Thursday, May 28, 2009

Stepping Stones: Is God's Will My Will?

Transformational Tip
There is no question that it is God's will to sanctify you. His word tells us that "This is the will of God, your sanctification.." The real question; is it your will? Are you willing to let God do everything in you that has been made possible through the atonement of the Cross of Christ? Are you willing to let His life be exhibit through your flesh? Growing up, we yielded to the will of teachers, athletic coaches, instructors for dance, acting, instruments...enduring struggles with homework, physical strain, long practice sessions, final exams, learning tough musical pieces, many frustrating feelings of incompetence and insecurity. But we stuck with it, trusted those leaders, had faith that they willed something good for us, and their goal became our goal. God is the greatest coach, teacher, parent....ever. His will is more than you could imagine for you, so make it yours. Try this day to align your will with the one who created you and knows you better than you know yourself.

Prayer
Thank You Father for making it possible that Your will be my will. Thank You Father for uniting me through Jesus Christ to You...for Jesus making us pure and holy...and freeing us from the death grip of sin. How freeing it is to know that there is nothing in this universe that can separate me from Your love. Help me absorb Your love... to see how much you really care for me...and melt my resistance to Your will. Show me how to get out of Your way in how You work on me and with me through Your Holy Spirit.
In Jesus' loving and restoring name, AMEN.

The Truth
Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet to the nations."
Jeremiah 1:5
God's will is for you to be holy...
1 Thessalonians 4:3
God has united you with Christ Jesus. For our benefit God made him to be wisdom itself. Christ made us right with God; he made us pure and holy, and he freed us from sin.
1 Corinthians 1:30

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Stepping Stones: Don't Sleepwalk Through Your Prayers

Transformational Tip
Your routine prayers can cover a lot of praises and petitions. But that efficiency carries with it a danger; you can sleepwalk through your prayers. In most relationships, our tendency to fall into patterns and routines that then lead staleness or ruts dangerously sabotage our growth and relational depth. We start to take the other person for granted and become "me" focused...not process oriented for what is actually happening in the relationship. Prayer then is only to fulfill an obligation or tradition....saying "grace" before meals. Then God Himself seems like an extra, obligation, something to break out for special occasions, and not a daily enrichment to our life.
You have a choice! Make use of the massive power source within you - the Holy Spirit. Invite him to empower your prayers with life. Seek fresh ways to pray and commune with God...think specifically of your words...why are you praying...what is your attitude...your expectation. Then spend 5 minutes today at the end of your prayer just listening. If you drift(like I do at times), give it another try. This is how you develop your spiritual radar for God's frequency. This will awaken your soul and enliven your relationship with Him.

Prayer
Dear Father, teach me how to pray to you.
I love living close to You, it satisfies such deep longings in me. I live close to You through prayer. However, I confess Lord that I have fallen into a routine with my prayers...and I struggle between being faithful and constant vs. being creative in my communication with You. Because my mind is both fallen and finite, I feel I have such limited ability to be creative in my prayers. I come to You Lord with thanksgiving for Your Holy Spirit. Let Your Spirit teach me how to pray in such a way that I get increasingly closer to You and able to see Your infinite newness everyday.
In Jesus' renewing and exciting name, AMEN.

The Truth
And pray in the Spirit at all times and on every occasion. Stay alert and be persistent in your prayers for all believers everywhere.
Ephesians 6:18
For your unfailing love is as high as the heavens. Your faithfulness reaches to the clouds.
Be exalted, O God, above the highest heavens. May your glory shine over all the earth.
Psalm 57:10-11
The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases; his mercies never come to an end;
they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.
Lamentations 3:22-23

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Stepping Stones: To Pray Is To Breathe

Transformational Tip
So many people are slowly asphyxiating...they are suffocating. Why? Because they are not "breathing." To pray is to breathe, and people are not praying, so they are spiritually dying...or maybe they have never really lived. No more can the body do without oxygen can the soul do without prayer...without breathing in God's life. Prayer is an opening of our hearts to God who already dwells within us. Praying allows us further connection and understanding of the spiritual world....then our spiritual radar starts to get tuned and tweaked to God's settings. We then receive His communications without so much clutter and interference...life becomes easier and more fulfilling...we become more Christ-like as we know and follow Him more.
Pray deeply, breathe easily. Pray shallow, choke fearfully. Your choice.

Prayer
Dear Father,
I praise and honor You my Lord. I know You have created and are creating everything. Even though I believe in You, at times I cannot breathe. I struggle for air like a swimmer that has gone too deep and now I am rushing to the surface for that gasp of air. Today I feel like I will not make it to the top. I am learning now that You are my only source of air, my constant source of air...of "life." Infuse me with Your Holy Spirit Lord, help me regularly dedicate time to breathe You more deeply into my heart. Amen

The Truth
What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
1 Corinthians 6:19
All things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made.
In him was life; and the life was the light of men.
John 1:3-4
For what nation is there so great, who hath God so nigh unto them, as the LORD our God is in all things that we call upon him for?
Deuteronomy 4:7

Monday, May 25, 2009

Stepping Stones: What Do You Remember For Freedom?

Transformational Tip
In January 2006, I was privileged and honored to be invited by Dr Zryan, the Minister of Health in Kurdistan, Iraq, to lead the first mental health team (3 of us went, all Christians) into post-Sadam Iraq to train Iraqi healthcare personnel on various issues. Incredible experience! Unfortunately, I saw and heard first hand the suffering and persecution people endured religiously, especially Christians, who wanted to gather, pray, or worship God. Other basics, like heat, electricity, trust, safety, respect, being valued, and getting health care were also scarce. I really appreciated the basics we have here in the US. Today, Memorial Day, is when we remember all those who served so we could enjoy living in the greatest country ever....enjoy freedom in so many areas of life...in Iraq they have minimal vocational choice as the system puts them on a path in elementary or middle school. Most importantly, we have the freedom to choose who our God is. In 1776, this was rare, and why our forefathers left their homes in Europe and why they sacrificed all they had and fought to the death to preserve....Free will to decide for life(eternal life), liberty(freedom from the bondage of sin and death), and the pursuit of happiness(real personal relationship with God).
Take time today to remember the greatest sacrifice for our most important freedom...the greatest soldier, 2000 years ago, paid the ultimate price...leaving His home in heaven, going to a far away land, becoming embedded in the foreign culture, and fighting for not Himself, but for us....Jesus died spiritually freeing us from the bondage of sin and the sentence of death we were destined for without His ultimate sacrifice..
From the Battle Hymn of the Republic:
"With a glory in His bosom that transfigures you and me:
As He died to make men holy, let us die to make men free;"
Please take time to specially remember and thank God for being your ultimate warrior.
Also, please pray for those are serving and their families....but please continue to pray for those who have served as they struggle with higher levels of depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, alcohol and substance abuse, and family and marital problems worsened by the strain of their service for our comforts.
Enjoy your Holyday.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
Thank you so much for loving me before I even knew You.... even though I spurn You and go my own way, You relentlessly pursue me and still love me. I confess I take much of Your grace and blessings for granted.... especially your love and forgiveness. Help me be more aware of how I hurt you when I stray... keep in my mind everyday, not just today and Easter and Christmas, how you suffered and died for me...a king would die for putsy me...still unbelievable.
Please be with those in the military, who are sacrificing for others' freedom....make Your peace and comfort known to them and bring other Christians into their life to be Your tangible hands of love, compassion, and encouragement. Also be with those who have served and point them to Your Son, the Light to show them the way to Your arms of comfort.
I pray this prayer in Jesus' ultimate and precious name - AMEN.

The Truth
For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery.
Galatians 5:1
Live as people who are free, not using your freedom as a cover-up for evil, but living as servants of God.
1 Peter 2:16
So Jesus said to the Jews who had believed in him, "If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples,
and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."
John 8:31-32
Out of my distress I called on the LORD; the LORD answered me and set me free.
The LORD is on my side; I will not fear. What can man do to me?
The LORD is on my side as my helper; I shall look in triumph on those who hate me.
It is better to take refuge in the LORD than to trust in man.
It is better to take refuge in the LORD than to trust in princes.
Psalm 118:5-9

Sunday, May 24, 2009

Stepping Stones: Avoid "Future-Gazing"

Transformational Tip
The wonder and joy of God's is only accessible to you in the present moment. Instead of gazing into the unknown future, live each moment in the joyful awareness of His presence.
Imagine seeing a beautiful red carpet being unrolled in front of an honored person as she walks forward with her head up. The red carpet is her defined, honored, special, unique, and precious path... only for her.... to honor her....and for her maximum benefit and enjoyment. Know that your future is safely in the hands of your Lord and He has a path, a plan...your own personal red carpet specially designed for YOU. The catch is that He reveals it, your life, to you moment by moment. Armed with this understanding allows me to enjoy each moment instead of getting ahead and wishing for or anticipating future moments and neglecting the special "now" moments He designed for me. Enjoying the now acknowledges that God doesn't make mistakes, really loves me, and meets my every need. Attaining this freedom wasn't easy, because my mind wonders to "Future Gazing" at will. When you find yourself engaging in "Future Gazing", remind yourself that you are truly roaming in a fantasy land that is really about self-destruction and not self-preservation. This will help you return to the present where you will find Him waiting for you, rolling out your honored red carpet.

Prayer
Dear Lord and Savior,
What a comforting thought, knowing that You are unfolding my life to me exactly as You planned it. Teach me Lord how to spend more time in the present with You. I know that You hold my future far ahead of me and that when I "Future Gaze", all I am really doing is exercising my imagination, because it is impossible for me to know and anticipate what the future will hold for me . Help me walk forward on Your red carpet, never setting foot on anything but the present. I step forward today with confidence.
I pray in the name of Your Son Jesus - AMEN

The Truth
For he knoweth not that which shall be: for who can tell him when it shall be?
Ecclesiastes 8:7
Many sorrows shall be to the wicked: but he that trusteth in the LORD, mercy shall compass him about.
Psalm 32:10
Listen to me, O house of Jacob, all the remnant of the house of Israel, who have been borne by me from before your birth, carried from the womb;
even to your old age I am he, and to gray hairs I will carry you. I have made, and I will bear; I will carry and will save.
To whom will you liken me and make me equal, and compare me, that we may be alike?
Those who lavish gold from the purse, and weigh out silver in the scales, hire a goldsmith, and he makes it into a god; then they fall down and worship!
They lift it to their shoulders, they carry it, they set it in its place, and it stands there; it cannot move from its place. If one cries to it, it does not answer or save him from his trouble.
Remember this and stand firm, recall it to mind, you transgressors,
remember the former things of old; for I am God, and there is no other; I am God, and there is none like me,
declaring the end from the beginning and from ancient times things not yet done, saying, 'My counsel shall stand, and I will accomplish all my purpose,'
Isaiah 46:3-10
I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the ending, saith the Lord, which is, and which was, and which is to come, the Almighty.
Revelation 1:8

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Stepping Stones: Receive with Thanksgiving

Transformational Tip
Try thanking God regularly throughout your day; for each time you thank Him, You are acknowledging that He is you Lord and Provider. In our past, we suffered hurts, wounds, or letdowns...our "healing"reaction is developing defenses to make sure we don't get hurt again. One of our defenses is independence and control...making sure we have a plan and not dependent on others plans because we know better what we need and how to meet our needs way better than anyone else. How dare God have a different plan than ours. Our choices...1. Be mad, anxious, fearful, hurt, frustrated, discontented, upset, frantic, overwhelmed, because our plan didn't happen, or 2. Be thankful that our all-knowing, all-powerful, loving, awesome God had a better plan to really do what is truly best for us. Thankful might seem more difficult, but really is much better for you in your relationship with GOD, others, and yourself. When you pray with thanksgiving during difficult times you are truly acting like a child of God. When you find it hard to be thankful, stop and remember who your Lord really is; the Author of your life and your faith. So what do you choose today when life goes different than you want....frustration and angst or thankfulness. It's easier than you think...try it.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I know I'm supposed to give thanks in all circumstances; but I confess to you that sometimes my prayers are hollow, I can say them without feeling thankful at all...especially during difficult times. I know my Lord that I am totally dependent on You for everything...even my next breath. I know that all good things come from You Lord. I thank You today in the midst of my struggles, and when I thank You, I receive with thankfulness Your Joy and Peace. All glory to You my Lord.
I pray this prayer in Jesus' precious name - AMEN.

The Truth
Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you who belong to Christ Jesus
1 Thessalonians 5:18
Since we are receiving a Kingdom that is unshakable, let us be thankful and please God by worshiping him with holy fear and awe.
Hebrews 12:28
And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful.
Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God.
And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.
Colossians 3:15-17

Friday, May 22, 2009

Stepping Stones: Which Child Do You Want

Transformational Tip
Martha is great at completing all her homework on time, gets pretty good grades, does all her chores without whining or being nagged, is respectful and courteous, and follows the house rules. But Martha doesn't like you, isn't interested in you, your opinion is irrelevant and worthless to her, doesn't care what excites or bothers you, isn't interested in cheering you up when you are sad, doesn't want to hang out with you, and when you ask her to go on an errand, she says "No".
Mary isn't so good about her homework assignments, underachieves at school at times, needs reminders to do her chores, is occasionally sassy, and at times violates some house rules. Mary, though, really loves you, cares about you, values you opinion, wisdom, and input, is interested in your life, your heart, what makes you happy or sad....she hurts when you hurt, and celebrates when you are happy. Mary, loves to spend time with you sharing her heart, dreams, ideas, and loves to do any activity with you. When you ask her to go on an errand with you, she says, "Love to, cause I wanted to get your opinions about this new CD I just got but I am not sure about." Which child would you choose? Glorifying and enjoying God should be the highest priority in you life. God would love our obedience and intimate relationship....but if it was one or the other, He chooses relationship. Remember, keeping all the commandments but not having a relationship with God thru Jesus, sentences us to eternal suffering. Messing up the commandments, but receiving Christ's death as atonement for those sins, allows us eternal relationship with God and a place in His kingdom forever.
Maintaining a tidy, structured life should not be your priority. Give up trying to keep everything under control and keeping everyone happy. These are impossible tasks and waste your precious energy. Pursue your relationship with Him and the obedience will follow out of gratitude for His amazing grace.

Prayer
I declare to You my Lord that glorifying You is a much higher priority than maintaining order in my life. I know if I focus on You, I will have the appropriate order. While I make this commitment to You, I confess I do spend too much energy on keeping things under control. When I do this, I lose sight of You. I want my life to display the deep desire I have in my heart; to glorify You in carefree cheerfulness.
In Jesus' redeeming name, AMEN

The Truth
Now as they went on their way, Jesus entered a village. And a woman named Martha welcomed him into her house.
And she had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord's feet and listened to his teaching.
But Martha was distracted with much serving. And she went up to him and said, "Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me."
But the Lord answered her, "Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things,
but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her."
Luke 10:38-42
I have glorified thee on the earth: I have finished the work which thou gavest me to do.
And now, O Father, glorify thou me with thine own self with the glory which I had with thee before the world was.
John 17:4-5
O lord, thou hast searched me, and known me.
Thou knowest my downsitting and mine uprising, thou understandest my thought afar
Psalm 139: 1-2
One of the criminals who were hanged railed at him, saying, "Are you not the Christ? Save yourself and us!"
But the other rebuked him, saying, "Do you not fear God, since you are under the same sentence of condemnation?
And we indeed justly, for we are receiving the due reward of our deeds; but this man has done nothing wrong."
And he said, "Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom."
And he said to him, "Truly, I say to you, today you will be with me in Paradise."
Luke 23:39-43

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Stepping Stones: Closer Than The Air You Breathe

Transformational Tip
You need never feel lonely again. Your God is closer to you than you dare believe. He is not sitting up in heaven at the control panel...he is intimately close to you. Reflect back on the worst situations you endured. Imagine if everyday was like those horrific days. They weren't and aren't because He is with us.... protecting and extending mercy. He gave up so much to being a God in heaven to a frail, weak, human baby on Earth.... endured so much trying to teach us, being mocked, ridiculed, tortured, and killed, and enduring extreme pain of separation from His father who He was intimately connected to for a zillion years. He went thru all this just to relate closely with us. Imagine you are a kid again in a dark, spooky house....filled with danger...you are frightened and know and feel totally alone. Then the lights come on and you see the bravest powerful warrior and the most loving protector both on each side of you. Imagine how wonderful, safe, protected, at peace, hopeful, and excited you would feel. Quick, flick on the light in your head, get out of the deceitful darkness and see who really is at you side....now and forever. (see Spiritual Basics link below - Salvation)
Today try and be mindful of the direct connection and distinction between loneliness and lack of awareness of how close God is to you.

Prayer
Dear God,
I come to you to thank You for Your mercy and grace. I deeply desire to experience Your closeness and presence in my life. When I am aware of your nearness I am not lonely...I feel peaceful and content. When I fail to recognize you I feel frightened, vulnerable and lonely. Let my feelings of loneliness be a constant reminder that I need to seek Your face...and to know that the only think I should fear is losing my connection with You. I come to You Lord with my ever-so-human emptiness...fill me with Your divine presence. Fill me with life to the fullest. In Christ's name, AMEN.

The Truth
The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.
John 10:10
And as for me, thou upholdest me in mine integrity, and settest me before thy face for ever.
Psalm 41:12
And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Helper, to be with you forever,
But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you.
John 14:16, 26

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Stepping Stones: Good Thought-Choices Will Keep You Close To God

Transformational Tip
Guard your thought closely. There is a fierce battle waging for your mind. Nothing angers the enemy more than your closeness to Your Lord. Missiles of deception are constantly being launched at your mind. Although it will be a struggle, fix your mind on God and make good thought choice today.

Prayer
My Lord and Savior,
Although I try, many times my thoughts seem totally disconnected with my will. I try to focus my thoughts on you but there are so many distractions. I want, I desperately want to focus my thoughts on You, but it's a contact struggle...I feel like I am always swimming against a strong current. I know there are many things that impact my ability to think clearly; poor sleep, bad eating habits...my health and the health of others that I love...just the worries of the world. I ask that Your Holy Spirit enter my mind and help me with this challenge. I know that making good thought-choice will alow me to enjoy Your refreshing presence more and more.
I pray with confidence in the name of Jesus - Amen

The Truth
Repent ye therefore, and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out, when the times of refreshing shall come from the presence of the Lord.
Acts 3:19
Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:
1 Peter 5:8

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Stepping Stones: Each Prayer Comes With A Promise

Transformational Tip
God's word tells us repeatedly to bring our petitions to Him through prayers with thanksgiving. Regardless of how He answers our prayers, each prayer transaction comes with this promise; His peace will guard our heart and mind and will keep Him close to us. You see, going to Him when we are in need, shows us our recognition that He has more power and authority over our circumstances and ourselves than we do. If we are patient and develop our radar for the intangible...the psychological and especially the spiritual world... we will be amazed at His answers to our prayers. Remember, He answers two ways....Yes.... or No, because I have something better for you. Patience and radar to see His love and provision for us. Once we experience and really see this reality of our needs being met, His peace will be abundant and you will be a Lighthouse standing strong in your own storms, but also be a sanctuary and guide to others caught in storms.
So Pray more and watch the results of our powerful and loving Father!

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I come to You with an open, thankful heart. And while I bring my requests and petitions to You, I know that You know exactly what I need and when I need it. Help me learn and believe that not getting my request answered as I desire does not mean no, rather that You will say yes in a better way.
I pray today that I may increase my intimacy with you. Please help me remove all the aspects of my life that hinders my intimacy with you.
Father, fill me with Your Holy Spirit so that I may internalize and absorb Your Words in the scripture reading below.
In Jesus' name - AMEN

The Truth
Rejoice in the Lord always: and again I say, Rejoice.
Let your moderation be known unto all men. The Lord is at hand.
Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.
And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:4-7
But as for me, my prayer is to you, O LORD. At an acceptable time, O God, in the abundance of your steadfast love answer me in your saving faithfulness.
Psalm 69:13

Monday, May 18, 2009

Stepping Stones: Let Him Wean You

Transformational Tip
God wants you to be all His. Once you Believe and then Receive, God, through His Holy Spirit is constantly working to wean you off all other dependencies. Especially as men we are raised to become independent, so becoming dependent on someone goes against our indoctrination and experiences. As women, we have been hurt and let down when we have depended on others to lead and protect, that we guard against total submission and dependence....fearing more letdown and hurt. What we fail to realize is that we are always dependent on someone... if it isn't another, then I am depending on me. Wow, that is when my life fell apart the most...when I relied on my understanding, abilities, power, "love" for me, methods, and willingness to sacrifice for my own growth. A big part of Becoming is letting your security rest in Him alone; not in other things, people or circumstances. He will detox you from you, because you have been a false substitute for HIM.

Prayer
Dear Father,
I thank You for all that I have and I thank You for the security You provide for my life. Day by day now this physical world is becoming a more frightening place, such an insecure place. I accept You as my God and my savior, but I humbly admit to You that I am not yet weaned from other dependencies. Help me let go of them as I grasp more firmly to You.
I don't want to depend on me anymore. I know You have way more input in my life than I realize, so pen my eyes to Your grace when You meet my needs and protect me more clearly, so I can really grow confident in to shift my dependency from me, a hollow limited substitute, to YOU. In Jesus' life sustaining name, AMEN.

The Truth
But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire.
Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully-grown brings forth death.
Do not be deceived, my beloved brothers.
Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change.
James 1:14-17
Therefore I will judge you, O house of Israel, every one according to his ways, declares the Lord GOD. Repent and turn from all your transgressions, lest iniquity be your ruin.
Cast away from you all the transgressions that you have committed, and make yourselves a new heart and a new spirit! Why will you die, O house of Israel?
For I have no pleasure in the death of anyone, declares the Lord GOD; so turn, and live."
Ezekiel 18:30-32

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Stepping Stones: The World's Idols Leave You Thirsty

Transformational Tip
This world offers more distractions than you can fit into one lifetime. We are thirsty, and at times we don't even realize we are dehydrated. So to quench this thirst we look to the world's idols. Those idols provide some temporary relief...but the thirst remains. Satan's greatest trick is masquerading empty, destructive options as really fulfilling answers to our thirst. We blindly drink expecting relief, which we sometimes get immediate resolution of the discomfort (like drinking saltwater when we are thirsty), but get battered by other immediate, intermediate, and long-term consequences. Try to understand that our deepest desire is for a loving relationship with Jesus Christ. All our other needs are met through relating with Him and following His teachings. His joy and peace is the only way to satisfy your thirst. So hang out with Him today, get to know Him thru prayer(talking and LISTENING) and the Bible. You won't thirst anymore.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I am so thirsty...my soul is thirsty. At times I confuse this thirst as just being tired or stressed out, so I start searching for relief, or at least for some distractions. I know that all this while you are standing next to me...ready to quench my thirst. My soul thirsts for you Lord. Allow Your gifts of Joy and Peace to enhance my awareness of You, the only one who can ultimately quench my thirst.
I pray this is Jesus' precious name, AMEN.

The Truth
I stretch forth my hands unto thee: my soul thirsteth after thee, as a thirsty land. Selah
Psalm 143:6
As the deer panteth after the water brooks, so panteth my soul after thee, O God.
My soul thirsteth for God, for the living God: when shall I come and appear before God?
Psalm 42:1-2
Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
Romans 12:2
Therefore they are before the throne of God, and serve him day and night in his temple; and he who sits on the throne will shelter them with his presence.
They shall hunger no more, neither thirst anymore; the sun shall not strike them, nor any scorching heat.
For the Lamb in the midst of the throne will be their shepherd, and he will guide them to springs of living water, and God will wipe away every tear from their eyes.
Revelation 7:15-17

Saturday, May 16, 2009

Stepping Stones: Is Being Grumpy Working For You?

Transformational Tip
Why do we get grumpy? Usually because situations, people, things, life, aren't going the way we planned. We feel hurt...have to accept a different plan, agenda...are disrupted, uncomfortable. Why respond with negativity, nastiness, grumpiness? How is that going to help improve the situation? When you feel nastiness coming on, when you are tempted to grumble, try this; Try going to God and talking it out. Ask Him to reveal to you why He gave you something different than what you expected or wanted. Get in His word and seek Him. As you open up to Him, He will put His thoughts in Your mind and His song in your heart. The key...open up to Him!

Prayer
Dear Father,
I grumble and complain more than I like to admit. There are so many things that tick me off...so many things I want to be different in me, in others, in the world. I realize it is my natural tendency to brood over these things and take them out on others that are close to me. I see now that the longer I focus on these things the more likely I am to grumble. Even when I get control of my spoken words, my thoughts are full of complaints. Help me talk with You about these matters. I thank You Lord for listening and caring. Even if You choose not to change my circumstance, my communion with you alone will but Your song in my heart. In Jesus' name I pray - AMEN

The Truth
And he hath put a new song in my mouth, even praise unto our God: many shall see it, and fear, and shall trust in the LORD.
Psalm40:3
Thou hast made known to me the ways of life; thou shalt make me full of joy with thy countenance.
Acts 2:28

Friday, May 15, 2009

Stepping Stones: Your Personal Tutor

Transformational Tip
Who wants problems? Try thinking about problems differently: An ongoing problem can be like a tutor...a teacher that is always by your side. Your learning possibilities are limited only by your willingness to be "teachable". The bottom line here is whether or not you can trust God to use the difficulties in your life for goodness. Be alert to a mentality of entitlement. God actually promises us the opposite when he tells us in John 16:33 that we will have trouble in this world. If you want to learn all that your God has prepared for you...then you must accept his teaching methods. The more humble you are, the more teachable you are...the more teachable and flexible you are, the more you learn...the more you learn, the better you'll understand life...the more you understand, the easier life is....the easier life is, the more you'll glorify God...the more you glorify God, the more peace, contentment, and fulfillment you have as you achieve the mind of Christ.
Remember today that God is the potter and you are the clay.
How flexible are you willing to be in His skillful hands?

Prayer
Dear Father,
I come to you with embarrassment as I confess that I really don't like this tutor at all. What I really want is to have my problems taken away, I want to run away from my problems...Haven't I spent enough time with this teacher? Isn't there a simpler less painful way to learn?
Father God, I pray to you to help me trust You more, to trust that You intend my problems for something good...to transform me. I will try beginning today to see my problems as blessings in disguise which are stepping stones to my gradual transformation into Your likeness...depending on You, developing Your perspective, and understanding what is really important to You. Help me this day; empower me be a Lighthouse, reflecting Your light to others with ever-increasing Glory.
I pray in the name of Jesus - AMEN

The Truth
But now, O LORD, thou art our father; we are the clay, and thou our potter; and we all are the work of thy hand.
Isaiah 64:8
These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.
John 16:33

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Stepping Stones: You Can't Always See Miracles With Your Eyes

Transformational Tip
In our normal state, we are so dependent on our eyes as our only real radar system in gauging our surroundings. It takes a really intense stimulus to set off our other radar systems....a skunk...a sudden noise....bitter herb....nudge or tap on the arm. When we lose our sight, we are incapacitated. Our radar is out! Over time, we learn to develop our other senses and it's amazing the world that is available as these little used radar systems are recalibrated, sensitized, and cranked up. Believe this; God is at work in many areas of your life long before you can discern or "see" the results. Shut your reliance on your material radar, and start to develop your spiritual radar. Trust Him by waiting patiently, accepting each moment as a gift from Him. When the time is right, when you have learned to tune into the spiritual station, you will see the results of His handiwork...of his Mercy and Grace. Work on your spiritual radar....learn the spiritual truths of the Bible, God's character, His promises, His perspective of you and life. Develop a focus on the eternal. Trusting...believing these to be true...that is how you tune your spiritual radar to the reality of life.
Miracles are not always visible to the eye...but those who live by faith see them clearly and regularly. Living by faith rather than by sight enables you to see and revel in His Glory. The life you yearn for and He has for you is within reach. Tune in and grab it!

Prayer
Dear God and Creator of all things, I want to see Your Glory in myself and in others. I pray that You allow me just a glimpse of Your Glory. Please give me spiritual radar and discerning eyes so I can recognize miracles when I see them. I pray that you reveal more and more of Your Glory-moments to me.
Father God I live in anticipation of living with You in heaven where Your Glory will be a never-ending experience. I look forward to Your radiant perfection. Sadly, I know that this world I live in is deeply fallen. I pray for an increase in my faith so that I can accept and navigate in this world's brokenness yet remain open to seeing Your beautiful miracles. I pray this in faith and by the authority granted me through Jesus Christ - AMEN

The Truth
Jesus saith unto her, Said I not unto thee, that, if thou wouldest believe, thou shouldest see the glory of God?
John 11:40
For we walk by faith, not by sight
2 Corinthians 5:7
For in thee, O LORD, do I hope: thou wilt hear, O Lord my God.
Psalm 38:15

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Stepping Stones: Fight Back Against The Lies

Transformational Tip
Be clear, our battles are not human or physical battles, they are spiritual battles. The evil one is so crafty, so deceptive. One of his favorite deceptions is to intrude into our minds and reduce our confidence in God's unconditional love. Fight back and do not let these lies go unchallenged. Be armed with the truth. Thoroughly know the Christmas and Easter story as there really is no better representation of God's love and Jesus' sacrifice for us than that. Who else, other than your parent, and maybe your spouse would do that for you? Better yet, God promises to love us unconditionally and really does back it up ALL the time with action. Who else in your life does that? Put Satan to the test...scrutinize his activity and love for you. Does it come close to God's? Then why do you accept or trust any thing from Satan. He is a great tempter and masquerader. Don't fall for it, because he just laughs at you behind your back while God cries for you and died for you. "Resist the devil and he will flee from you".

Prayer
Dear Father,
Help me open my mind and my heart to You today...to open my entire being to receive Your love to the fullest. So many of Your children limp through life starved for Your love because they have not learned the art of receiving You. I know that receiving You is an act of faith: believing that You love me with unlimited, everlasting love. Train my mind Lord to trust You, as I come close to you with confidence.
I know that one of the devils favorite deceptions and intrusions into my mind and thoughts is to undermine my confidence in Your unconditional love. I fight back against these lies today...I do not let them go unchallenged. I resist the devil in Your name and know that he will shrink away from me as I draw closer to Your presence. Give me Your strength today. Envelope me today and always with Your love and peace that passes all human understanding. In Jesus' holy name - AMEN

The Truth
You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father's desire. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies.
John 8:44
Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
James 4:7

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Stepping Stones: Let God Set The Pace

Transformational Tip
In this hurry-up world it's so difficult to let God set the pace. We want it now. We are in a microwave society....i want all my needs met now, or at least a sign that they will be met pretty soon. Whether it is food, finances, sex, my plan for the day.....waiting without knowing if my "master" plan, "needs", "expert" solutions to take care of me will be executed or if I have to accept someone else's who obviously doesn't know or care about me as much as I do. Wow, so many beliefs of that last statement were such incredible distortions of the truth, but in the moment, I believe them so often, when left to my own understanding, using my old crappy lenses to view life. Slow the merry-go-round of life down, take a closer look at life thru God's lenses. Try accepting that God's timing is perfect timing. Understand that a delay in your requests does not mean no forever...but if no is the answer you do get, understand that God only means "No, because I love you and actually have something better than what you asked for." So instead of getting impatient, frustrated, or wallowing in self-pity about what you didn't get, be excited for the "something better" that God has in store for you.

Prayer
Dear Father,
Through this renewed intimacy with you I feel I am being transformed from the inside out. Far too long I have been focusing on the outer person, now I focus on the inner person. I pray that as I increase my focus on You my Lord, that You transform me into the one You desire me to be. I yield to you Lord, I do not resist this change nor do I desire to slow it down or speed it up. I let You set the pace Lord, for I know Your timing is perfect. I hold your hand Lord with childlike trust, just as babies hold their parents hand as they learn to walk, step by step. Hold my hand, let me feel and enjoy the tempo of this God-breathed life I am now living. All glory to you God. Thank You Lord. I pray in Your Son's name - AMEN

The Truth
And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord's glory, are being transformed into his likeness with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.
2 Corinthians 3:18

Monday, May 11, 2009

Stepping Stones: The Promise of Rest

Transformational Tip
You need a rest, not a nap or more sleep, actually a rest from the burdens and conflicts battering you each day. More sleep or a nap only rests your body. It's not your body that needs rest...it's your soul. How do you find rest for your soul? Jesus tells us; "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest". Don't fight the experiences and activities. Accept them and see how God is growing you through these specially prescribed circumstances. Seek Him today. Go to Him. Put your life in His hands today like you put your eternal life in His hands. Let your soul rest with Him today and forever. His hands are big enough and soft enough!

Prayer
Dear Father I come to you weary and burdened, I come to You to rest, I come for Your blessing and grace and to be restored. Today I feel the way ahead of me is steep. I am slowing down Lord so I can cling tightly to Your hand. I feel You are teaching me a difficult yet important lesson. I am ready to learn, I lift my hands up to You at this very moment, hands of faith to receive Your lesson and Your peace, Your presence. Light, Life, Joy, Peace flow freely from You. I know that when my focus turns away from You I reach for other things. In this reaching, I at times drop the glowing gift of Your presence. I return to You my Lord, I turn to regain Your presence. I pray this in Jesus name - Amen

The Truth
Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
Matthew 11:28-29
He only is my rock and my salvation, my stronghold; I shall not be shaken. On God my salvation and my glory rest; the rock of my strength, my refuge is in God. Trust in Him at all times, O people; Pour out your heart before Him; God is a refuge for us.
Psalm 62:6-8

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Stepping Stones: Wisdom: Yours or His?

Transformational Tip
If you look up the word "wisdom", you will find as the first definition that it is having the ability make sensible decisions and judgments. It's been said ,"to live is to choose". And how many times have bad decisions put us in that downward spiral.
Today's scripture reading tells us that to receive God's wisdom (think about that for a moment...God's wisdom) all we have to do is ask...but there's a condition...we must ask in faith.
I know I look back every 5 years or so and say "wow, if only I knew then what I know now..." The problem is, I think I know everything now and what God should allow to happen in my life, but in 5 years, I will again say, "wow, if only I knew then what I know now...." It is always like that. We will never know enough to be the one trusted to call the shots.
So, let's stop facing life's challenges and storms half-witted. Let's ask for and receive from Him who..."gives generously and without finding fault". Why would we want to make decisions with any other wisdom than His. Pretty arrogant isn't it....thinking we know it all, especially knowing our own track record. What wisdom will you rely on in 5 years.....yours or HIS?

Prayer
Father, teach me how to pray to You,
I am learning Lord, that the battles we fight each day are not always fair, but through these battles I trust that You are watching over me and that You have a plan for me and for all of us. I have challenges that are far too great for me to overcome; I thank You Lord for helping me endure these burdens with Your presence and by bringing this Stepping Stones prayer community together.
During times of burdens and trails, I lack wisdom Lord...I don't know what to do, which way to turn...but then I turn to the gift of faith that you have given me...and that faith leads me to believe that I will receive Your wisdom. You tell me in James 1:5-6 that if I lack wisdom all I need to do is to ask You and You will give Your wisdom generously. I am asking Lord, give me Your wisdom this day. I ask with faith and without doubt. I ask that You deliver Your wisdom to all those reading this prayer who come to You in faith.
Father, I pray that through Your grace, each member of this Stepping Stones community get closer to You today and each day. Remind me and all those reading this prayer that we cannot earn God's grace; that it is a gift that is our for the taking. Help us Believe in you, Receive your grace...and then Become who You want us to be to further Your Kingdom. Give all of us Your wisdom and peace, so that we too can be victorious in our battles and trails...and to weather well the storms in our lives. I ask You my Lord and God to align my desires with Your purpose. I ask this through the power of Jesus Christ - Amen

The Truth
How much better it is to get wisdom than gold! And to get understanding is to be chosen above silver.
Proverbs 16:16
If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind.
James 1:5-6
So you willfind favor and good repute in the sight of God and man. Trust in the LORD with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.
Proverbs 3:4-6

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Stepping Stones: Even In Darkness, Light Dawns

Transformational Tip
How many of us deep down believe we deserve a trouble-free life? And even if we don't feel we deserve, we certainly desire that problem-free life. What do we really deserve? The wages of sin is death. From the first sin of Eve and Adam, with the consequences of separation from God, shame, pain in childbirth (and childrearing) and toiling in the field, to the consequences of our own sin, we deserve death. Everything we get....breathing, walking, thinking, house, family, heat, food....is all way more than we deserve and is total grace from God. Amazing how we get so entitled and believe we deserve all we get.... actually deserve even more. Instead of being happy about the 8 years we had with our son, we ruminate and believe we were entitled to more time with him when he dies. Just because we had something (good things or the lack of bad things) yesterday, we feel entitled to have it again today. Jesus tells us clearly in John 16:33 that we will have trouble in this world, and that we will only find peace in Him. No pain, no gain.
So let go of the illusion of the trouble-free life and begin turning your focus toward your Lord during the dark times; for "Even in darkness light dawns..." and show God you trust His prescription and provision for your life more than your own plan.

Prayer
Dear Father,
Please help me give up the belief that I deserve a problem-free life. I remain constantly hungry for the solutions for all difficulties in my life. I know now that this is false hope, for You tell me through Your word that in this world I will have trouble. Instead of me seeking perfection in this fallen world, help me focus my energy on seeking You...the only perfect One.
I know and believe that it is possible to enjoy You and glorify You in the midst of adverse situations and circumstances. In fact, You have taught me that Your light shines most brightly through believers who trust You while they are in the dark. I thank You Lord for the Christians you have placed in my life, The kind of trust I see them having in You is clearly supernatural...only possible by Your Spirit living within them. It's so beautiful and encouraging to see their hearts so steadfast, trusting in You Lord.
I pray in Jesus' name - Amen

The Truth
I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.
John 16:33
For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 6:23
Even in darkness light dawns for the upright, for the gracious and compassionate and righteous man.
He will have no fear of bad news; his heart is steadfast, trusting in the LORD.
Psalm 112:4 and 7