Friday, July 31, 2009

Stepping Stones: Do Fish Need Love?

Transformational Tip
Most of mankind's misery stems from one condition; feeling unloved. Many of our dysfunctional behaviors are geared to get love, numb or escape the hurt of not being loved, substitute for the love we don't feel by "loving" ourselves (pride), or loving other things(sports, work, sex, food, shopping, insert your vice) to vicariously feel or try to get love. In the midst of our storms, we tend to feel that somehow love has been withdrawn and that we have been forsaken...and this is exactly where Satan, the Great Deceiver, wants us. This feeling of abandonment is often worse than the storm itself. Love to us is like water to fish; we need it to surround us... we need it to navigate life...we need it to feed us.... We need it to breathe....we need it to LIVE! Have you ever seen a fish out of water? Floundering, flapping, gasping.
When you feel unloved, abandoned; turn to God's Holy Scripture. Today's Scripture reading is what I believe to be the most comforting promise in all of scripture. It assures us that we will never be alone; "Nothing will be able to separate us from the love of God." Who do you believe, Satan's lies or God's promise?
Today, be aware of God's love for you imagining the love in the best fairy tale you can remember (yes guys, you can do this, too). If you are struggling, or doing well, remember that fairy tale, and look around to see and feel God's love for YOU! Tell someone today who is close to you that you love them...and that God loves them more.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I come to You today with such a thankful heart. Thankful for Your love and for Your promise and assurance that nothing can separate me from Your love. I pray Lord that You let this divine assurance trickle through my mind, body and spirit...to trickle into my heart and soul. In this action-addicted world, it is becoming increasingly difficult to find time alone with You, but when I do, I feel Your love. Help this day bring awareness to those that I love...even to strangers...that they are loved.
In the name of love personified, Jesus Christ, AMEN!

The Truth
For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 8:38-39
...which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come.
Ephesians 1:20-21
Because your steadfast love is better than life, my lips will praise you.
Psalm 63:3

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Stepping Stones: Todays Homework Brings Tomorrows Reward!

Transformational Tip
How easy it is to "lose heart." We have all faced storms and problems; in relationships, in our jobs...how many times have you thought about just quitting...just walking off the job? In the midst of Paul's most troublesome times he decides to focus on his inner strength which comes from the Holy Spirit.
Don't let fatigue, pain, judgment and criticism from others force you off the job.
Today renew your commitment to serving Christ. Don't forsake your eternal reward because of some pain or temptation.
Think of your problems as having purpose. Someone wrote to us recently with a very simple prayer to pray while in the midst of a life storm; "Dear God, please do not let these tears be wasted." Think of the many benefits of our human limitations and problems; they remind us of Christ suffering for us; they keep pride away; they provide the opportunity to look beyond this brief life; they allow us to demonstrate our faith to others...and they give God the opportunity to demonstrate His awesome power.
Today, think about how complacent and prideful you would be if everything went your way. Then, during a setback or struggle today, remember a school assignment, athletic training, or arts preparation you had that was difficult and painful, but eventually grew and prospered you. Then be thankful for today's homework or training exercise, do it with excellence, and be excited for our perfect Teacher/Coach is training us for the coolest trophy and reward!

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I come to you today as a fearful follower. As Paul writes, I do feel as if I am wasting away...most days lately I feel as if I am loosing heart. By reading Your word today I see where I have been going wrong; I have been looking only at what I can see, and what I can see is only temporary. Father, help me today fix my eyes and heart on what is unseen, for I know that what is unseen is eternal. Help me today to see my problems as opportunities, for Your Word has taught me that when I am at my weakest, I really am my strongest. It is Your strength and power that makes me strong. Father, please do not let my troubles today diminish my faith in You. Please let my very weakness allow the resurrection power of Jesus Christ to strengthen me moment by moment.
I pray in need and through Jesus Christ - AMEN!

The Truth
Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.
2 Cor. 4:16-18
You call me Teacher and Lord, and you are right, for so I am.
John 13:13
He who teaches man knowledge--the LORD--knows the thoughts of man, that they are but a breath. Blessed is the man whom you discipline, O LORD, and whom you teach out of your law, to give him rest from days of trouble, until a pit is dug for the wicked.
Psalm 94:10-13

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Stepping Stones: The Battlefield Is Our Mind

Transformational Tip
We were born into a world at war, and you will live all your days in the midst of a great spiritual battle. Every day all the forces of good and evil, heaven and hell, God and Satan collide. You have experienced and witnessed this warfare.
Today's scripture are words spoken by Jesus...he makes the choices so obvious, so clear. So few of us face this fact; I know I'm guilty of not reminding myself each day that I'm in the middle of spiritual warfare.
Yes, there is a thief out there...he comes only to steal and destroy. And he's not interesting in taking a few things and be gone - he wants it all; your marriage, your job, your children, your relationships - everything. Satan's main strategy is distorting our lenses and disrupting our decision-making skills. Satan even went after Jesus with lies and trying to affect Jesus' decisions.
But it's the second part of Jesus' sentence we need to focus on. He tells us He has come so that we may have life and life to the fullest. However, you have to choose this life; it will not be handed to you. You need face into the fact...every day...that you are smack dab in the middle of this war. Just like Jesus used the BIBLE to be His lenses and the reference for accurate decision-making, that's what we need to use.
Jesus' offer to us is life, but you better be ready to fight for it. Because the bad guy on the other side is your greatest enemy.
It's not pleasant news, but it is news everyone needs to hear.
Today, stop yourself when tempted to stray and calm yourself with God's word and Jesus' promise of abundant life so you don't take Satan's lie. Also, think of one or two people at this moment that you want to alert or remind that there is a thief stalking them. Call them, forward this email to them...pray for them.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I choose life! Thank You Father for providing such a beautiful alternative; life. I ask for Your help Father God, I need Your help to face into the fact that I am in the middle of spiritual warfare...and to help me remember that You sent Your son so that I may have abundant life. I have seen what this enemy is capable Lord; in my life and in the lives of others. I pray that You help me and the Stepping Stones praying community accept the fact that there is an enemy out there trying to steal all we have...to destroy and kill. Help me Lord as a father to protect my children from this theif; to protect all those I love.
I pray in need and through Jesus Christ - AMEN!

The Truth
"The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full."
John 10:10
And the tempter came and said to him, "If you are the Son of God, command these stones to become loaves of bread."
But he answered, "It is written, "'Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.'"
Then the devil took him to the holy city and set him on the pinnacle of the temple
and said to him, "If you are the Son of God, throw yourself down, for it is written, "'He will command his angels concerning you,' and "'On their hands they will bear you up, lest you strike your foot against a stone.'"
Jesus said to him, "Again it is written, 'You shall not put the Lord your God to the test.'"
Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory.
And he said to him, "All these I will give you, if you will fall down and worship me."
Then Jesus said to him, "Be gone, Satan! For it is written, "'You shall worship the Lord your God and him only shall you serve.'"
Matthew 4:3-10
My son, if sinners entice you, do not consent.
Proverbs 1:10

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Stepping Stones: The Divine Alchemist

Transformational Tip
Alchemy is an ancient practice of combining common, cheap substances and transforming them into something of value. One who practices Alchemy is called an Alchemist. So many of us suffer from the belief that we have nothing of value to share with others...or with our God. We feel it is a waste.
Nothing is wasted when it is shared with Your Lord. He can bring beauty out of the ashes of broken or lost dreams. He can glean joy out of sorrow...peace out of adversity. Your God delights in transforming His Children.
Today bring your sorrow, sadness and brokenness to God. Release them into his care and keeping. He will not only heal your brokenness...He will give you a new dream - one that is in perfect harmony with His plans for you. To do this, give up one of your needs and instead, turn to depend on His promises. As you begin to work with Him to bring this fresh new dream to reality, you will find yourself becoming more and more content and increasingly aware of His beautiful presence.
Only your best friend and the King of Kings could accomplish this Divine Alchemy.

Prayer
Dear Father,
I am so blessed to call you my friend. I pray to You Father that you help me share more and more of my life with You. I believe You and only You can bring beauty out of my lost dreams...out of my sorrow. I confess Father that as I try and bring my junk to you for transformation - I get stuck in my self-pity; my brokenness and my struggles. Help me bring all these things to You so that You place on me a crown of beauty instead of ashes. I know You are the Divine Alchemist.
I pray this and all prayers in the name of Jesus Christ - AMEN

The Truth
He has sent me to bind the brokenhearted...and provide for those who grieve in Zion - to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair. They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the Lord for the display of his splendor.
Isaiah 61:2-3
Jesus looked at them and said; "With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible."
Matthew 19:26

Monday, July 27, 2009

Stepping Stones: His Light Shines Brightest In the Dark

Transformational Tip
Growing in God's grace is all about trusting Him above all else; and particularly in the darkness. When you are in the dark, reach for His hand with confidence. Turn to Him; not to hollow earthly solutions and addictions. Reaching for His hand in the dark is a display of magnificent trust and greatly weakens spiritual forces of evil, the very forces that have created your darkness in the first place.
When your world is dark and you trust God, His light will shine brightly through you for all to see...for His light shines brightest in the dark.
Today, If you are in the dark and feel on the brink of giving up, cry out for His assistance and pray: "Help me Holy Spirit." Really look for the hand that is reaching out for you....it is there. This brief prayer is a beautiful display of trust and a simple way to tap into His vast power.

Prayer
Dear Father,
I am completely in the dark today - scared, disoriented - don't know which way to turn. Help me God, help me Holy Spirit. You have designed me to seek light...I crave all kind of light; sunlight, even artificial light...but especially the light of Your holy presence. I want to walk in Your light Father. It is easy for me to trust You when there is plenty of light in my world. But trusting You in my darkness is another matter. But I am desperate Lord, I am reaching for You in the dark. I know Lord that Your light shines brightest in the dark. I pray that even in times when I cannot see the illumination of Your light, that Your light shining through me is visible to those around me. I pray in need through Your Son - AMEN!

The Truth

But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, His Son, purifies us from all sin
1 John 1:7
Even there Your hand shall lead me, and Your right hand shall hold me.
Psalm 139:10

Sunday, July 26, 2009

Stepping Stones: What Is In Your Vessel?

Transformational Tip
A banner add came across my screen yesterday as I was using the internet; "10 ways to be happier in 2 minutes or less." Wow, what a deal. I would really like to know how many people clicked onto that add in search of the quick-hit happiness.
Why is happiness so fleeting? When we do find it...why does it leave us so quickly? Scripture tells us that God created us as earthen vessels; but I believe I am such a leaky container that I can never really get filled and stay filled; I need to be filled over and over again.
While we are earthen vessels, God designed us to fill our vessel with heavenly content...to fill our vessels with Him.
Where do you go to "fill-up?" What do you put in your vessel?
Today, remain in the presence of Your God. He is anxious and ready to fill you with His Glory-gifts. But this takes time...do not rush this process. Do not rush in and grab cheap sale items in the bin in the front of the store and make a quick exit. Go to the back of the store where the valuable items that take more commitment to "buy" are kept and patiently pursue quality that lasts. Stay with Him awhile today and experience the awesome privilege of communing with Your Lord and King.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
Without You my emptiness is profound. I know that I am an earthen vessel...and a leaky one at that. I need to be filled and refilled with You my Father. Please fill me with Your love, joy and peace. Because Your gifts leak out of me, I need your continual presence...I need You endlessly for renewal.
I have been empty for so long Father...for as long as I can remember. I always knew that I was a leaky vessel. I saw myself as a defect...a mistake. But I rejoice in the awareness that I am not a mistake...that this is exactly how You made me...to keep me looking at You, coming to You for renewal. Thank You Father. All praise and glory be to You.
I pray father that You also fill me with Your Holy Spirit...the most precious treasure of all. Fill me with Your holy scripture. As You fill me with Your gifts, let Your beautiful light shine through me like a Lighthouse to other people's lives. Let me do Your work today Lord, in ways that I don't even understand. I pray in need and through Jesus Christ - AMEN!

The Truth
However, we possess this precious treasure (the divine light of the Gospel) in (frail, human) vessels of earth, that the grandeur and exceeding greatness of the power may be shown to be from God and not from ourselves.
2 Corinthians 4:7
In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven
Matthew 5:16

Saturday, July 25, 2009

Stepping Stones: Through Grandma's Eyes, or God's?

Transformation Tip
When I go to grandma's house, she pinches my cheeks, calls me junior, makes me 2 huge sandwiches, and buys me sugar pops for breakfast....she sees me like I am 8 yo still. It is very hard to see myself accurately, as a 46 you adult professional husband and father when I am getting 8 yo feedback and lenses that are being placed over my eyes. How do you see yourself? If you are looking through your own eyes, chances are you will not like what you see. Satan, the Great Deceiver, wants us to see ourselves as alone, unloved, unwanted, unable to tolerate pain, needing his quick fix for our problems. Try seeing yourself through the clearest, most accurate lenses of all, the eyes of God...see yourself as someone who is deeply loved and protected. Healing, comfort, and peace our abundantly provided. Immerse yourself in God's word and see just how much he loves you. He offers us more love, peace, wisdom and protection than we can get from Satan's world system.
Today, look in the mirror and compare your base, knee-jerk view of yourself. Then, while in the bathroom, read Luke 1:26 - 2:21(the Christmas Story) and John 18, 19 20(Easter story)... don't say "I know these stories, I can skip the reading"...read them, it is short. Use this to see yourself thru God's lenses.

Prayer
Dear Father, You are the peak of all my desires and all my hopes. You are the Alpha and the Omega, the first and the last: who is, and was, and is to come. You have brought so many pleasures and blessings into my life. Thank You Jesus. I receive Your gifts with open arms, but help me my God to not cling to these gifts. At times I cling to the gifts and am fearful that I might lose them, but what a peaceful thought to know that the only thing I absolutely need is the one thing I can never lose: Your presence in me. Thank You Jesus.
Today I try to see myself through Your eyes my God. Through Your eyes I see myself as someone who is deeply loved and protected by Your presence which safely shields me from all evil. I pray in Jesus' Holy name - AMEN!

The Truth
"I am the Alpha and the Omega," says the Lord God, "who is, and who was, and who is to come, the Almighty."
Revelation 1:8
Find rest, O my soul, in God alone; my hope comes from him. He alone is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will not be shaken. My salvation and my honor depend on God; he is my mighty rock, my refuge. Trust in him at all times, O people; pour out your hearts to him, for God is our refuge.
Psalm 62:5-8

Friday, July 24, 2009

Stepping Stones: Where Is Your Brain Remote Control?

Transformational Tip
I was a Star Trek maniac as a kid...just the original...Kirk and Spock were the dynamic duo of the universe. Well that's a future devotional. I loved the episodes where they went back in time and did something that affected the future...their present... usually messing up their lives or the world. Then they had to figure out how to go back and make everything right again so their present and future would be OK. So often we're like that, spending a lot of time thinking about what we could change about our past so our lives would be better now. Forget what is behind you and focus on what is ahead. Take the stepping stones, one at a time toward the prize which has already been won for you. Remember that even in this imperfect world, any progress in moving toward a Christ-like life is perfect progress.
Today, when a derogatory thought, generated by your past comes up, grab the remote control for your brain and switch to the channel broadcasting Jesus' victory over sin and death, and the freedom His resurrection brings you now and in the future. Do you know where your brain remote control is?

Prayer
Dear God my Father,
Trying to live a perfect Christian life can be so difficult that it leaves me drained and discouraged. I feel that I am so far from being a perfect Christian that I will never be able to please You with my life. During these times when I feel discouraged I am so thankful for Your message to me through Paul as he spoke to the Philippians. Help me today Lord to remember that You paid the price for my sinfulness, and remind me to forget what is behind me and to focus on grabbing the prize that's within reach for which You have called me. I know that I am not a perfect Christian, but I also know that any progress I make to get closer to You is perfect progress. Help me today my God to act on the guidance that you have already given me through the Holy Spirit. In Jesus' victorious name I pray - AMEN!

The Truth
Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 3:13-14
The path of life leads upward for the prudent, that he may turn away from Sheol beneath.
Proverbs 15:24

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Stepping Stones: Are You Waking Up?

Transformational Tip
When you set out to know your God more intimately, He rejoices but he is not surprised. If you are waking up, it's because He has awakened in your heart the strong desire for you to know Him. While this longing burns brightly in your heart, remember it originated in Him. Know that God has been pursuing you long before your quest began. If you think it is your spiritual discipline that keeps you close to God, you are at risk. If you depend on your own efforts to stay close to God you will for sure to find times where you are distant from Him. But if you rely on Him - what he has done and what he is doing - you know His love for you will be always pursuing and ever assured.
Today, Thank your Lord for awakening in your heart the strong desire for Him. Take 2 separate breaks and search your heart, looking for what God is asking you to loosen your grip on so you can grab the hand He extends to you. The weight on your shoulders will tangibly lighten.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
Thank You for awakening me and placing in my heart this strong desire for You. Before You woke me I tried to find life in so many different places. I tried so hard to fill the void - and many times I filled it with sinful ways. Forgive me Lord. I realize now that I have thirsted for You as far back in time as I can remember. I know now that my desire for a closer walk with You grew out of all the work You have done in me. I know You have initiated this longing I have for You...and I know my response now pleases You. Help me Lord set aside time and use the remote control for my mind each day to engage with You, my living God. In Jesus' ultimate awakening - AMEN!

The Truth
My soul thirst for God, for the living God. When can I go and meet with God?
Psalm 42:2
I am the vine, you are the branches; he who abides in Me, and I in him, he bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.
John 15:5

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Stepping Stones: Do Not Fear His Will

Transformational Tip
I have admitted to myself recently that I actually fear the will of God. I have a fear that totally aligning my life with the will of God will actually cause me pain. And then I realized my mistake; my fear response was a natural response and many times natural responses are not the best. One of Satan's greatest lies is getting us to believe God's way is costly and Satan's or our natural, fleshly way is on sale, cheaper, less costly. Satan's ways will always and immediately result in spiritual, psychological, and physiological(actual brain and heart) damage.
The Word of God continually calls us to transcend living...to go beyond what is natural to what is supernatural. God's will is so much deeper than our understanding. And though His will may entail sacrifice and pain, remember that His will not only does what is good for us...it does what is best for us.
Through God's will He will accomplish what is best for you.
Today, practice submission to authority. Stop at every stop sign, don't go over the speed limit, pass up that cookie or extra serving, go to bed at the right time, don't look at the cleavage, hold your tongue, look to serve your spouse, and write a thank you letter to the King of the Universe who is giving you and your life special attention, guidance, and instruction. Take a deep breath and dive into the depths of absolute trust in Him. Live by faith...not by sight.

Prayer
Dear Father,
I confess Father that while I pray for Your Will to be done, I am often afraid at what this will actually entail. I know that at times Your Will includes discomfort and sometimes even pain. When I am hurting; physically, emotionally, spiritually - I search for ways to relieve or escape my pain. The escape becomes my focus as I obsess about how I will relieve the pain, and not how do I connect with you and receive Your answers to my problems. I pray to You Father to help me really believe that Your way is perfect. In Your perfect son's name, JESUS CHRIST - AMEN!

The Truth
As for God, his way is perfect...He is a shield for all who take refuge in Him.
2 Samuel 22:31
We live by faith, not by sight
2 Corinthians 5:7
Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.
Be not wise in your own eyes; fear the LORD, and turn away from evil.
It will be healing to your flesh and refreshment to your bones.
Proverbs 3:5-8

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Stepping Stones: Spiritual Surgury

Transformational Tip
We live in an age of entitlement; everyone thinks they deserve more. You must constantly counteract the barrage of propaganda telling you you need more...deserve more. A good way of leaning against such lies and to be more thankful is to learn to see everything from God's perspective. Let this world become your classroom. Let His Word become a lamp to your feet and a light for your path.
It's almost impossible to have a thankful heart when you are in a constant state of wanting. A way to reverse this is to saturate your mind with Scripture: read it, think about it, and memorize portions of it. This will allow you to see things from His perspective.
Today, make a list of all the blessings you really do have in your life. To help spur thought, think of those that are disabled, in third world situations, are oppressed, or have gone through serious events. Then list why you deserve...I mean actually deserve... that blessing. Give thanks for the blessings and go to the His word to cut deep to your entitlement. Remember that His word is sharper than any double edged sword. Let Him use it to do spiritual surgery on the thoughts and attitudes of your mind and soul.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I ask that You set me free from the prison of ingratitude that I have created for myself. Release me from this prison so that I may enjoy the pleasures of a thankful heart. You allowed Your Son to enter this world as an infant...knowing the price he would have to pay. Thank You Father. I understand why You sent Your Son Jesus to us...You sent Him to"to open the eyes of the blind, to free captives from prison and to release from the dungeon those who sit in darkness." Open my eyes Lord. I pray that Your Holy Spirit fill me with the gift to understand and spread You Holy Word. Give me a perspective-lift today; help me to see things from Your perspective. I pray to You with confidence in the name of Your Son and my savior Jesus Christ.

The Truth
To open the eyes of the blind, to free captives from prison and to release from the dungeon those who sit in darkness
Isaiah 42:7
Your Word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path
Psalm 119:105
For the Word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to divide soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.
Hebrews 4:12

Monday, July 20, 2009

Stepping Stones: My Best For His Glory

Transformational Tip
In Philippians 1:20 it is like Paul is saying; "My determined purpose is to be my best for His glory. "...whether by life or death", Paul was determined to let nothing stand in his way from doing exactly what God wanted.
What will it take to for you to choose to follow God's will?
I believe that many times a crisis must develop in our lives before we make the decision to follow God's will. This is often how He gets our attention to help us focus on Him more acutely. Maybe this happens because we are so unresponsive to God's gentle nudges. Once we arrive at that place where He asks us to be the best for His glory, the debate within us begins. And when the crisis hits we must decide...for or against? For there is no middle ground. That moment, the moment of deciding for or against is the greatest crossroads we face in our daily battles.
Today, when adversity comes into your life...on any front...surrender your will to God and you will find peace and freedom. This happens by asking, "what need of mine is out trumping or competing with God's instruction, will, promises, character?" then make a willful decision to follow His will. This glorifies Him, and is best for you as you actually renew your mind spiritually, psychologically, and even physiologically...your brain chemistry actually gets stronger.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I pray to You that Your Holy Spirit reveal You message to me in a way that I understand and can live out daily. I feel very much ashamed that I have not yielded those areas of my life that You have asked of me. I want to live a life so that in no way I am ashamed. Help me Lord shut out everything that keeps me from doing my very best for Your glory. I actually find my limitations liberating when my strongest desire is to do my best for Your glory. Thank You Lord for the freedom this provides, for Your word tells me that where the Your Spirit is, there is freedom.
In Christ's glorious name, AMEN!

The Truth
I eagerly expect and hope that I will in no way be ashamed, but will have sufficient courage so that now as always Christ will be exalted in my body, whether by life or by death.
Philippians 1:20
But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen.
Peter 3:18

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Stepping Stones: Where Are You Looking?

Transformational Tip
What are you looking for? More important question is, "Where are you looking?"
You will only find what you are truly looking for by looking at God. God's message sent through His prophet Isaiah is so simple yet so profound; "Look to me and be saved." This certainly applies to our eternal need...but it also applies to every other suffering, need, or wayward path we take. We grow up and are pushed to learn how to take care of ourselves. From learning to hold our bottle, walking to get our toy, feeding ourselves, doing our homework, taking the SAT's, going out to college or work... so many milestones to become an independent functioning adult. The downside is we develop the habit of putting our confidence in ourselves or others opinions of how we are doing, rather than GOD. Looking to God, His character, promises, instruction...that's what gives us confidence to pursue the right things...to make the Godly decisions that are sometimes hard. When our confidence is in ourselves or others opinions, the power to overcome our fleshly needs, desires, distortions, and hurts/pains is minimal and patterns of struggle in our lives will result.
Today, as you make decisions, especially when you make a mistake, ask yourself, "where am I getting the confidence from to make that decision or soothe the pain?"
Is confidence coming from your skills, insights, intellect, attributes, power? Or from God? Confidence centered in Him will save you in today's battles and discomfort.
Look to God and salvation is yours.
Click on the "Spiritual Basic" link below...and then click on "Salvation"

Prayer
Dear Father God,
You are indeed an awesome God. Who but You could be all places at all times? It amazes me to think that One as great as You care about the many details of my life...but You do. When I think about these glorious truths...and when I turn to you I feel safe in knowing I will never be alone again. Help me Lord to look at You, to keep You before me always, to really get my confidence from my ultimate bodyguard. Otherwise I fall back into my default mode of straining as if all outcomes were totally up to me, and rested on my skills and what I can muster. For the little things, that works, but for the big things in life, I am doomed without You. All these I ask in the confidence of Christ's name - AMEN!

The Truth
"Turn to me and be saved, all you ends of the earth; for I am God, and there is no other."
Isaiah 45:22
But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; for it is written: "Be holy, because I am holy."
1 Peter 1:15-16
which he will display at the proper time--he who is the blessed and only Sovereign, the King of kings and Lord of lords,
who alone has immortality, who dwells in unapproachable light, whom no one has ever seen or can see. To him be honor and eternal dominion. Amen.
As for the rich in this present age, charge them not to be haughty, nor to set their hopes on the uncertainty of riches, but on God, who richly provides us with everything to enjoy.
1 Timothy 6:15-17

Saturday, July 18, 2009

Stepping Stones: Look Inwardly With Courage

Transformational Tip
As Christians, our goal must be to be fully utilized by God. This can only happen after we allow Him to show us the deep, hidden areas of our own character. To do so requires the courage to look inwardly. We are so quick to diagnose and judge others...let us take that energy and time to examine ourselves. It's astounding how ignorant we are about our true selves. We rarely recognize the distortions, laziness, envy, and pride held within us. We must dump the idea that we understand ourselves...the only one who truly understands and knows us is God.
To look inwardly you need alone time with God. When only through God's lenses, can you see your misguided desires and affections...and all those things that keep you from Him.
Today, take some time to ask yourself, "what outranked God... what was more important to me than pleasing God, than keeping the Holy Spirit on the throne of my life?" when you examine an area of temptation or a wrong decision you made today or recently. Really doing heart diagnostics can be painful, but courageously being honest with yourself will open the door to reaping the fruit of the spirit and growing the mind of Christ.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I am so thankful that You are God with us - constantly and eternally. This fact alone is sufficient to fill my days and nights with joy...thank You my Lord. Sadly though my mind slips out of focus and I begin looking outwardly at the broken world around me. I know by Your Word that I learn and grow in You best when I am alone with You. I desire this time alone with You Lord; please help me push away all the distractions that keep me from being alone with You. When we are alone, I ask that You give me the courage to look deeply inside myself; let me be honest with myself so that I may be honest and open with You. Give me your lenses to see my core accurately. I pray to You in the name of Your Son Jesus - AMEN!

The Truth
...when he was alone with his own disciples, he explained everything.
Mark 4:34
Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts!
And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting!
Psalm 139:23-24
All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: "The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel"-which means, "God with us."
Matthew 1:22-23

Friday, July 17, 2009

Stepping Stones: Keep A Constant Look-Out

Transformational Tip
If you trust in God, then you should believe that he prepares each day for you with the most tender concern and attention to detail. Scripture is loaded with examples of how important we are to God.
Writing a book is hard...trying to figure out the overall message, the setting, characters, twists, plot, how deep to go. So many decisions and details to keep track of and integrate. That's a lot of pressure and responsibility! Just being an actor in the story is so much easier...give me the script, let me absorb it, get into character, and act out my part. So when you wake in the morning, don't take the role -headaches and stress - of author by trying to fill up the blank page of your day, instead, be on the lookout for what our supreme Author has drawn up for your life. What an illusion it is when people think they can live independently from God...do it on their own, be in charge of our story. Try to live responsively...meaning responding to what God has planned for you. Living responsively is a matter of aligning yourself with the ultimate realty; God's sovereignty (power, control, autonomy, authority) over the universe.
Today, show yourself your belief in God being the true author of your story. When you are feeling some pressure and uncertain how to write the next scene of your life, STOP! Then respond to His script. Look out for what He has written and is trying to communicate through the story He wrote specifically for you. This shows you really believe He loves you, is sovereign, and is true to His promises.

Prayer
Dear Father,
You are the creator; You are the initiator of my very life. This is how I want to live my life - discovering what You are doing and responding to the opportunities You place before me. I know by Your Word that this is the most joyful and productive way to live. You know Lord that there is a part of me that likes to be in control...call the shots. Please teach me Lord the art of living responsively. I thank You for Your sovereignty. Teach me to understand and believe that Your sovereignty over every aspect of my life increases my security. I know responding to You requires concentration, however this world is rigged to distract me from You. Protect me Lord form all forms of distraction that hampers my ability to keep a constant look-out for You. I pray with confidence through Jesus Christ - AMEN!

The Truth
The Son is the radiance of God's glory and the exact representation of his being, sustaining all things by his powerful word. After he had provided purification for sins, he sat down at the right hand of the Majesty in heaven.
Hebrews 1:3
Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? Yet not one of them will fall to the ground apart from the will of your Father. And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. So don't be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.
Matthew 10:29-31
But I trust in your unfailing love; my heart rejoices in your salvation.
Psalm 13:5

Thursday, July 16, 2009

Stepping Stones: Intimacy Needs Receptivity and Attentiveness

Transformational Tip
We love a number of people in life for many reasons, usually because we are related to them....by blood, marriage or spiritually. But really loving them, whether romantically or platonically, means developing real intimacy. Two key elements are willingness to open up and share our core, everything, be vulnerable with the other, and also openness and awareness of what the other is communicating to us. God searches for those who are able to receive His gifts and blessings in full measure...those who truly yearn for and will actively pursue an intimate relationship with Him. Two traits that increase our intimacy with God are receptivity and attentiveness. Receptivity here is opening up our innermost being to be filled with God's abundant riches. Attentiveness is directing our gaze toward Him; searching for Him in all our moments to receive His communication, instruction, and provision for us. God has done His part... opened Himself up to us through His word, sacrificed His son, and died for us. He is always attentive to our needs, thoughts, and feelings, as well as caring and providing for all our needs. Now it's our turn.
Today, take time to reflect on the area of your life that you haven't been receptive to God's grace, love, forgiveness, instruction. Why? What would you have to give up to let Him in that area and for you to change? How would your life be different if you were attentive to all He has to give for that particular area of your life? Try and focus on these two attributes; Receptivity and Attentiveness.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
You are truly a God who gives and gives and gives. When Your Son died on the cross, He held back nothing; he poured out his life like a drink offering. I know that giving is inherent in Your nature; thank You Father. I pray that You help me increase my receptivity and attentiveness...knowing that both increases my ability to receive You and have the intimate relationship with You that I desire.
I pray in the name of my most attentive Savior, Jesus - AMEN!

The Truth
But even if I am being poured out like a drink offering on the sacrifice and service coming from your faith, I am glad and rejoice with all of you.
Philippians 2:17
I tell you the truth, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.
Mark 10:15
You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in you.
Isaiah 26:3

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Stepping Stones: Waiting On Him, He'll Speak

Transformational Tip
To wait on God means directing your attention to Him in hopeful, knowing anticipation of what He will do. It means trusting Him with ever part of your being instead of trying to figure out things on your own. God has designed you to wait on Him...all day...every day. He has designed you to stay conscious of Him as you go about your daily duties. Satan, the world system, and our flesh are always trying to distract us, provide interference so our spiritual radar has trouble tuning in to His communication to us.
Today, be patient when something different or stressful occurs, or it isn't clear what you should do. Remember, God speaks to us through our circumstances, so wait on Him, read what He is saying to you based on who He is, then respond....rather than just reacting based on your limited skills, insight, and ability to read the future. His holy Word tells us that He will make known to you the path of life. Look for the light He will shine on your Stepping Stones.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I confess that one of my many short comings is my lack of patience. I read in Your Word that you promise many blessings to those who wait on You...for those whose hope is in You. I pray for Your help in increasing my patience and to let You shine Your light on my pathway of life You've designed for me. I know that waiting on You enables me to glorify You by living in deep dependence on You. It will also help me to enjoy You. It is only in Your presence that I will find the fullness of joy. I pray this in the name of my savior, hope, and joy, Jesus Christ - AMEN!

The Truth
The LORD is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him; it is good to wait quietly for the salvation of the LORD.
Lamentations 3:25-26
but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
Isaiah 40:31
You have made known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand.
Psalm 16:11

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Stepping Stones: Does the World Make You Dizzy?

Transformational Tip

On the playground, there was a ride that was a bout 15 feet in diameter and you could spin it really fast. It was a lot of fun whizzing around, but then I would be really dizzy. One day, I was told to fix my eyes on a certain point(a tree was easiest) while you are spinning around and I didn't get dizzy anymore. The world is changing faster than we can measure...that's an understatement. It is a time of instability, yet we have this yearning for permanence; for that eternal, invisible reality. Yearning for permanence is a good thing. It will keep us from getting distracted then dizzy spinning around the merry-go-round of life. A lot of times we feel permanence is too predictable, expected, conventional, even boring. We think spontaneity, surprise, new, different, unique is more desirable, exciting and soothing. Interesting though when we go on vacation, we don't sleep as well, have some GI upset, need a nap, feel a little discombobulated, and then come back home and don't feel rested. Lots of people bring sleeping pills, tums, or other GI meds to help get them through vacation. It's because we are out of our routine. We lose site of what is steady and true.
Today, if and when you feel you are on wobbly ground, turn to the only place where you will find a firm place to stand. Know He has stood the test of time, is dependable and wants to stabilize your mind and heart. Turn to the one who never changes, your Lord. As you stand on the foundation He has provided, you can watch the world change with an entirely different perspective.

Prayer
Dear Father,
I know that in this time of unrelenting change that You are the one who never changes...You are the Alpha and the Omega. Sometimes my head spins with all the changes in the world going on around me. The more I focus on the changes the more unsteady I become. While I long for stability and permanence I know I will not find it in this world. I turn to You Father. I know only You can give me a firm place to stand. Draw near to me and my seeking heart.
I pray in the name of the Rock of my Salvation, Jesus - AMEN!

The Truth
He said to me: "It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. To him who is thirsty I will give to drink without cost from the spring of the water of life."
Revelation 21:6
The LORD is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge. He is my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.
Psalm 18:2

Monday, July 13, 2009

Stepping Stones: Divide Your Pain, Multiply Your Joy

Transformational Tip
Most of us are so selective about which parts we bring to God. We hesitate to bring traits that we consider shameful....partly because we actually believe He doesn't see them, and partly because we are ashamed to even think about it again. Some of us are so used to living with pain, feeling loneliness, guilt, fear - that it never occurs to us to ask for help in dealing with these things. We assume help is not available and that pain is an unavoidable part of life. For some, they seem to believe there are degree of difficulty points(like diving) for overcoming the most hardship...for others, pain of some kind has been such an integral part of their growing up, that in a weird way, it is hard for them to navigate life without the pain. We get so preoccupied with our struggles, why they are there, and how to dig out, that we forget that God is even there and can provide help.
There are hurting parts of you that God desires to heal. However some of them have been with you so long they have become part of your identity. Sometimes you are so addicted to certain painful patterns that you cannot break free from them. Only repeatedly exposing them to God's healing presence will bring you long term freedom.
Today, turn to your Lord when you are hurting; he will share and reduce your pain. Remember, the Bible is a book about suffering, our spiritual suffering, and how God loved us so much and miraculously provided a way for ultimate healing. He also has many promises for the smaller sufferings we experience. Turn to the Lord when you are in pain and rejoice in these circumstances as He is with you and has a joy, peace, and comfort, as well as a message for you He is communicating through the pain.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I am so grateful to you Lord that I can come to you not matter what condition I am in...just as I am. Thank You Father. I am relieved that I don't have to "clean up my act" before I come to You; you already know the worst about me. When I am hurting I want to be with someone who understands me without condemning me. When I am happy I delight in being with someone who loves me enough to celebrate with me. I pray that You help me bring more and more of myself to You.
I pray this and all prayers in the name of Your Son, Jesus Christ - AMEN!

The Truth
The LORD has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy.
Psalm 126:3
Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus
Romans 8:1
Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.
Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world. And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.
1 Peter 5:6-10

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Stepping Stones: Change the Channel, Tune to WGOD!

Transformational Tip
When you want to know what is going on in a school system, you go to the authority... the one who's in charge of the programs and devise the policies. You don't go to the third graders, get their reports and take them as the all encompassing views and truths of what is going on. We also don't let them determine the strategies and methods to educate our society. The media is like the third graders in both understanding and authority. The media relentlessly proclaim bad news for breakfast, lunch and dinner. This steady diet of their fare can sicken you. Instead of focusing on their fickle, ever-changing bad-news broadcasts, tune into the living Word - the one who is always the same. He is the authority, all-knowing one we need to pursue for explanations, comfort, and wisdom.
Turn the tube off early tonight and pick up your Bible. Let the Holy Scripture saturate your mind and heart...this will help you walk steadily, step by step along the path of life. Even though you do not know what will happen tomorrow, you can be absolutely sure He is walking side by side with you and of your ultimate destination.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I am full of fear today. I am in the midst of another storm. I turn to Your Word and I find assurance. I pray that the assurance which comes from Your Word soak into my mind and heart until I overflow with Your Joy, not my fleshly fear. I know that peace is Your continual gift to me; thank You Lord. I know that You have designed me to need You moment by moment. It is when I take my eyes off You that fear and anxiety creep into my life. I approach Your throne of grace with confidence and trust and ask for Your peace. AMEN

The Truth
He got up, rebuked the wind and said to the waves, "Quiet! Be still!" Then the wind died down and it was completely calm.
Mark 4:39
Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you."
Deuteronomy 31:6
God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.
Therefore we will not fear though the earth gives way, though the mountains be moved into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam, though the mountains tremble at its swelling. Selah There is a river whose streams make glad the city of God, the holy habitation of the Most High. God is in the midst of her; she shall not be moved; God will help her when morning dawns.
Psalm 46:2

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Stepping Stones: Joyous Duty

Transformational Tip
Your greatest calling and duty is devotion to God. This duty is such a luxury that it should feel like a "Joyous Duty." The world is working hard to squeeze you into it's mold and to crowd out any time devoted to God. The merry-go-round of life just goes faster and faster...rarely slowing down... never stopping. This world wants you to feel guilty about spending time with God. Do not let that happen! God wants to spend time with you, and wants you to spend time with Him. When we spend time with Him, it excites Him and also does wonders for our state of mind, well-being, and understanding of life. It's good for us, and He knows that, that's one of the reasons why He commands us to worship Him only. When you pick other distractions to spend your time and mental currency on, God might have to do something to those distractions to refocus your eyes and devotion on Him. Don't wait for God to take action to redirect you, take action now.
Today, push back the boundaries of your life to make time alone with your Lord and focus on what it means to be the child of the everlasting King. Rejoice, the King always has a special invitation to spend time, one on one, just with you.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I confess that the ways of the world have warped my conscience...this world tries to punish me for doing the very things that please You the most. Let me hear Your voice Lord...let me hear Your voice above the clamor of voices trying to distract me. I know that You work in perfect Harmony with Your Holy Spirit; I pray that Your Holy Spirit helps calm my mind. Help me be still and attentive in Your presence, for I know I am on holy ground.

The Truth
For you did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship. And by him we cry, "Abba, Father." The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God's children.
Romans 8:15-16

"Do not come any closer," God said. "Take off your sandals, for the place where you are standing is holy ground."
Exodus 3:5

Friday, July 10, 2009

Stepping Stones: We Have A Light Bulb!

Transformational Tip
My mother taught me and my siblings the power and value of having a grateful heart. I am the second oldest of 14 children, all from the same mother and father. I have a warm childhood memory of a particular lesson taught by my mother.
I grew up in the time where you got free light bulbs each time you paid your electric bill. Many times we were not able to pay the bill, so we were always short on light bulbs. I remember the times (seems like most of the time) when we only had one light bulb for the entire house. During the early evening hours that bulb would burn in the kitchen...the center of all activity. When bedtime came around we had a ritual; my mother would reach up, using her apron to shield the heat from her hand, unscrew that light bulb and bring it upstairs and put it in the hallway. As she would reach up to get the bulb in the kitchen, all her little children (like chicks to the mother hen) would gather around her, grabbing onto her house dress and begin the shuffle to and up the stairs in the dark. I remember vividly during each of those journeys my mother teaching us how grateful we should be because we had a light bulb. She told us about all the children in the world that didn't have a light bulb, and so that began our bed-time prayer. "Dear God, thank you for this light bulb."
My mother had so many reasons to be sad, depressed...to complain. But she never complained. I and my siblings were so blessed to have a mother who believed deeply in God. She taught us all from an early age that the seeds of depression will not take root in a grateful heart.
For the next few days take account of the many blessings you have...big and small. It is easy for us to become complacent or start to take God's care, love, provision, and sacrifice for granted. Make the effort to put on Godly lenses allowing you to develop and maintain a grateful heart.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
I am so spoiled. I have everything I need and yet I always want more. I seemed to always find something to complain about. For give me Lord.
Help me today and everyday to focus on all the blessings you have given me, and especially for the adversities that you lovingly use to grow me. Thank You for the shelter of my home, a bed to sleep in...for all the light bulbs in this house. I know that gratitude enables me to perceive You more closely and clearly and to rejoice in our love-relationship.
I know Father that I will never be in control of all my life's circumstances...but I relax in the fact that You are in control...and for that I am eternally grateful.
I pray this and all prayers through my savior, Your son Jesus Christ - AMEN

The Truth
For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 8:38-39
When I am afraid, I will trust in you.
Psalm 56:3

Thursday, July 9, 2009

Stepping Stones: Pause Before Responding

Transformational Tip
I remember in medical school, in our third and fourth year we got to go into the hospital and start to work on real live patients...taking histories, doing physical exams, formulating diagnoses, ordering tests, and caring for patients. We really dressed the part with our white doctor coats, stethoscopes, and sleepless looks on our faces with bed head. We also were taught how to act on the outside...take a history, respond with respect and professionalism, speak to nurses and other healthcare personnel, and speak the medical lingo you hear on ER. None of this made me a doctor on the inside though, and I always felt uneasy and insecure until I really developed the mind and expertise of a doctor. Peace came when my internal state determined my external actions, not when my external façade tried to cover up my internal inadequacies. When we became a Christian, God placed the Holy Spirit in us...in doing so He has equipped us to be holy. There is a vast difference between being holy and trying to appear holy. Trying to appear holy without submitting to the Holy Spirit is truly a form of hypocrisy. The bible teaches us that God reserved some of his strongest condemnation for those who paraded their pretension of holiness whenever they had an audience. Holiness can only happen when we are letting God live through us.
Today, make it a discipline, yes discipline (I love that word -training to ensure proper behavior, make yourself do something regularly, process by which one is discipled). One way to exercise this discipline is to pause before we respond to others in all situations, giving the Holy Spirit time and space to act through us.

Prayer
Dear Father,
Being holy is something I strive for, but the goal seems so illusive. It is illusive because I am in constant danger of falling prey to serious sin; especially pride and hypocrisy. I want to be holy because Your word gives me this very clear instruction. Help me understand that holiness really is letting You live through me. I pray Lord for the patience to pause before I respond to others so that Your Holy Spirit may take charge and give me the response that lets other see that You live through me. I pray in the holy name of Jesus - AMEN!

The Truth
But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; for it is written: "Be holy, because I am holy."
1 Peter 1:15-16

You, however, are controlled not by the sinful nature but by the Spirit, if the Spirit of God lives in you. And if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to Christ.
Romans 8:9

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Stepping Stones: God I'm Suffering, Are You There?

Transformational Tip
Why do people suffer? Why does God let suffering happen? These questions deserve long answers, but the simple answer is that we live in a fallen world. Our first parents, Adam and Eve, their choice to ignore God's instruction left them and all their descendants exposed to the harsh elements of this fallen world; death, deterioration, disease, depression, weakness, loneliness, old age...and all the rest of the long list of human ills that have plagued mankind since the beginning of time. That's why we are in such a mess today. God didn't do anything to us - we left him.
But we are not alone in our suffering. While God many times chooses not to remove our suffering, his word tells us that he promises to be with us through every step of our suffering. Remember that Jesus prayed to his Father the night before his death...asking him to "let this cup pass." God did not stop the brutal death of his son, but he did send an angel to be with and pray with Jesus.
When we are in the heaviest rain of the storms of our life we forget to ask for God's help, or we forget to reach out to the people that God has sent our way during the darkest days.
When you are in the midst of suffering, say this simple prayer: "God, please be with me and get me through this suffering." God always provides exactly what you need to endure the suffering. He may not tell you why you are suffering (sometimes that comes much later), but He will certainly be by your side every step of the way, and then use that suffering to grow you toward Christ-likeness.

Prayer
Dear Father,
I am suffering today Lord, the burdens I bear are almost too much for me to handle...I feel I am at my breaking point. Lord, please be with me...please help me through this suffering.
There is so much suffering in this world; why? Those who do not believe...and who do not want me to believe often use the world's suffering as an example of Your non-existence. I need Your help, Your help Lord to rebut their negativity; give me the wisdom and the words when Your detractors attack. Help me be steadfast in trusting Your promises of being my Lighthouse of guidance and sanctuary during these storms of my life. In the name of my Suffering Savior, Jesus - AMEN!

The Truth
But now, this is what the LORD says- he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine.
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.
Isaiah 43:1-2
Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, "My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will."
Matthew 26:39
No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.
1 Corinthians 10:13
And the LORD God commanded the man, "You are free to eat from any tree in the garden; but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat of it you will surely die."
Genesis 2:16-17

Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Stepping Stones: Why You Holding the Penny So Tight?

Transformational Tip
Several months ago I was working on a project...the project was stagnating because a certain problem was getting in my way. The solution that was right in "front of my eyes," was hard for me to grasp because I was holding onto a couple elements way too tightly. Once I released my grasp...my dependency on those factors....the solution to the problem and peace about it were abundantly available to me. God's peace is an all-encompassing peace given freely to His followers that has nothing to do with your current circumstance. Even if you lose everything, if you gain His peace you are rich beyond measure. When we cling to other things...other worldly things...it makes it hard to receive His precious gifts. This is like wrapping your fingers tightly around a penny, while God is offering you an unlimited supply of gold. To receive His gifts, you must first open your hands and heart to Him. By doing so, you can release your cares and concerns into His hands for perfect care and keeping and now your hands are open to receive and grab onto the peace He has been trying to give you all along. Keep in mind today the Divine nature of this gift; it is not the world's peace He gives...it is the peace that transcends all human understanding.
After His resurrection the first words Jesus spoke to his disciples were; "Peace be with you." He knew they needed His Peace...he knows that you need His Peace today.
Today, take a look at an area of your life where you feel unsettled. Ask yourself, "what am I holding onto too tightly that is interfering with me grabbing the peace He offers me?" Let go of that thing by applying His Word, character, and promises and feel Him put the peace right in your hand for you to grab.

Prayer
Dear God, I feel that there are so many aspects of my life that are out of my control; I feel I am a victim of my circumstances, but I know I am really a victim of my own thinking and decisions. Your gift of all encompassing peace is exactly what I need. Even though Your peace is a gift, I sometimes feel unable to receive it. Perhaps it's because I am clinging so tightly to other things; my loved ones, my possessions, my reputation...my addictions or turning to false sources of relief. I pray to You my Lord that You help me treasure and value Your Peace above all else. Help me release my grasp on other things so that I may receive Your gifts. I pray in the name of the Prince of Peace, Jesus Christ - AMEN!

The Truth
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:6-7
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
John 14:27

Monday, July 6, 2009

Stepping Stones: Persistence vs. Perfection

Transformational Tip
God not only accepts you for who you are...He loves you as you are. Many times we have the unrealistic expectation of perfection of ourselves...we think we need to be perfect for God to love us. Not true. God wants persistence from us, not perfection. Don't confuse sadness for not loving us. God is sad when we wander from His will or sin, but His love endures forever...no matter what...He promises. Remember that Christ died a criminal's death so that He might adorn us with His perfection.
The penalty for setting perfection as a goal is self-rejection.
Today, whenever your attention wanders away from God and His lenses, just specifically bring your attention back to Him. Judge yourself through His lenses to correct and bring hope. Do not judge yourself or express disappointment about your wandering to condemn...that response will only distract you more. The evil one's main job is distraction...your main job is focusing on you Lord and God...it's a continuous battle, but one you are equipped to be victorious in. Persistently going to Him and His word will be richly rewarded.

Prayer
Dear Father in Heaven,
I am so relieved that you accept my persistence and do not reject me for my many failures. I am both amazed and ashamed that I allow my mind to wander so far from You so quickly. When I find this happening (again!), my natural reaction is to feel discouraged with myself. I pray that You help me take constant control of my mind. Help me toward my never-ending goal of attaining the "Mind of Christ. " I thank You Lord for accepting me and loving me as I am...in all my imperfections.
I pray in the name of Your Son, my Savior, and the Perfecter of my salvation - AMEN!

The Truth
To those who by persistence in doing good seek glory, honor and immortality, he will give eternal life.
Romans 2:7
Not only so but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.
Romans 5:3-4

Sunday, July 5, 2009

Stepping Stones: Growing In Grace Through Adversity

Transformational Tip
If you can learn to trust God...really trust Him with your whole being, then nothing can separate you from His peace. By training yourself to trust in God, everything you endure can be put to good use. This is the best way to halt in it's tracks the very adversity that was meant to harm you. Although I trusted God in my head and verbalized it well, my actually emotional, thought and behavioral world showed that I really didn't trust God fully in my core in some areas. Then I realized, I must be trusting something else to be true. When I compared the 2 systems - God's and mine - the authority, omniscience, wisdom, track record, omnipotence, sovereignty, love, ability to see the future....I could go on but you get my point, obviously no contest. This really pushed me over the hump to trust God when it became crystal clear what my alternative was all those years. Wow, have things changed for me since that realization. By trusting your Lord you can actually grow in grace as the evil one continues to attack you with his burning arrows of temptation, accusation, gilt and shame.
Today, when you are unsettled or face a sticky decision, KNOW the Bible is true and God IS who He says He is. Comfort, peace, and direction in the face of adversity will allow you to laugh at the evil one and rejoice with God.

Prayer
Dear Father God,
My deepest desire is to trust You with my whole being...but I continue to struggle with trusting You; it does not come easily to me. I pray Lord that You help me be more open to accepting adversity as a way of growing closer to You. I know that my earthly lifespan is but a blink of an eye compared to the eternal glory that awaits me. Help me view my life through these "big picture" lenses. Help me Lord to use my shield of faith skillfully to stop the missiles and arrows and to extinguish their flames. You know Lord that some arrows from the evil one have hit their mark and have wounded me. But I do not despair, I turn to You Lord, the Great Physician. I know Your loving presence can heal my wounds and at the same time, train me to trust You more. In Jesus' wondrous name - AMEN!

The Truth
But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen.
2 Peter 3:18
In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one.
Ephesians 6:16
that your faith might not rest in the wisdom of men but in the power of God.
Yet among the mature we do impart wisdom, although it is not a wisdom of this age or of the rulers of this age, who are doomed to pass away.
But we impart a secret and hidden wisdom of God, which God decreed before the ages for our glory.
None of the rulers of this age understood this, for if they had, they would not have crucified the Lord of glory.
But, as it is written, "What no eye has seen, nor ear heard, nor the heart of man imagined, what God has prepared for those who love him"-
1 Corinthians 2:5-9

Saturday, July 4, 2009

Stepping Stones: Are You Really Free?

Transformational Tip
Even though I am an adult, I love fireworks and today, for the first time, I will be watching fireworks at our nation's capital. I always wanted to see them there, as it seems the most fitting place for fireworks and all they represent to me. Rockets red glare, bombs bursting in air, mystery, drama, wonder, and celebration. Just really cool. All over America today, festivities celebrate our countries birthday, and commemorating winning our freedom from England. Freedom is a wonderful feeling, state of mind, and privilege. The sobering reality is, we aren't really free. It's just a trick. We still have a master, someone whose orders, commands, wishes, desires, authority, agenda, policies, and rules we are subject to. God is the real ideal, loving King of the Kingdom we call universe. Satan and our flesh are the rebel party trying to overthrow the benevolent regime, vying for our loyalty by tricking us into believing their destructive ways and intentions are actually in our best interest.
We are free, free to choose which master we will follow and obey. With freedom comes responsibility. If you aren't actively choosing God, our natural inclination is to reject God, let our flesh rule, and vote Satan's policies to guide us.
Today, exercise your freedom to choose and choose wisely. Only one master really genuinely cares for you, is willing(He actually did) die for you, and wants to let you live in the royal palace forever!Bold
Enjoy your festivities and be safe!

Prayer
Dear King of Kings, Thanks for being a king who gave it all for the lowest serf, me, on Your kingdom. Help me choose You and be a faithful ambassador for You in this fallen world, so others would see You in me. Thanks for Your blessings I have and the freedom to worship you in the US. I pray your protection and comfort for our brothers and sisters in Christ who are being harmed because of their commitment to You. Give me a humble spirit to yield to Your rule every minute, because You provide all I need way better than I can and do. In Jesus freeing name and sacrifice-AMEN!

The Truth
In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.
Genesis 1:1
Masters, do the same to them, and stop your threatening, knowing that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and that there is no partiality with him.
Ephesians 6:9
And Micaiah said, "Therefore hear the word of the LORD: I saw the LORD sitting on his throne, and all the host of heaven standing beside him on his right hand and on his left;
1 Kings 22:19
And the great dragon was thrown down, that ancient serpent, who is called the devil and Satan, the deceiver of the whole world--he was thrown down to the earth, and his angels were thrown down with him.
And I heard a loud voice in heaven, saying, "Now the salvation and the power and the kingdom of our God and the authority of his Christ have come, for the accuser of our brothers has been thrown down, who accuses them day and night before our God.
Revelation 12:9-10

Friday, July 3, 2009

Stepping Stones: Don't Wish This Day Away!

Transformational Tip
How much time each day do you spend "wishing" for a different life? For a different set of circumstances? What if you got your wish and were able to switch places with someone or have the life you dream of? What makes you think you would handle those circumstances any better than you are managing your real life? Wishing and daydreaming is such a waste of time as we know one thing for sure; the time and energy we have are limited. God knows exactly the best circumstances for us now so we can reach our desired destination...peace, contentment, joy, control, power, impact, connection, passion, energy...this is also what God wants for us - Christ-likeness. Try to accept each day as a precious gift from God and trust Him enough to yield to His design and purpose. The situations we are in He brought specifically to take you one stepping stone closer in developing the mind of Christ.
Today, instead of longing for what is not, invest that energy and time in trusting Your Lord, praising your Lord. Take a look at your situation and ask yourself, "what is God showing me and want to grow in me?" and "He brought this in my life today for a purpose, so how do I do it well?" Daydreaming will leave you hungry, lost and discontent. Trusting and praising God then acting on the opportunities He gives you each day will draw you closer to His joyful presence.

Prayer
Dear Father,
I know that I need to take more control over my thoughts. I find I am always yearning for different circumstances. More money, different job, different spouse. When it's hot I wish it were cooler...when it's cold I want it to be warm. I find I am always rejecting the current day's circumstances and wishing for some thing different. When I stop and think about this habit I feel foolish and arrogant...but left to itself, this is how my brain works. I pray Lord that You help me accept each day as it comes, to not wish it away. Let me remember that this is the day you have made for me and to let me be glad. I yield myself to You and Your Holy Spirit. Help me be a better steward of these daily opportunities so I can grow and You can trust me with greater things. I pray in Jesus' name - AMEN!

The Truth
This is the day the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.
Psalm 118:24
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Romans 8:28
Blessed are those who have learned to acclaim you, who walk in the light of your presence, O LORD. They rejoice in your name all day long; they exult in your righteousness.
Psalm 89:15-16

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Stepping Stones: Are You Goal Oriented, Too?

Transformational Tip
We all like goals. Happiness, satisfaction, pay the bills on time, play with the kids after work, get my work done so I can watch the ballgame, help people. Some are simple, some are complex. Looking back on my life, a lot of my goals didn't come out of a well thought out process, looking at the whole picture. They were usually me oriented and "fixed" one problem, but led to other problems. The danger is once I set a goal I almost become single-minded to achieve it. I head off going about it "my way." Evaluating my life to determine a healthy goal has to be the starting point, for my pursuit to be successful.
Before going after your next goal (or maybe you are in the midst of trying for a goal) talk with God about it directly through prayer and listening(as He speaks to your spirit, through friends and family, and through circumstances). Ask for God's discernment to help you decide if that goal is according to His will... for you... right now. If the answer is yes, then you pursue that goal with even more confidence. When that goal is reached; thank God for his help and guidance. Rejoice in what He has accomplished in you.

Prayer
Dear Father,
Pursuing goals comes so naturally to me, it's almost like second nature. I confess that when a goal grabs my attention, my instinct is to "go for it" without talking it over with you. I realize now that many of my goals are so superficial and have nothing to do with pleasing You or doing Your work. I know Lord that when I take time to discuss matters with You my life becomes so much more satisfying. I pray Lord that You help me develop goals that are according to Your will...that You become my captain in all the tasks to accomplish the goal... and grow my humility to accept your direction, will, and timing. I pray that You shine the light of Your presence on all my goals. I pray in the name of Jesus - AMEN!

The Truth
I can do everything through him who gives me strength.
Philippians 4:13
Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the LORD's purpose that prevails.
Proverbs 19:21
Blessed are those who have learned to acclaim you, who walk in the light of your presence, O LORD. They rejoice in your name all day long; they exult in your righteousness.
Psalm 89:15-16

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Stepping Stones: Which Star of Guidence Will You Choose?

Transformational Tip
GPS's are awesome. We just got back from a family vacation... road trip down south with several destinations. No maps, pulling over to figure out where we are, arguments with my wife whether we are lost or not, nagging from the kids that they are sick of my "shortcuts"! We just kept plugging addresses in to the GPS and we always got to the right spot. It took me awhile to really trust it, especially when an alternative route looked inviting, but I humbled myself. Sometimes our life pathway is fuzzy, we don't know which direction or step to take next. But as a child of God, a guiding light, your personalized GPS, is promised to you. Remember the 3 wise men. Destination plugged in - Christ-likeness!
The first and most important step is to admit you have lost your way and are not a good guide. Even when we drift just slightly from following His lead we are at great risk. Going your way, even veering off course a few degrees will ultimately, in just a short time, take you far from your Lord.
Today, look for that guiding star in your life. Stop a couple decisions today, and before you execute them, ask yourself one question. "What GPS am I using, God's or mine?" Look at your motivations in your decision and whether your action is consistent with God's instruction, character, and promises. Thinking before you act never hurts. Be willing to follow wherever He leads you. He is the light from on high that will guide you, step by step onto into the way of peace.

Prayer
Dear Father,
Today I feel confused; at times I don't know which way to go. I confess Lord that I veer my own direction. I desire with all my heart to walk Your way...to walk in the way of peace. My life is one storm after another. Please Father, shine Your light on me. I need Your light; I live in a cold dark world. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit so that Your Word will enlighten my mind and heart and will empower me to stay on the right path. I have an open, seeking heart Lord. Help me trust your GPS for my life and not be so tempted with flashy looking dead-ends. In the name of the true Light - AMEN!

The Truth
Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."
John 14:6
because of the tender mercy of our God, by which the rising sun will come to us from heaven to shine on those living in darkness and in the shadow of death, to guide our feet into the path of peace.
Luke 1:78-79
Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path.
Psalm 119:105
"Where is he who has been born king of the Jews? For we saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him."
After listening to the king, they went on their way. And behold, the star that they had seen when it rose went before them until it came to rest over the place where the child was.
When they saw the star, they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy.
Matthew 2:2,9-10