Thursday, December 31, 2009

Stepping Stones: Only One Resolution Needed

Transformational Tip
So many of us use New Year’s Eve and Day to make resolutions…to try and “fix” our shortcomings…to focus on our failures. So many resolutions are made…and within a few days or weeks they are broken.

Remember, that the world we live in is fallen and that we are part of that brokenness. In this fallen world, all our default settings are tainted by sin. Trying to “fix” yourself, by yourself, is futile. It’s like trying to put all the pieces of a broken mirror back together to get a true reflection. There is only one resolution needed…to develop the Mind of Christ. Growing closer to God, yearning for Him, then glorifying Him with your internal and external functioning.

Developing the Mind of Christ can’t happen without the Holy Spirit. If you aren’t saved, born again, received God’s gift of Jesus as your personal Savior, then click here to learn how to be saved for eternity. If you are saved, then learning how to access the power of the Holy Spirit and get out of His way is our need for change. WITHIN REACH covers Confession, the Armor of God, more Biblical truths, and a strategy to understand and apply the Holy Spirit’s work in our lives.

To make a resolution is to make a decision with determination…a decision with firmness of mind and purpose. When the Spirit is in you and you are obeying, you will be transformed and renewed. This is incredible motivation to be resolved to follow through with this resolution.

Today, make the only resolution that can truly make a difference in your life. Make the decision to move closer to God and access the Holy Spirit to transform your mind and life...now and for eternity. Tomorrow, we will look closer at transformation. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts New Year’s Resolutions.

Prayer
Dear Father God, on this New Year’s Eve, I make the only resolution that counts…to move closer to You by achieving the “Mind of Christ.” In New Year’s Eves of the past, I have defaulted to try and problem solve through resolutions. My mind always trying to find out what was wrong…and then trying to “fix” things my way. I come to You, Father, and ask for Your Grace and collaboration to set me free from all my hurtful, sinful ways. I will view each moment in this New Year and all the years to come as a fresh opportunity to draw ever closer to You. I pray in the name of the one you sent to transform me and give me new life, Jesus Christ; and all the children of the world said - AMEN!

Truth
And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.
Romans 12:2
to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.
Ephesians 4:22-24
Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.
Psalm 51:10

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Stepping Stones: Go Ahead, Drop In

Transformational Tip
Woke up feeling very sick the other day…knew I needed to see a doctor. Instead of trying to make an appointment, I decided to just drop by my doctor’s office and try to have the receptionist “fit me in.” Big mistake. You would have thought I committed some federal offense. Regardless of my condition…no appointment, no visit.

Amazingly, you can “drop in” on someone far more important and much busier than your family doctor, in the middle of flu season…and you can be 100% confident that He will push all other business aside and focus completely on you. His undivided attention will be yours. Just imagine the Creator of heaven and earth yearning to have a personal relationship with you.

Not only are you able to “drop in”, but He has actually been knocking on the door of your heart…all the time. His Holy Spirit is talking to you in your spirit, and God the Father is talking to you in how He manipulates your circumstances. Because of His love for you, He wants to guide and protect you from so much garbage and heartache…unfortunately, we don’t listen to the doctor’s orders and wonder why the disease still affects us.

Today, drop in on Him…pray 3 extra times today. He rejoices every time you “drop in” for a visit. The more you drop in, the better you will hear His knocking on the door of your heart. But it’s up to you, if you don’t listen to the Great Doctor’s treatment plan, the disease will destroy you. Remember, no matter how busy, THE DOCTOR always has time for you. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on dropping in without an appointment.

Prayer
Dear Father God, I thank You, Father, that I can talk with You. I thank you for listening to my words, thoughts, fears. I thank You, Father, for receiving even the longings in my heart, which at times I cannot put into words. Help me develop ears that hear and eyes that see the treatment plan You have prescribed for me. Give me courage to turn from my treatment plan that leads to destruction and follow Yours that brings peace and fulfillment. I pray in the name of the one who will always sees me without an appointment, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
Evening and morning and at noon I will pray, and cry aloud, and He shall hear my voice.
Psalm 55:17
A woman from Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, "Give me a drink."
The Samaritan woman said to him, "How is it that you, a Jew, ask for a drink from me, a woman of Samaria?" (For Jews have no dealings with Samaritans.)
Jesus answered her, "If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, 'Give me a drink,' you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water." The woman said to him, "Sir, you have nothing to draw water with, and the well is deep. Where do you get that living water? Are you greater than our father Jacob? He gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did his sons and his livestock." Jesus said to her, "Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life." The woman said to him, "Sir, give me this water, so that I will not be thirsty or have to come here to draw water."
John 4:7-15

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Stepping Stones: Make Yourself Third

Transformational Tip
Being a big sports fan as a kid, I didn’t read many books. But when Gale Sayers, a famous football player, wrote I am Third…I couldn’t wait to read it. I was surprised…it had hardly any football, but it was attention grabbing. The movie made from the book, Brian’s Song, was the first movie I ever cried at. Dr James Dobson, founder of Focus on the Family, often writes about the “I am Third” approach to life as well; God first, others second, myself third.

We live in a world where the “I am Third” approach to life is in total misalignment with the messages we are bombarded with in TV ads; “Have it your way”… “Because I’m worth it”…”You deserve a break today”…”I need it”…”Me first”… ”My way or the highway”…”It’s all about you”.

The messages are endless and we get tem from every direction…especially coming from inside us. Our flesh is always crying out for “ME FIRST!”
In today’s Scripture Jesus tells us clearly what our first obligation is…to follow Him. And to do so we must deny ourselves.

Today, take note of how many times you make yourself first vs. third. Try to put into practice the concept of God first, others second, you third. You will find much more satisfaction living this way vs. what you see and hear on television. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on making yourself third.

Prayer
O Father, I hear Your invitation for me to follow You and to live a life of self-denial. I want to make You the Lord of my life. I pray, Father, that You will fill me with Your Holy Spirit to help me live in obedience to You and in loving service to others. I pray in the name of the one denied Himself for me, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
Then Jesus told his disciples, "If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul? For the Son of Man is going to come with his angels in the glory of his Father, and then he will repay each person according to what he has done.
Matthew 16:24-27
And Jesus, looking at him, loved him, and said to him, "You lack one thing: go, sell all that you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me."
Mark 10:21
One's pride will bring him low, but he who is lowly in spirit will obtain honor.
Proverbs 29:23

Monday, December 28, 2009

Stepping Stones: The Faster I Go…the Behinder I Get

Transformational Tip
There is a human natural phenomenon; the more behind we are the faster we tend to go. Once we get lost, we start driving faster. When we don’t know what we are talking about we begin to talk faster and louder. My mother taught her children little sayings to register her lessons in our minds. One of her favorite sayings; “The faster I go…the behinder I get.”

During severe storms, sometimes the best action we can take is to drop anchor. An anchor wedges itself deep into the rocks and sand and keeps the vessel and crew from being set dangerously adrift…and possibly crashing into the rocks. In our personal storms and most stressful moments we need to be anchored securely…not in wishes and hopes…but securely in God’s promises.

Satan wants us to run quickly and often blindly toward the many false, hollow, deathtraps masquerading as truth and refuge for the many storms that come our way. God’s promises, character, instruction, and Word ground us to the truth and equip us to be steady in every storm and victorious in any challenge Satan brings and God allows (yes, allows) in our life to grow the mind of Christ in us.

Today, take comfort in knowing that we have a secure anchor when storms threaten us. When you are faced with uncertainty, a storm, discomfort…just STOP and THINK. What does God promise, say, or say to us in these kinds of situations. We may not know what the future holds for us – but we can rest in the knowledge that our souls are safe once anchored to God. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on the power of anchoring to God’s promise.

Prayer
Dear Father God, I thank You, Father, for being the God of all hope. You know the desires and secret fears of my heart…You know I am in the midst of a terrible storm. I thank You, Father, for all Your promises and Your steadfastness during my storms. Thank You for being my refuge, my rock, my anchor. Today I cast all my hopes and dreams onto You for safekeeping because I trust You. I pray in the name of the one You sent to be my anchor, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure.
Hebrews 6:19
In him our hearts rejoice, for we trust in his holy name.
Psalm 33:21

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Stepping Stones: This is for me?

Transformational Tip
Each year on Christmas Eve Day, I have a tradition of delivering a small gift to the people who provide a service to me throughout the year. The postman, butcher, coffee-shop owner, etc. I’ve been doing it for years. The gifts are always received with such happiness and delight.

This year, as I was walking toward the coffee shop to deliver a bottle of wine, I stopped into a local oriental rug store to pick up a rug I had ordered the week before. The owner of the store greeted me when I walked in. He’s been in that same location for 25 years now. He’s a wheeler-dealer, an all-business kind of guy…he rarely smiles. He and I had a fairly intense negotiation session over the rug I purchased the week prior.

As I reached to shake his hand he noticed the gift wrapped bottle of wine I was carrying (the coffee-shop owner’s gift, remember). Mistakenly assuming the gift was for him, he reached for it with his other hand and said; “this is for me?”…and then began thanking me profusely. His face lit up, almost in shock, and he started searching for something to give me in return. He also sells imported tea in his shop…so he grabbed a box containing a selection of exotic teas and gave it to me with pride and joy.

I was struck by how this simple act of (unintended) kindness brought such happiness to this man. For a few minutes that gift transformed this man’s life. We talked a bit more and then I left with my rug…the smile remained on his face the entire time. Based on his reaction…this man was in desperate need of some attention and kindness.

Today, think of one or two people whose lives you might change, even for a few minutes, by delivering some unexpected kindness. There are so many people around us who live in quiet desperation. I don’t think you will have to look far…maybe one of those people live in your same house. Be a Lighthouse and shine God’s love on others. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on the power of simple kindness to one in need.

Prayer
Dear Father God, I thank You, Father, for leading me to this man who was in need of some kindness. I confess Lord that I am much too focused on myself…on my issues and needs. I pray that You fill me with Your Holy Spirit, and that Your Spirit guide me to those in need of love and attention. Let those in need see Your radiant light shining through me and onto them. I pray in the name of the one You sent to transform me though forgiveness and love, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. The second is this: Love your neighbor as yourself. There is no commandment greater than these."
Mark 12:30-31
"You are the salt of the earth, but if salt has lost its taste, how shall its saltiness be restored? It is no longer good for anything except to be thrown out and trampled under people's feet. "You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden.
Matthew 5:13,14

Saturday, December 26, 2009

Stepping Stones: Called Alongside to Help

Transformational Tip
While the Christmas holidays are a time of joy and excitement for some, it’s also the most painful and lonely time of year for many others. Missing a loved one, the stress of not having enough money for gifts, not getting the gifts we expect, being estranged from someone we love…so many factors having the potential to bring us down. Especially after Christmas, when Christmas expectations go unmet, many people really struggle and suffer.

It’s the time of year when encouragement of others can do more than you can ever imagine. The Greek translation of the word encouragement is “parakletos”, which means “called alongside to help.” Encouragement can be offering an uplifting word, but it can also be so much more than that.

Showing someone they have value, dignity, and are deserving of respect by you taking action…do something for them…has amazing power over people. Show them they matter to you and to God by putting aside your needs in favor of theirs. The idea they are created in God’s image, have value, and God sacrificed His son for them needs to be tangibly brought to them. You are the vehicle God will use to get them this life-saving message.

Today, think of someone who needs you “alongside” of them to help. Your spouse, a parent, child…a friend. When you stand alongside someone to help them you become a powerful source of courage, hope and happiness. You have the Holy Spirit in you and will directly bring Him to them. What better gift do you have to give than this? Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on encouraging others.

Prayer

Dear Father God, I thank You, Father, for sending Jesus to encourage me. I thank You for Your Holy Word that offers encouragement each time I open the Bible. I thank You for making it possible for me to encourage others. I pray Lord that You help me become and expert in this area. I pray in the name of the one You sent to encourage me, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
But encourage one another daily, while it is called “Today,” lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin.
Hebrews 3:13
The report of this came to the ears of the church in Jerusalem, and they sent Barnabas to Antioch. When he came and saw the grace of God, he was glad, and he exhorted them all to remain faithful to the Lord with steadfast purpose, for he was a good man, full of the Holy Spirit and of faith. And a great many people were added to the Lord.
Acts 11:22-24

Stepping Stones: Called Alongside to Help

Transformational Tip
While the Christmas holidays are a time of joy and excitement for some, it’s also the most painful and lonely time of year for many others. Missing a loved one, the stress of not having enough money for gifts, not getting the gifts we expect, being estranged from someone we love…so many factors having the potential to bring us down. Especially after Christmas, when Christmas expectations go unmet, many people really struggle and suffer.

It’s the time of year when encouragement of others can do more than you can ever imagine. The Greek translation of the word encouragement is “parakletos”, which means “called alongside to help.” Encouragement can be offering an uplifting word, but it can also be so much more than that.

Showing someone they have value, dignity, and are deserving of respect by you taking action…do something for them…has amazing power over people. Show them they matter to you and to God by putting aside your needs in favor of theirs. The idea they are created in God’s image, have value, and God sacrificed His son for them needs to be tangibly brought to them. You are the vehicle God will use to get them this life-saving message.

Today, think of someone who needs you “alongside” of them to help. Your spouse, a parent, child…a friend. When you stand alongside someone to help them you become a powerful source of courage, hope and happiness. You have the Holy Spirit in you and will directly bring Him to them. What better gift do you have to give than this? Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on encouraging others.

Prayer
Dear Father God, I thank You, Father, for sending Jesus to encourage me. I thank You for Your Holy Word that offers encouragement each time I open the Bible. I thank You for making it possible for me to encourage others. I pray Lord that You help me become and expert in this area. I pray in the name of the one You sent to encourage me, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
But encourage one another daily, while it is called “Today,” lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin.
Hebrews 3:13
The report of this came to the ears of the church in Jerusalem, and they sent Barnabas to Antioch. When he came and saw the grace of God, he was glad, and he exhorted them all to remain faithful to the Lord with steadfast purpose, for he was a good man, full of the Holy Spirit and of faith. And a great many people were added to the Lord.
Acts 11:22-24

Friday, December 25, 2009

Stepping Stones: Where Will You Put Christmas Tomorrow?

Transformational Tip
MERRY CHRISTMAS! Our prayers from Lighthouse Network to you is for a year of growing closer to God, maturing in your Christian walk (not just knowledge), and further developing the mind of Christ.

Today is a day of great celebration, remembering the greatest gift given to us. Many went to church yesterday or will go today. We will also celebrate today with those we love, exchanging gifts as symbols of our love, and making more memories and adding another chapter of Christmas traditions. But, to be honest with you, part of me gets angry about Christmas Day.

You see, as a Christian especially, we are so blessed that Christmas is really everyday…all 365 days a year, Christ and God’s grace is abundantly given to us. Every day is Christmas! Satan has put out a lie that all the other days are not special, are just ordinary at best, and often, are even terrible days. Unfortunately, we fall into the trap of believing those lies. Celebrating Christmas one day a year, I believe, allows people to enjoy it just one day, then carve it out of their life as they put it back in the attic with the Christmas tree ornaments, lights, wreaths, wrapping paper, table cloth and placemats, until the next Dec 25.

Today, make a commitment to yourself and God to not put Christmas away in the attic of your heart…keep it in the kitchen of your heart… accessible daily with the rest of your staples for surviving and living. Each day will have new meaning, your lenses will be more God-centered, and the goal of the mind of Christ will be much closer. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on Christmas being everyday.

Prayer
Dear Father God, Christmas is beautiful and I am overwhelmed with Your love, gift, and death for me. Actually for me, a sinner like me. It is still so unbelievable that the King of Kings, Lord of Lords would actually die for me. I regret that I put Christmas away in the attic sometimes instead of living out of and in that joy daily. Help me see Your gift and presence daily, and to allow me to shine like a Lighthouse bringing Christmas to all those I contact, daily. I pray in the name of the star of Christmas, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
But this I call to mind, and therefore I have hope: The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.
Lamentations 3:21-23
The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.
John 10:10
Consequently, he is able to save to the uttermost those who draw near to God through him, since he always lives to make intercession for them.
Hebrews 7:25
Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Stepping Stones: Proof: Jesus Will Hold You Together!

Transformational Tip
One of our Stepping Stones readers sent this to me. It is so awesome…brought tears to me eyes. I know you will love it, especially during Christmas when stress, loss, illness, hurt, depression, addictions, rejection, or abandonment get magnified. Jesus will keep you from falling apart, now and forever.

It is 8 min and you will be inspired to pass it on to your friends who are struggling.
Click here now(it is safe). Here is the link also http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_e4zgJXPpI4

Today, stop and pass this to someone in need of this reminder and proof of Jesus’ intimate involvement in their life. Tomorrow, be especially thankful for our spiritual laminin. Click here to share with Stepping Stones community your thoughts on laminin.

Prayer
Dear Father God, thank You for sending Jesus to hold me together, everyday, forever. Some days, it feels like I will fall apart…but now You give me more evidence that You are always there, intimately in my life, pulling me together. I will wake up tomorrow in joyous celebration of Jesus’ birth. Thank You, Jesus, for dying to be my spiritual glue. I pray in the name of our spiritual laminin, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
May you be strengthened with all power, according to his glorious might, for all endurance and patience with joy, giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the saints in light. He has delivered us from the domain of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of his beloved Son, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins. He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation. For by him all things were created, in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities--all things were created through him and for him. And he is before all things, and in him all things hold together.
Colossians 1:11-17

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Stepping Stones: Shopping…For What?

Transformational Tip
Well, Christmas is almost here…how are you doing with your shopping list? Shopping isn’t my thing, never was, never will be. Since I don’t like shopping, I got to be a Christmas Eve shopper…really is a lot of funner. People are in better moods…excitement in the air…less than 24 hours till Christmas…everything really festive wherever you go. Try it.

But, you see, shopping is about finding something to fill a need for someone. To me, shopping is for not a just a want, but a need. As a psychiatrist, as I think about “shopping” for something to help someone’s need, the items people need aren’t found in any store. Value…purpose…connection…identity…security…consistency… meaning… competence… love…relationship with our almighty Creator and Father, our God. These precious needs are what we all desire and need…what we are all yearning for. We wish they could be easily bought and given to us.

This is the true and amazing story of Christmas. God gave us the most loving and unbelievable gift of all time to really meet all our needs. It cost Him and Jesus a lot…but it is truly free to us. Really, it is the grandest gift ever given. That is what we are blessed to celebrate on Christmas Day.

Today, think how you will receive God’s gift, daily, to affect the issues you struggle with…to address and meet your needs. God has given you what you need, learn how to use it. WITHIN REACH can help you apply God’s gift to your need. Think how you can give this gift to your loved ones who need it. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on shopping to fill your or other people’s needs.

Prayer
Dear Father God, You are so amazing and awesome. Thanks so much for loving me and caring about my well-being. Not only do You care for me, You even sacrificed Your only Son, sent Him to die for me…not because I did great things for You, but because I am a wretched sinner. I am so hapy You are the perfect shopper and got me the perfect gift. I pray in the name of the one You sent to forgive me, save me, heal me - Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.
John 3:16,17
What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things?
Romans 8:31,32
Bring the full tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. And thereby put me to the test, says the LORD of hosts, if I will not open the windows of heaven for you and pour down for you a blessing until there is no more need.
Malachi 3:10
Delight yourself in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart.
Psalm 37:4

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Stepping Stones: Where Will You Put Christmas Tomorrow?

Transformational Tip
MERRY CHRISTMAS! Our prayers from Lighthouse Network to you is for a year of growing closer to God, maturing in your Christian walk (not just knowledge), and further developing the mind of Christ.

Today is a day of great celebration, remembering the greatest gift given to us. Many went to church yesterday or will go today. We will also celebrate today with those we love, exchanging gifts as symbols of our love, and making more memories and adding another chapter of Christmas traditions. But, to be honest with you, part of me gets angry about Christmas Day.

You see, as a Christian especially, we are so blessed that Christmas is really everyday…all 365 days a year, Christ and God’s grace is abundantly given to us. Every day is Christmas! Satan has put out a lie that all the other days are not special, are just ordinary at best, and often, are even terrible days. Unfortunately, we fall into the trap of believing those lies. Celebrating Christmas one day a year, I believe, allows people to enjoy it just one day, then carve it out of their life as they put it back in the attic with the Christmas tree ornaments, lights, wreaths, wrapping paper, table cloth and placemats, until the next Dec 25.

Today, make a commitment to yourself and God to not put Christmas away in the attic of your heart…keep it in the kitchen of your heart… accessible daily with the rest of your staples for surviving and living. Each day will have new meaning, your lenses will be more God-centered, and the goal of the mind of Christ will be much closer. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on Christmas being everyday.

Prayer
Dear Father God, Christmas is beautiful and I am overwhelmed with Your love, gift, and death for me. Actually for me, a sinner like me. It is still so unbelievable that the King of Kings, Lord of Lords would actually die for me. I regret that I put Christmas away in the attic sometimes instead of living out of and in that joy daily. Help me see Your gift and presence daily, and to allow me to shine like a Lighthouse bringing Christmas to all those I contact, daily. I pray in the name of the star of Christmas, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
But this I call to mind, and therefore I have hope: The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.
Lamentations 3:21-23
The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.
John 10:10
Consequently, he is able to save to the uttermost those who draw near to God through him, since he always lives to make intercession for them.
Hebrews 7:25
Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Stepping Stones: Glorious Reunions

Transformational Tip
When I was a young father, my job required that I travel abroad. At times, I would have to be away for up to a whole week…away from my little girls. I recall the separation from my four young daughters as being almost unbearable. I also remember the “catch-my-breath” moments when I would see their beautiful little faces looking out the window as I pulled up the driveway returning home from those seemingly endless business trips. Each reunion was glorious...melting my heart with love, joy, and excitement. They didn’t forget me, they loved me, and they were wanting more of me.

I’m thinking, each time we turn toward God in prayer, after a time away from Him, that He feels the way I felt when reuniting with my children after time away from them. Glorious reunions. But the difference is… we are the one leaving our Father. He is always there, pursuing us with joyous anticipation and hopeful expectation of that glorious reunion.

In this world, finding and getting something so awesome usually takes a lot of work, effort, time, and/or resources. But this glorious reunion is so easy to be part of…God sent His son, Jesus, to open the door to this glorious reunion. We just need to claim it through faith in Christ as our Savior, and continue it through confession, prayer, and putting on the His armor for Godly living.

Today, examine your heart and ask the Holy Spirit to reveal what diverts you from reuniting with God on a more regular basis throughout the day. Reading Stepping Stones daily is a great start, but we need to have many glorious reunions everyday. our goal is to have one day that is a continuous glorious reunion with Hom all day long. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on how you feel when you are apart from those you love.

Prayer
Dear Father God, please teach me how to pray. I desire a rich prayer conversation with You, I need it to know and hear You better…to love You more deeply. I confess, I get caught up in pitiful reunions with such trivial pursuits instead of pursuing you and having the most glorious reunions with You. Help me understand why You are the answer to all my needs instead of those fakes Satan fools me with. I pray in the name of the one You sent to unite me to You, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
Pray without ceasing; in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
1 Thessalonians 5:17-18
And he was longing to be fed with the pods that the pigs ate, and no one gave him anything. "But when he came to himself, he said, 'How many of my father's hired servants have more than enough bread, but I perish here with hunger! I will arise and go to my father, and I will say to him, "Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me as one of your hired servants."' And he arose and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him. And the son said to him, 'Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.' But the father said to his servants, 'Bring quickly the best robe, and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet. And bring the fattened calf and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate.
Luke 15:16-23

Monday, December 21, 2009

Stepping Stones: The “I Deserve….” Trap

Transformational Tip
There are so many manifestations of our sinful nature. One that I have noticed in others (and in myself) lately is this false notion of “I deserve…..” I deserve the best deal, I deserve more credit, I deserve the lion’s share…I deserved the finest of everything. We are even encouraged by others. How many times has someone said to you “go ahead…you deserve it”? From the early days of childhood we see the impulses to focus on ourselves. The “My kingdom come, my will be done” mentality.

The I-deserve-it trap has many pitfalls. One such pitfall is it’s damaging effect on relationships and marriage; who works the hardest? who spends more? who’s not doing enough to serve the other? And all of a sudden anger begins to fester because we are not getting what we deserve. We often feel the person on the other side of the relationship is standing in the way of what I deserve…they become the enemy, or, at the very least, aren’t my teammate.

Today, notice when you aren’t feeling content…feel hurt, frustrated, angry, sad, or anxious. Most likely it’s because you got caught in the “I deserve…” trap. Put your finger on what you feel you deserve…then replace it with acknowledging the grace from God that you are even able to be alive and read this devotional. What makes you deserving of that, let alone anything more. Be aware that as soon as we begin to think we are entitled to more we are entering the land of selfishness… and this is a very slippery slope. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts what you truly deserve in this life.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I need Your Holy Spirit at work in me daily to overcome my self-centered nature. My Savior Jesus didn’t deserve to be nailed to the cross, but out of love for You and me He allowed himself to be crucified. I pray, Father, that by Your grace, I am empowered to serve instead of “deserve.” I pray in the name of the one You sent to forgive me, save me, heal me - Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
For the flesh lusts against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; and these are contrary to one another, so that you do not do the things that you wish.
Galatians 5:17
Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity, and in sin my mother conceived me.
Psalm 51:5

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Stepping Stones: It Really is Your Choice

Transformational Tip
So many of us tend to believe that our current situation determines the quality of our lives…determines our happiness. We feel happy when things go “our way”, and sad when things don’t turn out as we had hoped. Because that is an important part of our belief system…we pour so much time and energy fretting over and trying to control or change our current situation or our future. We rarely think about what really is the connection and correlation between our circumstances and our well-being.

We need to understand and remember that the distance we place between ourselves and God is what truly controls the quality of our lives…and our feelings. We have a choice. We can live as close to God as we choose. He does not set up any barriers between us and Him…nor does He take any barriers down that we erect. He resources us with Jesus, the Holy Spirit, confession, and many spiritual tools to reduce those barriers. But it is up to us to decide to use them. How closely we live to Him really is our choice. That’s how He created us. Free will.

Peace really comes from the inside, and is not based on the outside. If your peace is based on your external circumstances, all is vanity, you are like the animals. God always pursues us…being close to Him, using His resources, instruction, promises, and character, will bring us an understanding, contentment, and peace that will overwhelm us. It will also force people to ask you how you handle adversity so well.

Today, assess yourself. Do you have peace when circumstances go your way, but are unsettled, disrupted, overwhelmed, or frustrated when life doesn’t go your way. Put more energy into trusting God and enjoying His Holy presence. Do not let your well-being depend on the situation at hand. Instead, try connecting your joy to Him and you will find that it is possible to be content through Him in every situation. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on choosing the closeness or distance between you and your Lord.

Prayer
Dear Father God, Thank You for Your promise to be with me wherever I go and for providing for all my needs according to Your glorious riches. Help me Father to enjoy more fully Your presence and Your gifts regardless of the situation. I pray in the name of Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need.
Philippians 4:12
Behold, I am with you and will keep you wherever you go, and will bring you back to this land; for I will not leave you until I have done what I have spoken to you.”
Genesis 28:15

Saturday, December 19, 2009

Stepping Stones: Pain Relief and Healing

Transformational Tip
I cut my finger the other day. Didn’t give it the care it needed at the time…just threw a bandage on it to stop the bleeding. Infection set in and the injury got my attention. I went to buy an antibiotic ointment to aid the healing and found a leading brand ointment that had an interesting claim; “Healing and pain relief.” The cut was creating some discomfort for me, so I choose the product that offered more than healing.

The Holy Scripture tells us that Christ’s mission was to come to forgive and to save…to provide for us with “eternity.” He came to deliver oh so much more than just our redemption. He brought us eternal freedom, fulfillment, peace and joy.

The prophet Isaiah tells us the Messiah will come to bind up and heal, to release and set free (while we are here on earth). Jesus himself referenced this passage as captured in Luke 4:17. Think about that; Christ came not only to forgive you, but to restore and release you. This is the central passage in the entire bible about Jesus. He fulfilled all the prophesies, testifying to the truth, dying for us to bring ultimate healing and shalom to our lives and His relationship with us.

Today, take Jesus Christ at his word…the healer of all the broken pieces within you and unite them into one whole and healed heart. Think what life would be like if you believed that promise. What stands in your way of believing? What do you believe more strongly? Why? Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on healing and pain relief.

Prayer
Dear Father God, I pray and ask You to release me from all bondage and captivity, as You promised to do. Take all my broken pieces and give me an all-receiving heart…make me whole. I know, Father, that You will not do this at a distance, so I desire to be as close to You as I possibly can be…show me the way to You, my Lord, and Savior. I pray in the name of the one You sent to forgive me, save me, heal me - Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
The Spirit of the Lord GOD is upon Me, because the LORD has anointed Me To preach good tidings to the poor; He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to those who are bound.
Isaiah 61:1
The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.
John 10:10

Friday, December 18, 2009

Stepping Stones: Who’s Your Counselor?

Transformational Tip
We all have so many unanswered questions about ourselves; Am I really a good person? Am I truly lovable? Why do I do the things I do? Why do I feel the way I feel? While we struggle to answer these questions for and by ourselves, it’s difficult to get to the core answers without a true counselor.

The combination of our arrogance and pride—I don’t need any therapy, thank you very much—and the fact that it’s become a profession with a stigma attached—mental illness, Freud, and Prozac and all that—has kept most of us from realizing that we do need counseling. All of us. As Christians, thankfully, we have the best councilor living right inside us.

The Bible tells us Jesus sends us his Spirit as Counselor…that ought to make it clear. In fact, we apparently need quite a lot of counsel—the Spirit isn’t just stopping in to give us a tune-up; not even an annual checkup. He has come to stay and give us a complete makeover…from the inside out. Now, we just need to figure out how to “hear” His counsel and quit sabotaging His efforts in our life.

Today, confess your sins, then talk to God about a struggle issue in your life. Open His word…read the Christmas and Easter story…then listen for His counsel. If you have trouble following the counsel, or continue to sabotage His efforts, think of getting someone to help show you how to listen and follow His counsel. WITHIN REACH helps you hear God and follow His direction. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on the ultimate Counselor.

Prayer

Dear Father God, I thank You for sending to me the ultimate Counselor; Your Holy Spirit. Help me recognize the daily need for guiding advice and for the Spirit of truth…help me listen and heed Your advice. Help me with wisdom and courage to follow Your guidance and humility to set aside my agenda. Thy kingdom, not my kingdam come. I pray in the name of the one who asked You to send another Counselor, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
“And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Counselor to be with you forever—the Spirit of truth”
John 14:16–17
For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart. And no creature is hidden from his sight, but all are naked and exposed to the eyes of him to whom we must give account. Since then we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus, the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession.
Hebrews 4:12-14
Because they hated knowledge and did not choose the fear of the LORD, would have none of my counsel and despised all my reproof, therefore they shall eat the fruit of their way, and have their fill of their own devices. For the simple are killed by their turning away, and the complacency of fools destroys them; but whoever listens to me will dwell secure and will be at ease, without dread of disaster."
Proverbs 1:29-33

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Stepping Stones: Eliminate Worry-Time

Transformational Tip
A book written about ten years ago titled the Knowing-Doing Gap. The book’s premise; in general we all know what we should and should not do, but there is a huge gap between knowing and actually doing. We shouldn’t smoke…but we do. We should overeat…but we do. We shouldn’t worry…but we do. At Lighthouse Network, we call that your Intellectual Creed vs your Behavioral Creed.

For many, to try not to worry is like trying not to think about something; the more we try, the more anxious we become. So we even begin to worry about worrying. Trying to fight this battle alone gets to be so counterproductive.

Perspective…how we view ourselves, God, and the circumstances He allows in our live…is the key to good decision-making. Will you have God’s perspective or your own. Big difference. Sometimes it is hard to have God’s perspective, but the more time you spend with Him, the more time you get to know Him and His perspective becomes much clearer to you. Stop focusing on worry and put your energy in communicating with God. This strategy will help you achieve freedom from all sorts of negative behavior, including worrying. The idea is simple; replacing hurtful, self-defeating tendencies with something wonderfully positive – communicating with your Creator and Savior.

Today, don’t just talk to God…listen to Him as well. He speaks to you through His Holy Word, His Holy Spirit, the circumstances He allows in your life, and through other believers. As you give yourself more and more to communicating with Him, you will find your worry-time evaporating and the knowing-doing gap closing. Your intellectual creed will become your behavioral creed. WITHIN REACH will help you do what you know is right. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on eliminating worry-time.

Prayer

Dear Father God, I come to You in prayer with a thankful and penitent heart. I confess that I struggle to find the time to communicate with You…yet I seem to always find the time to worry about so many things that are out of my control. I have battled this worry-beast for years and have made little progress. Help me Father to focus more on You and less on worrying. Help me both speak and listen to You. I pray in the name of the one whose Intellectual Creed was His Behavioral Creed, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
And which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature? If you then are not able to do the least, why are you anxious for the rest?
Luke 12:25-26
Show me Your ways, O LORD; Teach me Your paths. Lead me in Your truth and teach me,For You are the God of my salvation; On You I wait all the day.
Psalm 25:4-5

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Stepping Stones: You Control the Switch

Transformational Tip
I’ve noticed…there are so many unhappy people I encounter every day. And they are all so quick to blame their unhappiness on things that are out of their control; the economy, the government, their circumstances…or other outside factors robbing them of joy and happiness. But there is a list of objectives and desires that are within our control: a close relationship with God, a clear purpose in life, a commitment to help someone in greater need than ourselves, and maybe, a deeper commitment to our faith.

These are all honorable desires and are all things we as individuals can do something about…without outside human help. No stimulus package or government program will assist here, and tough economic times cannot steal these ideals. These life goals are achieved as we allow God’s Word to rule in our hearts and as we receive the Spirit’s strength to build up the inner man resulting in true joy.

In our complicated world, it’s tempting to put our pursuit for what we desire into the hands of others—to expect an outside entity to fulfill our desires. While we sometimes need help and we cannot live in isolation, it’s not outside sources that provide true happiness…that must come from within, your decision. You control the switch…will you shine brightly or switch the light off.

Today, remember that blaming your unhappiness on things that are out of your control is an excuse. Change your lenses, change your life. Ask 2 close people to give you Godly advice about your area of struggle and consider following it today. The direction is up to you, which way will you steer? Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts about you controlling the switch.

Prayer
Dear Father God, I confess that I have been guilty of having the “victim mentality.” I have been so quick to blame circumstances beyond my control for my unhappiness. I pray, Father, that You help turn my mind to those things that I do have control over. Help me, Father, to remember that You are the one and only true source of sustainable happiness. I pray in the name of the one source who gave me the freedom to control my happiness, Your greatest gift, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
That He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man.
Ephesians 3:16
So then, let us not be like others, who are asleep, but let us be alert and self-controlled
1 Thessalonians 5:6
Trust in the LORD, and do good; dwell in the land and befriend faithfulness. Delight yourself in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD; trust in him, and he will act. He will bring forth your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noonday. Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for him; fret not yourself over the one who prospers in his way, over the man who carries out evil devices! Refrain from anger, and forsake wrath! Fret not yourself; it tends only to evil. For the evildoers shall be cut off, but those who wait for the LORD shall inherit the land.
Psalm 37:3-9

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Stepping Stones: Train to Use the Right Tools

Transformational Tip
My Dad was a carpenter…he did beautiful things with wood. When I would compliment his work, he always humbly said the same thing…“It’s easy when you have the right tools.” I was always amazed and what he created, how he could sculpt something wonderful and exquisite from a block of ordinary wood. Having the right tools is important, but he also was too humble to admit the need for training in how to most efficiently use the right tools.

Once you start believing that you need His help, you will begin receiving all the tools…all the equipment to handle whatever comes your way. His promises to be near you and to take care of you, exhortations that help you avoid sinful snares, the gift of forgiveness when you “miss the mark,” the Holy Spirit to live in you and empower you. He provides all the tools you need to do the job…but you have to make the effort to train and use what He provides.

Satan also provides tools…amazing how we become better at using Satan’s tools and not God’s. Why? Does material and physical gain mean that much to us than the emotional, relational, psychological, and spiritual gain that God promises? Just look at Tiger Woods…all the material gain a person could achieve, but floundering in misery, insecurity, and fear. What tools are you using? God’s tools lead to real life transformation…Satan’s lead to conformity to the world.

Today, reflect for a moment on all that is provided to you by Him through Christ, the Bible, and His Holy Spirit. Compare these to Satan’s tools. You make the call, which set will you choose to train in and use. WITHIN REACH: Disciplines for Real LIfe Change will show you God’s tools and equip you to maximize their potential in your life…it will also teach you Satan’s goals, tools, and tricks. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on having the right tools.

Prayer
O Father, I know and believe that You are perfect in all ways. I also know that You are sovereign…that nothing happens that You have not allowed. When difficulties enter my life, difficulties I know you could have prevented, sometimes it feels as if you are being careless with me…but I know You are not a careless God. I do believe that you equip me with the right tools to handle anything that comes my way. But Father, I need instructions…I need Your help in using the your tools. I pray in the name of the one who shows me how to use the right tools, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
Fear not, for I am with you; Be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.
Isaiah 41:10
For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.
Hebrews 4:12
I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
Romans 12:1,2

Monday, December 14, 2009

Stepping Stones: Just Like the Wise Men

Transformational Tip
We all need a guiding light. A star of guidance to lead us in our lives. By keeping God as our guiding star we will know how to put one foot in front of the other on our daily path. To walk in the way of peace we must follow Him wholeheartedly, like the “Wise Men” did 2000 years ago.

If we drift slightly from following His lead, we’re on a slippery slope for disaster. We will still be able to see Him, just a bit, for a while…but as we drift, eventually we lose sight of Him altogether, and once again be lost in the darkness. We all have lived in darkness and know how that feels. Veering even a few degrees of course takes us far from Him. The most important thing at that point is to realize and accept that we have lost our way. If we are humble enough, we can call out to Him for help. He will hear our cry and come to our rescue…leading us back on the path of Peace to develop the Mind of Christ.

Today, like the Wise Men did on the eve of Christ’s birth, look for that star of guidance in your life provided by our true and living God...and be willing to following wherever He may lead you. He is the light from on high…the ultimate Lighthouse that illuminates your way. But also identify a false light, something in your life that is leading you astray. Commit to turning from it and let the true light led you. WITHIN REACH helps you identify and turn from those false stars we all get tricked by. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on having your guiding light or following false light.

Prayer
Dear Father, I long to follow my guiding star, which is You, my God and Lord. I believe that You are the way…the only way. I need the light of Your presence; for as You know my Lord, I live in a cold, dark world. Please lead me on Your path of Peace. I pray in the name of Your greatest gift, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
Through the tender mercy of our God, With which the Dayspring from on high has visited us; To give light to those who sit in darkness and the shadow of death, To guide our feet into the way of peace.”
Luke 1:78-79
Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.
Psalm 119:105

Sunday, December 13, 2009

Stepping Stones: Have Bold Expectations!

Transformational Tip
There was this quarry in the middle of a city park in the town where I grew up. There was a fence that separated the people from the water…along the fence, signs were clearly posted – “No Fishing”. Because there was no fishing the lake was full of fish…big fish. When we would walk up to that fence, the fish would come swarming toward us; a real temptation for me and my older brother Jamie, who spent long hours at that park. I must confess we did jump that fence on occasion and fish for a few minutes. We didn’t even have to bait the hook. The fish came expecting food…they certainly had bold expectations.

So, why did the fish come immediately flapping their fins? Because our mere presence set off a conditioned response in their tiny fish brains that told them we had something special to give them. Wow, what if we always had this awesome response to God and as He desires to give us good gifts—a response based on our past experience with Him that flows from a deep-seated knowledge of His character. Especially His love that gave us the greatest gift of all…Jesus…to die for us and buy our freedom from sin and eternal salvation.

Today, swim and swarm toward God with bold expectations. Expect great things from Him. Pray with bold expectancy; for prayer without expectation is unbelief in disguise. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on having bold expectations.

Prayer
Dear Father God, I confess that I come to You at times with minimal expectation. At times, I even come to You because I am forced…or because I would feel guilty if I didn’t. Like those fish, let me come to you with bold expectations…to get heaping portions of Your mercy and grace. I know Father that You have all that I need. I pray in the name of Your greatest gift, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened. Or what man is there among you who, if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will he give him a serpent? If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask Him!
Matthew 7:8-11
Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.
Hebrews 4:16

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Stepping Stones: Who Do You Fear?

Transformational Tip
Share your cookie…say nice things…let your friend go first…let’s not keep score to promote sportsmanship. The Golden Rule - Love your neighbor as yourself. We all learned, or were at least lectured, about the importance of being nice to others. Pleasing people can be quite rewarding…not pleasing people can bring a lot of downside. One key is, “what motivates me to please people?”

I just recently came to the realization of just how much of my life is controlled and hampered by fear of people. This condition has been so prevalent in my life that I failed to recognize it most of my life…I just accepted it as part of my daily existence. My fear does not come from thinking they will hurt me or do me harm, my fear comes from the possibility of displeasing them and therefore not getting what I need (or think I need) from them.

Today, stop and think about how much of your life is hampered by fear of people. Then try this two-pronged approach for dealing with this crippling fear. First, replace your fear of displeasing people with the dread of displeasing the Lord of your universe. Secondly, develop a deeper trust in God. Instead of trying to please people so they will give you what you want, trust in Him – the Supplier of all your needs. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on who you fear and why.

Prayer
O God, The fear of displeasing people is so deeply engrained in my mind. I am too concerned about displeasing them or looking foolish in their eyes. I confess, Father, that I am a people pleaser, but I deeply desire to change this. Help me to worry more about displeasing You. Help me, Father, to trust You more…to trust that I will get everything I need from You…not other people. I pray in the name of the ultimate pleaser of the world, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
The fear of man brings a snare, But whoever trusts in the LORD shall be safe.
Proverbs 29:25
And my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:19
Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.
Hebrews 12:1,2

Friday, December 11, 2009

Stepping Stones: Choose the Focus of Your Mind

Transformational Tip
You have the ability to choose the focus of your mind. Of course there are many thoughts that come and go spontaneously, but you can control your thinking more than you realize. Under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, Paul the apostle tells us; whatever is true…whatever is noble…whatever is right…to think about such things.

Because the world contains both good and evil, you can choose to think about praiseworthy things or terrible, upsetting things. There are times that you must deal with the brokenness around you, this is inevitable. However, there are times during the day when you are free to choose the focal point of your mind. This is the time to take charge of your thoughts. When your mind is idle it often moves to negative thoughts such as regretting something in your past or worrying about the future. These are the times to recall that Jesus was named Immanuel at birth which means “God with us.”

Today, train your mind…make an effort to turn your thoughts toward God in every activity in your mind…even if it is for just 3 seconds. See how often you can bring God into each subject or issue you think about. The more you do it, the easier it gets. Remembering “Who He Is” will brighten even your darkest times with Joy. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts about choosing the focus of your mind.

Prayer
Dear Father God, I am so thankful that You are “God with us” constantly and for all eternity. I want that knowledge alone to be sufficient to fill my days with joy and peace. However, Father, I confess that my mind so easily slips out of focus…and I forget about your ever-presence. When this happens, You slip even further from my awareness…and then worries and worldliness attack my mind. Help me, Lord, to train my mind to constantly turn to You. I want You to be my positive focus, but I need Your help. I pray in the name of my model for single-mindedness, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
So all this was done that it might be fulfilled which was spoken by the Lord through the prophet, saying: “Behold, the virgin shall be with child, and bear a Son, and they shall call His name Immanuel,” which is translated, “God with us.”
Matthew 1:22-23
Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things.
Philippians 4:8
But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death.
James 1:14,15

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Stepping Stones: Take His Yoke

Transformational Tip
I always thought the idea of being “yoked” was one of those concepts that just didn’t fit in with my way of thinking…that it always seemed inconsistent with God’s message and the teachings of Jesus Christ. But when I read that passage today I had an entirely different perspective. The yoke can symbolize many concepts, especially Him taking some of my burden, but one application really struck me today.

I felt that He must have a purpose in this instruction and I am sure that He does not plan to use me in some mechanistic way. I see the yoke now as a vibrant kinship between me and my God as He lives in and through me. I see now that His yoke is not restrictive, harsh or pressing…rather it is comfortable, gracious and pleasant. He tells us that the yoke is necessary to learn from Him. I am believing more and more, that only He knows what is best for me.

Today, remember that only God knows what is best for you. Listen to and follow His simple instructions offered in the Holy Scripture. Be willing to take His Yoke and experience his inexpressible, glorious Joy. As you submit to this bond of love He will fill your with life and abundance. So identify one area where you are leaning on your instruction book and not His. Today, try His instead.
Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on being “yoked”.

Prayer
Dear Father God, I like to feel free. I delight in coming to You…but I’m not eager to be yoked. Help me, Father, to remember and believe that only You know what is best for me; even when it involves limitations and restrictions. I long to be filled with Your Life and Joy…so please show me how to take Your yoke on me. I pray in the name of my ultimate Yoke-bearer, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.
Matthew 11:29-30
These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may remain in you, and that your joy may be full.
John 15:11
Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.
Proverbs 3:5

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Stepping Stones: Half-Minded Living

Transformational Tip
No one has to remind you of the high cost of anxiety. Anxiety, worrying, causes or worsens many diseases, affecting every body system…high blood pressure, heart trouble, blindness, migraine headaches, strokes, thyroid malfunctions, hormone imbalances, asthma, psoriasis, autoimmune disorders, infections, a host of stomach disorders, addictions, depression, anxiety disorders, and even cancer.

Remember, fear and anxiety, being concerned, can be normal responses from your warning system letting you know when potential danger or something wrong is happening. Worry is excessive anxiety/fear in a situation…or anxiety/fear when no reason. We worry when we get deceived, when False Evidence Appears Real(FEAR), and when we stop trusting the promises, character, and instruction of God.

Worry divides the mind. The biblical word for worry (merimnao) is a compound of two Greek words, merizo (“to divide”) and nous (“the mind”). We are divided between the truth and deception…between today’s priorities and tomorrow’s problems…part of our mind is on the now; the rest is on what might happen tomorrow. The result is half-minded living.

Today, remember that worry has never brightened a day, solved a problem, or cured a disease. Examine what you are worried about and identify false evidence you are believing and insert God’s character, promises, and instruction. Your worries will melt when you trust with your whole mind, not just half of it.
Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on half-minded living.

Prayer
Dear Father God, I know that worrying is futile and accomplishes nothing…but I still worry. Help me, Father, to stop my worrying and to focus my energy “whole-mindedly” on You. I ask for strength for discipline to be in Your word, learning Your instruction, and experiencing Your character and promises, so I can flush out the deceptions that fuel my worrying. I pray in the name of the one who died for my biggest fear, eternal condemnation, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
You cannot add any time to your life by worrying about it.
Matthew 6:27
Then Jesus said to his disciples: "Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat; or about your body, what you will wear.”
Luke 12:22
Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you. Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world. And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.
1 Peter 5:6-10

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Stepping Stones: The Slow Squeeze of Death

Transformational Tip
I once watched a TV special on pythons…you know, those big snakes. They are fascinating; they actually swallow their prey whole. The TV program showed a giant python swallowing and digesting a whole calf. What I found most fascinating was the way in which the python actually killed their prey. Like most people I thought they simply “crushed” their victims…squeeze them to death. Not so. They suffocate their victims. They slowly coil around the victim, many times while the victim is sleeping. Each time the victim exhales the python gently tightens their grip. After a few exhales the snake has restricted the victim’s ability to inhale and then they suffocate.

Satan works very much like a python to destroy souls. He doesn’t crush us with one powerful squeeze, he doesn’t take us out with one blow; he slowly and gently wraps himself around our minds and souls and begins the suffocation process. Instead of depriving us of oxygen, he deprives us of God…leading to our spiritual death.

Today, be aware of Satan’s possible grip on you. Are you finding it hard to inhale? Feeling short of breath? Unlike the python, Satan is easily removed. Resist and Rebuke him and all his works, accept Jesus as you savior…and watch the enemy lose his grip. Say today’s prayer, it is a prayer of salvation. If you are a Christian, apply the reality and magnitude of the Christmas story to today’s worry.

Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on Satan’s slow squeeze of death.

Prayer
Dear Father God, I confess that I am a sinner, and I am sorry for trying to live my life without You. I need and ask for Your forgiveness. I know I cannot save myself and need a Savior. I believe by faith and not through anything I can do, that Jesus, Your Son, died on the cross to be my Savior. I believe He paid the penalty for my sin for me. I believe He rose from the grave to conquer death, sin, and sin’s separation of me from You. I trust You, Jesus, as my personal Savior, receive You as my Lord, and I turn from my sinful ways. Oh God, thank You for Your grace in forgiving my sins, coming into my life, being with me forever. Now help me make You the King of my life. I pray in the name of Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
With flattery he will corrupt those who have violated the covenant, but the people who know their God will firmly resist him.
Daniel 11:32
Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
James 4:7

Monday, December 7, 2009

Stepping Stones: When Laughter Ends

Transformational Tip
Most of us have some degree of trouble admitting our true feelings and being able to express them, especially if we are struggling with life-interfering behaviors or life-controlling addictions. We keep placing mask over mask to hide or anesthetize what’s really going on in our hearts and minds. But throughout the Bible, God encourages us to know our feelings and not keep them hidden inside. Jesus set an example for us: He had emotions and he expressed them. He cried. He got angry. He was sad.

We often hide the way we feel behind a defense to keep our real self from showing through. Inside, we may feel fearful or angry or sad, but we hide or escape those feelings by joking…or acting superior…or being silent…or employing some other defense. We may try to cover our sadness with laughter…but, we can’t escape these feelings. When the laughter ends, the grief remains.

Hiding our feelings gives them control over our lives. Unexpressed anger or fear or guilt can have a destructive influence on everything we do. Hidden shame and sadness are roadblocks to hope and healing.

Today, Has your "cover-up" helped? Or have you learned first-hand that when the laughter ends, the grief remains? Admitting your feelings can be a turning point.
Be honest with yourself…and with God…and then with a friend. Being real will open the door for healing. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on being real with your feelings.

Prayer
Dear Father God, I realize that I have been wearing a mask over masks. I've been hiding my feelings for a long time, but I know now it's time to be honest. Help me to be real. Help me to share my real feelings with You and my loved ones. Set me free, Father. I pray in the name of the one who came and died to set me free, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
Laughter can conceal a heavy heart, but when laughter ends, the grief remains.
Proverbs 14:13
Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.
Romans 12:14
But Hannah answered, "No, my lord, I am a woman troubled in spirit. I have drunk neither wine nor strong drink, but I have been pouring out my soul before the LORD. Do not regard your servant as a worthless woman, for all along I have been speaking out of my great anxiety and vexation." Then Eli answered, "Go in peace, and the God of Israel grant your petition that you have made to him." And she said, "Let your servant find favor in your eyes." Then the woman went her way and ate, and her face was no longer sad.
1 Samuel 1:15-18

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Stepping Stones: What Would Make You Happy?

Transformational Tip
Yesterday I asked three people what it would take to make them really happy. “Getting that promotion.” “Getting that new car.” “Getting my spouse off my back.” How would you answer this question?

With your answer in mind, think about this; if your ship never comes in, if your dream never comes true, if your situation never changes, could you be really happy? If not, then you need to know what you have in your God; because you already have exactly what you need in Him. You have a God who hears you, the power of His love behind you, the Holy Spirit within you, and all of heaven ahead of you. If you have God, you have forgiveness for every sin, direction for every turn, a candle for every corner, and a Lighthouse for every storm.

Today, when you have that feeling you are missing something, confess any unconfessed sin. Then, reflect on how God can meet the need youyour struggling with. He has promised you He will. Don’t let Satan deceive you that He won’t. He died for your eternal need, He will provide for you now.In him, you have everything you need. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on having everything you need.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I thank You, Lord, for providing everything I need. I confess, Father, that I am guilty of always wanting more; more things…more stuff. I know this is not the pathway to happiness. I know the only times I feel truly happy and safe is when I am in constant communication with You. I pray that my greatest worry today be about losing my connection with You. I pray in the name of the one who died so I might have everything I need, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
My God will use his wonderful riches in Christ Jesus to give you everything you need.
Philippians 4:19
And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. What you have learned and received and heard and seen in me--practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you.
Philippians 4:7-9

Saturday, December 5, 2009

Stepping Stones: Are You Gasping For Air?

Transformational Tip
A friend recently asked me what I considered to be my most treasured memories. I was at a loss to answer his question on the spot, but the question haunted me over the following few days. Did I not have any treasured memories? That just couldn’t be. So I began flipping through the photo album of my mind and heart and a collection of my most treasured memories came rushing in. I recalled memories when I felt really special…times where I knew I was loved. I also recalled times of adventure and accomplishment…of adventure and challenge. I then reflected on how far ago those memories were. And all of a sudden I began yearning for that life…to have those moments now and often.
The Bible tells us we are meant to live in a world like that—every day. Just as our lungs are made to breathe oxygen, our souls are designed to flourish in an atmosphere rich in love and meaning, security and significance, intimacy and exploration. But most of us don’t live in that world anymore. Far from it. Though we try to resolve the dilemma by turning to materialism, illicit sex, drugs and addictions, food, excessive business, etc, to fill this desire, it doesn’t work. So we never really get what we need to truly flourish. It is the soul’s equivalent of holding our breath. Eventually, we find ourselves gasping for air.

Today, know that your Lord and God is ready to breathe true life into you. Turn away, today, from just one thing that is choking you, causing you to gasp for air…and turn toward Him that is the giver of the life you were meant to live. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on gasping for air.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I confess Father that I have been holding my spiritual breath...that I am truly gasping for air. Help me, Lord, to turn away from all things that deprive me of oxygen…that separate me from You. I rejoice in You Father, I find joy in You, the God of my salvation. I pray in the name of the one who died so I might be free to breathe and to flourish, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
the LORD God formed the man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living being.
Genesis 2:7
All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness,
2 Timothy 3:16
So I prophesied as he commanded me, and breath entered them; they came to life and stood up on their feet—a vast army.
Ezekiel 37:10
Though the fig tree may not blossom, Nor fruit be on the vines; Though the labor of the olive may fail, And the fields yield no food; Though the flock may be cut off from the fold, And there be no herd in the stalls— Yet I will rejoice in the LORD, I will joy in the God of my salvation. The LORD God is my strength; He will make my feet like deer’s feet, And He will make me walk on my high hills.
Habakkuk 3:17-19

Friday, December 4, 2009

Stepping Stones: He Wants Us to Travel

Transformational Tip
We are born lost, spiritually lost…in a terrible place…the state of insecurity, inadequacy, isolation, overwhelmed. We long to be in a different place…peace, love, joy, security, intimacy. We need to go on a trip. In today’s scripture reading, God tells us that He goes before us. God’s imagery of going before us clearly lets us know that He desires us to go on a journey...with Him as our guide and leader…He calls us by our name.
For our journey, unfortunately, we make some poor choices regarding some important elements. Our map is random, we use the world’s strategy, our destination is me-centered or material, and we demand to be our own guide. Instead, we need to use the Bible as for our map and strategy, God to be our guide, and the mind of Christ as our destination. Our journey is of our mind, heart and Spirit. The pot of gold at the end of the journey – the fruit of the Spirit!
But, the Christian life is a dangerous pilgrimage to the Promised Land…Satan is always lurking. So, we need the power and wisdom of the Holy Spirit…the power and comfort of prayer…and the protection and counter attack of the armor of God.

Today, imagine yourself standing at a crossroad with two paths before you; one is your current path, the other is the journey your Lord is inviting you to take. Take and intentional step on the next stepping stone on God’s path, listen to His guidance, and resist Satan’s deception. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on “traveling.”

Prayer
Dear Father God, I thank You for Your gift of going before me. I like to have a map when I travel, to know exactly where I am going…how long it will take me to get there. When I look at the road ahead that You call me to travel with You, all I see is a bend in the road with the road disappearing. Help me, Father, to keep my eyes on You, knowing that You are my map and guide. Help me to encourage others to following You on this journey. I pray in the name of the one who died so I might be free to travel, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
I will go before you and make the crooked places straight; I will break in pieces the gates of bronze and cut the bars of iron. I will give you the treasures of darkness and hidden riches of secret places, that you may know that I, the LORD, Who call you by your name, I am the God of Israel.
Isaiah 45:2-3
Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.
Psalms 119:105

Thursday, December 3, 2009

Stepping Stones: Diagnosis: Dehydration, Cure: Living Water

Transformational Tip
I’ve been hearing a lot lately about the benefits of drinking enough water. The benefits are huge. The experts say that if you become thirsty, you are most likely already dehydrated. Another recent report title said it all; “You are not sick…you are just thirsty.” All the medical experts agree on this one; we need to continually drink water throughout our day.
We were born spiritually thirsty…empty…dry. All of our “sickness” is due to being spiritually dehydrated. You see, we thirst for God…His love, acceptance, security. Only He can fill our needs…our neediness for everything. Only through Him do we have purpose, fulfillment, contentment, connection, engagement, passion, competence, peace, joy…and especially, pure and true love. We are constantly using “spoiled” water…even poisoned water, to substitute for the true living water that only God, through Jesus, is. This leads to depression, anxiety, addictions, hopelessness, anger, brokenness, and frustration.

Today, commit to taking sips…short prayers, confessing a sin immediately, stopping to thank Him for a blessing you take for granted, asking His advice on and issue, telling someone why God makes a difference in your life…throughout the day from the river of living waters offered by Your Lord and God. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on being thirsty.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I am so thirsty Lord, and I know this means I am spiritually dehydrated. Help me Father to drink and eat only what is good for me so that my soul may delight itself in Your abundance. I pray in the name of the one who died so I might drink from the living waters, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
On the last day, that great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone thirsts, let him come to Me and drink. He who believes in Me, as the Scripture has said, out of his heart will flow rivers of living water.”
John 7:37-38
Everyone who thirsts, Come to the waters; and you who have no money, Come, buy and eat. Yes, come; buy wine and milk without money and without price. Why do you spend money for what is not bread, and your wages for what does not satisfy? Listen carefully to Me, and eat what is good, and let your soul delight itself in abundance.
Isaiah 55:1-2
Jesus answered her, "If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, 'Give me a drink,' you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water." The woman said to him, "Sir, you have nothing to draw water with, and the well is deep. Where do you get that living water? Jesus said to her, "Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life” The woman said to him, "Sir, give me this water, so that I will not be thirsty or have to come here to draw water."
John 4:10, 11,13-15

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Stepping Stones: "You Have No Idea..."

Transformational Tip
Several phrases people frequently use just send me through the ceiling. As an example; when someone inserts “to tell you the truth”, “to be totally honest…”, or “can I be totally frank with you?” My initiative reaction is to ask; “so does this mean that up to this point you haven’t been telling me the truth?” Another example is when someone begins a sentence with “You have no idea…” I always find that statement so presumptuous, so condescending. At the risk of irritating you, let me use this phrase; “You have no idea who you really are!” There…I’ve said it! Now hear me out.
Paul tells the Corinthians we have a veil over our face. Our faith in Christ as our Savior and acceptance of His death for our sin, takes that veil away. But, we are so accustomed to looking at ourselves through a veil, we find it hard to clearly see Christ’s glory in us. So, we adopt other veils to get us back in our “comfort zone”. One of those veils we try is this whole Christian thing. Trying not to sin. Cleaning ourselves up on the outside. Doing good deeds. Going to church. Being nice…putting that dollar in the collection basket. When we look in the mirror, we cannot see who we really are because of these veils that hangs over our faces…created by us, or provided by Satan to deceive us about who we really are in Christ. We truly have no idea who we really are. But this veil remains. Jesus says it so clearly; it’s about believing and receiving…it is about healing your heart, setting it free, restoring you to the glory God intends for you. It’s about lifting that veil. I fear a religious fog has tried to veil us, placing us under some sort of spell or amnesia, to keep us from truly coming alive…to keep us from really knowing who we are and who God intends us to be. In today’s scripture reading, Paul said it is time to take that veil away.
Today, take the veil off…bringing freedom, transformation and glory to your life … “beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord.” Ask yourself what is interfering with you reflecting Christ to yourself and to others. Why? Identify one step you can take today to stop wearing your veil. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on “You have no idea…”

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I want to know who I am. I want to lift the veil that distorts and blocks my vision. I want to see the reflection of Your glory when I look into the mirror. I want to see my sinfulness more clearly. I want to like…no, I want to love what I see and who I am. You are the Spirit, and where You are I know I will find liberty and freedom. I pray in the name of the one who died so I might lift the veil that hangs over my face, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
Nevertheless when one turns to the Lord, the veil is taken away. Now the Lord is the Spirit; and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as by the Spirit of the Lord.
Corinthians 3:16-18

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Stepping Stones: He Deserves Exclusivity

Transformational Tip
To me, our minds are the most powerful creation of God…and the coolest! Just thinking about a past celebration brings a good feeling. If I tell you that next Saturday you will get your most exciting day to live all over again, you’d feel great. Just thinking about these events, and so many other experiences of life, affect your brain chemistry, personality, relationships, and even your spiritual life in powerful ways. Your thoughts have another special quality…you see, what goes on in your mind is invisible…undetectable to other people. But, know that God continually reads your thoughts your motivations, and thus anticipating your behaviors; searching for evidence that you depend on, trust, and love Him. He rejoices when your mind turns toward Him. What occupies your mind the most reveals what is really important to you…what you are letting guide your life…what is at the center of your universe and causing everything else in your life to orbit around it. What occupies your mind, pushing other more eternal matters out, is really your god and master. Worries, if indulged, turn into idols. Worry and anxiety so quickly gain a life of their own…distracting you and infesting your mind. This does not happen by chance…this is the goal of the enemy; a combination of distraction and deception. Doesn’t He deserve exclusivity? At least pre-eminence after He put you first and died for you?
Today, guard your thoughts diligently…you are what you think. Develop a system…a tool…a method to monitor your thought world. Good thought choices will keep you close to your Lord. This isn’t about thinking of Snow White, prince charming, Happily ever after stuff. This is about using a healthy, Godly view of thinking and processing life. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on the difficulties and beauty of turning your mind toward God.

Prayer
Dear Father God, I try to worship You, only. Help me, Father, to continually focus on You as I go through this day. Help me break this bondage of worry and anxiety, for this gives me the exact opposite of what I desire; closeness with You. thanks for a powerful mind, but I pray for help in being a better steward of what goes on inside it. Thank You, Father, for people that are trained in how the mind works and how your word really meshes with the science You gave us. I pray in the name of Him whose mind you will grow me toward, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
He will have no fear of bad news; his heart is steadfast, trusting in the LORD.
Psalm 112:7
We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ,
2 Corinthians 10:5

Monday, November 30, 2009

Stepping Stones: Be Real With Yourself

Transformational Tip
Get real! That college is out of your league. Be real! That girl is way to pretty for you. Get real! You’re never play on that team, get that part, make that band, get that job. How many times have we heard these expressions? How many times have we used them ourselves? It was hard for me, for so many years, to see who I really was. Why is this so hard to do? Why is it so hard to face ourselves? One reason…The enemy, Satan, likes it this way. The enemy tries to plant seeds of deceptions, pain, sinfulness…of self hate instead of acceptance of God’s love for us. Another reason…it’s painful for us to see who we really are. It was for me. It was a lot easier to think I was important, talented, bright, nice, blah, blah, blah… than to see my insecurities, inadequacies, and needs, let alone address them. The best way for us to face ourselves…to be real with ourselves…is to remember, as Christians, we are constantly clothed in Jesus’ robe of righteousness. God knows exactly what sins, weaknesses, and blemishes we try to hide underneath that faultless garment of salvation that covers and erases all. And He rejoices over you with singing…just imagine that…God singing over you!

Today, know that your Lord and God longs for you to trust Him enough to be fully yourself with Him. Being real with Your God, you are allowing him to bring out the very best in you. Pray to Him about one thing you have never really opened up to Him about. Let light into that area of your life…this pushes the darkness out. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts of being real with God.

Prayer

Dear Father God, I want to grow the gifts that you planted in my soul. I want to be real with You Lord, but this is a painful experience for me because this means I first have to be real with myself. It seems easier for me to ignore how I’m feeling rather than face my misery head on. I pray, Father, that You help me stop numbing my discomfort, or negative feelings, with my sinful diversions. Give me the courage Father to face myself so that I can be real with You. Thank You, Father. I pray in the name of the one who died so I could be real in Your presence, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth

I delight greatly in the LORD; my soul rejoices in my God. For he has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of righteousness…
Isaiah 61:10
The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing.
Zephaniah 3:17
"Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind and, Love your neighbor as yourself.”
Luke 10:27

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Stepping Stones: Clean Shaven

Transformational Tip
I’ve had the blessing of spending this Thanksgiving holiday with my daughter and her family, which includes my first and only grandchild. A beautiful 7 month old baby girl…what indescribable joy. Seven months, a perfect age. Learning new things each day, so expressive. Her mom has just taught her how to give kisses. Yesterday she turned to me, grabbed my big face in her small hands and came at me to give me a kiss. My heart raced…was this really happening? Was I gonna get one of those priceless kisses? Yes I did. But my mustache must have pricked her tiny lips and she instantly began screaming. My heart sank. I went immediately and shaved off that mustache…wasn’t going to let anything in my control hurt her… or keep my granddaughter from giving me kisses. We all have “mustaches”, things in our life that interfere with our relationship with God and the blessings He has for us. Unconfessed sin is a big mustache. Continued sin patterns, like addictions, affairs, eating issues, anger management problems, pride, lack of communication with God…all these put distance between us and God. Think about what might be keeping you from receiving connection, blessings, and grace from your Lord. What are the things that keep you from having a close relationship Him? What’s keeping you from getting those kisses we all long for? Today, Just identify one thing that is within your control…and then eliminate it. If you can’t eliminate it, get treatment. WITHIN REACH will help you eliminate behaviors. If you need addictions treatment, we know the best Christian addictions treatment options for you. Click here to share with the Stepping Stones community your thoughts on what’s keeping you from God’s grace.

Prayer
Dear Father God, Thank You, Father, for the opportunity to spend time with those I love. I ask for you to keep them in Your protective loving care. Please let nothing but goodness and love come between us. Help me, Father, to remove any obstacles that keep me from Your loving presence. I confess my sins and am so thankful for Your promise of forgiveness. Thank You, Father. I pray in the name of the one who died so I could be in Your presence, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children said - AMEN!

The Truth
The LORD appeared to us in the past, saying: "I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving-kindness.”
Jeremiah 31:3
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
1 John 1:9
I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
Romans 12:1,2