The Truth
I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God that you may know that you have eternal life.
1 John 5 :13
The saying is trustworthy and deserving of full acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am the foremost. But I received mercy for this reason, that in me, as the foremost, Jesus Christ might display his perfect patience as an example to those who were to believe in him for eternal life. To the King of ages, immortal, invisible, the only God, be honor and glory forever and ever. Amen.
1 Timothy 1:15-17

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Stepping Stones: Glorious Adventure

Transformational Tip
An adventure is defined as an exciting, extraordinary event. The greatest adventure possible is knowing God superabundantly…by discovering how wide, and long and high His love is for you. The power of God’s vast love for you can be overwhelming – maybe that’s why so many people choose to limit their knowledge of Him…keeping Him at a safe distance. So many of us settle for mediocrity simple because it feels comfortable, safe. Those settling for mediocrity are destined to battle fear – for only His love is strong enough to break the hold that fear has on you. A predictable lifestyle may feel safer, but that safety can shield you from what you need most – God’s love.
The next time an unexpected event disrupts your routine, rejoice. This is exactly what you need to wake you up and point you toward Him. Recognize that you are on the threshold of a new adventure, and that God will be with you every step of the way. Look forward to an exciting, extraordinary event. Click here to comment a God-inspired adventure you’ve experienced to encourage other Stepping Stones readers.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I long for the glorious adventure that a life abandoned to You can create. But I continue to grasp onto my old ways, my safe life. Help me realize Lord, that the safety I’ve been turning to is really destruction. You are my real safety. I pray Lord that You help me break free and discover the adventures You have planned for me. Instead of striving for a predictable, safe lifestyle, help me seek to know You in greater depth and breadth. I pray this in Jesus’ name, the wildest adventurer of all time, and all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ
Ephesians 3:17-18
But, as it is written, "What no eye has seen, nor ear heard, nor the heart of man imagined, what God has prepared for those who love him"—
1 Corinthians 2:9

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Stepping Stones: Use Your Safety Net?

Transformational Tip
In psychiatry residency, I was in the ER, and hospital security called. A guy was in our parking garage and threatening to jump off the 4th level. I ran over, got the info security gathered, then started talking to the depressed man. I worked my way up the garage toward him…he stopped my pursuit with serious threats to jump. I turned to the chief and asked, “When is the big net or pad going to get here, ‘cause I’m not to sure how long he’ll last?” The chief answered, “those nets are just in the movies, there is no safety net.” We are human…and with our humanness come ups and downs. However, God’s promises, love, and presence limits just how far we can go down….protecting you from falling into despair. He is your safety net, but you need to leap in His arms, not away from Him.
Today, keep reminding yourself of these four words; “I am with you.” These words are your safety net. As soon as you realize He is with you and is strong enough to catch you…everything changes. Click here to go to comment how God has been your safety net, or when you have trouble seeing His safety net below… or what God’s revealing in your heart.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I feel like I am in a free fall. I have fallen into despair. The people and things I have counted on have all let me down. I have put too much stock in them and not enough in You. Help me Father to remember today and always that You are with me…that I do have a safety net…that I do have a way out of despair and depression. Help me Father to not grasp for idols as my safety nets, for I know they only accelerate my fall. Guide me Father with Your council and take me into Your Glory. I pray in Jesus’ ultimate safety, and all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
Yet I am always with you; you hold me by my right hand.
You guide me with your counsel, and afterward you will take me into glory.
Psalm 73:23-24
At my first defense no one came to stand by me, but all deserted me. May it not be charged against them! But the Lord stood by me and strengthened me, so that through me the message might be fully proclaimed and all the Gentiles might hear it. So I was rescued from the lion's mouth.
2 Timothy 4:16-17

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Stepping Stones: God Sings Your Tune!

Transformational Tip
What do you sing about? Who do you sing about? Who would sing about you? You can bet that strong, good, positive feelings are involved if someone is rejoicing with song over you. I am not a singer, but the people I happily sing about are Jesus, the Steelers, my children, and certainly my wife. When God sees YOU, and you look back at Him, you will not see any condemnation in His eyes – only love and delight. You see, living in the grace of God, devoting time to praising Him, learning through God’s word, and communicating with Him is meant to be peaceful, easy, not stressful. There is no need for you to “work” for God’s love. He gives it abundantly and freely. Let today’s scripture reading penetrate your mind, body and spirit.
Today, close your eyes and imagine God singing for you. What a beautiful image. Feel His face shining radiantly on you…bringing you peace and rest. As one of His children, You can relax because you don’t have to work any more for His favor. Click here to go to the Stepping Stones blog and “comment” your feelings about whether you “hear” God singing for you…or what God’s revealing in your heart.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I feel at times as if I have been climbing up hill my entire life. I’m tired, lonely and scared. It seems like such hard work…I confess Father, that even my devotion to You sometimes feels like just another form of work. I need rest Lord, I need peace. I know God that you have designed me to live in union with you. Help me Father find fulfillment and peace by living close to You. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit so that Your Holy Word fills my heart and penetrates this tired mind. Transform me Father more and more into the one You have designed me to be. I pray with thanksgiving and hope in the name of my savior Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
The LORD bless you and keep you; the LORD make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the LORD lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace.
Numbers 6:25-26
The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing.
Zephaniah 3:17

Monday, September 7, 2009

Stepping Stones: Imagine World Without Anxiety

Transformational Tip
As an athlete, nervousness/anxiety about a future opponent…or while in a game, anxiety or fear in tense situations about the outcome…were common. Then my coach calms me, telling me everything will work out if I follow his strategy. He’s been there before, knows my opponent, knows what they will do, knows what me and our team can do, cares about me and is invested in my performance, and has prepared us specifically to face this opponent. Anxiety, worry and apprehension result from envisioning future events without God, our perfect coach. We might acknowledge He is our coach, but if we’re anxious, we aren’t really believing and following His coaching. He knows us, our opponent-Satan and Satan’s strategies, knows what the future holds, and loves us so much that He gave His son to secure our ultimate future. In any situation, if you turn your thoughts toward God as the perfect coach, trust His instructions, peace will squelch anxiety, you will think much more positively.
Today, when thinking about the future, anxieties sprout up like mushrooms. And the moment you begin to become anxious, remember the promise of God’s continual presence as your perfect coach. Make your thoughts a dialog with Him, listening to Him and His instruction, then adjust your view of your future accordingly to bring hope and assurance. Click here to share a situation where turning to God helped reduce anxiety or times where that is difficult…or other related thoughts.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I come to You my Lord with a thankful heart. I thank You for the holy scripture which gives me hope and guidance. I confess Father that I spent too much time worrying about the future. I confess to trying to be god of my fantasies. Help me realize Lord the reality that Your presence with me, now and forever, outshines any fantasy I could ever imagine. Help me Lord to place you in any future scenarios that enter my mind. It is facing the future without You and Your perfect coaching that creates anxiety within me. I pray Father that You will also lead me to others who suffer daily with anxiety and fear. Use me Lord to remind those in need of Your continual presence for those who believe. I pray in Jesus’ holy name, and all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
Then Jesus said to his disciples: "Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat; or about your body, what you will wear. Life is more than food, and the body more than clothes. Consider the ravens: They do not sow or reap, they have no storeroom or barn; yet God feeds them. And how much more valuable you are than birds! Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest?”
Luke 12:22-26

Sunday, September 6, 2009

Stepping Stones: Savings...With Real Interest

Transformational Tip
When my kids are involved in plays, recitals, or sports, I am always amazed at how well these youngsters perform out there in front of the big crowd…with all the pressure…and mostly on their own. How is this possible? They are instructed in the fundamentals then practice them over and over...in safe, nonthreatening situations…till they are second nature. Then, after all those investments…of time, effort, trust in the coach, self-discipline, delayed gratification, dealing with mistakes, perserverance…the big night comes with pressure, potential adversity, judgement, and a lot on the line. The more deposits that were made, the bigger the reward…success, with interest. In these changing times it appears there is no safe place to put savings …that also pays interest.
Practice trusting in Your Lord during the quiet days. In the mundane, everyday situations, see God at work, trust in His character and promises, and communicate with Him regularly. Then when the storms come (and they will) your trust-balance will be sufficient to see you through. You will shine brightly, like in a play. You will also go to Him more easily in time of need, because you’ve been regularly practicing.

Today, try making a deposit in His treasury. Every time you affirm your trust in Him is like putting a coin into His treasury. In doing so you build up equity. He will keep safely in His heart all investments in Him…with interest compounded continuously. The more you trust in God, the more He will enable you to do so, and the easier it will be to trust Him during the storms. Click here, Then click the word “comment” on the blog site at the end of the devotional to share your stories or encourage others.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I know that the only safe investment is in You. I have tried saving money for security but have lost it all. Help me Father turn to trusting You. I see now how my faith and trust in you can grow exponentially. I have seen firsthand that the more I trust You, the more You enable me to trust you even more. Thank you for this Upward-Spiral.
I pray with trust and confidence through my savior Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said – Amen!

The Truth
Whenever I am afraid, I will trust in You. In God (I will praise His word), In God I have put my trust; I will not fear. What can flesh do to me?
Psalm 56:3-4
but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal.
Matthew 6:20

Saturday, September 5, 2009

Stepping Stones: Caught By Suprise

Transformational Tip
The other day I was caught by surprise. I was shopping at my favorite butcher shop when the butcher asked: “could I ask you a personal question?” I have always exchanges pleasantries with this guy, but now he had a serious question. I said “sure.” He asked; “Where do you get your source of happiness…you are always smiling.”
I knew exactly where I get my source of happiness and joy, but I was caught off guard. So I gave him a lame answer; “Happiness is a choice…I choose to be happy.” I could tell he was disappointed in my answer.
A few days following that encounter I was reading 1 Peter and came across 3:15 where we are instructed to always be ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you a reason for the hope that is in you. I went back to the butcher the next day and told him that I didn’t give him the quality response that his question deserved. I told him in front of listening customers that my happiness and joy comes from living within the hope and promise of salvation…the salvation made possible by Jesus Christ. I told him I was a struggling Christian, and then I asked him about his relationship with God.
It’s rare for someone to ask such a direct question of us, but when they do, scripture tells us to be ready.
Today, think how you might respond when someone asks you the reason for the hope within you. Can you articulate to yourself the impact your faith and God’s actions have in your daily, moment-to-moment living. This is what we need to live out and then tell others about. Click here to tell us how you shared your faith with others, or how and why you struggle to, as many do.

Prayer
Dear Father,
I come to you with a thankful heart. I recognize Your Son Jesus Christ as my Lord and I trust Him for the strength to lead a God-pleasing life. Help me Lord to not be speechless when called upon to defend my faith and to spread Your message of forgiveness, faith, love and hope. Help me do so with gentleness and respect. Help me Lord to be a lighthouse for those in need. I pray with the authority granted to me through Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.
Matthew 5:16
But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts, and always be ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you a reason for the hope that is in you, with meekness and fear;
1 Peter 3:15

Friday, September 4, 2009

Stepping Stones: What Do You Feed On?

Transformational Tip
I know that gnawing feeling in the pit of your stomach that keeps you awake at night. It’s all about fear and doubt. I know what it feels like to have creditors begin to surround you like wolves around wounded prey and there seems no way out. But there is always a way out. Just because you don’t know it, doesn’t mean there isn’t one. I believe the best way to position yourself to see the way out, is to choose to feed on His faithfulness. When you’re feeding on His faithfulness, it’s hard to feed on doubt, fear and unbelief too.
Today, stop from giving any more time to anxiety, fear and doubt. Recall a problem in the recent past, that in the moment of the acute crisis, you saw no solution and there was no help on the horizon. Then, a little time later, an answer, solutions, help, came. We all have situations that in retrospect, we see how amazing that situation worked out. It is important to identify and recall those times as they are examples of God’s faithfulness and sovereignty and our finiteness. You know how you were told while you were growing up to starve a fever and feed a cold, well it’s time to starve your unbelief and feed on His faithfulness. Click here to share a situation where you were in a bind and God provided. Or other thoughts.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I thank You Father for Your Word which gives me hope, peace and joy. I have been feeding on all the wrong stuff. I have been feeding on negativity, worry…doom and gloom. My mind spins out of control…especially when I try to sleep. Help me my Lord to feed on Your faithfulness. Help me build myself up on Your most holy faith Lord. Help me practice the patience You are building in me through Your Holy Spirit to wait for Your timing and not demand mine. I pray in the Holy Spirit and in the name of the Son, Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
Trust in the LORD, and do good; dwell in the land, and feed on His faithfulness.
Delight yourself also in the LORD, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Psalm 37:3-4
But you, beloved, building yourselves up on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Spirit
Jude 1:20

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Stepping Stones: Eggs In the Wrong Basket

Transformational Tip
We are taught lessons beginning at an early age. Who we should be. How we should act. We learn these lessons first from our parents…and then from the world…society. Our parents taught us what they thought was right; but as adults we now have the ability (and obligation) to rethink and relearn as we strive to achieve the “mind of Christ.”
One of the “lessons” I was taught from a very young age - to become self sufficient… to not need anyone. To rely on no one. Accomplish and do things for myself, from taking my first step, feeding myself, doing my own homework, driving to baseball practice myself, etc. The intent was good, the lesson was flawed. While self-sufficiency is acclaimed and valued in the world, Reliance on Your Lord and God is the only way to produce abundant living here on earth and enter into His Kingdom.
Today, Exercise those faith muscles…identify an area of your life where you put your confidence and reliance in yourself…and leave God out until it’s an emergency. Let God in by praying about it then listening to God’s input (through others or circumstances). Don’t put your eggs in the wrong basket. Click here and tell us about it. We want to hear!

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I know that You designed me to be totally reliant on You. I know You have created me to be dependent on You. From the very beginning of creation people have strived wrongly to be totally independent, they have resisted relying on You. Even Adam and Eve’s first sin is evidence that they decided to live independently. I have turned to You Lord and are striving to be dependent on You during my life’s storms. I pray now that You help me turn to You, to rely on You continually. In the good times and the bad. I know that my renewed awareness of my neediness for You is a blessing, not a weakness. Teach me Father to depend on You more and more.

The Truth
I have set the LORD always before me. Because he is at my right hand, I will not be shaken.
Psalm 16:8
But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith?
Therefore do not be anxious, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. "Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.
Matthew 6:30-34

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Stepping Stones: If Only I Were...

Transformational Tip
So much energy goes into worrying about, and trying to improve, how we look…our outward appearance. For many, this obsession with looks starts at a young age. It’s clear, for many people, they believe their looks define who they are. Nothing could be further from the truth. Remember back to high school…some of the most physically beautiful people were struggling deeply inside. I’ve missed out on so many potentially great friendships just because I used external appearance as a screening criteria before I would decide whether to get to know someone.
God does not look at our outward appearance; rather He looks at our heart. What is important to Him is also what should be important to us. Now, sometimes our external appearance, those certain aspects that are under our control, are a reflection of some issues going on in our heart. But the focus still needs to be on healing our heart issue…not the external appearance. Truly addressing your heart issues will positively affect the superficial issues that you have control of.
Today, try focusing on the condition of your heart. Stop obsessing about your face, weight, shape or clothes. Also, instead of judging people by their appearance, try seeing their heart…who they really are. You’ll be amazed at the depth of friendship when you look deeper. Click here and share what external attribute you focus too much on and why…or other thoughts on “don’t judge a book by the cover”.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I confess that I have been overly concerned about my physical appearance. I am guilty of coveting the physical beauty of others. Help me remember Father that it is my heart that You see. Help me focus on keeping a healthy body, mind and spirit. I turn to You my Lord for all my needs. Help me to resist the desire to look good and blend in with…or even compete with this world. I ask You Father to help me to start looking into the hearts of those around me, to not focus on their clothes and bodies. Help me compliment their kindness instead of their appearance.
I pray in the name of my perfect savior, Jesus Chris, and all God’s children said- AMEN!

The Truth
The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart."
1 Samuel 16:7
Therefore, knowing the fear of the Lord, we persuade others. But what we are is known to God, and I hope it is known also to your conscience.
12 We are not commending ourselves to you again but giving you cause to boast about us, so that you may be able to answer those who boast about outward appearance and not about what is in the heart.
2 Corinthians 5:11-12

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Stepping Stones: Trials Create Temptation

Transformational Tip
Notice in James 1:2 that he says “whenever you face trials” not If you face trials. It’s something we don’t like to face into or admit…that suffering will come. It has been my experience that with pain and suffering come great opportunities for growth. But pain and suffering also brings with it powerful temptation. Temptation to seek an escape, temptation to self medicate with sinful practices and addictions such as sex, overeating, drugs, gambling, people-pleasing, etc. It is within our human nature to try and avoid or mask the pain of trials. In fact, all our dysfunctional behaviors develop to end, minimize, or avoid present or anticipated suffering.
The Bible is THE book (and I have read many psychiatry books) about suffering. From the fall of man, Job and all the biographies, our spiritual separation from God, to Jesus’ extreme suffering, the Bible tells us how God is with us, provides a peace and comfort, and sees us through the suffering.
Today, think of trials as opportunities to demonstrate your trust in God…even thanking Him for them…this is one of the highest forms of praise. When suffering strikes (and you know it will) remember that Your Lord and God is supreme and that he can bring good out of every circumstance in your life. Do not try to run and hide from the pain…do not try and mask it. Let your suffering gain meaning and draw you closer to God. Know that Joy can emerge from what feels like the ashes of adversity…it will emerge through your trust and thankfulness to God. Click the Past Devotional link, tell us about your trials or suffering, how we can pray for you, how it affects you, and what you can believe differently about God or the Bible to get you through this storm.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
Today I feel as if I cannot endure one more trial. I feel weak and beaten down. I’m tired of this pain and I need relief. I confess Father that I have turned to unhealthy and sinful ways to try and escape this pain…but it has only made things worse. I keep digging this hole deeper and deeper. I pray Father that You help me stop digging deeper and help me climb up out of this hole.
I pray Lord that You help me get closer to achieving the mind of Christ. Help me bear my adversity bravely and directly…and help me have a thankful heart even in the darkest hours. I pray Father that you use me to help minister Your Word and love to those within my path that are in the midst of a life’s storm. Help me guide them away from temptation and toward You…for You are the ultimate Lighthouse. I pray this in the name of my savior Jesus Christ – and all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.
James 1:2-4
To those who by persistence in doing good seek glory, honor and immortality, he will give eternal life.
Romans 2:7

Monday, August 31, 2009

Stepping Stones: Don't Spoil the Brownies!

Transformational Tip
Faith is everything. Faith is a gift given to all of us; we just have to find a way to not mess it up. Read what Jesus tells us in Mark 9:23 – that all things are possible to him who believes. So what gets in our way? Unbelief. This is where Satan spends most of his time. His lies, deceptions, are crafted to create and foster unbelief. As Michael Pink wrote: Letting unbelief into our minds spoils our faith. It’s like putting dog do-do into the brownie mix…doesn’t take much to spoil the brownies.
Remember the simple formula to spiritual maturity; Believe > Receive > Become. Today, take a deep look and identify an area of your life where unbelief/deception has a stronghold. Don’t believe God’s forgiveness is complete...you deserve more…God isn’t all powerful…You know what’s best for you…other people’s feelings or opinions are all powerful…looks/fashion are more important than God’s desires for us…I am too old to change…we all could go on with infinite examples. Take a couple minutes and click the Past Devotional link below and list examples you have seen in others or struggle with yourselves. (just hit the comment link at the bottom of the devotional) Add how God has helped you become aware or improve in those areas to encourage others who might be struggling with similar issues. Restore your faith today and begin walking in the authority you know deep down inside that has been given you by your Lord.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I thank You for the wonderful gift of faith. I know that all things that come from You are perfect…and it is me that reduces my faith to the point that lets other things get in my way of Believing and then Receiving You in the full measure intended by You. I pray Father that You fill me with Your Holy Spirit. I say to You as the boy’s father said in Mark 9:24; “I do believe; help me overcome my disbelief.”
Fill me with faith Lord so that I may follow wherever You lead me. I want to follow wholeheartedly, with the anticipation of Your Joy and Peace quickening my pace. I don’t not know what lies ahead…but You know and that’s enough for me. I know that more blessings are right around the corner. I pray Lord that today You help me walk by faith, not by sight. I pray to You with faith and expectation in the name of Jesus – and all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
“If you can believe, all things are possible to him who believes.”
Mark 9:23
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who hath blessed us with all spiritual blessings in heavenly places in Christ.
Eph 1:3
Immediately the boy's father exclaimed, "I do believe; help me overcome my unbelief!
Mark 9:24
For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you.
Romans 12:3

Sunday, August 30, 2009

Stepping Stones: Do Not Open That Box!

Transformational Tip
We have all heard the term “Pandora’s Box.” Pandora is a figure out of Greek mythology; and she came with a box, unbeknownst to her, that is filled with all the evils of this world. She was told to never open the box. But curiosity got the best of her and she opened the box…and in doing so released all this evil, sickness, pain and suffering. She tried shutting the box, but it was too late.
When we make bad decisions, there are known consequences that we accept the risk of happening. But when we choose trouble, cross the line of right and wrong, we are in a way opening Pandora’s box…opening ourselves up to the infinite amount of unknown consequences. I have a personal example to share with you.
I was speeding (the bad decision) while traveling cross country to visit my brother. Was stopped by a police officer and received a ticket which I was required to pay in 30 days. I forgot to pay that ticket (another bad decision). Over a year later I was once again driving out of state and yes, speeding again. Got pulled over in Ohio and was informed that my driver’s license had been suspended by Pennsylvania due to the unpaid ticket in Indiana. My car was impounded, got a ticket for driving under a suspension as well as a speeding ticket. Had a mandatory court appearance a week later which was schedule on the same day as a very important client meeting that I had to cancel. Had to post bail and then have a friend come and get me. To have my licenses reinstated I had to pay the fine in Indiana (with penalties), submit paperwork to Pennsylvania and wait. This whole ordeal final cost was $1,625.00 and days of lost time vs. taking the time to pay the original fine of only $124.00 on time.
Certainly not proud of this story, but it’s a mild example of what happens when you chose wrong over right – you open Pandora’s box and you have no idea what type of unknown consequences and how much evil will come out of the box.
Today, specifically choose right over wrong even in the little areas we sometimes cheat. Click “Past Devotional” link below and tell us your past experiences with Pandora’s Box or how today you kept Pandora’s Box closed. Do not open that box!

Prayer
Dear Father God,
At times, I continue to dig my hole deeper and deeper vs. just climbing out of that hole. I am embarrassed of my poor choices…of my bad decisions. And as I look back at my poor choices and sinful ways, I see the huge ripple effect of pain and suffering my sins have caused me and those around me…more than I could have ever imagined. Help me to be mindful that opening Pandora ’s Box is the last thing I want and need. I pray Father that You help me live the life You have created for me, keep me from being my own worst enemy. I know Satan is trying hard to devour me…and at times it feels like I’m helping him do his dirty job. Raise me up Lord. Take my hand and help pull me out of this hole I am digging. I ask this in the name of Jesus – and all God’s people said - AMEN!

The Truth
He who is pregnant with evil and conceives trouble gives birth to disillusionment.
He who digs a hole and scoops it out falls into the pit he has made. The trouble he causes recoils on himself; his violence comes down on his own head.
Psalm 7:14-16

Saturday, August 29, 2009

Stepping Stones: "I Have Sent Them..."

Transformational Tip
Know that as a believer you will not be of this world, but you have already been sent into this world…divinely appointed and placed. In John 17:20 Jesus actually prays not only for his current and present disciples, He prays for all future believers that we may be as one. Jesus prays that we will be one just as He and God are one. Amazing how instantly I felt such a strong bond with fellow believers I had never met before when I went to Kenya, Uganda, and especially in Iraq. Makes sense since we are spiritual family…brothers and sisters in Christ! Actually, I feel a stronger bond than with some of my biological family members.
Today, feel the sense of a community of believers. In some way…even in the smallest of ways…bring the message of Christ to others. Pray for someone in need, forward a past Stepping Stones Devotional to someone, offer kindness to someone who is in the midst of a storm. As one, let’s move God’s Word forward into this world.
Click the Past Devotional link below; comment about your thoughts and actions.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
It is so beautiful to know that Jesus prayed for me even before I was born and You knew all the hairs on my head. Thank You Father. All glory be Yours.
As a community of believers, the Stepping Stones Community as one body works together to further Your Kingdom. As Jesus sent his disciples, we too are sent into the world to spread the gospel. Help me and all those who are part of the Stepping Stone community do Your work even in ways that we do not understand. I pray that Your Holy Spirit fill us to the full. Fill us with You Spirit so that we may understand and then spread Your Holy Word. In Jesus’ guiding name – all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
Sanctify them in the truth; your word is truth.
As you sent me into the world, so I have sent them into the world.
And for their sake I consecrate myself, that they also may be sanctified in truth.
"I do not ask for these only, but also for those who will believe in me through their word,
that they may all be one, just as you, Father, are in me, and I in you, that they also may be in us, so that the world may believe that you have sent me.
The glory that you have given me I have given to them, that they may be one even as we are one, I in them and you in me, that they may become perfectly one, so that the world may know that you sent me and loved them even as you loved me.
John 17:18-23

Friday, August 28, 2009

Stepping Stones: Our Loaves and Fish, Multiplied

Transformational Tip
Here is how God has blessed us offering up our 5 loaves and 2 fish to feed many.
I subscribed my Dad to the newsletter. He loves it and now has renewed his faith. It has helped his wife through the loss of her mother. His comments-“ I am very grateful that you thought of me and sent me Stepping Stones Devotional. I had backslid so far that I didn't even realize it enough for it to bother me! It's like I'm Lazarus "coming forth" from the dead!' he suddenly died at age 67 just before he was to be baptized.
If left to my own devices, I tend to think of God as always ready to smack me for my sin. In my twisted thinking, God is only that way towards me – everyone else is accepted and lovingly forgiven. Stepping Stones is such a tangible reminder of God’s grace and unbelievable love for me (& everyone!!).
I do Bible studies with women in prison. I took about 20 of your devotionals in this past week and the women were so blessed. I had them look briefly through the devotionals and when one of them captured their heart, they would choose it and then read it and tell why they chose it. One by one, each shared how the one they chose was exactly where God had been speaking to them. It was a wonderful exercise in how God always confirms what it is He is trying to get across to us and how He speaks directly to the heart. So, thank you!
They are also being read by an Appalachian woman from the sticks who is in her 40's, who does not attend church, and no one around her does, whose husband is experiencing serious heart failure at present. She's at the end of her rope. She is learning about God in ways she has never even heard of before. She does not want to subscribe, but she asked me to keep forwarding them when I think they're "right." (And believe me, I send her 4-5 per week.)
As missionaries in Tanzania and your daily devotions are very fitting with many of the issues we face here. After the Father’s Day message, I went outside and played with my 7 and 8 yo daughters, hide-and-seek, kick the can, and capture the flag. It was the most fun we have all had in a long time.
Sometimes, I forget that it is up to the Lord God, to let me live one more day. I tend to assume that I will be here on earth tomorrow. But God wants us to live for today and today only, the future is His. You have been a great blessing to me, and now I know why my girlfriend loves your devotionals so much!
Today, go to www.SteppingStones-LN.blogspot.com, offer up your fish to grow others.

Prayer
Dear God, thank You for being willing to partner with us even though we are fallen and make lots of mistakes. Your faith in me and willingness to work through me to bless others is both loving and empowering. I pray others experience this same closeness with You. In Jesus’ Healing name – AMEN!

The Truth
They said to him, "We have only five loaves here and two fish." And he said, "Bring them here to me.” Then he ordered the crowds to sit down on the grass, and taking the five loaves and the two fish, he looked up to heaven and said a blessing. Then he broke the loaves and gave them to the disciples, and the disciples gave them to the crowds. And they all ate and were satisfied. And they took up twelve baskets full of the broken pieces left over.
Matthew 14:17-20