Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Stepping Stones: Trust With All Your Heart and Mind

Transformational Tip
My mother had a couple of Christian themes that she tried to embed in the minds of us children. One of those themes was to trust God with our whole heart and minds. Not just to mouth the words, rather to live like we trusted Him completely. I put this to practical application one day when I was 6 years old. I was climbing the old plum tree in the back yard and decided to hang upside down off a branch like a possum. I could not get myself back up onto the branch…I was stuck. After yelling frantically for my mom, the often delivered message came to my mind; trust God with everything. So I closed my eyes and asked God to get me out of this tree. I immediately fell out of the tree into a soft pile of sand in our sandbox. I was so excited to tell my mom that trusting God really works. Mom always loved to retell that story.
Today, practice trusting in God with more and more areas of your life. Instead of fearing and running away from situations, embrace them with an eagerness to gain all the blessings God has hidden in those difficulties. Click here to share your experiences and perspective with other readers on the subject of trusting in God.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I believe Father that You are sovereign over every aspect of my life…and that it is possible to trust You in all situations. Help me Lord to stop wasting so much energy regretting the way things are or thinking about what might have been. Help me Lord begin now, at the present moment – accepting things exactly as they are – and to search for Your way in the very midst of my situation. I pray this with confidence in the name of my savior Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, – AMEN!

The Truth
But I am like an olive tree flourishing in the house of God; I trust in God's unfailing love forever and ever.
Psalm 52:8
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
Proverbs 3:5-6
He said to them, "Why are you so afraid? Have you still no faith?"
Mark 4:40

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Stepping Stones: A Real Makeover

Transformational Tip
So much time and effort goes into touching up (or overhauling) our outward appearance. Hiding our defects. We are so concerned about our looks. It’s almost as if we believe the touch-ups hide our internal nicks, defects, and scars… frustration, hurts, emptiness, and our true feelings of inadequacies. Don’t get me wrong; being good stewards of our bodies is important. Unfortunately, I see a lot of people trying to fix up the outside, hopping that fixes, or at least hides the inside issues. Why? Because, most people know how to fix up their outside, but have trouble knowing how to work on and fix the deeper issues on the inside. Our external makeovers can fool most people, but as we know, God can see straight through that outer veneer and right into our very being. There is no place for pretense in your relationship with our Lord and God. A real external makeover really starts on the inside, then the growth will shine through and make the outside glow, and people will notice and wonder, “Wow, I want to be like that!”
Today, identify what you want to work on, and then click here to see the unique and practical resource, WITHIN REACH, we’ve developed to help you grab the life God has for you. Rejoice in the belief and relief of being fully understood, fully loved by God. Click here to share your perspective and experience on the subject of always trying makeover your life from the inside out instead of the outside in.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I come to you with a thankful heart and open mind to receive all that You have for me. Bless me Father and fill me with Your grace and peace. I have been ashamed of my emptiness in the past and I have been guilty of hiding behind “looking good.” Thank you for giving me a way to renew my mind and put off my old self and put on a new self, a real makeover from the inside out. I am no longer afraid of my issues; for now I realize I can do something about them thru the power and guidance of your Holy Spirit. Help me to be intentional in pursuing the mind of Christ and following Your instructions. I pray in Christ’s perfect name, and all God’s people said, – AMEN!

The Truth
But the LORD said to Samuel, "Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart."
1 Samuel 16:7
to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.
Ephesians 4:22-24
Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
Romans 12:2

Monday, September 28, 2009

Stepping Stones: Are You Afraid to Fall?

Transformational Tip
As a young boy I spent many afternoons at the local roller-skating rink. My father was a great skater. When he skated, everyone stopped to watch. I worked hard to try and get as good as my dad. Upon returning from the rink one day my dad asked me how many times I fell that day. I was proud to tell him that I didn’t fall once. He then told me that I must not have learned anything new that day; “If you are not falling…you are not learning.”
True dependence is not simply asking God to bless what you have decided to do. It means coming to him with an open mind and heart, inviting Him to plant His desires and will within you. The only way to achieve a victorious life is by living in deep dependence on Him. Stretching ourselves and depending on Him is scary at times, but also so freeing when we see His hand at work, guiding and helping us. For God to grow us, you need to reflect and evaluate what happened so the “falls” or mistakes can be learned from so He can show us new things and grow us.
We wrongly associate victory with success, by not falling and stumbling…by not making mistakes. It is only through problems and failure, weakness and neediness that we learn to rely on Him. Today, look at a recent failure or mistake and tell someone who knows you. Ask them what God might have been showing you through that experience. Click here to share your perspective with other readers on the power of true dependence on Him or what you have learned through your mistakes.

Prayer
Dear Father,
I come to you with open hands and an open heart. I pray Lord that You will infuse within me a dream that appears to be far beyond my reach. I will know Father that it will be impossible by myself to achieve this dream…and this will begin my total reliance on You. I know Father the path You have created for me is not a path of continued success, rather a path of multiple failures. I have faith, Father, that each failure will be followed by a spiritual growth spurt, nourished by my increased reliance on You. Help me Father, enjoy the blessedness of a victorious life through deepening my dependence on You. I pray in Jesus’ all providing name, and all God’s people said, – AMEN!

The Truth
We live by faith, not by sight.
2 Corinthians 5:7
…I tell you, now is the time of God's favor, now is the day of salvation.
2 Corinthians 6:2

Sunday, September 27, 2009

Stepping Stones: Watch Your Mouth

Transformational Tip
Our mother had little tolerance for the use of profanity in her home. She wouldn’t yell or punish us, she would simply say; “Whenever someone uses profanity, it only shows their ignorance.” But if we abused God’s name as profanity, Mom would come down on us like a ton of bricks. We learned at an early age that if we used this verbal assault on our Lord, the words were heard all the way to heaven. I am saddened how Our Father’s name is constantly abused in the world today, where people use it freely as a curse word. Let’s all begin to counter this world’s blasphemies by trustingly uttering “Jesus.” The incredible power of using His name to honor Him, bless us, and reorient us to His majesty and holiness is beyond our understanding.
Today, whenever you feel distant from God, whisper His Name in loving trust. This simple, one word prayer can restore your awareness of His closeness to you and remind you of His love for you. Click here to share your perspective with other readers about what you think or feel when you say His name.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
It pains me to hear Your name used as profanity. Help me teach others that the grating rancor of the world’s blasphemies cannot compete with God’s children praying the word “Jesus.” Help me Father to use Your name in a way that soothes Your aching ears from all the world’s profanity. Help me remember that there is no name other than Yours by which we are saved. I pray in the loving name of Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, – AMEN!

The Truth
Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to men by which we must be saved."
Acts 4:12
Until now you have not asked for anything in my name. Ask and you will receive, and your joy will be complete.
John 16:24

Saturday, September 26, 2009

Stepping Stones: Time to Stand Up!

Transformational Tip
We live in a time when people are standing up for all sorts of causes. We have people standing up for the rights of animals. We have people standing up for the environment. We have people standing up for perverse sexual lifestyles. We have people standing up for everything imaginable, even willing to die for their cause. I love my wife and kids and would fight to the death if someone was attacking them. David knew what was worth standing up for as he spent much time praying to, learning from, and trusting in God. David couldn’t stand to hear Goliath blaspheme someone he loved so dearly, His true and living God. Without fear or hesitation, and with great confidence, David was ready to stand up and fight the mighty, giant warrior everybody, even Saul, feared. Why? Because David knew God stood up for him, and later his messiah, Jesus, would stand up for him.
Isn't it time that we, as Christians, stand up for what we believe? To David, standing up for God was a no-brainer. What about you?
Today, stand up, be heard and don’t be ashamed of the truth, which is found in Christ… no matter what the consequences! Be a Lighthouse, speak the truth excitedly and boldly thru your actions and attitudes. If it is a testy situation, speak calmly and in love, but don’t be afraid to stand up clearly for our Savior and His name. Click here to share with us your experience and thoughts about standing up for Christ or when you had trouble standing up.

Prayer
Dear Father God, Thank you so much for standing up for me when you didn’t have to, even though I don’t express my thanks and gratitude very well with my actions. Thanks for bearing my burden for me. Draw me closer to You today and make me more passionate for those around me. Help me to love You more than myself, so I will die to myself, take up my cross, and follow You. Help me see You clearly, and not be so deceived by fear of other’s opinions or consequences so I can stand up for You. Give me the strength and the words to stand up for You. I pray in the name of Your Son Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, – AMEN!

The Truth
“If anyone is ashamed of me and my words, the Son of Man will be ashamed of him when he comes in his glory and in the glory of the Father and of the holy angels.”
Mark 8:38
Then they left the presence of the council, rejoicing that they were counted worthy to suffer dishonor for the name.
Acts 5:41
For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes, to the Jew first and also to the Greek.
Romans 1:16

Friday, September 25, 2009

Stepping Stones: You Have to Know the Author!

Transformational Tip
In high school, when I read Romeo and Juliet or Julius Caesar, I often thought I would understand and be impacted deeper if I really knew Shakespeare…his personality, nuances, life. When watching “Biography” on TV, I am more interested, intrigued, and impacted when I “know” or “intereacted” with the subject…like Gilligan, Bob Barker, Ronald Reagan…as opposed to subjects that really never touched my life. If you were to read my personal journal, your understanding and enjoyment of it would be dramatically impacted by whether you knew me personally or not. Well the bible, God’s journal is the same way. The bible is a great book, filled with great life tips, but to really maximize the treasure inside it, you really need to know and be in relationship with the author. Then it really comes alive and is more powerful than anything except the Trinity themselves. Get to know the Author, then He and His journal will make more sense and have more authority in your life.
Today, ask yourself “does the Bible make sense to me?“ “do I easily practice what it says?” If you aren’t confident in your answers, ask “how much time a day do I spend relating to and getting to know God?” Read a couple Psalms, or one of Paul’s letters to know God better. Click here to share with us your experience and thoughts about whether knowing Him and understanding/implementing the Bible are related.

Prayer
Dear Father God, I praise You as the Author of the big story. Thank you for making things so clear in Your word. I confess, I want to take shortcuts at times…not spend time getting to know You or be in Your great storybook, journal, instruction manual. Then I wonder, why I am frustrated, insecure, and lost at times. Thanks for Your Holy Spirit in me to help me digest Your Word and apply it to me life and help me get out of the way and then follow the Holy Spirit’s direction for my life. I pray in the name of the Author of my salvation, Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, – AMEN!

The Truth
For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.
Hebrews 4:12
All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be competent, equipped for every good work.
2 Timothy 3:16

Thursday, September 24, 2009

Stepping Stones: Why We Search

Transformational Tip
When you are searching for your keys, it is because they are not in the right place…lost. When we are in Washington, DC and searching for the Washington Monument, the monument isn’t lost, we are lost. We search for the Truth not because it is lost, we search for the Truth because we are lost. We were designed by God to search and find Him. Our search is usually for comfort, peace, love, happiness, being valued…all things God can and wants to give us. Unfortunately, instead of one-stop shopping, going to God for everything, we search in many other places and things for the desires of our heart. We try to find relief at work, computer, food, relationships, kids, our grown-up toys, getting ahead, but we are looking in the wrong places.…we search because we are lost. God isn’t lost, He is in the same place all the time…you’ll find Him in His word, thru prayer, and orchestrating your circumstances to direct you back on track to Him. Where is your searching leading you? Let the word of God be submerged into your mind and spirit; “Seek and you will find” “I am the way, the truth and the life”
Today, If you are searching for anything other than His Truth…it’s time for a route correction. Identify what you are searching for, and where instead of God you are trying to find it. Click here to share how searching for God’s Truth has changed your life...or with questions on how to improve your search.

Prayer
Dear Father,
I have been searching my entire life Lord…but I have been searching in the wrong places. My searching has led me to some very bad decisions which caused pain and suffering for me and for those I love. I thank You Father for the lighthouses you have brought into my life. For those who have helped guide me step by step to You. I thank You for the new focus of my search. I search for You Lord, for a deeper and deeper relationship with You. I pray Father for the Stepping Stones community that they too may focus their search toward the Truth…toward You Father. I pray this in the name of Jesus Christ whose Truth became flesh, and all God’s people said, – AMEN!

The Truth
Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened.
Matthew 7:7-8
Then the woman said to Elijah, “Now by this I know that you are a man of God, and that the word of the LORD in your mouth is the truth.”
1 Kings 17:24
And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we beheld His glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father, full of grace and truth.
John 1:14

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Stepping Stones: Don’t Look Down!

Transformational Tip
It’s so tempting, so easy…and at times even feels like harmless fun; looking down upon and judging others. I’ve been guilty of doing it myself, and I have also felt the pain of being looked down upon…being judged by others, and as I’m sure you know, there’s no fun in that. Looking down on others is different than the more caring act of noticing someone’s difficulties and wanting to help them. Looking down on others really exhibits a survival of the fittest mentality…taking from someone for my advancement. This is the opposite of God’s system, which is based on love. Love is about giving, looking out for others, helping people. Judging is about pushing down, taking something from somebody, and not consistent with God’s methods and plan for us.
Today, be mindful that we are called by God to be disciples, not judges. Be aware of looking down on others…for our Lord is the only one that could have looked down on you, but instead, loved you and gave His life. Click here to share your perspective and experience on the subject of looking down on others...or having been looked down upon by others.

Prayer
Dear Father,
I confess Lord that I have been guilty of judging others. I know I have fallen into this sinful pattern because it gives me the false perception that I am better than those I judge. I wrongly believe it takes the heat off of me. Help me Father to live under your word to “judge not.” For those in my life who have done wrong, let me have compassion and love for them. Instead of judging others, help me be a lighthouse to them in their time of need. Help me minister Your word so that I may comfort and guide them. Also Father, help me forgive those who judge me…help me not give them authority over me with their condemnation. In the name of Jesus, and all God’s people said, – AMEN!

The Truth
Judge not, that you be not judged. For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you. And why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye?
Matthew 7:1-3
Therefore you are inexcusable, O man, whoever you are who judge, for in whatever you judge another you condemn yourself; for you who judge practice the same things. But we know that the judgment of God is according to truth against those who practice such things. And do you think this, O man, you who judge those practicing such things, and doing the same, that you will escape the judgment of God?
Romans 2:1-3

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Stepping Stones: Be a “Whole” Believer

Transformational Tip
There are two sides to being a believer; one of light and one of darkness. As a believer myself, I spend most of my spiritual energy on the “light” side of things. The promise of salvation, the grace and mercy of our Father, the power of forgiveness, amongst other things. But to be a “Whole” believer we need to accept the dark side as well. We must believe that Satan is as real as Jesus. It’s an ugly, scary fact. I bristle at even having to write about him. However, we need to know and believe that Satan’s primary mission for being is to separate us from Christ. Be clear, each day, especially for believers and followers of Christ, we are embroiled in spiritual warfare. Satan not only wants your attention, he wants your soul, your family, your job, your relationships…he wants it all. His job is to create constant confusion and distraction in your mind. This confusion attacks every sphere…your brain chemistry, your emotions and personality, your relationships with others, and Satan’s primary goal, disrupting our relationship with God. God calls us to renew our mind, not destroy it.
Today, become a “Whole” believer by accepting and being aware that there is a never-ending war between God and Satan, and the trophy is your soul. Identify a negative thought pattern that smudges your lenses and look at Christ’s teachings for the truth. Click here to share with us your experience and thoughts on being a “Whole” believer.

Prayer
Dear Father God, My focus is on You my Lord. I believe and accept Your promise. I thank You for sending Your Son Jesus so that our sins may be forgiven. But I believe there is this diabolical creature Satan. Your word tells us of his desire for death and destruction. I reject Satan and all his works. Help me, Father, to be aware minute by minute of this spiritual battle that ensues around me. Help me remember that Satan tries to push my fleshly buttons, trying to tempt me to believe his lies about You.… Thank You for a process to renew my mind, biologically, psychologically, socially, and spiritually by sending Jesus to destroy Satan and your instruction book, the Bible. I pray in the name of Your Son Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, – AMEN!

The Truth
He who does what is sinful is of the devil, because the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the devil's work. No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God's seed remains in him; he cannot go on sinning, because he has been born of God.
1 John 3:8-9
Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil.
For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.
Ephesians 6:11-12

Monday, September 21, 2009

Stepping Stones: Why Aren't I in Heaven Now?

Transformational Tip
We live in a world filled with heartache, sin and despair. Even God’s people are finding the difficulties of life a daily struggle. But the truth is that God never intended the lives of His children to be anything but happy. Our misery is self-induced. In fact, God’s plan is that whatever our circumstances in this life may be, we can have perfect happiness, peace and stability in an unstable world. This is one way that we glorify God. He has provided everything we need to accomplish His plan. Just think, when He saved us from the death sentence of sin, (“for the wages of sin is death”) the ideal next step (in our plan) would have been to immediately transport us to heaven and bypass life on this earth. But that is not His plan. His plan is to “grow us” from babes in Christ to mature Christians, refined by the fiery trials of life and brought forth as pure gold, demonstrating to an unbelieving world that He is an all sufficient God.
Today, if you are weary and worn from the pressures of life today, and think God made a mistake keeping you here on Earth, read Psalm 23. Identify what you are afraid of and why…because that blocks you from enjoying His promised peace and comfort. Click here to comment on this 3 day series on suffering, the peace He gives you, or what you think blocks His peace.

Prayer
Father, thank You for Your precious Word that stabilizes my soul and removes the doubts and fears that come from my difficulty applying my head knowledge to my everyday belief system. It is more precious than silver or gold, or anything that this weary world has to offer. You do not owe me a single thing Father, yet You faithfully keep blessing and keeping me through the storms of life. I can never begin to thank You enough for all You have done for me. Great is Thy faithfulness! The old hymn says it so beautifully:
Great is Thy faithfulness,
Great is Thy faithfulness,
Morning by morning new mercies I see.
All I have needed Thy hand hath provided,
Great is Thy faithfulness,
Lord unto me.

The Truth
When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow thee: when thou walkest through the fire, thou shalt not be burned; neither shall the flame kindle upon thee. For I am the Lord the God…”
Psalm 43:2-3
before me there was no God formed, neither shall there be after me. I, even I, am the Lord; and beside me there is no savior.
Psalm 43:10-11

Sunday, September 20, 2009

Stepping Stones: Cool in the FIre

Transformational Tip
Today we will look at the suffering of three men, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah, three young Hebrew men taken captive to Babylon by King Nebuchadnezzar. They are better known by their Babylonian names, Shadrack, Meshach and Abednigo. Early in their captivity King Nebuchadnezzar erected a 90’ high image made of gold (Dan. 3:1) and commanded ALL the people in the land to bow down and worship it. If they did not, the sentence was immediate death (v.6) in a burning, fiery furnace. These three men refused to obey. The king was furious (v.14&15) but gives them an opportunity to save themselves by bowing to and worshipping the image. He further asserts his human authority by insulting the ability of their God to rescue them from imminent death. The three answered the king in a most remarkable way; “O Nebuchadnezzar,…IF it be so, OUR God whom WE serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and He will deliver us out of THINE hand, o king, BUT IF NOT, (maybe He will or maybe He won’t!) Be it known unto thee, o king, that WE WILL NOT serve thy gods, nor worship the golden image…” (v.16-18). The furnace was heated more than usual, so hot in fact, that it consumed the men who threw them in. Though they had no guarantee of deliverance, God not only delivered them without even the smell of fire on their clothes, but the Lord Jesus Christ was with them in the midst of the furnace. They put their confidence in the true and living God. How about you?
Today, perhaps you find yourself in a fiery furnace of suffering that God is using more for those around you than for yourself. It may be that God has chosen you so that He can reveal Himself and His divine purposes to others. If that is your case, remember James’ admonition to “count it all joy…” Trust God’s love for you and the role He has designed for you in His kingdom. Click here to comment (anonymously if you want) about how God used you during tough times.

Prayer
Dear Father, may I have that wonderfully unique and intimate relationship with You as Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego did. For it caused them to faithfully serve and follow You, through the uncertainty of death, with no guarantee that You would deliver them. What is even more wonderful, Father, is their love for You…to boldly face the king with truth that this world neither understands or desires. Father, increase my faith that I may be that vessel that is useful to you, and glorifies the Lord Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, - AMEN!

The Truth
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me.
Psalm 23:4
…Lord I believe, help thou my unbelief.
Mark 9:24

Saturday, September 19, 2009

Stepping Stones: The Antidote for Suffering

Transformational Tip
I’ve been thinking about suffering. At some point in our lives we will all be affected by it whether it is a friend, loved one, or ourselves. I’m sure that you are all familiar with the usual response; “Why does God allow us to suffer?” There are many reasons. Sometimes it is God’s discipline. It is the only way He may be able to get our attention. When we are not living for Him, as we should, He will take the necessary steps as a loving father would, to provide the circumstances to bring us back to Him. Sometimes personal suffering is not for us, but designed for the benefit of those around us. Sometimes suffering is simply due to the fact that we live in a world filled with heartache and sin. But you need to know that whatever the reason for your suffering, God has not, nor will ever abandon you. He is completely able to deliver you. But what He chooses to do is for our best and for His purposes.
Today, perhaps you find yourself in the midst of suffering today. It can be a deep, dark, valley of heartache and despair. All He requires from you is faith and obedience. The old hymn says it best: Trust and obey, for there’s no other way, To be happy in Jesus, but to trust and obey. Try trusting and obeying and see what God does. Click here to comment (anonymously if you want) about why you have trouble trusting and obeying during difficult times.

Prayer
Father, You have told us in your Word to “be thankful in all things.” That means suffering also. Thank You for teaching me, using me, or whatever Your divine purpose may be. In my weakness, Father, I need Your strength which You’ve promised to give in measure, not for next week but for now, moment by moment. Thank You, Father, for keeping every promise You have ever made…”therefore my soul trusteth in Thee.” In Jesus comforting name, and all God’s children said, -AMEN!

The Truth
My brethren, (believers only), count it all joy when ye fall into divers (all sorts of) temptations: (suffering, trials, pressures of life)
James 1:2
But if ye suffer for righteousness’ sake, happy are ye:
1 Peter 3:14

Friday, September 18, 2009

Stepping Stones: A Gold Mine of Peace

Transformational Tip
When I watch TV commercials or shows, so many times the characters are pursuing or selling peace. If we are honest with ourselves, we are all unsettled inside. Our daily pursuits…whether going to work, paying the bills, vacuuming the floor, going to school, yelling at our kids, retracting from a conflict, trying to be perfect, saving for the future, eating when we are frustrated, drinking alcohol or caffeine, pornography, working those extra few hours, I could go on a long time… are all efforts to avoid or soothe discomfort. We think they bring peace. I am not saying some of the things I listed aren’t good to do, but you will never find lasting peace in the world around you. You will not find it by acquiring “stuff”, more friends, in your kids, or a new spouse. You won’t find it in more sex, success, or a better house. The external world is always in flux…under the curse of death and decay. But as a Christian, there is a gold mine of peace within you, just waiting to be tapped. So get out of the Holy Spirit’s way, and access the peace only He can bring as you put on the Armor.
Today, take notice of your thoughts and decisions that are inconsistent with the Bible and God. These will block your ability to be humble and aware to the Holy Spirit’s direction and gift of unbelievable peace. Begin living from your true center in Christ. He lives in the deepest depths of you…of your being, in an intimate union with your spirit. Christ in you, the hope of glory. Click here to share with us your experience or struggles living from the center God created within you.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I pray that You help me stop my external and begin my internal search for peace. For so many years now I have misunderstood what true peace really feels like. Help me Lord to tap into that gold mine of peace which you have planted deeply inside me. I know Father that ever since the resurrection your watchword has been “Peace be with you” to those who yearn for You. I’m sitting here quietly Lord; letting Your presence and peace enfold me. I know Your son died a criminal’s death to provide this radiant peace. Thank You Father. I pray in the name of the Prince of Peace, Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, – AMEN!

The Truth
To them God has chosen to make known among the Gentiles the glorious riches of this mystery, which is Christ in you, the hope of glory.
Colossians 1:27
On the evening of that first day of the week, when the disciples were together, with the doors locked for fear of the Jews, Jesus came and stood among them and said, "Peace be with you!"
John 20:19

Thursday, September 17, 2009

Stepping Stones: "Get Out of Hell Free" Card

Transformational Tip
Today, I am still thinking about “back-to-school.” Yesterday we purchased the “necessary supplies.” Today, my daughter will take Cassie for her “back-to-school” wardrobe, which I’m sure will fill several shopping bags. My own back to school wardrobe consisted of 3 dresses, 2 skirts (girls did not wear pants back then), 2 blouses, 2 pair of shoes,(one pair was for Sunday) 1 sweater and 1 coat. Education comes with a very high price these days, and the higher the education, the higher the price. In fact, everywhere we look we are confronted with the high cost of living whether it is school, housing, taxes, food and clothing, or the national debt itself! But then I am reminded of that which is FREE! That which costs me nothing, in fact that which no amount of money, silver or gold can buy. It is the greatest gift I have ever been, or will ever be given. It has pardoned and cleansed me from all my sin, guilt and shame, and has assured me of eternal life in Heaven. What a precious gift is this salvation of my soul! And although it is free to me, it cost my Heavenly Father a very high price; for He had to watch His only Son die on Calvary’s cross for the sins of the world. It cost Jesus, the Son, separation from the Father and Holy Spirit for the first time in all eternity, a torture He considered more excruciating than His physical suffering and death. Imagine that!!! Every sin ever committed in the human race, past, present AND future, bombarding His soul to the separation, for the first time in all eternity, from the Godhead, whose holiness prevented Them from looking upon sin! What a price to pay!
Today, when you think the Christian life is tough, and there are sacrifices, think of the alternative, and how much that costs you, now and forever. Click here to share your thoughts, including whether the godly life is harder or easier.

Prayer
Oh Father, You paid much too high a price for me! I am not worth it! I am overwhelmed that You love me so much that You do not consider the price to high. I can never begin to thank You enough, or pay You back for what You have done for me. The old song says it so much better than I can:
Could we with ink the ocean fill, or were the skies of parchment made,
Were every stalk on earth a quill, or every man a scribe by trade,
To write the love of God above would drain the ocean dry,
Nor could the scroll contain the whole, though stretched from sky to sky.
O Love of God, How rich and pure, how measureless and strong,
It shall forever more endure the saints and angels song.


The Truth
He is despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief: and we hid as it were our faces from him: He was despised and we esteemed him not. But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him: and with his stripes we are healed.
Isaiah 53:3,5
Forasmuch as ye know that ye were not redeemed with corruptible things, as silver and gold, but with the precious blood of Christ, as a lamb without blemish and without spot.
1 Peter 1:18,19

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Stepping Stones: The Ultimate GPS

Transformational Tip (special guest contributor today and tomorrow)
Today, my granddaughter and I went shopping for her “back-to-school” supplies. I was amazed at the number of items she was required to have from a list given to her at “back-to-school” night. It suggested that she couldn’t effectively function without them. When we arrived at Walmart I was even more amazed at the variety of items there were to choose from. I had no idea there were so many different kinds of pencils alone, not to mention pens, markers, colored markers, and on and on-----and on! I thought back to my own school days. On the first day back to school, we were given one #2 pencil (ball point pens weren’t invented yet) and a thick, 6x8” yellow tablet with blue lines on each page. The first day of each month we were given new ones. If we ran out before the month’s end, we borrowed a sheet from a classmate. The interesting thing about the tablet was that on the cardboard cover there was a detailed map of the state of Pennsylvania. I saw that map every school day from 1stto 8th grade, and though I have ventured far and long from my home state, I can still remember most of its 67 counties, county seats, cities, rivers etc.
I am reminded of another map, given to me by my Heavenly Father. This map has guided me through the paths of life; from the lush green valleys, to the high rugged mountaintops of fear, beside the deep quiet still waters, to the rippling streams abounding with joy, to ocean depths of sorrow, and through rolling hills of despair. This map has never failed me. It has sufficiently guided me through every circumstance of life, and will continue to guide me to my journey’s end. It has kept every promise it has made. How could it not? Its Author is Divine, the sovereign Creator of all that exists!
Today, when you feel a lost or uncertain, reflect on God’s promises and direction.
Click here to share how God’s word guides your path.

Prayer
Thank You, Father, for not leaving me without your perfect roadmap to guide me through the disappointments of life in a world filled with instability. Thank you that whatever my circumstances in this life are, that you’ve given me that deep settled peace that surpasses all human understanding. Most of all Father, thank You for Jesus, Name above all names, King of kings, and Lord of lords, who made it all possible, and all God’s people said, -AMEN!

The Truth
For ever, O Lord, thy word is settled in heaven. Thy faithfulness is unto all generations…” “O how I love thy law! It is my meditation all the day” v.97
“Thy word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path.” V.105
Psalm 119: 88-89
“These things saith He which hath the sharp sword with two edges.”
Rev.2:12
“For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.”
Heb.4:12

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Stepping Stones: Imperfectly Yearning For Perfection

Transformational Tip
Writing these devotionals is so enjoyable, enriching, such a blessing, and has really pushed me to dig into God’s word regularly. The down side, I want to say so much about each tip, in a couple paragraphs, so it’s not just a great feel-good message, but really practically equips you to Iive the life God wants for you that very day. Well, I am a perfectionist, and Satan uses that character flaw to try and suck the joy and excitement out of the blessing of being used by God to impact others. I’ve already written this one a couple times, wanting to be precise, impactful, catchy, brief, and practical. Why? Unfortunately at times, it’s more about my issues, and not as much about seeking and serving God well. I really have to be intentional to not fall in that trap. It’s important to remember that we live in a fallen world; a world that is so far from normal because it is tainted by sin. So much failure and frustration result from our seeking perfection in this life.
Today, remember that your yearning for perfection is not a bad thing in and of itself. Know that God placed that yearning in our hearts, so we would search for Him and not for it being about ourselves.
Click here to share with others and to read what others say about their struggles with trying to be perfect, or manage our image, in this imperfect world.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I know Father that my heart and soul contains many ill effects of the fall. As a result of this I often try and achieve perfection apart from You. This sets me down a path of frustration, insecurity, inadequacy, and failure. I sadly admit Father that this wrong path also included some form of idolatry. I want to return to You Lord…to the path that leads me to You. I will do this Lord, by seeking You first and foremost. As I seek You, Father, I know You will set my feet on the right Stepping Stone…that you will give me a firm place to stand and the guidance to take the right next step. Help my search for perfection, point me to You. I pray in Jesus’ perfect name, and all God’s people said, – AMEN!

The Truth
He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.
He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see and fear
and put their trust in the LORD.
Psalm 40:2-3
that by any means possible I may attain the resurrection from the dead. Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own. Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead,
Philippians 3:11-13

Monday, September 14, 2009

Stepping Stones: Missed the Mark

Transformational Tip
About three years ago I lost my brother Allen to cancer. Long before his illness Allen worked daily to achieve the mind of Christ. Directly following his diagnosis a massive prayer effort developed. A daily prayer with relevant scripture was sent via email to thousands…this internet prayer movement was the forerunner to the current Stepping Stones Daily devotional.
When a loved one falls gravely ill, it’s a natural response to pray for their healing…at times I almost demanded his healing from God, citing scripture about Jesus the healer…about ask and you shall receive. For the entire 22 months he battled this awful disease, Allen and his family believed he would be healed. We were pounding prayers to heaven requesting Allen’s healing.
I know we missed the mark with our prayers for Allen.
How presumptuous we were. We actually believed we could change God’s mind/plan for Allen. I believe now, based on my learning, growth, and the perspective of other Christians, we should have been praying to align ourselves with the will of God. To pray for God’s wisdom and peace for Allen and his family…and for ourselves. To pray that we lessen our grip on Allen and strengthen our grip on our Lord…to release Allen into God’s care and keeping.
While Allen agonized over leaving his wife and 5 children here on earth, in the end Allen was excited about meeting his Lord and God…if not ready, he certainly was as prepared as anyone could be to meet his Father, the Creator.
The prayer movement took on a life of it’s own. Bringing prayer and the Word of God to so many who had never prayed, truly changed lives. People actually came to accept Christ as a result of the daily prayers. Allen would love to read the responses that came in from the prayer group. Allen said before he died; “If somehow my illness delivers even one soul to God…it’s all worth it. And it was. Click here to share with us your experience or struggles in praying for someone who is/was seriously ill or injured.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I pray today for all the sick and injured loved ones and friends of this Stepping Stones prayer community. I pray that you infuse the sick with Your Holy Spirit to give them hope and strength. I pray Father that they seek to understand and align their thoughts and prayers with Your Will and Your timing…for Your timing is perfect Father. I pray that You will reveal to those suffering, as well as their caregivers, the meaning and purpose of these trials. I pray Father that You guide the minds and hands of all the medical professionals so that they do Your work as they apply their skills to the sick and injured. Help those who are terminally ill to understand that Your healing for them may in fact be delivered on the other side of this temporal life. Help them and all of us believe in You so that we will see Your glory. I pray this in the name of our healing savior Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said, – AMEN!

The Truth
Then Jesus said, "Did I not tell you that if you believed, you would see the glory of God?"
John 11:40
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
John 14:27

Sunday, September 13, 2009

Stepping Stones: God’s Love Comes From Everywhere

Transformational Tip
I know, today’s title sounds like a Sunday school cliché. But I want to share a childhood memory that will hopefully bring it new meaning…and hope.
I’m one of 14 children, all from the same mother and father. Our mother had the deepest of Christ-based faith. Being one of the oldest, I had the opportunity, no, the blessing to witness my mother living out her faith through so many of her life’s storms. She was always sure to point out the receiving of grace and God’s love. She would tell her children often; “God’s love comes from everywhere.”
I was 8 years old and already had 7 siblings. My father was in the hospital due to a chronic heart condition. There had been no money coming into the household for a month or longer. I don’t know how mom provided for us. No food stamps or welfare. Our credit had run out at the small town grocery store. People brought food, but not often. On this particular evening it was dinner time and I knew there was no food in the house – nothing. I was hungry, but more concerned for my younger brothers and sisters. I went to my mom and let her know (as if she didn’t already know) that we had no food for dinner. “What are you going to do?” I asked. I saw the sadness and nervousness in her eyes. But with head up and shoulders back she said with confidence; “I don’t know right now, but I know God will provide for us.” I believed her.
A few minutes later there was a knock on our door. When I answered no one was there…but they had left a bushel basket of food – ham, bread, fruit, potatoes…it was overflowing. On top was an envelope with the words; “God’s love comes from everywhere.” Inside the envelope was $500 cash. Without Dad’s illness, I would never have got this lesson. Click here to share a situation that demonstrated to you that God’s love comes from everywhere.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I thank You for Your constant love and grace. I thank You for allowing me to see You at work throughout my mother’s life. Help me remember that when I am at my weakest, I am at my strongest, through Your power. As my mother was, I too want to be available to help You display Your power and glory to others. I know that my weakness is the ideal stage for the exhibition of Your Power. In Jesus’ perfect humble and powerful name, and all God’s people said, -AMEN!

The Truth
But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.
2 Corinthians 12:9

Saturday, September 12, 2009

Stepping Stones: Everything Into a Pattern of Good

Transformational Tip
I love mysteries, especially movies…they are like an intriguing treasure hunt. Lots of seemingly unrelated facts that point to a couple of potential false treasures. Then the last couple of clues reveal the culmination of what the real path and pattern truly is. Everything makes perfect sense now and I kick myself for feeling frustrated, lost, and hopeless when I was in the middle of the hunt. Sometimes, the map of our lives seem very confusing…we seem way off track from the road to success and fulfillment. But God’s word tells us that He will fit everything into a pattern of good for those who love him…including even those things in your life you wish were different.
Today, start believing that where you are at this point in time is exactly where God knew you would be and He has a great treasure hunt for you. Refuse to worry about the future and you will find all the resources you need for what comes next. Take the hunt one step at a time and enjoy the journey. Remember, Your life will make sense soon so get excited and obey and He will soon reveal the goal and His purpose to you. Click here to comment how God has woven some odd steps in your life into a pattern of good that later made great sense and what you think His purpose was… or whatever God’s revealing in your heart.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I can’t imagine how You can take this mess I have created and weave it all into a pattern of good. My current situation seems like a huge mistake to me. I pray Lord that you help me accept my circumstances as Your will. I stand ready Lord to develop eyes that see Your handiwork as You weave these patches of my life into an awesome tapestry. Thanks for caring for and about me as I try to understand your amazing plan to grow me more than I could even know or want for myself. I believe Father that nothing is impossible with You. I pray in the name of Your Son, the greatest treasure, Jesus, and all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Romans 8:28
For nothing is impossible with God.
Luke 1:37

Friday, September 11, 2009

Stepping Stones: Would You Be Left Behind?

Transformational Tip
9-11-2001. A date our generation will always remember. As a psychiatrist, unique ripples came into my office over those next couple of weeks. Some people were severely shaken. You see, the end of days of Earthly time begins with the Rapture, and is marked by all Christians on Earth being taken up to heaven. Common occurrences of the Rapture, when depicted in movies and books, include planes, trains, and automobiles crashing because the Christian pilots, conductors, and drivers are instantly taken to heaven. A number of Christians, when hearing the news flashes of 4 planes crashing, called me in a terrible state of anxiety and fear. They believed the Rapture occurred and they were left behind...left behind would mean they weren’t a Christian. What a terrible feeling and distressed state of mind it is to not know who you belong to and what happens to you in the end.
Today, think of someone you know who might not be sure if they would be left behind. Share with them the Good news and bring them the assured hope of eternity with their Creator and Heavenly Father.
Click here to comment who and how the truth was shared with you. If you aren’t sure, please comment or call us. Click the spiritual basics after the click here to learn how to be sure you won’t be left behind.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
You are so great and beyond my wildest comprehension. I am still amazed and reduced to tears when I think the King of all kings would actually die for me. Thank You for wanting to have me with You for all of eternity…and then doing all the work for me. Thank You for Your assurances of my eternal salvation and help me live with that state of mind every minute, so it is clear to others what Your good news is. In Jesus’ assuring death and triumphant resurrection, and all God’s people said- AMEN!

The Truth
I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God that you may know that you have eternal life.
1 John 5 :13
The saying is trustworthy and deserving of full acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am the foremost. But I received mercy for this reason, that in me, as the foremost, Jesus Christ might display his perfect patience as an example to those who were to believe in him for eternal life. To the King of ages, immortal, invisible, the only God, be honor and glory forever and ever. Amen.
1 Timothy 1:15-17

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Stepping Stones: Glorious Adventure

Transformational Tip
An adventure is defined as an exciting, extraordinary event. The greatest adventure possible is knowing God superabundantly…by discovering how wide, and long and high His love is for you. The power of God’s vast love for you can be overwhelming – maybe that’s why so many people choose to limit their knowledge of Him…keeping Him at a safe distance. So many of us settle for mediocrity simple because it feels comfortable, safe. Those settling for mediocrity are destined to battle fear – for only His love is strong enough to break the hold that fear has on you. A predictable lifestyle may feel safer, but that safety can shield you from what you need most – God’s love.
The next time an unexpected event disrupts your routine, rejoice. This is exactly what you need to wake you up and point you toward Him. Recognize that you are on the threshold of a new adventure, and that God will be with you every step of the way. Look forward to an exciting, extraordinary event. Click here to comment a God-inspired adventure you’ve experienced to encourage other Stepping Stones readers.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I long for the glorious adventure that a life abandoned to You can create. But I continue to grasp onto my old ways, my safe life. Help me realize Lord, that the safety I’ve been turning to is really destruction. You are my real safety. I pray Lord that You help me break free and discover the adventures You have planned for me. Instead of striving for a predictable, safe lifestyle, help me seek to know You in greater depth and breadth. I pray this in Jesus’ name, the wildest adventurer of all time, and all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ
Ephesians 3:17-18
But, as it is written, "What no eye has seen, nor ear heard, nor the heart of man imagined, what God has prepared for those who love him"—
1 Corinthians 2:9

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Stepping Stones: Use Your Safety Net?

Transformational Tip
In psychiatry residency, I was in the ER, and hospital security called. A guy was in our parking garage and threatening to jump off the 4th level. I ran over, got the info security gathered, then started talking to the depressed man. I worked my way up the garage toward him…he stopped my pursuit with serious threats to jump. I turned to the chief and asked, “When is the big net or pad going to get here, ‘cause I’m not to sure how long he’ll last?” The chief answered, “those nets are just in the movies, there is no safety net.” We are human…and with our humanness come ups and downs. However, God’s promises, love, and presence limits just how far we can go down….protecting you from falling into despair. He is your safety net, but you need to leap in His arms, not away from Him.
Today, keep reminding yourself of these four words; “I am with you.” These words are your safety net. As soon as you realize He is with you and is strong enough to catch you…everything changes. Click here to go to comment how God has been your safety net, or when you have trouble seeing His safety net below… or what God’s revealing in your heart.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I feel like I am in a free fall. I have fallen into despair. The people and things I have counted on have all let me down. I have put too much stock in them and not enough in You. Help me Father to remember today and always that You are with me…that I do have a safety net…that I do have a way out of despair and depression. Help me Father to not grasp for idols as my safety nets, for I know they only accelerate my fall. Guide me Father with Your council and take me into Your Glory. I pray in Jesus’ ultimate safety, and all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
Yet I am always with you; you hold me by my right hand.
You guide me with your counsel, and afterward you will take me into glory.
Psalm 73:23-24
At my first defense no one came to stand by me, but all deserted me. May it not be charged against them! But the Lord stood by me and strengthened me, so that through me the message might be fully proclaimed and all the Gentiles might hear it. So I was rescued from the lion's mouth.
2 Timothy 4:16-17

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Stepping Stones: God Sings Your Tune!

Transformational Tip
What do you sing about? Who do you sing about? Who would sing about you? You can bet that strong, good, positive feelings are involved if someone is rejoicing with song over you. I am not a singer, but the people I happily sing about are Jesus, the Steelers, my children, and certainly my wife. When God sees YOU, and you look back at Him, you will not see any condemnation in His eyes – only love and delight. You see, living in the grace of God, devoting time to praising Him, learning through God’s word, and communicating with Him is meant to be peaceful, easy, not stressful. There is no need for you to “work” for God’s love. He gives it abundantly and freely. Let today’s scripture reading penetrate your mind, body and spirit.
Today, close your eyes and imagine God singing for you. What a beautiful image. Feel His face shining radiantly on you…bringing you peace and rest. As one of His children, You can relax because you don’t have to work any more for His favor. Click here to go to the Stepping Stones blog and “comment” your feelings about whether you “hear” God singing for you…or what God’s revealing in your heart.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I feel at times as if I have been climbing up hill my entire life. I’m tired, lonely and scared. It seems like such hard work…I confess Father, that even my devotion to You sometimes feels like just another form of work. I need rest Lord, I need peace. I know God that you have designed me to live in union with you. Help me Father find fulfillment and peace by living close to You. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit so that Your Holy Word fills my heart and penetrates this tired mind. Transform me Father more and more into the one You have designed me to be. I pray with thanksgiving and hope in the name of my savior Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
The LORD bless you and keep you; the LORD make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the LORD lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace.
Numbers 6:25-26
The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing.
Zephaniah 3:17

Monday, September 7, 2009

Stepping Stones: Imagine World Without Anxiety

Transformational Tip
As an athlete, nervousness/anxiety about a future opponent…or while in a game, anxiety or fear in tense situations about the outcome…were common. Then my coach calms me, telling me everything will work out if I follow his strategy. He’s been there before, knows my opponent, knows what they will do, knows what me and our team can do, cares about me and is invested in my performance, and has prepared us specifically to face this opponent. Anxiety, worry and apprehension result from envisioning future events without God, our perfect coach. We might acknowledge He is our coach, but if we’re anxious, we aren’t really believing and following His coaching. He knows us, our opponent-Satan and Satan’s strategies, knows what the future holds, and loves us so much that He gave His son to secure our ultimate future. In any situation, if you turn your thoughts toward God as the perfect coach, trust His instructions, peace will squelch anxiety, you will think much more positively.
Today, when thinking about the future, anxieties sprout up like mushrooms. And the moment you begin to become anxious, remember the promise of God’s continual presence as your perfect coach. Make your thoughts a dialog with Him, listening to Him and His instruction, then adjust your view of your future accordingly to bring hope and assurance. Click here to share a situation where turning to God helped reduce anxiety or times where that is difficult…or other related thoughts.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I come to You my Lord with a thankful heart. I thank You for the holy scripture which gives me hope and guidance. I confess Father that I spent too much time worrying about the future. I confess to trying to be god of my fantasies. Help me realize Lord the reality that Your presence with me, now and forever, outshines any fantasy I could ever imagine. Help me Lord to place you in any future scenarios that enter my mind. It is facing the future without You and Your perfect coaching that creates anxiety within me. I pray Father that You will also lead me to others who suffer daily with anxiety and fear. Use me Lord to remind those in need of Your continual presence for those who believe. I pray in Jesus’ holy name, and all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
Then Jesus said to his disciples: "Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat; or about your body, what you will wear. Life is more than food, and the body more than clothes. Consider the ravens: They do not sow or reap, they have no storeroom or barn; yet God feeds them. And how much more valuable you are than birds! Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest?”
Luke 12:22-26

Sunday, September 6, 2009

Stepping Stones: Savings...With Real Interest

Transformational Tip
When my kids are involved in plays, recitals, or sports, I am always amazed at how well these youngsters perform out there in front of the big crowd…with all the pressure…and mostly on their own. How is this possible? They are instructed in the fundamentals then practice them over and over...in safe, nonthreatening situations…till they are second nature. Then, after all those investments…of time, effort, trust in the coach, self-discipline, delayed gratification, dealing with mistakes, perserverance…the big night comes with pressure, potential adversity, judgement, and a lot on the line. The more deposits that were made, the bigger the reward…success, with interest. In these changing times it appears there is no safe place to put savings …that also pays interest.
Practice trusting in Your Lord during the quiet days. In the mundane, everyday situations, see God at work, trust in His character and promises, and communicate with Him regularly. Then when the storms come (and they will) your trust-balance will be sufficient to see you through. You will shine brightly, like in a play. You will also go to Him more easily in time of need, because you’ve been regularly practicing.

Today, try making a deposit in His treasury. Every time you affirm your trust in Him is like putting a coin into His treasury. In doing so you build up equity. He will keep safely in His heart all investments in Him…with interest compounded continuously. The more you trust in God, the more He will enable you to do so, and the easier it will be to trust Him during the storms. Click here, Then click the word “comment” on the blog site at the end of the devotional to share your stories or encourage others.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I know that the only safe investment is in You. I have tried saving money for security but have lost it all. Help me Father turn to trusting You. I see now how my faith and trust in you can grow exponentially. I have seen firsthand that the more I trust You, the more You enable me to trust you even more. Thank you for this Upward-Spiral.
I pray with trust and confidence through my savior Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said – Amen!

The Truth
Whenever I am afraid, I will trust in You. In God (I will praise His word), In God I have put my trust; I will not fear. What can flesh do to me?
Psalm 56:3-4
but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal.
Matthew 6:20

Saturday, September 5, 2009

Stepping Stones: Caught By Suprise

Transformational Tip
The other day I was caught by surprise. I was shopping at my favorite butcher shop when the butcher asked: “could I ask you a personal question?” I have always exchanges pleasantries with this guy, but now he had a serious question. I said “sure.” He asked; “Where do you get your source of happiness…you are always smiling.”
I knew exactly where I get my source of happiness and joy, but I was caught off guard. So I gave him a lame answer; “Happiness is a choice…I choose to be happy.” I could tell he was disappointed in my answer.
A few days following that encounter I was reading 1 Peter and came across 3:15 where we are instructed to always be ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you a reason for the hope that is in you. I went back to the butcher the next day and told him that I didn’t give him the quality response that his question deserved. I told him in front of listening customers that my happiness and joy comes from living within the hope and promise of salvation…the salvation made possible by Jesus Christ. I told him I was a struggling Christian, and then I asked him about his relationship with God.
It’s rare for someone to ask such a direct question of us, but when they do, scripture tells us to be ready.
Today, think how you might respond when someone asks you the reason for the hope within you. Can you articulate to yourself the impact your faith and God’s actions have in your daily, moment-to-moment living. This is what we need to live out and then tell others about. Click here to tell us how you shared your faith with others, or how and why you struggle to, as many do.

Prayer
Dear Father,
I come to you with a thankful heart. I recognize Your Son Jesus Christ as my Lord and I trust Him for the strength to lead a God-pleasing life. Help me Lord to not be speechless when called upon to defend my faith and to spread Your message of forgiveness, faith, love and hope. Help me do so with gentleness and respect. Help me Lord to be a lighthouse for those in need. I pray with the authority granted to me through Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.
Matthew 5:16
But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts, and always be ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you a reason for the hope that is in you, with meekness and fear;
1 Peter 3:15

Friday, September 4, 2009

Stepping Stones: What Do You Feed On?

Transformational Tip
I know that gnawing feeling in the pit of your stomach that keeps you awake at night. It’s all about fear and doubt. I know what it feels like to have creditors begin to surround you like wolves around wounded prey and there seems no way out. But there is always a way out. Just because you don’t know it, doesn’t mean there isn’t one. I believe the best way to position yourself to see the way out, is to choose to feed on His faithfulness. When you’re feeding on His faithfulness, it’s hard to feed on doubt, fear and unbelief too.
Today, stop from giving any more time to anxiety, fear and doubt. Recall a problem in the recent past, that in the moment of the acute crisis, you saw no solution and there was no help on the horizon. Then, a little time later, an answer, solutions, help, came. We all have situations that in retrospect, we see how amazing that situation worked out. It is important to identify and recall those times as they are examples of God’s faithfulness and sovereignty and our finiteness. You know how you were told while you were growing up to starve a fever and feed a cold, well it’s time to starve your unbelief and feed on His faithfulness. Click here to share a situation where you were in a bind and God provided. Or other thoughts.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I thank You Father for Your Word which gives me hope, peace and joy. I have been feeding on all the wrong stuff. I have been feeding on negativity, worry…doom and gloom. My mind spins out of control…especially when I try to sleep. Help me my Lord to feed on Your faithfulness. Help me build myself up on Your most holy faith Lord. Help me practice the patience You are building in me through Your Holy Spirit to wait for Your timing and not demand mine. I pray in the Holy Spirit and in the name of the Son, Jesus Christ, and all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
Trust in the LORD, and do good; dwell in the land, and feed on His faithfulness.
Delight yourself also in the LORD, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Psalm 37:3-4
But you, beloved, building yourselves up on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Spirit
Jude 1:20

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Stepping Stones: Eggs In the Wrong Basket

Transformational Tip
We are taught lessons beginning at an early age. Who we should be. How we should act. We learn these lessons first from our parents…and then from the world…society. Our parents taught us what they thought was right; but as adults we now have the ability (and obligation) to rethink and relearn as we strive to achieve the “mind of Christ.”
One of the “lessons” I was taught from a very young age - to become self sufficient… to not need anyone. To rely on no one. Accomplish and do things for myself, from taking my first step, feeding myself, doing my own homework, driving to baseball practice myself, etc. The intent was good, the lesson was flawed. While self-sufficiency is acclaimed and valued in the world, Reliance on Your Lord and God is the only way to produce abundant living here on earth and enter into His Kingdom.
Today, Exercise those faith muscles…identify an area of your life where you put your confidence and reliance in yourself…and leave God out until it’s an emergency. Let God in by praying about it then listening to God’s input (through others or circumstances). Don’t put your eggs in the wrong basket. Click here and tell us about it. We want to hear!

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I know that You designed me to be totally reliant on You. I know You have created me to be dependent on You. From the very beginning of creation people have strived wrongly to be totally independent, they have resisted relying on You. Even Adam and Eve’s first sin is evidence that they decided to live independently. I have turned to You Lord and are striving to be dependent on You during my life’s storms. I pray now that You help me turn to You, to rely on You continually. In the good times and the bad. I know that my renewed awareness of my neediness for You is a blessing, not a weakness. Teach me Father to depend on You more and more.

The Truth
I have set the LORD always before me. Because he is at my right hand, I will not be shaken.
Psalm 16:8
But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith?
Therefore do not be anxious, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. "Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.
Matthew 6:30-34

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Stepping Stones: If Only I Were...

Transformational Tip
So much energy goes into worrying about, and trying to improve, how we look…our outward appearance. For many, this obsession with looks starts at a young age. It’s clear, for many people, they believe their looks define who they are. Nothing could be further from the truth. Remember back to high school…some of the most physically beautiful people were struggling deeply inside. I’ve missed out on so many potentially great friendships just because I used external appearance as a screening criteria before I would decide whether to get to know someone.
God does not look at our outward appearance; rather He looks at our heart. What is important to Him is also what should be important to us. Now, sometimes our external appearance, those certain aspects that are under our control, are a reflection of some issues going on in our heart. But the focus still needs to be on healing our heart issue…not the external appearance. Truly addressing your heart issues will positively affect the superficial issues that you have control of.
Today, try focusing on the condition of your heart. Stop obsessing about your face, weight, shape or clothes. Also, instead of judging people by their appearance, try seeing their heart…who they really are. You’ll be amazed at the depth of friendship when you look deeper. Click here and share what external attribute you focus too much on and why…or other thoughts on “don’t judge a book by the cover”.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I confess that I have been overly concerned about my physical appearance. I am guilty of coveting the physical beauty of others. Help me remember Father that it is my heart that You see. Help me focus on keeping a healthy body, mind and spirit. I turn to You my Lord for all my needs. Help me to resist the desire to look good and blend in with…or even compete with this world. I ask You Father to help me to start looking into the hearts of those around me, to not focus on their clothes and bodies. Help me compliment their kindness instead of their appearance.
I pray in the name of my perfect savior, Jesus Chris, and all God’s children said- AMEN!

The Truth
The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart."
1 Samuel 16:7
Therefore, knowing the fear of the Lord, we persuade others. But what we are is known to God, and I hope it is known also to your conscience.
12 We are not commending ourselves to you again but giving you cause to boast about us, so that you may be able to answer those who boast about outward appearance and not about what is in the heart.
2 Corinthians 5:11-12

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Stepping Stones: Trials Create Temptation

Transformational Tip
Notice in James 1:2 that he says “whenever you face trials” not If you face trials. It’s something we don’t like to face into or admit…that suffering will come. It has been my experience that with pain and suffering come great opportunities for growth. But pain and suffering also brings with it powerful temptation. Temptation to seek an escape, temptation to self medicate with sinful practices and addictions such as sex, overeating, drugs, gambling, people-pleasing, etc. It is within our human nature to try and avoid or mask the pain of trials. In fact, all our dysfunctional behaviors develop to end, minimize, or avoid present or anticipated suffering.
The Bible is THE book (and I have read many psychiatry books) about suffering. From the fall of man, Job and all the biographies, our spiritual separation from God, to Jesus’ extreme suffering, the Bible tells us how God is with us, provides a peace and comfort, and sees us through the suffering.
Today, think of trials as opportunities to demonstrate your trust in God…even thanking Him for them…this is one of the highest forms of praise. When suffering strikes (and you know it will) remember that Your Lord and God is supreme and that he can bring good out of every circumstance in your life. Do not try to run and hide from the pain…do not try and mask it. Let your suffering gain meaning and draw you closer to God. Know that Joy can emerge from what feels like the ashes of adversity…it will emerge through your trust and thankfulness to God. Click the Past Devotional link, tell us about your trials or suffering, how we can pray for you, how it affects you, and what you can believe differently about God or the Bible to get you through this storm.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
Today I feel as if I cannot endure one more trial. I feel weak and beaten down. I’m tired of this pain and I need relief. I confess Father that I have turned to unhealthy and sinful ways to try and escape this pain…but it has only made things worse. I keep digging this hole deeper and deeper. I pray Father that You help me stop digging deeper and help me climb up out of this hole.
I pray Lord that You help me get closer to achieving the mind of Christ. Help me bear my adversity bravely and directly…and help me have a thankful heart even in the darkest hours. I pray Father that you use me to help minister Your Word and love to those within my path that are in the midst of a life’s storm. Help me guide them away from temptation and toward You…for You are the ultimate Lighthouse. I pray this in the name of my savior Jesus Christ – and all God’s people said – AMEN!

The Truth
Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.
James 1:2-4
To those who by persistence in doing good seek glory, honor and immortality, he will give eternal life.
Romans 2:7